In any, even the strongest relationship, it may happen that the guy began to treat the girl more coldly, more indifference appeared. This may manifest itself in the fact that the young man began to pay less attention to you, stopped giving gifts, making surprises, and taking you to the movies.
Most likely, this means that he has cooled down towards you, and this can happen for completely different reasons. This article will help you understand the reasons for this behavior. With the help of the tips given in this article, you can improve your relationship and improve the current situation. What to do if the guy has lost his temper? Why does this happen? Will he be able to love you again? The most important thing at such moments is not to lose hope of reviving the relationship.
Possible causes of cooling
We all know how all relationships begin - the guy and the girl cannot enjoy the time spent with each other, they want to meet again and again, it seems that it will never get boring. This is the so-called candy-bouquet period, which lasts about six months - during this time a man pleases his woman with gifts, takes her to cafes and restaurants.
The woman, in turn, reciprocates his feelings in the form of intense gratitude and tenderness. It would seem that this idyll will never end, everything will be fine, you will live a long and happy life together.
However, at one point, your young man begins to show indifference towards you; if before he looked at you with admiration, now he doesn’t look at you at all, and has completely forgotten about joint walks and gifts. The reason for this may be that the love has passed, and this relationship is no longer needed, the feelings have simply passed. What to do if a man has lost his temper? Is it worth restoring the relationship?
A very common reason that leads to such a result as indifference in a relationship is the girl’s too strong affection. A man always feels this; he may simply get bored or scared.
However, it is not only the disappearance of feelings that can cause such behavior. It is quite possible that something irritates a man about you; he is no longer satisfied with your figure, the way you laugh, or dine. Simply put, he begins to notice all the shortcomings that you have, and then everything that previously seemed normal to him begins to piss him off. So, for example, your figure no longer seems slim to him, or your breasts as attractive as before.
Take care of yourself
To captivate another, you must have your own stream of interests. Only then will you be able to give something to a person, involve him somewhere, share something with him. If the only interest and meaning of your life is your partner and his love, then you turn into a vampire. And you may think that you are ready to give your loved one the whole world, but you have no peace. You don't even have yourself.
Therefore, give the person some air, and take care of yourself. By developing new skills, educating yourself, or even just your appearance, you increase your overall attractiveness—including to your partner. After all, imbalance in relationships in most cases arises precisely because of misalliance, when the social status, education or physical attractiveness of one of the partners is higher than the other.
This, by the way, is where imbalance often arises in a couple after the birth of a child, because during this period the woman loses her job, interests, and sometimes even her beauty. Accordingly, her social attractiveness is rapidly declining. Therefore, it is important for women on maternity leave to at least continue to engage in their own education, and not be stuck behind four walls, immersed in diapers.
If you begin to actively pump up your resources and stop pouring all your attention exclusively towards your love, you will become more sympathetic to your partner.
How to understand that a guy has lost interest in you
First of all, let's figure out how to understand that a guy has really lost interest in you. First of all, women should be guided by their intuition - it will not let you down, especially if it screams that the man is indifferent to you. In addition, understand your relationship and communication in general, and then compare your observations with the list of signs that the husband has lost interest in his wife and the relationship is coming to an end:
- You practically don’t communicate on the phone and rarely communicate by text.
- The young man constantly finds excuses not to meet.
- Your meetings occur no more than once a month.
- Your communication about previously seemingly important things has been reduced to nothing.
- Absolute absence of jealousy towards other men.
- Never takes you on vacation with him.
- Doesn't pay attention to you, doesn't say nice words and doesn't feel proud of you.
- You irritate him over every trivial matter.
- A man demands more personal freedom from you.
- The guy avoids the topic of children and further life together with you.
Please note that the presence of several signs from the list does not mean that your young man has lost interest in you. Perhaps the reason is problems in life, some difficulties. First, try to find out - maybe you can help.
If your boyfriend says that everything is fine and there are no problems, decide to make revelations and say that the state of things at the moment does not suit you at all. Ask him what he doesn't like about your relationship and how you can help improve the situation.
If the young man still values you and still has feelings inside, he will agree to talk to you. If a man starts to get nervous, it would be better to leave him, leave and move on with his life.
We part with dignity
Sometimes you just need to let a person go, giving him the desired freedom. This can end the relationship with dignity. After all, it is quite possible that he simply takes the place of that very, only person in a woman’s life.
There is no need to become like petty squabbles, hysterics, and intrigues. Guys can't stand scandals, tears, hysterics. Cursing, a red face distorted with anger, is unlikely to inspire a companion to stay and reanimate the old relationship.
A calm discussion of the current situation is the only way to resolve it. It is quite possible that a man will be able to suggest the correct answer to all the questions that arise.
When a companion started an affair on the side, and now repents that he was “led by a demon,” in any case, the decision is made by the woman. To execute or pardon, to separate or to leave, to forgive or not to forgive, only a woman should decide.
