Progress is moving forward by leaps and bounds. Until recently, computers were primarily used for work or gaming. And we had no problems with communication. We spent half our lives in queues and traveling. There is only one minus - we called friends from other cities and countries once every six months. And only for five minutes, otherwise we would then receive a bill with six-figure sums.
Today, thanks to the development of technology, it has become possible to make purchases in online stores, solve a number of administrative issues and, of course, actively communicate on the Internet. And you don’t need to go outside, visit a neighbor or work colleague to exchange news. You can do this at home, sitting on your favorite chair or sofa. Convenient, isn't it?
But is everything really as good as it seems to us at first glance? If you look closely at the current situation, you might be horrified! Communication on the Internet replaces real relationships for us. Statuses “engaged”, “have a boyfriend”, “everything is complicated”, hearts under photos. But what is really going on in the soul of the person who sent us the emoticon, we may never know.
Features of Internet communication
Online communication is a special type of communication in which people interact through gadgets and the Internet. It is worth defining what exactly is meant by communication via the Internet: email, social networks, Skype and video chats, chat rooms, online games, comments under videos or articles, forums - in general, almost everything that the Internet provides.
Features of Internet communication include:
- Lack of non-verbal sources of information (wherever communication is not carried out through a camera).
- Time delay (the answer can be given much later than the message received).
- Elimination of any barriers (local, time, language).
- A familiar and comfortable place for communication, which gives a person confidence and calmness.
- High risk of misinformation and misconceptions, manipulation, deception (Read about online safety here).
- The ability to talk on any topic and say everything about yourself. It’s strange, but true: it’s easier for people to tell something particularly shameful and tormenting their soul (and thereby free themselves) to a stranger online than to a close friend.
- The opportunity to be yourself or, on the contrary, to be in some other role, image.
- Practicing writing if you consciously monitor your speech. Internet communication can help improve literacy and improve the presentation of thoughts. And, for example, keeping a diary is a popular method of psychotherapy.
- Deterioration of oral speech. It’s easier to express your thoughts on paper (keyboard, virtual sheet). And if you don’t pay attention to your writing, then your speech will gradually include abbreviations and slangs.
Interesting fact: on the Internet, people tend to exaggerate reality, embellish their lives and their image, and show their best side. When communicating on the Internet, we learn only 3% of information about a person.
Communication on Skype is close to real interaction, but still inferior to it. You can plan the time of connection, prepare for it and, if desired, embody some image.
Using email
E-mail allows you to communicate with recipients from different cities and countries. Email correspondence has certain rules, cultural and business norms.
E-mail etiquette includes:
- principles of communication between recipients;
- competent writing of letters;
- their correct design.
In the letter you must fill out all fields and indicate the subject (title, heading). It is recommended to fill in the recipient's mailing address last. The text of the letter itself can be saved in a separate file, because the message does not always reach the addressee.
The text must contain a greeting, addressing the recipient by name and patronymic (if such data is available). No errors, clear content, structured information, easy-to-read font—these are the basic requirements for an email. The tone of the message cannot contain insults or curses.
The principles of communication by e-mail are identical to the rules of the network. You need to correctly construct phrases and sentences, check grammar and spelling. You should not write words in capital letters or overuse abbreviations. It is advisable to use your signature at the very end of the email.
Emails should be answered with mutual respect for the senders. Working with mail depends on the discipline of the recipient. It is necessary to regularly review your mail and send responses in a timely manner. A response sent on time characterizes the recipient on the positive side.
Advantages of Internet communication
The very fact of communicating with different people, eliminating any barriers is a plus, especially when it comes to work. It is virtual communication that allows many people to work without leaving home. And for those who are energetically drained by real contacts (usually introverted people) this is a real godsend.
Everything related to work and connected to the Internet is a plus. Apart from the remaining nuance in the form of a lack of non-verbal elements of communication. This can sometimes provoke misunderstandings or misconceptions about a person. But this can be solved. Let’s stop there and talk about leisure time on the Internet.
Among the advantages are the following:
- the opportunity for people suffering from shyness, complexes or fears to make acquaintances, find friends and life partners;
- voluntary interaction;
- the ability to control the semantic, content, grammatical and other aspects of information;
- the ability to immediately find additional material and clarifying facts;
- the ability to interrupt communication and blacklist a person (a plus, but controversial);
- stimulating one’s own motivation, increasing self-esteem and giving self-confidence (for example, keeping a diary and communicating with “brothers in mind” when losing weight);
- development of fine motor skills.
What opportunities does registration provide?
You can search for your love or an interesting companion without registration, but we recommend creating a verified profile on the site. Only in this case, advanced methods of selecting a partner become available to the user. The modern search system includes more than 100 criteria and allows you to select according to a whole range of parameters:
- gender, orientation;
- age;
- City of residence;
- external data;
- hobbies;
- Zodiac sign;
- field of activity.
Also, official registration provides access to all the functionality of the dating site:
- View and comment on photos.
- Exchange messages in a personal chat.
- Creation of a complete questionnaire.
- Access to premium services. Pay for the use of options from your phone via SMS, and your profile will rank first in the search catalog!
- Sending and receiving likes.
- Keeping a diary.
Registration also allows you to participate in Tops, competitions and promotions on the site and will make you a popular member of the community for free. All this will not only raise your self-esteem, but also increase your chances of finding your soulmate or best friend!
Disadvantages of Internet communication
Communicating on the Internet for entertainment seems to me to be a flawed form of communication. Yes, sometimes this is the only opportunity (kilometers separate), but in other cases I am for real contacts. And that's why:
- In real communication, we see all the interlocutor’s reactions according to the “here and now” principle: tone and speed of speech, gestures, facial expressions, and so on. This reduces the risks of misinterpretation of information or deception.
- Real communication is live. It does not allow you to delete the first thought. On the Internet, a person clearly filters what he writes.
- On the Internet we receive and see what they want to show us. While in life one can discern much more, the secrets of the subconscious. You can store gigabytes of correspondence and essentially learn nothing about a person (which is a waste of time and effort), or you can get a complete picture of a person in a half-hour meeting.
- No matter how much you decorate online communication with emoticons, it remains dry and emotionless. This, as I already said, is good for business relationships (although also not 100%), but bad for informal relationships.
- As a rule, speech on the Internet undergoes changes: abbreviations, errors, slang. Gradually this is assimilated and moves into real life (one virtual “SPS”, which is also pronounced by some people in life, for what it’s worth). The quality of speech is an important element of personality. The Internet does not develop communication and oratorical abilities.
- Illusory perception, the imaginary similarity of interests and views on the world, as a result - disappointment and a feeling of lost time. This is especially true for online dating. What do we see when it comes to printed communication? Photos, pictures, emoticons, signs and symbols - information that they want to tell us.
- Interaction via the Internet leaves only communication itself as an activity, although in life it is more often an element of other activities (work, study, games), and actions and actions are valued more than words.
- Accidentally sending a letter to the wrong recipient, screenshots, recordings and other “compromising evidence”.
- As long as virtual communication remains virtual, you can create and maintain any image of yourself. This is what makes some people addicted to the Internet. Escaping reality into a fictional world is an inadequate behavior strategy, not a solution to problems. People go to all sorts of tricks, they even came up with virtual sex. How can this process be virtual? Yes, there is no chance of getting pregnant or getting sick, but what is the real problem? Fear of intimacy, self-doubt, complexes, failure in life - these are the true problems.
- Communication in virtual space changes a person’s consciousness, speech and ways of interacting with the world. Excessively “greenhouse” conditions are harmful to the individual in the same way as chronic stress. If a person creates his own ideal and comfortable world on the Internet, then gradually he completely learns to respond adequately to external stimuli (and in the real world there are always enough of them). The more frequent the irritation, the higher the desire to completely get bogged down in virtual communication.
Let's not forget about the possibility of anonymous communication. Unfortunately, this often results in a feeling of impunity and permissiveness. Although sometimes it is easier to speak out anonymously and feel more confident, you can exaggerate your capabilities.
By the way, the influence of anonymity and its use depends on the individual personal characteristics of a person. For example, teenagers with an age-related unstable psyche and individual psychological problems (uncertainty, fears) are susceptible to the development of permissiveness and promiscuity on the Internet, which later turns into real life.
Guaranteed search productivity
Our experience shows that there are always more male profiles on the site, but women are more active and determined in their desires. Our free dating allows you to choose a match according to all your wishes and characteristics. It often seems that in real life it is very difficult to find a companion or partner - in your social circle there are rarely people who truly appreciate and understand you perfectly. But on our website you can not only look for friends or love. By actively participating in the public life of the resource, you will be able to get to know your interlocutors better and choose among them those who are completely suitable for you. There are really a lot of people here who are looking for each other, and thanks to a clear indication of goals and the absence of territorial restrictions, searches become simple and effective.
Internet communication as a way of self-expression
Of course, the entire Internet is a field for self-expression. This is what bloggers and video bloggers, magazine editors, and authors of pages and groups on social networks use. All of these are forms of online communication. The opportunity to express yourself is wonderful in itself. The question is how exactly a person decides to express himself, what he wants to convey to people and what he takes from himself. The main thing is that “loneliness on the Internet” does not arise: when there are many viewers, and there are admirers, and virtual friends, and there are enough comments, but there is no happiness in life, and there is no one to turn to for help.
Ability to edit data in the questionnaire
You can always change the data in your resume; it is even necessary to do this so that the information always remains relevant. In particular, having found your soul mate using the site, you can and should change your marital status. This will automatically transfer your profile to the appropriate section of the resource, which will allow you, for example, to find a partner for an intimate threesome.
Agree, it’s worth a try - your life will definitely become brighter and richer! It is not surprising that a variety of people resort to dating via the Internet. They may have different goals, preferences and motivations. Registration on our dating site significantly increases the chances of success.
Afterword
To summarize, I would like to say that I am for a combination of real and virtual communication. Technological progress must be used, but done wisely. For example, you can discuss something with a friend in the evening and agree that when you meet in person, everything will finally become clear.
As is often the case, the problem of Internet communication has two sides. You can’t evaluate it based on “good/bad” criteria. It is not the fact of virtual communication itself that is important, but the essence of this communication and the parties involved. You can communicate with interesting people and realize yourself, or you can simply “kill time”, run away from yourself, creating the illusion of life and communication.
Therefore, it is impossible to judge risks without knowing the specific context. In the article, I conditionally divided the facts about Internet communication into pros and cons, but, as you probably noticed, each of them has two extremes: the advantage and disadvantage of communication within the World Wide Web.
Will virtual communication replace real communication? Maybe. Is it good? No. Man is a social being, communication is an independent activity and an integral element of many types of activities. Without real, emotionally charged communication, we cannot develop and become a person, a person, an individual.
Virtual communication is, to a certain extent, deprivation. On the Internet, we communicate not with people, but with their images (compiled by them or us), a repeatedly processed surrogate of personality. Real communication is more complex, there are higher risks of offense and conflict, there is not always a chance for error and the opportunity to be imperfect, yourself, but it is much more interesting and useful.
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