The affectionate nickname your loved one calls you can tell you a lot about how he treats you.
Here's a list of the most common pet names and what they might mean.
My angel, little angel , considers you an absolutely pure person, and is very afraid of losing you.
Barbie considers you very beautiful, her ideal of beauty.
Baby - cares for you, but he is unlikely to be interested in real feelings.
Hippo - engrossed in you, not averse to playing, but will not limit your personal freedom.
Cherry - treats you with special care, values relationships.
Baby - he is specific in his desires and thoughts, he does not intend to complicate anything.
Darling —values confidence and certainty in relationships. Feelings fade into the background for him.
Drakosha - he likes your prickly character, he is ready to forgive a lot.
Durynda - ready to forgive you for any mistake, taking the situation under personal control.
Hedgehog, hedgehog - gives your relationship special significance. Sometimes he shows intemperance because he is afraid of losing you.
The Toad is playfully assertive and energetic, but values your relationship greatly.
My life - obvious pathos shows a tendency to overdo it. It is necessary to find out whether he has another “life” on his side.
Giraffe - he likes your tall height and treats you with special love.
Hare, bunny, bunny, hare, bunny, bunny - has a penchant for excitement, and is not averse to playing with you. Deep down he is quite jealous and watches you closely.
Gold, gold, gold - emphasizes the special significance of your relationship, but his mind prevails over his feelings.
Kisa, pussy, kisulya, kitty, kysik - has a mood for close contact and does not want to complicate the situation.
Goat, goat, roe, little goat - feels complete closeness with you. You are a very dear person to him, although he is capable of teasing you.
Sweetie - be careful: he most likely considers you his property.
Queen - treats you with deep respect, is ready to do anything for you. But he does not have a strong character.
Kitten, cat, kitten, kitten, kitten - feels an inextricable connection and closeness with you, tries to convince you of absolute fidelity.
The crocodile is emphatically energetic, has no mood to beat around the bush and hold back his emotions for too long.
Tiny - he likes your miniature, appreciates you and is afraid of separation.
Baby - treats you a little condescendingly, wants to limit your freedom.
Doll, doll - is interested in you, but does not attach too much importance to your relationship.
Paw, sweetie, lapulya, lapusik - extremely active and ready to work and live for you.
Swallow - completely confident in you and very attentive.
Little fox, fox, fox - all his attention is absorbed by you and he expects the same response from you.
Beloved, beloved, favorite, love - is particularly sensitive, ready to act with complete determination to build a relationship.
Lyalya, Lyalechka, Lyalik - is characterized by emotionality, and cannot always control the outburst of feelings - both positive and negative.
Little, Masik, little, Masya - experiences deep feelings, is ready to show care and affection.
Baby, baby - you absorb all his attention, and they expect an adequate response from you.
Bear is a sensitive person, but does not intend to rush, is cautious and does not want to lose you.
Sweetheart, darling - guarantees you a reliable relationship. His feelings are in complete balance with his mind.
Mulya, Musya, Musipusechka are very strong feelings. He is prone to hobbies and sometimes does not feel the limits.
Mouse, mouse, mouse - he is very attached to you, sometimes unrestrained, but his love is deep.
Pampushka - relies on interaction and complete intimacy.
Donut - wants to attract your attention with all his might, protecting himself from all possible rivals.
Charm - experiences tremulous and tender feelings.
Princess - treats you like a child, but his love is undeniable.
Belly, belly, tele-belly - determined to create and arrange a family home.
Baby doll, baby doll, baby doll, baby doll, baby doll - is looking for full contact with you, but behind this there may be not only feelings, but also practical interest.
Fish - apparently looks at your relationship in a businesslike manner. Puts practical interest first, not romance.
Sweet, sweet - specifically emphasizes his own emotionality, but in his soul he is calm and balanced.
Baby elephant, baby elephant - gives your relationship serious importance and expects reciprocity.
The sun, the sun - has a keen interest in you and genuine tenderness.
Tigger, tiger, tiger cub - is not going to limit your freedom. He may joke with you, but in reality he offers you an equal union.
Hamster – has a tendency to impulsive actions, easily gives in to momentary impulses.
Chicken, chicken - offers you active contact, but, probably, in the depths of his soul he is afraid of something.
Miracle, monster - demands your full attention, emphasizes the importance of your relationship
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People in love often call each other in a special way. Each given nickname or name speaks about the attitude of the donor towards us.
So: If a man calls you sweet and dear, then this suggests... that he has certain feelings for you and seeks to show his tenderness in a similar way by doing something nice for you. The only thing he can be reproached for is the lack of imagination and ingenuity, it sounds too banal... If a man, ignoring your main name and any other variations of it, does nothing but repeat “sweetheart,” then there are options for explaining this verbal paucity two: either he squandered all his creative fervor at work, or your relationship is becoming too formal and it’s time to take measures to rehabilitate it.
Usually the choice of address in favor of “babies”, “children” and other things indicates a certain distribution of roles in the couple. The personality structure of each person conventionally consists of three parts: parent-adult-child. Accordingly, our communication with a loved one can occur at one of these levels (the intonation of communication, naturally, can change from situation to situation). If this distribution was carried out by mutual agreement, then in the address of Baby or Small to you there is nothing but tenderness, perhaps a desire to protect, protect and love deeply. But if you don’t like being a “baby” or a “doll,” and your partner insists for some reason, then such persistence may indicate a desire to dominate and force you to play a certain role. Psychologists tend to consider such affectionate nicknames as a symbolic expression of attitude towards a partner. This can be roughly described as follows: “You are my sun” - because you illuminate my life and it’s warm next to you; “miracle” - because she is unique and never ceases to amaze. If a man called you a hamster, this does not mean that you have thick cheeks and it’s time for you to lose weight. Such appeals only speak about the tenderness that he feels for you. and provided, of course, that you have no prejudices against pugs, monkeys and others. In some cases, the use of such nicknames may be a manifestation of sexual play. Choice of more exotic nominations, such as lizard, giraffe, etc. may be explained by the desire to emphasize the individuality of this particular relationship. You will no longer be a Caterpillar for anyone, you are the only one, and the only one. And this relationship is unique. This is roughly what the man wants to tell you. The only limitation here may be your aesthetic preferences and your personal associations: if you hate being a hamster, don’t keep it to yourself, tell your loved one. He will understand you. And he'll come up with something else...
There are couples in which it is customary to call each other by last name or first name and patronymic. Last name and first name and patronymic are multifunctional nominations. Judge for yourself:
- This form of address can be used with a conscious or not fully conscious desire to maintain distance in a relationship.
- one of the spouses can use this name in order to emphasize the importance of their partner, for example, his social status: they say, sometimes I address my husband by his first name and patronymic - he is my boss, so let him get used to it at home, it’s nice for him, and it’s nice for me which pleases him.
- the surname can also be used to emphasize some negative (in the opinion of one of the spouses) qualities of the other half: they say, “Oh, these Sidorovs... However, what else could one expect from this breed...”.
- and, finally, spouses can call each other by last name, wanting to emphasize their partnership (husband and wife are one Satan): “We, the Osipovs...”.
In principle, there is nothing bad or offensive about possessive pronouns. True, in psychology they are called the terrible and insidious phrase “signs of possession.” Excessive use of such signs of possession (my darling, my sun, my wife, my woman, my doll, my sweet or just mine) may indicate a desire to completely control a partner, in some cases, a fear of losing, a sense of possessiveness or a desire to demonstrate your exclusive right to own a loved one. In some couples there is an unspoken principle: the worse, the better. Usually the first reaction of others to communication framed in this way is: “Are they quarreling? Family problems? Do you want to talk about it?". In fact, everything is usually much simpler: it is a mutual agreement, a personal code. In couples that are less prone to such verbal extremism, the use of the nicknames Bastard or innocent Boo is a smoothed out form of dissatisfaction with the partner, expressed in a more or less playful form. In other cases, this may be an accepted form of address (often situationally determined) and indicates a sufficient level of trust in the couple and freedom of expression of feelings. Crude nicknames can also be used in an intimate context to spice up relationships and spice up sexual play.
The use of neologisms is explained, on the one hand, by the desire to put your emotions into the most appropriate verbal shell (well, there are no such words in the language to express your tenderness), as well as by the desire to individualize relationships as much as possible. At the same time, the element of play in creating your own language and inventing new words is very strong, which in itself is wonderful. Psychologists believe that when space for play is created between lovers, relationships live and develop. Without play (in all its socially acceptable directions) there is no life and no sense of novelty in relationships. Perhaps there is only one “but”: here, as in everything, it is worth knowing when to stop. A man is unlikely to understand you if, in a fit of tender feelings, you begin to lisp with him and speak in an incomprehensible language in the presence of, say, his work colleagues. Why - he himself will explain to you at his leisure.
What do diminutive suffixes in names mean:
- -points (Lenochka, Katechka). I feel good, warm, necessary feelings for you, similar to those that are felt for small children.
- -ik (Lusik, Svetik) . I have warm feelings for you, it’s very pleasant for me to communicate. I don't want to talk to you the same way as other people, I want to treat you as if you were a funny little boy, not a girl.
- -enish (Klarenysh, Katenysh). I have good feelings for you and I don’t want to communicate with you the same way as everyone else. I want to talk to you as if you were a cute little animal.
- -ushka (Sonyushka, Marfushka) . You give me feelings of worry and anxiety similar to those people feel when they think about bad things that could happen to them.
- -enka (Nadenka, Olenka) . I experience a whole range of feelings when I talk to you, because you are a special person.
Some people absolutely do not like to be called by any name other than their own, given at birth. Usually the answer to the question “Why?” the next one: “I am Tanya, and not some kind of Pussy or Bunny.” Psychologists explain this by saying that changing a name is always a determination of a certain identity of a person. At the same time, a person has the right to agree with the image proposed to him or to defend his right to the name given from birth: “No, I am Tanya: Man, Woman, Beloved, Wife, Mother, Specialist, Mistress... I have dreams and desires. I love and I don’t love...I can and I can’t...Can a Kitty do all this?” That is, a person is offered some kind of image, but he rejects it: “No, I am exactly who I am, and you need to accept me as I am.”
ELLE Ukraine magazine, February 2008
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What kind of woman is called “my dear” (cm)?
This is the one that is “expensive” for a man, or like Vysotsky: “A woman,
which you didn’t fight for, you don’t dare call it dear”?
This is a woman who is dear, first of all, not in material terms, but in spiritual terms, at least for me - this is a woman who is dear to my heart, with whom you never feel lonely, who will always understand and support, this is your other half, although Everyone puts their own meaning into the meaning of this word, some may even find it offensive, but everyone has their own.
Every man puts into the expression “My dear!” your meaning. Someone directly calls her “darling.” due to the fact that she costs him too much, but it’s hard to call these men, they’re so stingy.
Well, there are real men who love their soulmate, and she is dearer to him than his whole life, and he cannot imagine his life without her, for her sake he lives in this world.
From the point of view of male psychology, and it differs from female psychology in different directions at the same time, a man can call a completely unfamiliar woman “my dear.” It all depends on the context of what is said. For example, look at men’s mobile phones and you will see that not all men indicate their wife’s phone number as “my dear”. Most call it simply: wife, name, my happiness, my joy, etc.
My dear, it’s not at all in first place.
If a woman costs a man a lot, he will never call her “darling.” Well, as for Vysotsky, we love him and remember him, but he is not a philosopher or a teacher of life wisdom.
The epithet “my dear” is often perceived as a kind of formal address to a woman (often to a spouse), which can be called somewhat “hackneyed,” that is, not unique for a long time, but still very high-frequency.
This is, of course, not the way to appeal to those women who demand diamonds, travel and gold, costing the man extremely dearly (such a financial interpretation can only be imagined as a funny joke). Darling is close, dear, beloved. The one I really wouldn't want to lose.
Vysotsky wrote about past fights over this woman; we’ll leave this author’s understanding of the picture to Vysotsky. But the poet is right in the sense that a man can call dear the one whose heart he has won. Moreover, it is not always easy.
Psychologists' opinion
A young man can use various epithets to address his beloved woman. Often these are images of animals that look harmless and affectionate. For passionate games in bed, comparisons with graceful and flexible creatures are used. But when a man says “mine,” he is unlikely to be able to explain what it means. After all, the desire to appropriate does not always express the natural desire to possess. Sometimes the pronoun shows that the young man has a complex character.
The manifestation speaks of a desire to completely control the girl, to subjugate. Subsequently, this can be expressed in constant jealousy and aggression in case of disobedience. When a guy uses an expression with the pronoun “mine,” take a closer look at his actions and behavior.
However, you shouldn’t get upset when such an expression is used in a couple. Perhaps the man subconsciously expresses a reverent desire to possess, not to let go. This is normal, especially in the early stages of a relationship. At this time, intimacy either has not yet occurred, so sexual desire predominates, or there is little of it. The guy is unconsciously trying to show how important the girl is to him.
What does your partner really think when he calls you by your pet nickname?
Does your loved one call you sunshine or bunny?
Listen to the nicknames your partner gives you.
Psychologists say that their very sound can tell a lot about his true feelings for you. Coming up with nicknames is a fun activity that comes from the heart. How nice it is to call your boyfriend or girlfriend silly or baby. Against this background, you somehow begin to grow in your own eyes. But seriously, on what basis do we choose this or that nickname? Logic often has nothing to do with it: any word, even the most negative, spoken with tenderness, can change its meaning to the exact opposite. Compare at least the words “pig” and “pig”.
However, not all so simple. Why, out of all the possible options, do we choose one word and not another? Why, for example, among affectionate nicknames are there fools, but idiots or morons are not visible? The meaning seems to be the same, but these words sound differently.
The point is that, in addition to semantic information, each sound of human speech has a different effect on our senses. For example, the sound “F” expresses a violent and acute reaction. This can be a positive reaction (as in the French “fleur”), but more often words with this sound express acute dissatisfaction (remember, for example, the well-known English curse or our “fu!”).
And here’s what’s interesting: if you compare the dictionary of affectionate nicknames with a regular spelling dictionary, you will find that the sound “F” in affectionate nicknames occurs about three times less often than in ordinary speech. The situation is exactly the same with the sound “X”, which speaks of sudden excitement (you can recall the interjections “ah”, “oh”, etc.).
But the sound “Ш”, on the contrary, according to the same statistics, occurs almost three times more often in affectionate nicknames than in ordinary words. And this is easy to understand, because the main goal of any nickname is, first of all, to attract the attention of your partner, and the sound “SH” accomplishes this task. In psychology, this effect of hissing sounds on the psyche is called the “white noise” effect. This sound absorbs the listener's attention, causing him to be distracted from everything else. It’s not for nothing that when we demand silence, we say “sh-sh-sh!”
The second most common sound in nicknames is the sound “K” (this is largely due to the abundance of diminutive suffixes in affectionate nicknames: hare-ka, paw-ka, etc.). Emotionally, it expresses the idea of intimacy, lightness, simplicity
It is followed by the sound “L”, which occurs 40% more often in affectionate nicknames than in ordinary speech. And this is also understandable, because “L” expresses the idea of an easy outlet for emotions. So, in an elevated mood we hum “La-la-la,” and in a moment of sharp dissatisfaction we say the unfading “Damn!” Both “damn” and “la-la-la” in the emotional sense express the same idea: our emotions are rushing out. Whether this emotion is good or bad depends on the intonation.
The study of this magic of sounds is carried out by a special field of science - psychophonetics.
But here’s what’s valuable: when choosing any word, especially a nickname, we do it unconsciously. Our subconscious helps us choose exactly those words whose sound most fully reflects our deepest feelings and desires. This means that even if your partner wants to deceive you, the affectionate nickname he has chosen for you will still reveal his true moods and thoughts.
Listen carefully to the nicknames your partner chooses to call you, and they will tell you what he really thinks about you deep down and how he treats you.
Violate the intimate area
Each person seems to draw a circle around himself, the violation of which by others causes unpleasant sensations. Only those closest to you are allowed into such a personal, intimate zone.
Try to “break into” a man’s personal space. While watching a horror movie, at the scariest moment, scream and, as if by chance, grab the hand of your friend, the gentleman. Or pretend to fall on a slippery surface and hold onto it. After contact, do not let go of the man for several minutes. See if this contact is pleasant for him or if he slowly begins to free his hand.
What does the guy call him and what does it mean? How to understand how a guy feels?
Of all the possible options, he decided to call you the sun, and not baby, for example. Why? The point is that he himself enjoys the sound of this word.
Sometimes a man can call it differently. It depends on what mood he is in today and what he wants to convey.
In addition to the semantic load, each sound carries a certain effect on a person’s feelings:
- For example, the sound "F" can clearly express wild and burning reactions. It is often used when you are acutely dissatisfied with something - “Ugh”
- The sound “X” means sharp excitement (exclamations “ah”, “oh”).
- And the sound “Ш” , on the contrary, fascinates and attracts attention. He can use affectionate nicknames much more often than others. This sound absorbs attention and forces you to break away from other things. When silence is necessary, say “sh!”
- The second most common name in nicknames is the sound “K” . It is often used in affectionate nicknames: bunny, baby, honey. This sound focuses on sensuality, tenderness, and care.
- The third is the sound “L” , it can be found in affectionate nicknames 50% more often than in others. It means that emotions overwhelm us, but we are not afraid of it, but rather open up to them. When we are in a good mood, we sing “La-la-la,” and when we are not happy with something, we say “Damn!”
Listen to what and how your partner tells you. After all, even the sound of a word will tell you a lot about your chosen one’s feelings for you.
Nickname as a way of showing male tenderness
The problem of why young men sometimes come up with nicknames for girls is one that women all over the world ask. Psychologists who study related aspects of human consciousness and subconscious will help explain this fact.
When a man constantly uses the same expression in relation to the woman he likes, doctors talk about requesting the necessary resource. With the help of a gentle word, the young man tries to convey to his partner what he lacks in the relationship:
- nicknames “beloved”, “tender” will tell about an insufficiently reverent attitude in the physical aspect;
- “golden”, “precious” indicate selfish intentions;
- the word “bunny,” depending on the subtext of the animal’s perception, speaks of a lack of sex or an excess of tactile tenderness.
Also, young people who have a negative relationship with their parents or who have no physical contact (hugs, kisses) may show excess tenderness through words. In this case, the nickname options vary, new ideas appear periodically, there is no one word or phrase. Thanks to this, the young man exposes his love into a more tangible feeling. If the girl likes it, then the relationship does not suffer. Otherwise, you can make an attempt and replace the verbal form with physical caresses, touches, kisses.
What does a guy call and what does it mean?
Does your man often call you bunny or kitty? Or maybe just sweet or dear? Have you ever wondered what this means?
Psychologists advise you to listen to the nickname that your loved one gives you, in this way he unconsciously expresses his attitude towards you. After all, every nickname contains very interesting and useful information.
Affectionate nicknames
Sunshine, berry, doll, sweet, candy, honey. Such nicknames are mainly found in the initial stages of a relationship. They show that a man is attracted to you and has boundless tenderness. Falling in love and passion dominates your relationship now. Enjoy the candy-bouquet period.
Animal nicknames
Kitten, tiger cub, elephant calf, squirrel. These messages show that your chosen one has a playful and tender attitude towards you. He is ready to take care of you and give you his warmth and affection.
Standard nicknames
Beloved, sweet, dear, dear. This is how men usually call those in whom they are confident and whom they want to call their wife. They take responsibility for you and are ready to be with you under any circumstances.
Official nicknames
Does a man call you by your first or last name? This means that your man strives for an equal relationship. In this way, he emphasizes that he values your opinion, and you are a close relative to him. Calls you by your patronymic - the man respects you, but there is also a share of sarcasm in the relationship.
Children's nicknames
Baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, little. When a man calls you that, you can be sure that you are behind him, like behind a stone wall. Such a man is ready to do everything himself, and for him you are his little miracle, which he adores. But don’t get too used to the role of a baby, because it is much more profitable to become a charming seductress.
Abstract nicknames
Sun, miracle, happiness, gold, my joy. These nicknames imply that the man feels very good around you. He experiences the most joyful and positive emotions when you are around. Only sometimes you should add more passionate emotions.
Funny nicknames
Donut, crocodile, crocodile, musya, telepub, booger. Your partner feels complete intimacy with you, he is inextricably linked with you. He is energetic, does not walk in circles, and does not hold back his emotions. It demands the same from you.
These nicknames tell a lot about the man who uttered them, and also reveal his true intentions towards you. Listen to them and draw the right conclusions.
Source: mariya-mironova.ru
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My angel, little angel, considers you an absolutely pure person, and is very afraid of losing you.Barbie considers you very beautiful, her ideal of beauty.
Baby - cares for you, but he is unlikely to be interested in real feelings.
Hippo - engrossed in you, not averse to playing, but will not limit your personal freedom.
Cherry - treats you with special care, values relationships.
Baby - he is specific in his desires and thoughts, he does not intend to complicate anything.
Darling—values confidence and certainty in relationships. Feelings fade into the background for him.
Drakosha - he likes your prickly character, he is ready to forgive a lot.
Durynda - ready to forgive you for any mistake, taking the situation under personal control.
Hedgehog, hedgehog - gives your relationship special significance. Sometimes he shows intemperance because he is afraid of losing you.
The Toad is playfully assertive and energetic, but values your relationship greatly.
My life - obvious pathos shows a tendency to overdo it. It is necessary to find out whether he has another “life” on his side.
Giraffe - he likes your tall height and treats you with special love.
Hare, bunny, bunny, hare, bunny, bunny - has a tendency to be excited and wouldn’t mind playing with you. Deep down he is quite jealous and watches you closely.
Gold, gold, gold - emphasizes the special significance of your relationship, but his mind prevails over his feelings.
Kisa, pussy, kisulya, kitty, kysik - has a mood for close contact and does not want to complicate the situation.
Goat, goat, roe, little goat - feels complete closeness with you. You are a very dear person to him, although he is capable of teasing you.
Sweetie - be careful: he most likely considers you his property.
Queen - treats you with deep respect, is ready to do anything for you. But he does not have a strong character.
Kitten, cat, kitten, kitten, kitten - feels an inextricable connection and closeness with you, tries to convince you of absolute fidelity.
The crocodile is emphatically energetic, has no mood to beat around the bush and hold back his emotions for too long.
Tiny - he likes your miniature, appreciates you and is afraid of separation.
Baby - treats you a little down, wants to limit your freedom.
Doll, doll - is interested in you, but does not attach too much importance to your relationship.
Paw, sweetie, lapulya, lapusik - extremely active and ready to work and live for you.
Swallow - completely confident in you and very attentive.
Little fox, fox, fox - all his attention is absorbed by you and he expects the same response from you.
Beloved, beloved, favorite, love - is particularly sensitive, ready to act with complete determination to build a relationship.
Lyalya, Lyalechka, Lyalik - is characterized by emotionality, and cannot always control the outburst of feelings - both positive and negative.
Little, Masik, little, Masya - experiences deep feelings, is ready to show care and affection.
Baby, baby - you absorb all his attention, and they expect an adequate response from you.
Bear is a sensitive person, but does not intend to rush, is cautious and does not want to lose you.
Sweetheart, darling - guarantees you a reliable relationship. His feelings are in complete balance with his mind.
Mulya, Musya, Musipusechka are very strong feelings. He is prone to hobbies and sometimes does not feel the limits.
Mouse, mouse, mouse - he is very attached to you, sometimes unrestrained, but his love is deep.
Pampushka - relies on interaction and complete intimacy.
Donut - wants to attract your attention with all his might, protecting himself from all possible rivals.
Charm - experiences tremulous and tender feelings.
Princess - treats you like a child, but his love is undeniable.
Belly, belly, tele-belly - determined to create and arrange a family home.
Baby doll, baby doll, baby doll, baby doll, baby doll - is looking for full contact with you, but behind this there may be not only feelings, but also practical interest.
Fish - apparently looks at your relationship in a businesslike way. Puts practical interest first, not romance.
Sweet, sweet - specifically emphasizes his own emotionality, but in his soul he is calm and balanced.
Baby elephant, baby elephant - gives your relationship serious importance and expects reciprocity.
The sun, the sun - has a keen interest in you and genuine tenderness.
Tigger, tiger, tiger cub - is not going to limit your freedom. He may joke with you, but in reality he offers you an equal union.
Hamster – has a tendency to impulsive actions, easily gives in to momentary impulses.
Chicken, chicken - offers you active contact, but, probably, in the depths of his soul he is afraid of something.
Miracle, monster - requires your full attention, emphasizes the importance of your relationship.
Hastens to your aid
If a man really likes a girl, he will try to spend as much time with her as possible. A girl’s requests are generally a good opportunity to express yourself and be with her.
Therefore, a man in love will rush to your call for help, even during the World Cup, just to help put a compress on your sick dog. A friend in the same situation will most likely only give a short recommendation during a commercial break.
The decisive stage of the verification may be your disappearance: without warning in advance, disappear for several days - do not respond to SMS, calls, avoid random meetings. If after this you are greeted with open arms, rest assured that you are not just a friend for a man.