Who is a temperamental person and how to recognize him?

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Inna Trofimova

writer, psychologist, gestalt therapist

From time to time we hear that someone is temperamental. More often this is said about men, but it is not uncommon now for a temperamental woman to be present. They also call entire nationalities temperamental. But what does it mean? How correct is this statement? Does it have anything to do with temperament, in the usual sense of the word? What is temperamental? Is it good or bad to have such qualities?

Who is a temperamental person?

A temperamental person is a somewhat incorrect use of the scientific concept “temperament”.
The fact is that everyone has their own temperament. But this does not make everyone completely temperamental. In the usual sense, a temperamental person is someone who has pronounced emotions, pride, and determination. There is no direct connection with temperament. The following types of temperament are distinguished: sanguine (cheerful), phlegmatic (calm), melancholic (vulnerable), choleric (emotional). Depending on the personality type, there are extroverts (communicators) and introverts (thinkers), who interact with the outside world differently.

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Only sanguine and choleric people have characteristics characteristic of temperamental people . Tearful melancholics and inert phlegmatic people do not fall under their criteria. We will not find temperamental people among introverts either. It is necessary to understand that a temperamental person is a popular personality characteristic that has nothing to do with temperament in the broad sense of the word.

Definition of the concept

Temperament, according to psychologists, is a certain complex of qualities and reactions inherent in any person.

It is temperament that determines how each of us reacts to different kinds of situations, stimuli, how we interact with others and how we show our emotions.

But when we say “a temperamental person,” we usually mean a very specific type of temperament . This is what they say about a person who is open, does not hide his emotions, and is actively active.

Such people persistently promote their ideas and beliefs and have an active life position.

Their behavior often irritates others, but at the same time they are a kind of “salt of the earth.”

If we proceed from the classical gradation of temperament types of Hippocrates-Galen, these people belong to the choleric type; in the Jung-Eysenck gradation they are extroverts, people focused on the external world more than on internal experiences.

People of this type are easily recognized by active gestures, expressive speech, the manner of “pushing” their opinion, often in a raised voice, by strong emotional reactions ; this type of personality is often touchy and unrestrained.

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How does temperament manifest itself?

You can recognize a temperamental person by his actions and interactions with others. In private, temperament does not manifest itself. Therefore, all unsociable or unsociable individuals are immediately discarded from among the applicants. Also, you should not look for a temperamental person among people who are insecure, have low self-esteem, and are prone to constant worry and self-flagellation.

It is unlikely that any of us have heard of the fact that “someone locked himself in his room, sobbing temperamentally into his pillow.” Completely different actions are expected from a temperamental person.

What allows you to determine this type? Is it easy to recognize such a person? What to look for? So, the signs of a temperamental person:

• Increased activity;
• Emotionality;
• Impulsiveness;
• Passion;
• Gambling;
• Riskiness;
• Initiative;
• Speed ​​of reaction;
• Determination;
• Confidence in your strength.

Men and women can be endowed with similar traits . A temperamental lady is not uncommon now, just like a temperamental macho. Mass culture has given rise to a fashion for such people.

Thanks to stereotyped thinking, temperament is assigned even to entire nations, for example, Spaniards, Armenians, Mexicans. Although this opinion is erroneous, because each person is individual, and we sometimes judge other nations only by communicating with their individual representatives.

Determining your temperament is more difficult, because there is no such accurate test. But you can find out its presence indirectly by determining your type of temperament. If he is a sanguine person or a choleric person with a tendency towards extroversion, then there is a high probability that he is able to show his temperament.

Household aspects

A temperamental man in the everyday sense of the word: who he is, what he is, what positive and negative traits he has.

What does the phrase “temperamental man” mean? When we hear this concept, we immediately imagine such nationalities as Spaniard, Mexican, Armenian. Of course, temperament has little to do with geography.

All people are different and among thousands there are exceptions. The external situation, upbringing, and environment of a person greatly influence his character, but the conditions for each individual will still be somewhat different and may manifest themselves in different ways.

How does the most temperamental man behave? He is hot, passionate, impulsive, emotional and active. Reactions, thoughts - all this is not long in coming. It works instantly.

Advantages and disadvantages

Should you be upset when you learn about your temperament, or does having it only make life easier? As in most other cases, there is no clear answer. It has its pros and cons.

The benefits of temperament are closely related to the activity of its owners. Firstly, such people do not allow themselves and their loved ones to be offended. They will always defend their rights. Secondly, they make decisions faster, think more quickly, and act with lightning speed. Thirdly, it is not boring with them, since temperamental people are always full of ideas and suggestions. Fourthly, temperament is the key to success at work. Its owners more often occupy leadership positions, build their careers faster, and actively expand business connections. Fifthly, it is much easier for them to create relationships, arousing interest in the opposite sex.

Everything seems to be great, but let’s talk about the weaknesses. The disadvantages of temperament include impulsiveness and lack of restraint. Temperamental people do not always know how to control their emotions, which can anger or offend others. Accordingly, not all types of temperament get along with them. Excessive assertiveness also plays a cruel joke on its owner, because moving ahead is not always the right strategy.

But if a temperamental person learns to control his unbridled behavior, then good prospects open up for him.

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Leaders are loved or hated

A temperamental person is usually a very bright, extraordinary personality. He literally radiates energy. Some people get tired of such people, others feed off them. Temperamental people are leaders, they can be entrusted with leading a team, but they are not always punctual, so it is better to entrust phlegmatic people to delve into the little things. Those are more scrupulous, they are not annoyed that everything needs to be double-checked.

Since a temperamental person is interested in everything, most often he directs his activities in one direction and achieves excellent results. Or he scatters himself, looking for himself.

The first option can easily become a politician, public figure, or leader; the second option can simply become a drunkard, since he does not know how to set goals.

Of course, this does not always happen, but temperamental people are usually very “hot” in everything, including relationships. They can love very much and also hate very much. You should not quarrel with a temperamental person, especially if it gets personal, as you can hear a lot of unpleasant things about yourself.

Relationship with a temperamental person?

Regardless of who is in front of us: a temperamental man or a temperamental woman, the principles of dialogue with them are similar. After all, what is temperamental? Essentially, he is a leader. This means that you should communicate with him as with a winner. Therefore, it is still easier for men to try on this role. In the old fashioned way, a woman is expected to be tender, caring, and warm. Although in our society, many ladies have long acquired the “iron” attributes of masculinity.

If two temperamental individuals meet , then “fireworks” of emotions are guaranteed for them. And, at the same time, regular “pulling the blanket” from side to side. Their union can be successful, but for this both need to learn to compromise and listen to each other.

In the case where one of them is not so temperamental, he should respect the leading role of his partner. Under no circumstances should you infringe on his personal space and pride. Otherwise, it will cause protest and an emotional barrage in response. But if his leadership role suits everyone, then why not make this compromise?

As it became clear from the article, a temperamental person is not just the owner of a certain temperament, but a certain psychological type , with a peculiar manner of behavior. Today, it is equally common to encounter both a temperamental man and a temperamental woman, because society is erasing gender specificity. But we should pay tribute to traditions - the first one has an easier life than the second one. At the same time, it is much easier for all temperamental people to arrange their personal and professional lives. So, temperament is more of an advantage than a disadvantage.

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Very often you can hear someone called a temperamental person. But what exactly this term means and what kind of character that very temperamental person has, few know. They say that a person's temperament can change throughout life, and this depends on numerous factors. What is the peculiarity of a temperamental person, we will talk about this in our material.

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The ability to determine the sexual temperament of representatives of the stronger sex is a very important and necessary thing. Why important? Yes, because women also have different temperaments, and if a woman for whom the strength of sexual desire does not play a vital role comes across a very temperamental man, then nothing will simply work out for them, since she will not withstand his tirelessness in bed. Well, if, on the contrary, a very temperamental woman meets a partner with a low sex drive, then everything will also end sadly due to the fact that he will simply be unable to satisfy her. Therefore, in order not to be disappointed, it is worth having some knowledge and choosing the most suitable type of man. There are many different versions about how to determine a man's temperament. Some are real and they really can, and even need to be taken into account in life, others are practically unsubstantiated rumors and legends. What you shouldn’t believe, as well as signs of a real temperamental man: Temperamental men have a big nose. It is a myth. Men with big noses are often very gentle and sensitive, but you shouldn’t hope for great endurance in “love games”. The nose can “say” a lot about a person, but it is not very willing to “speak” about temperament; more confirmation is needed. A wide chin is a sign of masculine strength . This cannot be said to be completely untrue; by and large, it all depends on the situation. Men with a wide chin are hardy in bed, but are very rarely capable of deep feelings and the slightest rejection can greatly cool their ardor. Most often in this case there will be a noticeable lack of tenderness.

Short neck. This is a sign of high testosterone, and in most cases you can be sure that this is a truly temperamental man. Lips. “Hot” men cannot have thin lips and this is a fact. Particular attention should be paid to the lower lip; it should be noticeably thicker than the upper, but not protruded forward, as this is already a sign of promiscuity. Eyes. Everything is simple here - the more intense and warmer the eye color, the hotter this person is in bed. Hair. This is a sign of testosterone levels, and therefore temperament. Men who have a very hairy body and dark hair are very assertive, energetic, love experiments, that is, extremely temperamental. A particularly important and accurate sign is a “strip” of hair that descends from the navel to the groin area. But it is worth considering the fact that temperamental men go bald early and quite quickly, this is caused by testosterone, that is, the very hormone that is responsible for temperament. This fact will probably upset lovers of full hair a little, but you can’t go against nature in this case. There is also the other side of the coin: baldness, like a large amount of hair on the body, can serve not only as an indicator of testosterone, but also as a consequence of any diseases. Although even in this case, the “strip” will not lie. Foot size. This is nothing more than a myth, do not be fooled by your shoe size, besides, many men know and use this technique. But leg length is a very important indicator, sometimes providing fairly accurate data. In order to find out how temperamental a man is, you need to measure the length of his leg from the floor to the femur. And then you need to divide the height value by the length of the leg. The figure obtained as a result of such manipulations will indicate the strength of the so-called “sexual constitution”: An indicator from 1.99 to 2.00 is a strong sexual constitution. From 1.92 to 1.98 – average. Well, weak - from 1.85 to 1.91. Naturally, it is quite difficult to measure a stranger just to find out the temperament, since, most likely, it will be misunderstood. But there is a way out, if we summarize this formula, then tall people, as a rule, have a weak temperament, but short people are most often very temperamental. But special attention should still be paid to the length of the legs, otherwise you can make a mistake. In addition to physical data, you can also pay attention to a person’s behavior in dance and movements in everyday life. The more beautiful the movements, the more he controls his body, the “brighter” and “hotter” he will be in bed. Men with low temperament, as a rule, do not have pronounced clarity in movements and body control. Well, what you shouldn’t pay attention to is social role and behavior. A man can be very cheerful, a bright leader, the real life of the party, smart, gallant, but these are not indicators of high temperament. Just as rudeness, tactlessness, etc. are not indicators. When choosing a man, you should pay special attention to his temperament, and at the same time take your own into account. Since a very temperamental man may require sex about three to seven times a day, on the contrary, for not very temperamental men once a week is enough. And another very important fact is that real “macho men” can maintain their sex drive even at seventy, which is quite amazing, because in men with low testosterone levels it decreases after thirty, and this is also extremely important to take into account.

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Meaning of the term

How often do we hear people say about someone that he is a temperamental man or a temperamental woman. Let's consider what this word means and whether it has its own special definition.

In general, each person has his own special temperament. In such a science as psychology, it is said that every person has a temperament, as well as an individual character. But in society, such a concept as a “temperamental person” has taken root, which more often means a hot-tempered, bright, decisive and overly emotional person. It turns out that now the word “temperamental” has lost its original meaning and is used only to describe one type of character.

Speaking scientifically, it is worth mentioning that temperament is not just a separate character trait. This is a combination of several character traits that ultimately influence human behavior.

Temperament determines how a person will react to a particular situation in his life, how his thinking and worldview will develop.

Sex life

For a temperamental man, sex is an important aspect of a love relationship. The brighter his temperament, the more he will demand from his partner. Such a person is constantly looking for new sensations and can show a rude and even cruel attitude in bed. Therefore, as a companion, he will look for an emotional and liberated woman who is not afraid of experiments.

As a rule, men with a choleric or sanguine personality type have a temperamental character. This is due to the fact that these psychotypes are sociable and attractive, while phlegmatic and melancholic people prefer to remain in the shadows.

Sexual relationships with a temperamental man are always associated with passion. Such a person has a charismatic nature, and therefore knows how to attract the opposite sex. It is rare that such an individual is left alone. There are always women around him who are ready to succumb to his authority.

Temperament patterns

In psychology, there are several main types of temperament:

• those with a cheerful disposition are called sanguine;
• calmer people are phlegmatic;
• those who are overly vulnerable and touchy are melancholic;
• but people who are too emotional are choleric.

Taking into account the peculiarities of each type of temperament, we can say with confidence that choleric and sanguine people are more suitable for the modern concept of “temperamental person”.

Of course, it is worth mentioning once again that the popular concept of “temperamental,” which is firmly entrenched in society, is only a certain characteristic of one of the types of people, which cannot be in any way unrelated to the broader meaning of the word “temperament.”

How to recognize a temperamental person?

In order to understand a person, to understand his character, it is worth paying attention to some features in his behavior. Recognizing a temperamental person is not that difficult. The special character traits of such a person are revealed by many factors: his behavior in society, his manner of communication, and so on. For example, if in a company you see a modest and quiet person, then it immediately becomes clear that in front of you is an unemotional, unsociable and slightly insecure person. Of course, such a person can hardly be called temperamental. Let's think about how to recognize a truly temperamental person.

In society, such people behave relaxed and relaxed. They are very active, love to communicate, make new acquaintances and are never shy about having conversations with unfamiliar people. But such people are also betrayed by excessive emotionality. That is, during a conversation, during a discussion of any issue, a temperamental person will behave very emotionally, wave his arms and speak very loudly.

Impulsivity is another feature that allows you to recognize a temperamental person in a stranger. And also a temperamental person is characterized by such traits as gambling and risk-taking. Very often, such people enter into disputes, make bets, and at the same time are always confident in advance of their victory. For the most part, such people are not afraid of risks and are not afraid to take on any new business.

Temperamental people are almost always confident in their own abilities and self-confidence. Perhaps that is why they are used to acting decisively and actively. Often, their undertakings end in victory, and this gives them even more self-confidence. In addition, they react very quickly to any situation and quickly find a way out of any problem.

Another feature of such people is that they are very passionate people. This is what attracts representatives of the opposite sex to them.

Sexual temperament of men by zodiac sign

Did you know that a man’s behavior during intimacy is influenced not only by his experience with women? It is known that stars have a direct influence on the sexual temperament of men in bed. Let's figure out which of the 12 signs is the hottest and most tireless lover.

Aries can rightfully be called the most passionate and temperamental lovers. These men love to play conquerors and tempters more than others. First, they use their charm to charm the woman they like, after which, without hesitation, they take decisive action. It is worth noting that Aries men are very active both in society and in personal relationships.

Taurus , despite their innate stubbornness, are quite restrained and careful in intimate matters. They rarely enter into one-time relationships and give preference to quality over quantity. In bed, Taurus are attentive and consistent, not very active, but diligent and always finish what they start. The result is important to them.

Gemini men often come across as heroic lovers. But in reality it often turns out to be completely different. Geminis give much greater preference to communication rather than love games. And in bed they can be very changeable, just like in life. Today they are temperamental, and tomorrow they are cold and unapproachable.

Cancer zodiac sign are very sensual and subtle natures. For them, emotions, warmth and affection are important in bed. They are unlikely to be ready for spontaneous sex in a fitting room or in a car in an underground parking lot. Comfort and a relaxing environment during intimacy are important to them.

Leo men are big cats who love to be petted and praised. Men of this sign know how to make a good impression and easily persuade a woman to have sex. In bed they behave like heroic lovers who dream of receiving high appreciation for their efforts as a result. Often selfish and harsh.

Representatives of the Virgo are more suitable for a calm, measured family life, and not for side affairs and passionate nights. They are good lovers, but they lack fire and enthusiasm. In bed, Virgos are conservative and cautious; they do not really like to experiment and show their emotions.

Libra men often resemble inexperienced young men who are interested in everything new and unknown. They are quite passive in relationships, but are happy to try everything new, learn quickly and show good results. In bed they are calm and gentle. Most often, conservatives and aesthetes love it when everything around them is beautiful and harmonious.

Scorpio men are considered the most sexually liberated representatives of the zodiac circle. They love to talk about sex and have it in the most unexpected places. They love to experiment and improve their skills. Boring, routine and monotonous sex quickly gets boring for them and alienates them from their partner.

Sagittarius sign are frivolous and fickle in relationships. They are almost always open to new acquaintances and connections, they love sex with a spark. Their partner must be bright and sexually attractive. In bed they are selfish, they think more about their own pleasure.

Capricorns are responsible in everything, be it work, relationships or intimacy. They take their choice of partner seriously, rarely have fleeting affairs, and stability is important to them. They are diligent in bed, but more for themselves. You shouldn’t expect emotions and words of love from them. Capricorns love to prove things with deeds rather than words.

When entering into intimacy with an Aquarius , you should not count on mind-blowing and passionate nights by candlelight and odes of love addressed to you. Sex with Aquarius is more like a friendly game, where both partners talked, came to a compromise, and both were satisfied. In general, sex is not that important for Aquarius. He is much more interested in the courtship process.

Pisces zodiac sign are incorrigible romantics. They love to look after beautifully, giving their beloved gifts and attention. In bed they are always sensual and tender. The sexual temperament of Pisces is moderate. Sex for them is a creative process that should always take place in harmony and end in pleasure for both.

Advantages

Perhaps someone is offended by the fact that he is considered a temperamental person. But it's not that bad. After all, any character has its pros and cons. Let's start with the benefits.

Temperamental people are usually very active. Thanks to this quality, they always try to help all their family and friends. If someone you know has a problem, then such a person will definitely not pass by and will do everything possible to help. In addition, such people will never allow themselves to be offended. They know their rights very well, they know how to behave in society, how to stand up for themselves.

Another advantage of this category of people is that they react very quickly to any situation. Such lightning speed and the ability to make quick, sometimes very spontaneous and unexpected decisions help temperamental people cope with any situation. Such a person will never feel confused; his brain is always actively working, helping to find a way out even where there seems to be none.

There is never a dull moment with such people. Of course, this is another plus for temperamental people. It’s always a pleasure to communicate with such people; it’s never boring with them. They are always full of ideas, which allows them to be relaxed in any society and allows them to make new useful acquaintances.

Moreover, their temperament helps them achieve the success they always strive for. Only active, self-confident people with many creative ideas can loudly express themselves and ultimately become valuable employees in any field. Often such people make a dizzying career and occupy leadership positions.

Among the many advantages of this nature, it is worth noting the fact that they very easily manage to build personal relationships. Representatives of the opposite sex are always drawn to such temperamental individuals, thanks to which they are never lonely and do not spend years searching for their soulmate.

Personality Features

Temperament is the individual properties of the psyche, characterized by human behavior. As a rule, its main features are inherent in a person from birth, but the environment can correct some features.

A temperamental man is a leader who, in any situation, is ready to take responsibility for people close to him and solve all problems. His opinion is considered authoritative and cannot be doubted. This impulsive person knows how to quickly analyze a situation in order to find the only right solution.

A temperamental man does not like to sit in one place, and therefore is always on the move. In relationships with women, he takes a leading position and always independently resolves common issues. You will never be bored with him, since such a person always has a lot of interesting ideas about spending time together.

As for work, such individuals do not like to obey, and therefore most often occupy leadership positions or work for themselves. They are used to participating in all work issues and actively expressing their opinions. Such people are not used to being in the shadows, and therefore can become furious if their authority is not recognized.

A temperamental man has wisdom, prudence and enormous willpower. The ability to restrain their emotions is not inherent in all representatives of this nature, but many individuals try to smooth out their impulsiveness with age.

A huge disadvantage of this character is stubbornness, as well as reluctance to listen. Men with a bright temperament do not know how to restrain their feelings and always react sharply to insubordination. Protest is expressed in the form of shouting, active gestures and even threats.

Temperament is not a negative trait, but it requires constant monitoring of one’s own reactions. This means that a representative of this character must study a lot in order to have sufficient knowledge, as well as be able to control himself in order to achieve an authoritative position.

Flaws

Like any person, temperamental people have their shortcomings. Due to their excessive impulsiveness and emotionality, such people are mostly unrestrained. Of course, this can negatively affect personal relationships and relationships with colleagues. Such people do not know how to control their emotions and feelings; it is very difficult for them to control themselves. It is not easy for a temperamental person to restrain himself so as not to create a conflict situation. Such people often get into conflicts and almost never admit their guilt. This is certainly a serious flaw in their special character.

In addition, such people do not always think before they speak. Therefore, sometimes they are tactless, which greatly offends close people. For this reason, few people get along with such people, since sometimes it can be very difficult to understand them and tolerate excessive emotionality.

Another advantage that can easily turn into a disadvantage is excessive persistence and assertiveness. They are used to going ahead and acting actively, but sometimes you need to correctly distribute your forces, be able to wait for the right moment, and only then act. If a temperamental person learns to control his feelings and emotions, then his shortcomings can easily turn into advantages.

You will learn how to determine the type of temperament in the following video.

In the process of everyday communication, every person has heard that someone is called temperamental. This personality characteristic is attributed to both men and women. It’s worth figuring out what it is – temperament? Does temperament have anything to do with temperament and character?

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The most emotional nationalities

It is believed that a man's temperament is influenced by his origin. Most women who dream of a vibrant sex life are looking for representatives of certain nationalities as companions. These usually include Turks, Italians, Spaniards, Germans and French.

• Turks are the most temperamental men. They are distinguished by their sexuality, which has developed due to a combination of Eastern mentality and natural temperament. What attracts women to such partners is that Turks know how to speak beautifully and always try to extol the lady. Almost no woman can resist their charm and persistence.

• Italians have an impulsive and tireless nature, which makes them attractive to many women. Italians are distinguished by an abundance of body hair, which indicates a high testosterone content. Their temperament is manifested in active gestures, sociability and cheerfulness. In addition, they are not averse to showing the ladies their admiration.
• Spaniards have a passionate and romantic character, complemented by temperament. They are attractive and sociable, but unlike Italians, they are able to remain faithful to their partner. These are emotional and explosive people who know how to cope even with a very strong opponent.

• The Germans are tireless and pedantic. Women value them for their domineering nature and ability to please. Germans know what their partners expect from them and are always ready to please them. In addition, representatives of this nationality are not afraid of experiments and always express their emotions clearly.
• The French know how to speak beautifully and surround their beloved with attention. Compared to Turks and Italians, they have a less pronounced temperament, but are distinguished by a strong character and a sharp mind. The French love to be the center of attention, are able to convey information to the public, and therefore often enjoy authority.

Who is a temperamental person?

A temperamental person is a personality characteristic used to describe the presence of strong manifestations of temperament.

Attention! In psychology, it is customary to distinguish 4 types of temperament, which means that each person has one or another type. This personality trait is associated with the type of nervous system. Vivid manifestations of temperament can be observed in people with a strong type of nervous system. When using the adjective “temperamental,” the emphasis is not on temperament, but on the manifestation of a person’s passionate nature, determination, impulsiveness, and emotionality.

How does temperament manifest itself?

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Temperament, like all individual personality traits, manifests itself in a person’s activity and behavior. Temperament is a quality that can only be noticed in society. If a person is alone, he does not have the opportunity to express the peculiarities of his social interaction.

Thus, psychologists have come to the conclusion that such a characteristic as temperamental is unusual for shy, unsociable people who try to avoid publicity and reduce their interaction with people to a minimum. Insecure people with low self-esteem will most likely also not be able to show what temperament is.

Temperament is a set of personality traits such as social activity and initiative, quick response and impulsiveness, passion and risk-taking, self-confidence and determination. Temperamental people crave passionate love.

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It is noteworthy that this personal quality is not tied to gender: both men and women are temperamental. In addition, ethnographers have come to the conclusion that nations and nationalities differ in the expression of certain personality traits. This is due to the mentality of peoples, customs and traditions of education in a particular country.

Additional Information . If a person wants to understand whether he has temperament, he should ask his loved ones about it. It is impossible to independently notice the manifestation of this character trait in oneself - subjective observation in this case will be ineffective, and reliable psychological methods for establishing the presence of this social manifestation do not yet exist.

One can only assume that a person is temperamental if, according to diagnostic results, he has extraversion.

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Temperament as a personality quality – about having an ardent temperament; the ability to be energetic, lively, sensual, passionate.

The guy met a young Spanish beauty. He invited me to his place for dinner. Before that, I decided to go to a doctor I knew. “Imagine,” he says, “I invited a Spanish woman to dinner, but I’m worried in my heart: I’ll suddenly disgrace myself in front of her.” Would you give me something? After all, Spanish women are so temperamental. A doctor he knew prescribed him pills. The guy swallowed them all and began to wait. The next day the doctor calls and asks: “How are you doing there, is everything okay?” - The night was stormy! I went into ecstasy five times and still haven't come out yet! - How's the Spanish flu? - But she didn’t come.

The wife and her lover are lying in bed. - You are so strong, so brave, so temperamental! What would you do with my husband if he suddenly appeared now? - Yes, I would... I would... twist him into a ram's horn, pull out his legs, grind him into powder and throw him to the sharks! I would have unscrewed his head and made him blink! Then a frightened voice is heard from the hallway: “Screw you!” I'm on a business trip for two more days!

Temperament is rampant passion, the triumph of ardor. Temperament affects a sluggish mind with activity, passion, emotionality and energy. Liveliness is her calling card. It is difficult to imagine temperament without passion and ardor. Easily excitable and fiery, hot and seething, explosive and volcanic - all these are integral characteristics of temperament.

Temperament is the daughter of Mars and Venus. “Martians”, as a rule, represent a temperamental personality type. Mars is the owner and, in addition, it personifies male potency, therefore it gives a man temperament and passion. Mixed type, for example Mars and Venus, and here you have a temperamental beauty. Astrologers say when Mars is in a water sign, boiling water is created. Therefore, people who have such an attitude are very impulsive, temperamental, passionate, have a thirst for possession, a sense of ownership, and this causes them to become jealous.

We are all different. If we take food preferences, temperamental people like dishes with a spicy taste, touchy people - sour, greedy - fatty, desperate - bitter.

Temperament must be taken into account when choosing a spouse, otherwise there will be inconsistency, claims, disagreements and divorce. You can easily run into such a “miracle”:

A man comes to a sex therapist. - You see... I have some problems with potency... - Do you even have a wife? – Yes – And how often do you make love with her? - Yes, I try not to offend, 3-4 times a week. - Do you have a mistress? - You offend me, doctor, two! How are things going with them? - With one (beloved) every working day, with the other less often - 3-4 times a week. - How do you feel about boys? (blushing) - Actually, I have a favorite pioneer in the neighborhood, I try not to offend the boy. In the evening I come home from work and go straight to him and please the guy. - Well, are you interested in animals? (blushing deeply) - My mother-in-law has a goat in the village. I’m visiting on the weekend... - Do you have a bicycle? - Eat. - All clear. The seat puts pressure on the prostate, which is what causes the problem. - Phew! And I thought it was from masturbation.

If you get married in a hurry, not knowing your husband’s temperament, you will then be forced to write pitiful letters:

Letter to the “Health” program: “Dear editors, tell me which doctor I should take my husband to. He loves me and loves me all the time! At the same time, such an entertainer, such a joker: now on the chandelier, now in the pantry, now under the bed, now on the electric stove, now suspended on the loggia. He wants me all the time: when I sleep, when I rest, when I watch TV, when I do laundry, when I wash the floor, when I cook, when I take a bath. What to do? I can’t do this anymore - ten times a day without days off or days off. I'm not that temperamental, I need a maximum of two times a week or even once. Moreover, the “look at the ceiling” option does not work, such sex does not count, in half an hour he will ask again. Married for ten years, both are already over thirty. What to do? At least add bromine to your tea... P.S. Sorry for the sloppy handwriting.

Psychologist Oleg Torsunov says that if you want to marry, say, an Egyptian, know: if this Egyptian has a good character, even if you are an Eskimo, even if you have American, cowboy blood, it doesn’t matter, he will still be a good husband, in anyway. If he has a good character. However, if there is some amount of passion in the character, this means that this Egyptian can only marry an Egyptian woman, he will not get along with all other nations. Got the idea?

A benevolent character is the same for everyone, a passionate character has its own accents. Let’s say a Georgian, a very temperamental person, marries a Russian woman. If he has a good character, whether he is Georgian or not, a Russian girl will live happily with him. Good character traits are the same for everyone. Passionate people have accents, each nation has its own accent. Therefore, if you see a very unusual, temperamental person and he is of a different nation, it is better not to get along with him, because you will not understand each other, you will simply suffer all your life, live and, as it were, think differently. It will be very difficult to get along.

A bored lady from Russia, fed up with life, is walking along a Parisian street and suddenly sees a sign: “Brothel. Only for women!" Goes inside. She is immediately offered a catalog of available men: white, black, Chinese... - Do you have any temperamental men? - asks a fastidious client. - Of course, madam. There are even those who can give you pleasure for two hours straight. —Are there even more temperamental ones? “There is one,” they assure her. - But we must warn you. Firstly, he is Russian, and secondly, none of the women can withstand his furious temperament... - That’s what I need...

Having paid the required amount to the cashier, the sexual adventure seeker finds the room she needs. Inside, on a wide bed, lies a man of ordinary appearance: not an athlete, not a macho, not a handsome man... “Undress, madam,” he suggests, professionally deftly putting on a condom. She undresses. But the disappointment is visible on his face. The naked man takes some cotton wool from the bedside table and carefully plugs it into his nostrils. - Why else is this? — the adventurer is perplexed. - I don’t know about you, madam, but I can’t stand the smell of burning rubber...

Petr Kovalev 2015 Other articles by the author: https://podskazki.info/karta-statej/

Advantages and disadvantages of a temperamental person

High self-esteem - what does it mean and how is it characterized
? A temperamental woman or a temperamental man has some advantages due to this personality trait. However, sometimes they want to become different. A temperamental girl is one who may envy her friend who does not raise her voice at her children. A temperamental man knows what it means to start an argument and lose it.

There is no single correct answer to the question of whether people need vivid emotional manifestations of character. Temperament can be both a plus and a minus for a person.

The advantages of temperament are:

• Social activity;
• Ability to stand up for yourself;
• The ability to defend one’s rights and interests, to convincingly prove one’s point of view;
• The desire to protect loved ones;
• Willingness to come to the aid of a friend or colleague even in conditions of time pressure or fatigue;
• Independence and speed of decision making;
• High pace of activity;
• High efficiency;
• The ability to generate many ideas and brilliant proposals;

Generates ideas

• Ability to approach tasks creatively;
• A temperamental person is always the leader and soul of the company;
• A temperamental man is a careerist, a temperamental woman is a successful leader;
• The personal life of temperamental people is rich, varied, full of vivid emotions and events.

Additional Information. If you ask a psychologist: “What is a temperamental girl?”, he will most likely give a simple definition: “One who knows exactly what she wants and how to get it.”

Negative results of temperament are:

• Excessive impulsiveness and incontinence of a person;
• Weak control of the individual over his behavior, poorly developed self-regulation skills;
• Such people often have conflicts with others; in the team they are considered quarrelsome;
• They do not know how to develop long-term strategies for achieving goals; they prefer to move forward towards the desired result, and this is often a disastrous path.

Important! If a temperamental person turns to a psychologist, where he will be taught effective self-regulation techniques, then a lot of opportunities and tempting prospects will open up before him.

How to use temperament for good

Kinesthetic person - what kind of person is this?
An intelligent person knows that re-educating oneself is the longest path to success. It is much more useful to learn to use your individual personal characteristics as an advantage in any business.

People who are characterized by frequent, bright manifestations of temperament need to:

1. Learn to control your emotional outbursts. Sometimes, in order to cope with the emotions that overwhelm a person, it is useful to take a break in order to analyze what happened, look at the situation from the other side, and try to take the position of a communication partner. A rational approach to an impending conflict helps prevent it.

Control of emotions

1. Improve your communication skills. Temperamental people prefer to talk rather than listen. Moreover, the most interesting topic for conversation is one’s own person. If such people begin to attend training groups for the development of communication skills, they will acquire an important skill there: the ability to shut up in time, to give the interlocutor the opportunity to express his opinion on a particular issue. Instead of emotionally commenting on your partner’s statements, you can use facial expressions and gestures to show interest in the information, this helps to win you over.
2. Expand your horizons and try something new. Bright emotional personalities, as a rule, strive to conquer more and more new heights in the business that they have been doing for a long time. But they should pay attention to new areas of art and try to get creative. Temperamental people are ambitious people who have great personal resources to explore new horizons. It is only important to help them direct their energy in the right direction.

How to recognize a temperamental person

You can determine that a person has a tendency to be bright in behavior by observing him. This feature is manifested in the manner of communication, in the way a person reacts to certain situations.

Temperamental people feel comfortable in company and with large crowds of people. They are easy-going, active, proactive, and cannot wait to get down to business from empty words. They behave at ease. Stiffness, complexes, and shyness are not inherent in them.

Such people do not feel discomfort if they need to come into contact with a stranger. New acquaintances and communication with different people give them true pleasure. They are not afraid to give interviews and participate in various public events. In public they stay open and do not try to hide their emotions. Their speech is always loud and fast.

Characteristic features of a temperamental person are willingness to take risks, passion, and impulsiveness. Such people often act as the initiator of betting, and do not doubt their own winning position for a second. Self-confidence and self-confidence is their life principle.

Self confidence

As practice shows, they usually complete the work they start within the prescribed time frame. The innovative activities of temperamental people, as a rule, end in success, which motivates them to new endeavors. When force majeure situations arise and unforeseen events occur, they quickly navigate the environment, show flexibility and efficiency in adjusting their actions. As a result, difficulties in achieving the goal are quickly eliminated.

Such people do not like to sit idle. Their brains are busy and they love to exercise them by strategizing and coming up with new ideas. In the eyes of management, these are valuable employees who are rapidly moving up the career ladder and, if they have a personal desire, quickly receive leadership positions. As a leader, they are also successful, rational, and consistent. Subordinates respect and appreciate such bosses.

The brightness and emotionality of temperamental people arouse sympathy for them from the opposite sex. Such people always have an official partner, in addition to him, several more fans and secret admirers. In love relationships, as a rule, they do not have difficulties. Even if the relationship breaks up, they do not become depressed. At the same time, they are in no hurry to get married, carefully choosing a partner. Their marriages are usually strong, their families are happy.

How to determine the temperament of a woman and a man

You can determine a person’s temperament using special techniques and tests. Although the psychological tools are universal for different sexes, psychologists have identified some differentiated criteria by which the temperament of men and women can be determined separately.

A choleric man is identified by sharp facial features, sweeping gestures, and sudden movements. This does not mean that a choleric woman does not have these traits. But for her, these manifestations will be smoothed out by grace, femininity and concern about how the movements look from the outside, whether they make her attractive.

Temperamental choleric

In contrast to choleric people, phlegmatic men tend to slowly carry out their work duties and think about decisions for a long time. They are silent, calm, their facial expressions and gestures are meager. Phlegmatic women behave in a similar way, however, due to their feminine nature, they feel the need to communicate, but not to a large audience, but in solitude with their best friend.

A sanguine man quickly gets excited about a new idea and just as quickly loses interest in it. After some time, he may again show passion for a particular topic. Such people are easy to communicate, their mood is high, and they do not tend to worry about certain failures. They are able to charge others with their positivity. They are often informal leaders in the organization and the soul of the company. Men and women with a sanguine temperament have virtually no differences in social interaction.

There is a widespread belief among astrologers that temperament is determined by one or another zodiac sign. So, for example, among Sagittarius, Taurus or Scorpio there are many temperamental ladies.

Interesting fact. A temperamental man can be recognized by his secondary sexual characteristics. Such gentlemen have a pleasant low timbre of voice, thick hair not only on the face, but also on the chest, and a strong physique. External signs of a temperamental girl are plump lips, contrasting appearance, and extravagance in her image. The temperament of girls is more noticeable in their behavior rather than in their appearance.

How do men of different temperaments behave in sex?

It would seem that everything is extremely clear: the more temperamental a man is, the more “hot” sex he needs. But is everything really so transparent? It turns out that temperament does not always determine the nature of sexual behavior. Therefore, we decided to take a closer look at how men of different temperaments have sex, and what approach to find for each of them.

Which?

Very active, excitable, often unbalanced and even aggressive. Subject to sudden mood swings, often suffers from anxiety and irritability. The process of excitation of the nervous system is much more rapid than the process of inhibition. That’s why choleric people first act or speak, and only then think.

What's in sex?

Excitement of not only the nervous system, but also sexual arousal is a matter of a few seconds for a choleric person. He only needs to take one look or feel a touch for him to be in full combat readiness. Sex with choleric people is fast, impetuous, sometimes rough and aggressive, but almost always quite good. It is worth remembering that choleric people easily become fixated on one object of desire, but when interest wanes, they just as easily switch to another. Therefore, their passion and desire need to be fueled.

What to do?

As a rule, the temperament of a choleric person (quite noisy and violent, it must be said) requires self-expression and recognition. Therefore, in sex he will strive to show his best side. And by the way, this is a plus, since a choleric man will almost never leave a woman unsatisfied. But sex in the dark and silence is definitely not their style. Light, brightness, surroundings, even the presence of a mirror in the bedroom - this is what a choleric person will definitely like. Don’t forget to praise and admire him; it also doesn’t hurt to show some special “tricks” in sex to surprise a choleric man. With all this, he is unlikely to be ready for any experiments, and sex toys are often not for him: the most important “hero” should be only him and his manhood.

How to build a relationship with a temperamental person

When building a relationship with a temperamental person, you should be guided not by gender, but by a distinctive character trait. You need to communicate with such people as leaders. If a temperamental partner feels his dominant position, he will treat his soulmate with tenderness, trepidation and care.

If both partners are characterized by temperament, their relationship will be bright, emotional, and passionate. However, such an alliance cannot avoid a struggle for leadership. Relationships will be strong provided the partners are willing to compromise.

So, a temperamental personality is a psychological type with a special manner of behavior. In modern society, gender stratification is being erased - bright behavior is welcomed by both women and men.

Ideal relationship

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Hello, dear readers! Around you you can often hear the phrases “He is so temperamental!”, “She has a stormy temperament!”, What does this mean? A temperamental person is an energetic, passionate, easy-going personality.

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Let's look at what this is connected with. In psychology, there are 4 types of temperament (i.e., the type of higher nervous activity of a person): choleric, melancholic, sanguine, phlegmatic. I will talk about each specific type in the following articles; I advise you to subscribe to my Telegram channel so as not to miss anything.

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So, each of them has certain characteristics and features, and have a significant impact on the formation of a person’s character and his life activity. Here are abbreviated features of each of them.

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Communication techniques for a temperamental person

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Despite their energy and liveliness, people with violent temperaments have significant disadvantages . They do not perceive other people's point of view, are too explosive and demanding, domineering and stubborn, and can even be intimidating, especially for people with a softer temperament.

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Typically, temperamental people get along better with non-temperamental people, since the latter manage to react to outbursts calmly and not demonstrate mutual aggression. But it may also be that you want to shout back. It’s difficult for those who have a temperamental spouse or boss. Dealing with so much energy and emotions is extremely difficult. What should you do for this?

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1. Remember that temperament is a type of nervous activity. The person is not behaving aggressively on purpose. Don't take it personally. Even if you are to blame for something, such an over-emotional reaction is caused by physiological characteristics, the inability to control emotions.
2. Don't react with aggression. If you find it difficult to control yourself, try to walk away, or think about something distracting. You should not aggravate the situation, especially when you see that the interlocutor’s emotions are out of control and this can lead to insult. By the way, about that, read the link earlier.
3. Talk when the interlocutor (husband/wife, friend) calms down. Calmly, without pressure, indicate your point of view and position. Show that your personality demands respect.

How to control emotions?

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The most important emotion, most often manifested in people with this type of temperament, is anger . Sometimes it can spill out in a situation that is absolutely harmless at first glance. Most often, temperamental people have difficulty agreeing to changes, continuing to behave rather aggressively. If you want to try to help someone you know or yourself manage anger, do the following exercises:

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• Distance yourself (as soon as you feel a surge of anger, try to leave the room, or turn away to the side, you can look out the window; if it is physically impossible to distance yourself, then try to use the technique of emotional distancing - think about something else, better pleasant and generating positive emotions ).
• Take the paper. Write the word “anger” on it, crumple it and throw it in a bucket. Do this until you feel the anger subside.
• You can try recording your own outburst of anger on a voice recorder and then listen to it . Usually people do not like their own behavior in a given situation. Analyze what you could fix, how to behave differently?
• Use other ways to release aggression. Sports, dancing, running, shooting at a shooting range, singing, swimming.

It is impossible to change temperament, but you can learn to live with it, control emotions and communicate with temperamental individuals. Remember the advantages of people with violent temperaments: they have a lot of vitality and passion. Learn to see the positive sides in yourself and others.

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Being temperamental is neither bad nor good, but natural.

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Morphological and syntactic propertiesEdit

temperamental

Adjective, qualitative, type of declension according to A. Zaliznyak’s classification - 1*a. Comparative degree - more temperamental, more temperamental.

Root: -temperament-

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suffix: -н
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ending: -y
[Tikhonov, 1996].

PronunciationEdit

BibliographyEdit

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• https://wikigrowth.ru/psyhologiya/temperamentnyiy-chelovek/
• https://vplate.ru/temperament/kak-ego-opredelit/
• https://srazu.pro/lichnost/temperamentnyj-chelovek.html
• https://denotat.ru/temperamentnyj-chelovek-eto.html
• https://ru.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/temperamental