From this article you will learn:
- How to behave to please a man
- What tricks will help you fall in love with a man?
- How to communicate with a man depending on his zodiac sign
- How to keep the attention of the man you like
- What to do to please a man in bed
What kind of women do men like?
Let's say you set a goal to please a man. First, let's decide which women the opposite sex considers attractive and desirable.
- A lady must love, appreciate and respect herself. A person who does not respect his dignity cannot force other people to do this. When you begin to like your reflection in the mirror, you will certainly attract sympathy from the opposite sex. Healthy self-love has nothing to do with selfishness and manifests itself in taking care of your appearance, paying attention to your feelings, desires and needs.
- A man will pay attention to a healthy woman, because he will subconsciously evaluate her as the future mother of his children. A healthy person is always beautiful, active, cheerful, full of vitality and full of ideas and aspirations. And, on the contrary, you don’t want to meet sluggish, sickly-looking people at all. A subconscious fear appears that you can become just as dull and weak. So don't forget to take care of your health. Visit specialists in a timely manner, play sports, and eat right.
- Men don't like stupid girls. We're not talking about extensive encyclopedic knowledge or academic degrees. It is enough to read books, be interested in events in the world and have your own point of view on them, and not copy the opinions of other people.
A girl should be able to carry on a conversation on various topics and know how to behave in society. If you feel that you have gaps in this area, you can always read educational literature, take courses, watch video lessons, sign up for trainings. Try to go to the movies, theaters, exhibitions, and start an interesting hobby. Then you will not only listen to your gentleman and ask clarifying questions, but you will also be able to tell him something interesting. - Men are attracted to self-sufficient women. A self-sufficient person does not depend on other people in his decisions and judgments. On the first date, such a woman will not dump the burden of her problems on her gentleman, complain, whine, or ask for advice on how to live further. Show ease and confidence in your abilities. Show your man that you are not afraid of minor troubles and can take care not only of yourself, but also of him. Avoid criticism and negative statements towards your gentleman, even if you really don’t like something. After all, if you want your interests and hobbies to be respected, then pay in return. Do not get into arguments; it is better to offer to remain unconvinced.
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Erogenous zones of men
Properly caressing your partner is an art. Let's summarize what points you need to influence so that he calls you a goddess in bed:
- head, neck, arms;
- breast;
- abdomen (the lower abdomen in front of the pubis is especially sensitive);
- inner thigh;
- ears;
- small of the back;
- palms and feet;
- genital organ
Start at the top and gradually work your way down. Do not neglect a single point, smoothly using each of them. Combine their stimulation: head and chest, neck and penis, etc. Sometimes return to places you've already covered.
Vary your pace, strength, and demeanor from playful to submissive. Don’t be afraid to experiment and ask your loved one which parts of his body are most sensitive to caresses.
How to please a man on a date
If you want to please a man, you shouldn’t put it off until later. Get to work on the first date, otherwise there may not be a second one. First, calm down and pull yourself together. Take a few deep breaths in and out. You should not show your gentleman how excited you are and how much importance you attach to meeting him.
If the conversation is interrupted and there is silence, there is no need to frantically look for a new topic for conversation. Look the man in the eyes and smile. If it is comfortable to be in silence with a person, it means that you really have something in common.
Men prefer to keep the initiative in their hands and be the first to make a move to meet a lady. However, this does not mean that a woman is prohibited from being active. If you feel a gentleman's gaze on you, smile back at him. Or you can come up and ask why he is looking at you like that. Actually, the question can be anything. The main thing is to find an excuse to start communication.
When your relationship has moved to a new stage, be active, show your emotions, and don’t be shy to show how good you feel. After all, if you want to please a man in bed, you must first let him know that he is an unsurpassed lover who can bring you to the highest point of pleasure.
Another powerful weapon in winning a gentleman is cooking. Learn to cook deliciously. The dishes don't have to be complicated; no one is forcing you to stuff pike. You can choose simple options, but you need to cook them perfectly. After all, not everyone can even fry potatoes deliciously.
Guys value thriftiness in a girl, again, with an eye to future life together. Therefore, always clean the house before the man arrives, bring cleanliness and order. If the date is taking place on his territory and you see a mountain of unwashed dishes, offer the guy to wash them. Only if you agree, get to work. After all, many people do not like it when strangers interfere in everyday affairs.
Try to look attractive at any time of the day. Buy a nice shirt, avoid greasy and strong-smelling night creams, and keep your bed linen clean. During the day, do not deny yourself the pleasure of dressing beautifully, doing your hair, and applying light makeup. And, of course, don’t forget about a woman’s main weapon – underwear. Don’t be afraid to spend money on him, all investments will pay off when a worthy man becomes yours.
Be fully armed twenty-four hours a day. All you have to do is relax just once, leave the house without combing your hair, without makeup and in an old tracksuit, and, as luck would have it, he will appear.
Sadness and melancholy
The worst enemy of all women is boredom. A bored woman drives a man crazy so that he can entertain her. And endless interrogations begin: “Why don’t you call? Where are you? What are you doing?".
Out of boredom, whining begins - “you don’t value me, you’re bored with me, I’m not like that...”
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A man is interested in someone who is interested in herself! Favorite activity, girlfriends, work - these are also “competitors”. Where you get pleasure, a man looks incredulously! “Is she having more fun there than with me?”
Having your own interests, you are calm about the interests of a man. Don't touch his personal territory. Yes, the same computer! Well, he relaxes there, relieves stress, comes to his senses. And let him do this at home, where he is given the right to be himself, than run away to his friends and recover with a bottle of beer.
How to understand that a man likes you
- It shortens the distance. In the psychological literature you will find information that the distance between people depends on the environment in which they find themselves. For example, during social and business contacts, the distance from one person to another should be 1-3 meters. When you are next to a friend, the distance is reduced to 0.6-1 meters. Next is the intimate zone, into which only very close people are allowed. If you notice that your gentleman is trying to close the distance between you, you can regard this behavior as a signal that he feels sympathy and wants to move to a new stage in the relationship. Body language can also tell a man's intentions. If he often leans towards you during a conversation, it means he really likes you.
- His speech changes Most people do not know how to fully control their body, voice, and facial expressions. Therefore, if a young man tries to hide his interest from you, something will inevitably give away his true feelings, for example, his speech. You will hear nervousness in her, her voice may tremble slightly or become hoarse. A man can either chatter incessantly, or, on the contrary, speak slowly to appear calmer. The guy will suddenly start using filler words, although you have never heard them from him before. Any changes in speech indicate that the man is not indifferent to you. Therefore, listen carefully to your gentleman and compare with how he communicates with other people, so as not to be mistaken in your conclusions.
- He's trying to make you laugh
If you want to please a man, then laugh at his jokes. When your gentleman tries to make you laugh, appreciate his efforts and smile back. After all, his behavior indicates that he has sincere sympathy for you. A sense of humor is a very valuable quality. A person who has it will always be able to lighten the atmosphere with a good joke and will never let his beloved woman get bored. Don't forget, laughter improves your well-being and improves your mood. In addition, a man with a sense of humor will be able to appreciate your witticisms and laugh at them. - Body language speaks for him. Take a closer look at the behavior of the gentleman. Have you noticed that in your presence he straightens his back and sucks in his stomach? Or does he start to get nervous, twirl a pencil in his hands, constantly touch his hair or the tip of his nose? Or does he preen himself in front of the mirror, straighten his clothes, and examine his reflection appraisingly? All these are clear signs that the young man really likes you.
- The conversation touches on very personal topics. Of course, there will be no revelations about “skeletons in the closet”. A man will be able to share deeply intimate things with you only when you become family and friends. And even that is not a fact, because every person has the right not to reveal his secrets. But if a young man likes you, he will try to establish an emotional connection with you, and for this he will remember, for example, a funny adventure from his childhood. Or share stories about your family. In any case, these will be pleasant, sentimental stories dear to his heart, with the help of which he will try to establish contact with you and form a positive opinion about himself.
- The timbre of his voice decreases When a young man wants to please a lady and tries to look more courageous and confident, the timbre of his voice decreases. This is done intuitively; the man may not even notice that he has started speaking differently. However, some guys deliberately add velvety notes to their voice to sound more sexy and seductive. If you notice changes in your gentleman's speech, do not doubt that he likes you and that he is waiting for encouragement from you in order to act further.
- He tries to touch you
Many men, especially if they hope to have sex with a woman in the near future, try to immediately establish tactile contact. To do this, they often touch a woman’s hand, lightly hug her, pat her on the back, straighten a stray strand of hair, and remove a fictitious or real speck of dust from her clothes. Of course, there are kinesthetic people who perceive and understand the world around them through tactile sensations. However, they still do not invade the personal space of another person. Therefore, if you notice that a guy is trying to use any excuse to touch you, you can be sure of his interest in you. If already on the first date you want to please a man and kiss and are thinking how to do this, then pay attention to whether the gentleman touches you. If the answer is positive, you can count on success: there is only a small step left before the kiss.
In any case, always pay attention to your partner's behavior. It will make it clear better than words whether you are on the right path, if you are trying to earn his favor, or if you are doing something wrong and need to urgently correct your actions.
What to do if you are not beautiful
Some girls are very skeptical about their appearance, considering themselves ugly. What to do if you are also one of them?
Correct deficiencies.
If you clearly know what exactly, in your opinion, makes you unattractive, then think about whether these shortcomings can be eliminated. An unattractive smile can be corrected with a visit to the dentist, skin problems can be solved by a dermatologist, excess weight can be eliminated with the help of proper nutrition and exercise.
Perhaps you believe that you have shortcomings that cannot be eliminated - too short or tall, a large nose, small eyes, bow legs, or something like that. In this case, you should choose clothes or makeup that will not draw attention to flaws.
Maximum charm.
Many public figures, despite any flaws in appearance, are the idols of millions of people - their charisma and charm are so great that all possible defects in appearance seem simply insignificant. Usually, fans may not even realize that their idol is far from handsome.
Charm can be developed. Read books, go to interesting places, play sports, expand your horizons. To avoid any problems with pronunciation, practice your diction (you can also work with a teacher). Don’t withdraw into yourself, be a cheerful, sympathetic and enthusiastic girl, and fans will not keep you waiting.
Grooming is always in fashion
. Don't forget about this too. Healthy teeth, hair, nails, a good figure - this is already the lion's part of female beauty, and, with a certain amount of perseverance, you can achieve this. Visit beauty salons, choose the most flattering outfits for yourself, and experiment with your looks.
He takes good care of him and pays attention to him. So he loves?
Really, it’s so nice, it’s so cool. He does things. They say a man should be judged by his actions. Only actions show a man's seriousness. And he does things, he gives flowers, he stops by at home, gives small gifts, takes you to restaurants. He wishes you good morning, good afternoon, bon appetit, good night, how did you sleep. He is even ready to communicate on WhatsApp for several hours at night. And you think, my God, he pays attention, he looks after you beautifully. In fact, what I observe is that most girls in the post-Soviet space are very easy to win over in this way. It is very easy to inspire trust, it is easy to create an illusion with this very thing.
But let's figure it out. What quality of mine does it indicate that I know how to care and pay attention? About one of my qualities is that at the stage when I am interested in a woman, I take great care and pay attention. This does not guarantee that I will also look after you in a relationship, that after two years of my life I will also pay so much attention to you. This just means that as long as I am interested in a woman, I do it. Think about this thing, a caring and caring man. These are two different terms, but for some reason it seems to you that if he does this, it means.
You probably want to say, how can one determine then that a man is worthy? Then there is no need to strive for this at all, or if he is courting, does that mean he is definitely unworthy? Or really bad? No, this means exactly one thing: if I look after you beautifully, then I look after you beautifully. And yes, you should be happy if it makes you happy. If you like it, you should be grateful. But don’t overthink it, don’t inflate it into something that doesn’t exist.
If I look after you beautifully and pay attention, that means absolutely that. If I have a great fight in the alley, protecting you from two scoundrels, does this mean that I am courageous? May be. But globally this means that I fight well. And that physically I am ready to protect you. But this does not mean that I am courageous in life, that I am courageous in life, that I am courageous in my goals, that I am courageous in moving forward. Surely you know men who are physically strong, he is brutal, broad shoulders, strong arms, a master of sports in some martial art, but in life he is passive, he cannot advance in his career, he is afraid to start a business. There is no need to invent something that does not exist. If I fight well, it means that I fight well.
The ability to care and pay attention does not guarantee that a man is serious and does not guarantee that a man is worthy. By the way, the best suitors, according to my observations, are married men. These are the most professional caregivers.
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Method 9. Always remain a woman
A man can fully feel his purpose only next to a real woman. But a true woman differs from a man in her weakness. After all, a woman’s strength lies precisely in her weakness. But do not confuse weakness with helplessness. Don't overdo it, don't overdo it. Don't identify yourself with the child, though... Some men like just such women. Therefore, just remain yourself, be the way nature created you. Do not take on male responsibilities and functions. Let the man next to you reveal and show his best qualities and develop them.
How to keep the attention of the man you like
The heat of love has touched each of us at some point. And sometimes we make enormous efforts to please the object of our love, and then we relax. And therein lies the biggest catch. Let's say you've been looking for the man you like for a long time. On the way to your goal, you sacrificed your interests, limited yourself, spent money on a new wardrobe and beauty salons. And here is the long-awaited victory! You have won the heart of a young man, and things are already moving towards the wedding. But suddenly he unexpectedly announces that he wants to break up. You are in shock, you don’t understand what is happening. So what happened? Perhaps your partner has lost interest in you or realized that his feelings are not as strong as he would like.
There can be many reasons for separation. But we must remember that men are first and foremost hunters and conquerors. This is inherent in nature and cannot be changed, but a wise woman can use this trait for her own purposes. Think about your relationship with your lover. Surely you already decided that it was in your pocket and relaxed. But men love novelty in relationships. They like it when a woman is able to surprise even after years of marriage. If the beloved has turned into a boring, insipid homebody, the young man may lose interest in her and decide to break up. You can see what other mistakes you should avoid on the love front here:
When the main reason why men end relationships with their partners is known, a woman needs to remember it and adjust her behavior at the right time. This can be done in the following ways:
- Cruel Games
Imagine yourself in the role of an important person who is always busy and does not have much time for relationships with the opposite sex. Try to get into the role. Find something to do so that your life is truly filled with activities and meetings.
Dose the time you devote to your lover. You can even start a game with him: today you are sweet and caring, and tomorrow you suddenly disappear. After a short time, you appear with an apology and an explanation that you were very busy, so you couldn’t meet.
Another game involves a radical change in mood. One day you are gentle and sweet, the next you are determined and cold-blooded. The young man will be confused by the versatility of your character and will decide that he will definitely never get bored with you.
Be mentally prepared for the fact that psychological games will require serious physical and emotional costs from you. It won't be easy at times. But if you want to please a man not for a couple of months, but for the rest of his life, then you need not to feel sorry for yourself, but to mobilize all your strength and direct it towards achieving your goal.
- Competition
Ask your lover to help you with something, such as moving furniture or picking you up from the store. If he refuses a favor, do not persuade or impose. Agree that he is very busy and say that you will ask a colleague or an institute friend. Then the young man will know that he has competitors. This will make him be more attentive to you.
However, you should not go too far and give a man a reason to suspect you of a double game, be jealous and not trust you. Don't be flirtatious or flirt with other guys. Explain to your partner that you really need a man’s help, that there are things that you cannot cope with on your own, because you are simply not so physically strong.
- Hobbies and interests
A man is not a reason to give up your hobbies and hobbies. Don't limit your life to your partner. Be active, be interested in new knowledge and skills. After all, if you look at your partner, you will see that he did not give up his favorite fishing and going to the stadium with friends for your sake.
Therefore, if you want to please a man, then do not abandon your hobby, but, on the contrary, expand your circle of hobbies. Then the young man will see that his beloved is a self-sufficient person, and will not be afraid that over time you will begin to forbid him to do what he loves.
- Programming the future
This doesn't mean you need to convince your boyfriend that in five years you will have a mortgage and two children. He will most likely run away from such a prospect. In this case, programming means establishing connections between all aspects of a man’s life and you. You must become part of the young person’s everyday life and create common traditions and rituals. For example, make it a habit to visit friends every Friday and play board games. Or cook lunch together on Saturdays. Or on Wednesdays, meet him near the office to sit in a cafe in the evening.
Such traditions teach your partner that you will always be a part of his life. You can also give small souvenirs so that they remind the guy of you.
If you just met and don’t know each other well, tell your boyfriend more often what you like, for example, that you like cappuccino in the morning or dark chocolate rather than milk chocolate. The gentleman will remember your preferences in order to pleasantly surprise and please you on occasion.
How to bewitch him: summary tips
- First, look at the man with an interested gaze, with notes of joy and admiration. Don't look away until the man takes the initiative.
- Take care of your self-esteem. Don't be afraid of compliments and dirty jokes, don't act like a teenage girl who saw a man for the first time.
- Flirt with him every moment. Flirt, confuse, provoke. Let your communication be like a game, and not like an interrogation or a scientific conference;
- Relax. Don't try to be a super woman, the kindest, most beautiful, slim and smart. Don't adapt to a man and his interests.
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How to please a man in bed
A wise woman knows that physical pleasure can bind a partner more strongly than other means of seduction. In ancient times, girls were taught how to please the stronger sex. Now this tradition is a thing of the past, but if you want to please a man in bed, but are not confident in your abilities, you can look for video lessons on the Internet, or sign up for special courses, which are rare, but found. So that a gentleman experienced in love affairs does not forget about you after the first night, think about how you can relax him and relieve accumulated stress. A massage, a warm bath with aromatic oils, relaxing music, dim lights, soft towels and fresh bed linen are suitable.
When you give your partner a massage, do not forget that your goal is to provide pleasure, and not to straighten the spine. Movements should be light, smooth, and calming. Enjoy the process. A man, seeing your sincere involvement, will feel excitement and desire.
As a rule, the partner expects activity from the lady only during foreplay. A woman’s task is to thoroughly excite her gentleman, and then he will do everything himself. A man who considers himself a good lover will definitely try to ensure that his partner experiences maximum pleasure.
A man's self-esteem will suffer greatly if he realizes that the lady did not experience an orgasm during sex with him, but only imitated it. Your lie will hurt your gentleman very much, and he will no longer want to communicate. To prevent this from happening, tune in to intimacy using the following recommendations:
- Keep your body sexy. In your care, use scrubs and moisturizers to make your skin soft and velvety. Do hair removal and monitor the condition of the intimate area. It should be neat and fragrant. Don't forget about pedicures and manicures; many guys like well-groomed nails.
- Develop your libido. If you like a man, try to feel aroused. You can imagine how he begins to caress you, while working your intimate muscles. Feel the desire awakening. The gentleman will definitely feel your mood and will be seriously interested in you.
- Don't ignore oral sex. The man will be grateful to you for this. Just don’t need to reveal all your talents on your first night together. Keep your aces up your sleeve, because you still have a lot of dates ahead.
- Your partner should feel your desire. When a woman is aroused, her vagina becomes moist. During penetration, the man feels natural lubrication. For him, this is a sure sign that it’s time to take action. If you suffer from dryness in the intimate area or excessive mucus production, you should urgently consult a doctor, as such manifestations may be symptoms of diseases.
- After sex, do not rush to turn on your side and fall asleep. Enjoy moments of complete devastation and relaxation with your partner. Lie nearby, be silent, or, conversely, remember the pleasant moments of intimacy.
I want to win my husband again - advice from experienced wives
If you feel that your husband has begun to move away or is no longer as attentive to you as before, then try to make him fall in love with you again. To do this, you need to remember where it all began. When your spouse started having feelings for you, things weren't like they are now. Surely, you spent more time together, intimacy happened more often, and you yourself were not concerned with many everyday issues.
After being married for some time, many husbands stop paying attention to their spouses because they consider them practically “read books.” You can change this.
1.
New hobbies. Your husband needs to see a new side of you. Do something you've dreamed of doing before, but thought you didn't have time for. If you wish, you can find a few hours a week for dance classes, painting lessons or something like that. Even if you have never aspired to any hobbies, it's time to expand your horizons and learn something new. Your husband will see in you not just a woman who is busy with work, home and family, but also a person who strives for some kind of development.
2.
Appearance. If you haven't already, throw away your stretchy lounge pants and worn-out T-shirt. Now there is a huge selection of comfortable and beautiful home clothes and underwear in which you will look attractive.
3.
Pastime. If on weekends you preferred to do household chores, just sit at the computer or visit relatives, then try to change the established tradition. How did you like to spend time with your chosen one? Where did you go on dates?
4.
Intimacy. Do not deny your husband sex and take the initiative yourself. If you are too tired for this, then it makes sense to discuss the problem with your husband. You may need to change jobs or share some household responsibilities. If you have chronic fatigue, consult a doctor - it is possible that you have health problems.
How to please a man depending on his zodiac sign
- Aries
If you want to please an Aries man, you will have to try to become an ideal lady: modest, smart, beautiful, and able to present herself. Moreover, all your advantages need to be demonstrated already at the stage of acquaintance, since Aries are guided by the first impression.
It is advisable to intrigue the gentleman with something, some non-standard action or a non-trivial conversation. Aries will not judge if on the first date you confess your love to him or read an obscene poem. In sex, men of this sign prefer to dominate.
- Taurus
This zodiac sign does not like intrusive people and restrictions on their personal freedom. Do you want to please a Taurus man? Then be patient. The young man will need time to take a closer look and get used to you. The chosen one of Taurus must be economical, serious, feminine. Trousers, jeans and other brutal clothing are not welcome in a lady's wardrobe.
A woman should be able to cook well and manage housework. Taurus sympathize with those ladies who want to have a strong family, many children and respect the older generation.
- Twin
Geminis are demanding of themselves and other people. It is important for them that the lady is a faithful companion, shares interests, supports, is smart and strives for new experiences and discoveries. Therefore, if you want to please a Gemini man, then suggest having a first date at a museum or exhibition. You cannot be jealous of Gemini; they will perceive such an attitude as a personal insult. And trying to control will lead to immediate separation.
The sex life of Gemini is stable, devoid of surprises and subject to a certain system that never changes.
- Cancer
Do you want to please a Cancer man? Get ready to become a second mommy for him. Cancer loves warmth and care. His chosen one will be a strong woman who is able to inspire a man to new achievements, direct him in the right direction, support him in a difficult situation, listen to complaints, console him and encourage him.
Cancers love sex. They don’t mind experimenting; they appreciate a partner’s willingness to try something new and unexpected.
- a lion
Conquering a Leo is not difficult. You just need to compliment him often, praise him, admire him and never criticize him.
This zodiac sign is looking for a special companion, so when you want to please a Leo man, get ready to demonstrate your uniqueness and bright personality. You can't make Leo jealous, it can ruin the relationship. He should be the only man in the life of his chosen one.
- Virgo
If you want to please a Virgo man, become a good friend for him first, and then a lover. Men of this sign are predictable and not romantic. They choose modest, reserved, smart, responsible, rational and pretty girls with a similar temperament. Virgos are passive in bed and can go for months without sex.
- Scales
In search of their other half, Libra can date two or three girls at once. They will doubt for a long time, not daring to make a final choice. If you want to please a Libra man, get ready to share him with other women at first.
Libra's chosen one will be a cheerful, smart and pleasant girl who knows how to support in difficult times and take the initiative.
- Scorpion
This sign is very jealous. Having wanted to please the Scorpio man, you immediately crossed out the possibility of communicating with other gentlemen. Scorpio does not tolerate competition. His lady should belong only to him and at the same time be beautiful, spectacular, smart and strong. Moreover, these qualities are welcomed not only in everyday life, but also in sexual life.
- Sagittarius
Sagittarius is a holiday person. He is very sociable, bright, cheerful, noisy and is looking for the same companion. Therefore, if you want to please a Sagittarius man, you will have to love parties, travel and extreme sports.
This zodiac sign loves with his eyes. The attractive appearance of a lady is important to him. A woman should take care of herself and always look great. But Sagittarians consider scandals, hysterics and showdowns unacceptable for their lives.
- Capricorn
A representative of this sign will look closely at the girl he likes for a long time due to his natural indecisiveness. He needs time to think about the situation. If you want to please a Capricorn man, you must understand him perfectly, participate in all his affairs, support and empathize.
This sign is passionate about their career. Capricorn can be seduced by culinary masterpieces, but not by romance, to which he is completely immune.
- Aquarius
Guys of this sign choose smart, well-groomed, well-mannered and educated girls. Do you want to please an Aquarius man? Then get ready to give him complete freedom. Aquarius does not tolerate restrictions and loves easy relationships, without scandals and strain. In sex, he is liberated and tries to give his partner maximum pleasure.
- Fish
If you want to please a Pisces man, then take the initiative into your own hands in the first days of dating. The companion of this sign must be a strong woman, capable of taking responsibility not only for herself, but also for her lover. Pisces need to be praised a lot, criticized a little and refrain from a violent outburst of emotions. Representatives of this sign love to eat delicious food. In sex they prefer calm and some monotony.
Thank you for reading this article to the end.
Hello, my name is Yaroslav Samoilov. I am an expert in the psychology of relationships and over the years of practice I have helped more than 10,000 girls meet worthy soul mates, build harmonious relationships and return love and understanding to families that were on the verge of divorce.
More than anything, I am inspired by the happy eyes of students who meet the people of their dreams and enjoy a truly vibrant life.
My goal is to show women a way to develop relationships that will help them create a synergy of success and happiness!
Most Frequently Asked Questions
How to keep a guy interested from a distance
If a young man is temporarily away or simply lives in another city, and you have yet to meet, then this will not prevent you from maintaining his interest. Despite the distance, you should be present in his life every day. He needs to get used to the fact that you are an integral part of his regular day. Of course, you shouldn't be intrusive, but it's perfectly acceptable to wish him good morning, ask how his day was, and the like.
Periodically send him a photo where you turned out well. To make this as appropriate as possible, you can write: “We have snow today!” and send a photo of you against the backdrop of a snow-covered street. Or: “I was at the cinema today, it’s a pity that you weren’t there,” and your photo next to the poster.
How to take the first step towards your crush
Do you suspect that a guy who also likes you likes him? He may be hesitant to explicitly show his interest, so it would be appropriate to take the first step in this direction - just invite him somewhere. Don't make it sound like you're asking him out if you're afraid of rejection. Come up with another reason. If he works out at the gym, ask him to take you with him one day and show you how to use the equipment because... you are still embarrassed by the coach. You can find many reasons to meet in which you will not look intrusive, but will also understand how the guy treats you.
Method 2. Healthy appearance
Although many men are not aware of this, they subconsciously choose the future mother of their children. After all, the main thing for everyone is, so to speak, the opportunity to throw their genes into eternity. This is the only way we ensure our immortality. Therefore, there are some signs that signal to a man that this woman is healthy and ready to give birth to healthy offspring, namely:
- healthy hair. Clean, shiny, fragrant hair signals a man about a woman’s health and confirms, so to speak, the breed. The same cannot be said about dull, lifeless, unkempt hair. In addition, hair emits pheromones - substances that attract men and create sexual desire;
- Red lips
Research has shown that subconsciously a man is more likely to pay attention to a woman with lips painted with red lipstick, since it is red lips that create an association with the labia, which enlarge and turn red when the woman is excited and ready for sexual intercourse; - expressive eyes
As you know, eyes are the mirror of the soul. Eyes are capable of conveying all the beauty of the inner world. It is not for nothing that Eastern women, who, due to traditions, only have their eyes visible, draw them up and clearly highlight them. After all, only with the help of eye play can you attract and interest a man, telling him your sincere interest
- expressive eyes. As you know, eyes are the mirror of the soul. Eyes are capable of conveying all the beauty of the inner world. It is not for nothing that Eastern women, who, due to traditions, only have their eyes visible, draw them up and clearly highlight them. After all, only with the help of eye play can you attract and interest a man, telling him your sincere interest.
- healthy complexion. Do not overdo it with foundation, which is especially noticeable during the day. However, a small amount of blush will give your face a healthy, fresh look. Remember how in the old days girls rubbed beetroot juice on their cheeks, signaling to guys: I am healthy and ready to give birth to healthy children.
Peculiarities of male psychology
The peculiarity of male thinking is one subject at a time. Representatives of the stronger sex cannot simultaneously distribute attention to several objects, so the main task of a woman is to attract attention by standing out from others. A man will subconsciously notice a bright spot and become interested. It's not just about clothes: the image must be complete and create a certain impression.
First of all, guys evaluate appearance, but it is not decisive. After exchanging remarks, he already understands whether it is worth continuing the acquaintance. A girl needs to make an effort to be interesting in communication. Having given the initiative to meet a man, you should support her - actively participate in the conversation, get involved emotionally. Charisma, charm, and the ability to present oneself will interest you more than a beautiful but empty shell.
How to become feminine?
The concept of “femininity” includes a set of external and behavioral characteristics. It means:
- harmony of soft, pleasant appearance;
- the ability to yield, to behave wisely;
- the ability to create comfort;
- the ability to be a man's muse;
- ability to inspire and support.
Any woman can learn femininity with a little effort. You should reconsider your attitude towards the stronger sex, create a harmonious union, and not compete with your partner. The reward will be the attention, delight and sincere affection of your loved one.
The most important condition
The famous psychologist Labkovsky claims that in order to please absolutely any person, including a man, a woman must like herself. Often girls misjudge the importance of mental balance and try to externally decorate themselves with all sorts of objects.
This mania goes beyond all limits. More and more women are turning to the services of a plastic surgeon to change part of their body; they remake themselves externally, but remain the same internally. Therefore, in the case of a successful operation, nothing changes in relationships with men except sexual interest.
If guys only assessed a girl’s appearance, then all the beauties with pumped up lips or butts would be happy. But they, like all people on the planet, are looking for their happiness, they are disappointed and experience self-doubt. And even more, because they go under the knife, risking their own lives in the hope of pleasing at least someone.
Another tactic involves unconditional worship of men. The girl agrees to all the conditions of her partner, she tries to please him in everything. She looks at a man like a deity and absorbs his every word. Not the least role in this is played by the popular myths that the conquest of the male sex consists of placing him on the throne, praising him, and taking into account only his interests.
In fact, this approach can destroy any chance of a harmonious, healthy relationship. A woman constantly breaking herself, adapting to someone else, will accumulate anger, resentment, dissatisfaction with herself and will definitely not like her man.
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Make him feel the need to protect
Believe it or not, the feeling of the need to protect you is just as necessary for a man as the feeling of the same security is necessary for a woman. “It’s not that you should act completely helpless, but let him notice that you are still a fragile creature who constantly (or at least from time to time) needs protection. By exposing your insecurities to him, you are satisfying his need for protection,” says David Givens, Ph.D., author of Love Signals. So let's take care of ourselves whenever possible and don't forget to say thank you afterwards, of course. When a man feels like a superman next to you, he will undoubtedly want to continue this relationship. Such little things can help his heroic side come out, and what else does a man need if not to feel like a hero? Thus, harmony and mutual satisfaction of each other's needs appear in the relationship. It’s good for you and for him.
Method 5. Look for common interests
Like attracts like. This is a well-known fact that says that we always strive for people whose inner world is similar to ours. They are understandable to us, interesting and safe for our psyche. If your values and needs coincide with the interests of your boyfriend, you will have more common ground, and therefore more chances to express yourself and open up. If you want different things from life with him, your relationship has no future. You and your boyfriend will not be able to be useful to each other, and accordingly, you will begin to look for people similar to you outside of your relationship.
However, it is important here not to create artificial interests in yourself if your soul does not belong to them. You won’t be able to get carried away sincerely, and the revealed falsity will cause a backlash in the guy
You will be able to become useful to him in something that is also interesting to you. Common interests in sports, computer games, science or collecting, as well as attitudes or a similar approach to solving problems will become a bridge between your hearts. Sincerely satisfy your guy's values, let him satisfy yours, and your love will last forever.
