12 tips on how to please a man in bed

Of course, every woman wants her man to be just a queen in bed. Many ladies believe that they know perfectly well how to conquer a man in bed and such an article is of no use to them. By the way, women have very high hopes for bed.

It is there that you can reconcile after a long quarrel, only through bed you can beg for a new fur coat, and if you’re lucky, then a brand new car. In bed, grievances are forgotten, minor grievances are forgiven, and instead of boring and poor things, an unexpected holiday comes.

However, unfortunately, it happens that at some point a man begins to shirk his marital duty, and if sex scenes happen, then without the former enthusiasm, without ardent passions, but very casually and “in a trade union way.” And then panic settles in the lady’s soul.

Is she ugly? Husband has a mistress?! And, most importantly, what?! So what's now?! And is it possible to return those ardent nights? And, finally, how to conquer a man in bed when he has already lost his youthful ardor and youthful desire to have everything that moves?!

How to please a man in bed for the first time

Before the meeting, you need to calm down and not be nervous. Go to the store, buy beautiful underwear. Try it on. You look great! Remember this well.

Many ladies are too picky about their appearance, so they experience not only anxiety, but also insecurity about their beauty. But in vain. After all, if a man wants to spend the night with you, it means he doesn’t care about the shortcomings of your figure.

Flirting before the first intimacy is a mandatory attribute of a relationship. At this moment, both partners dream of uniting into a single whole. At this stage, various spicy SMS are good. Plus, if this is some kind of cat and mouse game, the outcome of which is clear to both the guy and the girl.

You can tease and provoke your significant other through correspondence or in conversation. But do not overdo it, otherwise the man may become too worried (and this happens).

Be yourself

Of course, communicating on the Internet is much easier. You can sit in front of the computer in a robe and curlers and tell them how beautiful you are.

However, be prepared for the fact that online communication will sooner or later turn into real life. Therefore, do not exaggerate external data and send plausible photographs, otherwise a personal meeting will turn out to be a disaster. Think about it: what if the person you like also sent a photo not of himself, but of some other guy?

The same rule applies to communication. You shouldn’t sprinkle Internet quotes, be clever, or speak in an incomprehensible language. Young people love naturalness. So try to be yourself.

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Important! Don't overdo it with sincerity. And write without grammatical errors that will turn off any guy.

How can you surprise a man in bed?

Once you find yourself in bed with a man, you need to adhere to 5 rules, if, of course, you want to continue the relationship.

What a man likes in a woman in moments of intimacy:

• Confidence. You must radiate it. Nobody likes people with complexes. Don't be shy about your nakedness. For a man now you are irresistible.
• Interest. Nobody wants to end up in bed with the “snow queen.” Show that you enjoy the process through stroking, kissing and caressing.
• Temperament. She is capable of turning on any guy like crazy. Men love (almost all) when the initiative in bed comes from a girl. Throw him on the pillows, kiss him passionately, rip his shirt. Although no, it’s better not to do the last point. You never know. This might be his favorite shirt. Or the only one.
• Caring. No, you don’t need to drag a pot of borscht to bed for your lover. But you must strive to please your partner. Inexperienced girls can simply ask questions during sex. Of course, there is no need to step over yourself and do things that contradict your principles. But it is necessary to try to please a man.
• Emotionality.

Men love to talk during sex. No, not about your new blouse or shoes.

But such thrown phrases as:

• “I want you so much” (during foreplay)
• or “so good”

have a stimulating effect.

Light moaning and screaming will also work. It's just not worth replaying. So, the sounds made indicate that you like everything. Silent partners confuse a man. Does she enjoy the process? Unclear. So feel free to talk about your feelings to your partner. Just don’t overdo it again, too much chatter will get in the way.

Indicators of a man's state of love

Sign No. 1 . "Raised eyebrows in surprise." A person's facial expressions and gestures can tell you a lot. If his eyebrows rise in surprise when he looks at you, be sure that the guy is interested in you! The fact is that when we see a person who is attractive to us, our eyebrows begin to unconsciously rise. Facial expressions of sympathy are faintly perceptible, but even these few fractions of seconds are enough to understand: they are interested in you.

Sign No. 2. "Long look". I really like this “hint”: it is quite obvious. If a guy looks at a girl for a long time, then he is trying to attract her attention to himself. A long glance indicates a desire to receive reciprocal eye contact. Based on the nature of this reciprocal contact, the guy can begin further actions or find another “victim”.

Sign No. 3 . "Touching the face." If a guy often touches his face when communicating with you, he has a keen interest in you. This sign indicates that he likes you. The fact is that when communicating with the object of love, a person’s lower parts of the face become especially sensitive: earlobes, chin and lips.

Sign No. 4. "Body Gestures" A man's facial expressions and gestures are based on subconscious signals. That is, the brain tries to satisfy his subconscious desires without unnecessary thinking. For example, a gentleman may unconsciously straighten his shirt or hair in your presence. This is all because he wants to look attractive to you. This is one of the most important signs of liking a girl.

Sign No. 5 . "Touch" A guy in love will try to touch his chosen one, himself, and objects around him. This is explained by the fact that with strong sympathy, the skin becomes very sensitive, and the center of pleasure from tactile touches is activated.

Sign No. 6 . “Trying to take care of you.” He is trying to show attention to his chosen one. A man whose thoughts are occupied with his beloved girl will always have many questions about how her day went, what she ate, and whether she was dressed warmly. He is interested in what she did during the day, he really has a keen interest in the girl, in her work and hobbies. The boyfriend will try to give her a pleasant surprise in the form of a gift. And most importantly, he will always be ready to help her with her problems and requests.

Dear girls, if you notice two or three of the described non-verbal signals from a potential candidate, be sure that he is in love with you. And if, when meeting you, a guy shows all of the above signs, then his sympathy for you is very strong!

What to do in bed to make a man like it

Many people try so hard to please their man in bed that they start doing things they have never done before. For example, everyone knows that men love oral sex. However, if you have no experience, caressing with your hands will be enough. With inept movements you are more likely to scare him away. He will think that this is how you always act, and you can forget about the next date.

I'm not saying that without experience, oral sex should not be practiced at all. But it’s better not to experiment with sex with a new partner.

As one wise lady I know said, first you need to skate the mandatory program. And only then start improvising.

Fussiness and sex are incompatible. Don't try to immediately put on your clothes and hide in the bathroom. After intimacy, a man wants to enjoy the moment, lie in the arms of his beloved woman.

Affection is the most important thing in intimacy. Even with no experience, you will cope with the task. A man likes it when his partner strokes his hair and goes down to his back and buttocks. Since guys are very sensitive to their dignity, you need to pay attention to it too. Many are crazy about light biting and licking of the earlobes, or kissing behind the ear.

Change positions during sex (take the initiative in this too) . There are many more options besides missionary! Almost all men love it when a girl is on top. They also don’t mind lying down and having fun. However, don’t you like to be in control of the situation?

To bite or not: how to understand that a guy likes you

Will tell about the results of the impact pickup...

• Sight . Any guy will tell you that looking into the eyes of a girl you like is a real challenge. If he looks shy, looks away, or can’t look away, he’s hooked.
• Initiative . A guy persistently initiates communication for two reasons - either he needs something from you, or he really likes you. If you have nothing to take from you, it means you like it.
• Self-promotion . Obviously, if a guy picks up a guitar or, seeing a horizontal bar, demonstrates the strength of his biceps - he tries in every possible way to show his best sides - he definitely wants to please. Which means he likes you.
• Tactile contact . If he likes you, he will want to be closer to your body. And until it comes to bed, he will come into contact with you in any available way - touching your hand, removing specks from your clothes, or collapsing on you on the sofa when you are sitting at a party.

Do you want to practice the art of liking? Register on any dating portal and collect fans. In general, develop the skill of making people like you in any situation. Remember, right? Take care of yourself, flirt, smile. Good luck!

Comments:

• 18.10.2017

  Kate:

  A very useful article that reveals many aspects that a woman needs to do. Personally, in order to please my man, I can first bring him almost to hysterics until he starts banging his fists on the wall, and then I play the role of sweet and caring. Then he gave me such passion... I like this method very much, because I first get moral pleasure when I achieve it, and then physical pleasure. And he doesn't complain.

• 19.10.2017

  Olesya:

  There were certain problems with this, but I managed to solve them with your help. Thank you so much, I finally started to enjoy myself and my man is happy.

• 23.10.2017

  Mila:

  I also really liked it, everything was written correctly and in a rather funny way. And when I read about borscht in bed, I thought I would burst with laughter when I imagined this picture. And I would add that even if a lady has experience in bed, she should not show it in its full beauty right away. Since a young man may think that before him you had more than a dozen partners.

• 25.10.2017

  Lisa:

  I remember being so nervous before the first time with my husband, since it was my first time. I read a bunch of “what and why” articles, stressed myself out, and in the end I couldn’t relax. I really regret that then I didn’t come across the same article, which was pleasant to read and there was something to learn for myself here. Thank you.

• 06.11.2017

  Rita:

  I can say one thing, so as not to scare off the guy, you shouldn’t go to bed with him right away and you shouldn’t be an eternally unapproachable maiden either. Well, if you do end up together, you shouldn’t control him during caresses, you need to slightly push and guide him, otherwise he might think that you have experience with a carriage and a small cart. Well, yes, you definitely shouldn’t scratch your back, otherwise you won’t want to do it a second time))).

  06.11.2017

  Yuri:

  It may be slightly scratched. Some men (I won’t modestly point fingers at myself) like this.

• 02.12.2017

  Irina:

  I agree with you, you will immediately lie down and think that you are flighty. You need to go quietly and not show all the little things in bed at once. Then he himself will want to guide you, because he is a man. And you can scratch your back a little and meow, this really turns them on.

Take it and like it: what you need to be

“I want the guy to like me,” the desire is simple and understandable. Take it and like it, win a man. Any girl can do this by upgrading herself on several points.

watch yourself

Let's agree that unshaven armpits, cellulite and other attributes of natural beauty are for a narrow circle of connoisseurs. The vast majority of guys like clean hair, smooth legs and light makeup - mascara will open up the eyes, balm will make the lips more sensual, and highlighter will hide signs of fatigue. A couple of times a week – physical activity to keep the body in good shape.

Have your own style

Well-groomed people won't get you very far. Everyone is running around the salons. You have to stand out from the crowd of “well-groomed” people, but what usually makes you stand out is charisma – your own style, your own point of view, an aura of mystery. How to develop charisma in yourself? Learn to dream (and read), get out of the captivity of prejudices, start an unusual hobby. Coupled with courage and responsibility, this will make you charismatic like Joan of Arc.

Be optimistic

There is nothing more asexual and unattractive than a dissatisfied face, whining and complaints, guys are sure. They, who have shouldered the concern of survival in the name of procreation, after a tiresome hunt for money and fame, want to bury themselves in something warm, soft and positive. A smile on your face is more valuable than professional makeup.

Turn on the "hostess"

No one has canceled the strong connection between a man’s stomach and heart. If you don’t know what to do, if you really like a guy, invite him to dinner. You can’t help but like a steak cooked by your own hands and a shirt ironed the next morning (check the degree of doneness of the steak).

Inspire

A girl who knows how to listen, appreciate and praise is worth her weight in gold. Guys need the boost of pleasant and inspiring words no less than sex. Have you heard that behind every great man there is a great woman? Women muses are not just liked. They become a necessity of life, and this is an order of magnitude more than just being liked by someone.

Flirt

For a snack - a simple and accessible technique with which you can attract the attention of any man without exception. This is flirting, that is, a wide package of verbal and non-verbal means of seduction (compliments, stroking hair, open mouth). You like flirting girls instantly - you can’t go against nature.

In principle, this is enough to please a guy and even make him fall in love. A well-groomed, smiling and flirting girl cannot help but like her. Unlike the one we'll talk about below.

Be somewhat inaccessible

Girls who run after the men they like and call them 100 times a day will never be able to take their rightful place in the hearts of their chosen ones. But this does not mean that you need to go to the other extreme and become absolutely touchy. Representatives of the stronger sex also do not like such women. It’s better to choose the golden mean: only occasionally, and not every day, write him the first SMS, respond to his messages only after 4-8 hours, do not forget about your interests and goals for the sake of his whims. Be confident in yourself so that a man will be drawn to you like a magnet.

Talk about how you feel right now

The aphorism “Silence is golden” does not apply to those moments when the couple is alone. This is not about commenting on every action, but several options for verbal seduction will help warm up your partner at the most important moment:

• Tell your man what you are going to do to him right now.
• Don’t hold back during intimacy—a couple of “dirty” words will come in handy.

Do not use medical terminology: it is inappropriate. Overly physiological remarks can also have the opposite effect. If expressing explicit words and phrases is too difficult, comment on how hot, humid, or cramped you feel around your partner.

Sex for a man is a natural process, so there is no pretense. The more honest you are, the better the result.

Natalya Kasarina, a famous sexologist, psychologist and author of a book about sex, says in her popular Instagram blog that natural love for sex is what we should strive for in close relationships.

Overcome imposed taboos, unnecessary modesty and fear. A loving and caring partner expects his woman to be frank in everything.