Relationship
What to do if you want to make the girl you like fall in love with you, but doubt your abilities? What to do if you want to be the most desirable and the only one for her? I will answer your question right in the first paragraph! What a twist! So, to make a girl fall in love with you, you must be less in love with her than she is with you. Understood?! Yes, but probably not entirely! Falling in love is a drug. Therefore, you need to turn the girl into a notorious drug addict who will become more addicted to you than you are! Read the entire article and everything will be clear what needs to be done!
Show your importance (value)
Significance is how valuable you are to a girl. The greater the significance, the more the girl will invest in the relationship. And the more she invests, the more she will fall in love with you. Everything is very simple. For this …
Be a leader
The great Greek philosopher Socrates once taught, “The unexamined life is not worth living.” And he was absolutely right. A girl won't fall in love with a guy who has no direction and doesn't know who he is. This is not a man, this is a child. Girls need a man who knows what he wants, is confident in himself and moves towards his goals. And for this you need to become a leader in life. Every girl needs someone who will lead her to her dreams, and not just some “weapon man.” Therefore, have big goals, a plan to achieve them and real actions. There are already enough balabols.
Be interesting
What does it mean? And the fact that you shouldn’t be like everyone else - only go to work and drink beer with friends in the bathhouse on Fridays, and on weekends just lie down in front of the TV. It is necessary to create a certain lifestyle so that she falls in love with you, or rather with your lifestyle.
What can be included here:
- be sure to engage in one or two sports or go to the rocking room, and finally, to the stadium to work out on the horizontal bars and uneven bars;
- constantly meet new interesting people;
- create and develop your own projects that can grow into a profitable business or are already a business (this will make you an interesting person in the eyes of the woman you love!)
- have your own hobby ;
— spend interesting leisure time on weekends and don’t sit at home;
— travel constantly, both within your own country and around the world.
Be unavailable
The mistake of many men who want to make girls fall in love with them is that they begin to devote a lot of time to them. But also A.S. Pushkin wrote very correct words: “The less we love a woman, the easier it is for her to like us.” Who do we fall in love with most often? In unavailable women. Likewise, women prefer unavailable men. This is a function of the mind. While we don't have something, we want it. Therefore, you should not constantly talk about your love for a girl. It’s better to show a slightly indifferent behavior, reducing the importance of your relationship, but this does not mean that you need to become an inveterate bastard.
How to demonstrate indifference:
- do not call or write 100,500 times a day;
- disappear for a while;
- when you meet, joke about her, make fun of her, treat her like a child;
— in a company, communicate with other girls, flirt, touch them, show interest on the part of other girls.
Remember! The girl falls in love not with you, but with the image. If you want to make her fall in love with you, create in her head the image of your personality that she will fall in love with.
When to stop
There are several situations in which you won’t be able to win a girl. Therefore, it is worth stopping and thinking, are you doing everything right?
Be prepared for this. The reason for this may be one of the following factors:
- She already has a decent match;
- You don't meet her expectations;
- She has been keeping you in the friend zone for a long time;
- You were too intrusive;
In any of the options, if all your previous attempts have failed, leave the girl alone and give her time. Try to maintain friendly or friendly relations and step aside. There is a possibility that her current partnership will end sooner or later. Be there at this moment to lend your strong masculine shoulder.
If you have alienated and even frightened a girl with your persistence and obsession, then the only chance to rehabilitate yourself is to enter the circle of friends and show your best side.
In the end, if the girl you dream about wants to see a tanned, athletic brunette next to her in a BMW, and you are a simple guy in a Toyota, there’s nothing you can do about it. Either you need to catch up to her requirements, or the girl must lower the bar of her expectations.
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Give her emotions
We like what gives us emotions. Or the one who gives emotions. And here men have big problems. Because we are about mind and logic, and women are about heart and emotions. We just speak different languages. Therefore, if you decide to make a girl fall in love with you, then you need to create an emotional connection with her.
Smile and laugh
Make her laugh. Girls love guys who make them laugh. Know that laughter helps produce dopamine (the hormone of happiness) in our body. So learn to tell funny stories and jokes. You should have fun and enjoyment together! The main thing here is not to go too far and not look like a real clown. Everything is good in moderation!
Give compliments
Who doesn't like receiving nice compliments? Everyone. And girls especially love them! Just please, don’t praise a girl in order to make her fall in love with you. Otherwise, all this will backfire on you. Remember that a compliment to a girl should first of all be sincere from the heart.
Make it romantic
You can follow the standard path: flowers, restaurant, gifts. But this is the “beaten” path and you will be like everyone else! And you need to be original. Therefore, invite her to some unusual place - it doesn’t matter whether it’s a climbing wall or Tolstoy’s estate - the main thing is that you both find it interesting there. To get to the point, it’s better to find out the girl’s interests and fears, otherwise if she’s afraid of heights, she obviously won’t fly in a hot air balloon. In general, study such a topic as “roof blowers” and stock them in your arsenal, so that you don’t have to think every time, but how to evoke unrealistic emotions in her. The main thing in this matter is not to go too far: your task is to surprise, not shock.
And yes, don’t just give positive emotions, otherwise you’ll be as sweet as a white marshmallow!
70% positive + 20% neutral + 10% negative = a girl in love with you!
Aroma2
The way the world works is that any living creature chooses a partner based on smell. The concept that a man should be “powerful, smelly and hairy” has long been outdated, and a girl will never look at a guy who gives off a bad spirit.
Each person is endowed by nature with his own smell, and it is this that becomes the decisive factor when falling in love occurs. And this smell is simply impossible to recognize from someone who has not washed for weeks. It is very important to take a shower every day, even more than once.
If a guy lacks natural pheromones, this can always be corrected with aromatic perfume. But you can’t pour cologne on yourself; the smell should be pleasant and light, slightly noticeable, and not suffocating. The girl should have a desire to come closer in order to better feel the aroma emanating from the guy, and not the desire to run away, just to hide from the flow of a pleasant, but too intrusive smell.
Trigger your instincts
And the last thing you need to do to make a girl fall in love with you is to have great sex with her. To do this, it is necessary to evoke animal instincts in her through kinesthetics or, more simply, through touch. Do you remember how you spanked your school and college girlfriends on the ass? So it was your mistake! There is no need to rush headlong into the quarry! Everything needs to be done gradually.
Touch
You need to start with those touches that are acceptable from the point of view of society and culture. They are called socially acceptable touching.
Shake hands when meeting.
Give your hand from the transport.
Take it by the arm while walking.
Kiss on the cheek when meeting or parting.
For such touches, look for a socially acceptable excuse. For example, an interesting ring on her finger - he took her hand in his, touched the ring, and let go. Or, with an approaching drunk, you can take her by the shoulders and bring her closer to you, as if fencing her off from danger.
Kiss tenderly
Next you need to move on to more serious touches.
Touching the girl’s hands, knees, back.
Light massage of fingers, forearms, shoulders, neck, back.
Kisses on the shoulders, neck, lips, etc.
Give her good sex
If you really want to make a girl fall in love with you, then you should have sex with her. Learn one thing. Real relationships begin after sex. All that is “BEFORE” is friendship. She can be your friend 1000 times over. Chat on different topics, go to the movies with you, do common things, etc. And at this time he can sleep with other guys. Here you need to know a little biology. During sex, a hormone called oxytocin is released. It forms attachment to a sexual partner. It is thanks to its development that partners remain faithful to each other and do not notice representatives of the opposite sex.
This is a whole separate topic that I will not touch on here. But sex is a powerful drug. And you need to give her such a dose that she cannot exist without you. Give her so much pleasure that she wants more. And don’t forget about yourself and your feelings at the same time. You yourself must get a buzz from the process so that this feeling is also conveyed to her. I'll repeat it again. Everything before sex is sympathy, which should not be taken so seriously.
So, I have listed the most effective ways to make a girl fall in love with you. You need to work on them and make them work on autopilot. But! There are moments when a girl can fall in love with you, as if without your participation. And here you need to understand how a girl who is already in love behaves, otherwise you can slow down for a long time and in the end just ruin everything.
General rules for conducting virtual dialogue
To win the girl you like by correspondence, you need to competently approach the construction of dialogue in the virtual space. Following the basic rules of conducting a conversation on the Internet will help to interest a woman:
- Always be polite. The pickup urges men to be persistent in order to win the heart of a lady. But often they try to comply with this instruction using rudeness, inflated self-esteem and pretentious arrogance. Such a fatal mistake scares away girls not only online, but also in real life. In order for a woman to like the conversation, a guy needs to carefully select his words, not use swear words and maintain distance.
- Avoid one-way communication. Make sure that the topic of conversation during virtual communication is of interest to everyone. If the girl is silent, then it’s time to change the tactics and direction of the conversation.
- To prevent the correspondence from ending 5 minutes after the first message, try to answer your interlocutor’s questions in detail. This will allow the girl to get to know her new friend better. Avoid questions that can be answered in monosyllables: “yes,” “no,” “I don’t know.”
- Be interested in your interlocutor. A woman will be flattered by attention to her own person. In addition, the versatile facets of her personality will allow you to find a suitable path to your heart.
- Errors in the text are clearly evident in the correspondence. When sending your next message to a lady, don’t be lazy to re-read it and eliminate any shortcomings. An illiterate young man can scare a woman away.
- To brighten up the dialogue, don't hesitate to show a sense of humor. Jokes and funny stories will definitely bring you closer to your virtual interlocutor.
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Only an interesting and tactful conversation will be successful and continued. Without following important rules, you should not expect a positive outcome from dating online.
How does a girl in love behave?
Ignores others
A woman who is in love with one particular man is cold, like a cartoon queen, to everyone else. That's just absolutely. In general, in general. At least even retired Brad Pitt will approach her. She won't care about him. The thing is that for a woman in love there is only one alpha male. And if she flirts only with you, then you are the one, the one and only.
Constantly in sight
Perhaps you study, work or relax together and she catches your eye very often. Maybe it's fate? Or maybe it's just an accident?! No. Most likely, she specifically chooses a place and time to annoy you and start a conversation on some topic. She wants you to notice her more - so beautiful and slender. And girls know how to make themselves look like that!
Looking for a reason to meet
A girl in love can invite you first to go for a walk along the embankment, go to a concert or city event, or ride bikes in the park. The difference between guys and girls in love is that girls don’t think - they act. And while you are figuring out how and where to invite a girl, she will do it first. If you have this situation, then the girl has fallen in love with you.
Acts a bit like a fool
Love is, first of all, a lot of stress. And stress, as a rule, turns a reasonable person into an inadequate one. Here she is - shrinking and shrinking when she sees you when she meets. May speak in a loose manner or as if lacking intelligence. She speaks in a manner that is unusual for her. She may behave too vulgarly, although this is not her style of communication at all. But by the way, the same thing happens to you. Now remember how you behaved the last time you fell in love. I'm sure like a fool. Here she is, acting like a fool. It's just stressful, that's all.
Open in communication
A girl in love will begin to tell you everything about herself openly and at the same time ask you various clarifying questions with great interest. Thus, she wants to know not only some facts about your life, but also understand the potential of her lover. She will want to understand what interests you, what goals and plans you have for the near future. If you notice that she is looking for common ground, hobbies or similar experiences, then this is a clear sign of falling in love.
Flirting
Of course, a woman in love begins to flirt. It’s just like in nature, when pink flamingos start performing mating dances. All girls can do this, although not all boys can notice it. And you need to see women's signals! What could it be. Maintains his posture, can swing his leg in a relaxed manner, straightens his hair, bites his lips, has a deep, direct gaze, leans his body forward towards you, can straighten his or your clothes.
Strives to be closer
A girl in love, intentionally and unintentionally, strives to be physically closer to the object of her sympathy. For example, take a man by the arm, touch him in passing, straighten the lapel of his jacket. The same is true when a man enters her personal space: she allows him to close the distance. A girl in love is not against a straightened strand of hair, touches, light hugs.
Shows concern
Women have a maternal instinct inherent in them and you need to know that it extends not only to children. She will take care of those who are truly dear to her. And the object of love will always be dear! Therefore, if a girl has fallen in love with you, then scan all the actions that will show her care for you. If a girl starts feeding you, then believe me, she is in love with you. This signal works 100% and never fails. However, she will not demand anything in return. Instincts cannot be removed anywhere!
Gives gifts
Giving gifts means showing sympathy for a person. Many guys do this almost automatically. Flowers, irons, earrings, telephones. But if a girl gives a gift to a man who was mentioned by him in conversations earlier and, as it were, in passing, then this is a clear sign that she likes this man. Therefore, such moments are especially worth paying attention to. This means that the girl is already seriously starting to invest in the relationship.
Asks questions about family, children, housing.
When a girl is in love, she automatically begins to imagine how she could build a family with you, have children and live happily in a cozy “nest” until the end of your days together. These thoughts, of course, will slip into your conversations. She will ask questions that interest her on this topic. And this is a sure sign that she is interested in you as her future chosen one.
I hope my article helped you clarify the issue of falling in love. In fact, I want you to be able to find your other half without using any tricks or tricks. I want you to just lose your head! This is so cool! Be yourself first. And the girl who should be nearby will definitely appear! Good luck in your relationship!
Caring for others5
Why do girls lose their heads? Of course, because the guy can take care of others. For example, to a meeting with a lady you can bring a baby borrowed from your sister (brother, matchmaker, neighbor). Show that you love children, know how to get along with them, and care for them. Just be careful, don’t lose your child by getting carried away by the story about what a wonderful father you will make in the future!
But more than children, many girls love various whining, squeaking, meowing creatures. They are fluffy, you can caress them, being touched by their cute face and “sweet paws.” Get a dog, cat, bird, borrow it, again, for a walk. When you see a homeless person (meaning a little animal, not a drunk homeless person), feed him a sausage purchased especially for this purpose, pet him, show your sympathy for the poor fellow’s plight, and the girl will definitely melt!
Women are different
To better adapt to environmental conditions, nature has endowed us with different properties. Each person has his own innate desires, which affect the type of thinking, choice of activity, and sexuality. System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan defines eight groups of desires and human properties, or vectors, which have their own unique characteristics.
Thus, according to given vectors, both men and women will have different desires and, accordingly, ways of obtaining pleasure from life. After all, man was created as the principle of pleasure. That is, fulfilling innate desires through socially useful activities, realizing our natural qualities gives us the opportunity to get maximum pleasure from life and feel happy.
Depending on the presence of different vectors in the human psyche, corresponding life priorities are built, which must be taken into account when communicating with the opposite sex. It is very important to understand what kind of woman is in front of you. This will help you care for it properly. A woman with a skin vector loves expensive gifts, with an anal vector - constancy and care, with a visual vector - flowers and going to the theater together, with a sound vector - solitude under the starry sky. A complete understanding of the importance of innate desires for women is revealed by the System-Vector Psychology of Yuri Burlan.
