You can tolerate spitting on your soul if you are not going to forgive them later
- Today I saw death. The death of all hopes and joint plans for the future at once.
- The worst thing is to wake up and realize that he just kissed you in a dream. But in reality this will never happen.
- And the most painful thing is to realize that I myself endowed you with those qualities, because of which I was later disappointed.
- Falling in love is dangerous. that it ends. And then there is still a period of disappointment, and the relationship depends on whether you can survive it.
- The weak convince themselves that something will change, the strong wait a little and leave, the strongest leave immediately.
- Screw him. I want to fall in love and forget about everything in the world. Although I’m already old enough to know that later I’ll have to be disappointed.
- In fact, we rarely realize the moment when we disappoint others, especially loved ones.
- If you really want to have hope, at least set a deadline for this hope. And if not, then don’t cry.
- Disappointment is actually necessary. It is necessary in order to smooth out the consequences of love!
- Disappointment is not just a feeling. It's also a process. With the help of which you can turn your consciousness around.
- Someday, the butterflies in our stomachs will disappear. But try to have as few disappointments as possible!
- It is stupid to accuse a person of giving him certain qualities. Therefore, your feelings depend on your own attentiveness.
- Don't punish me for trusting you!
- Headphones in your ears, glasses on your eyes, a heart made of stone. And try me, disappoint me!
How to deal with disappointment
After yet another exposure of human vices, unseemly acts and other unpleasant situations, a completely understandable question comes to mind: how to survive disappointment in people? It seems that everyone around you is exactly like the person who did not live up to your expectations. In reality, this is, of course, not the case. The only way to survive any disappointment, including in people, is to understand, forgive and come to terms with the idea that there is no one/nothing ideal on Earth. There is no way without this. Only realizing the futility of trying to find a person without a single flaw can help get rid of disappointment now and prevent similar situations from happening in the future. However, the latter is discussed in more detail below.
There are people with whom you shouldn't even sort things out.
They say we are too selfish to accept that people will always disappoint us. This is exactly what the status about disappointment in a loved one is about.
- Only you could make me wonder if this world even needs me...
- I was scared. No, not that you will leave, but the immense freedom that suddenly opened up before me.
- If a person doesn’t need you, it’s immediately noticeable. The same can be said if he really needs you!
- The worst thing is when you are already disappointed in him, but still continue to hope for something. Stupid.
- I can just stop trusting. And then you realize that you have made a grave mistake.
- If you are betrayed, stay alone for a while. Cry, suffer, and calmly think about what to do next.
- There aren't many good people in the world who don't disappoint. It is not so important. Today you proved that you are one less!
- You know, I will quit, I will hurt, first of all, myself. But I will not forgive betrayal!
- If lies have already flashed through the relationship, be prepared for the fact that the relationship must either be terminated or ended.
- Expectations without guarantees are always a mistake. But who doesn’t make this mistake!
- If a person manages to disappoint you, it is likely that you have encroached on his freedom...
- If you want to avoid disappointment, never date anyone. And don't even communicate!
- Being disappointed in a guy doesn't have to be something you can think of. You can be disappointed just by believing.
- It just so happens that I trust my disappointment more than you. This happened because you wanted it that way.
Quotes about disappointment
The collection includes quotes about disappointment in people, great people
Without disappointment you cannot taste victory. Steal in 60 seconds
I don't like loneliness. I just don’t make unnecessary acquaintances so as not to be disappointed in people again.
I dream so eagerly about the future, and when it comes, I feel nothing but disappointment.
… I love disappointing people. And I try to do this as often as possible. This is the only way I can make them continue to be interested in my person. Frederick Beigbeder. Holidays in a coma
I didn't expect anything good, but I'm still disappointed. It could be worse
Being loved is perhaps even better than loving yourself. There was no charm - there will be no disappointment. Oleg Roy. Game without rules
Save your time - immediately become disappointed in people.
Disappointment is always the fault of the one who was enchanted, not the one who enchanted, so do not scold the glass that seems like a diamond to you.
In order not to be too disappointed, you don’t have to be very fascinated. Satisfaction
Time leads us to disappointment in everything that is not virtue, not reason and not truth. Pierre Buast
To avoid disappointment, you need to lower your expectations. University
A fool pursues pleasure and finds disappointment; the sage only avoids grief. Arthur Schopenhauer
It takes an eternity to gain trust, but one moment is enough to be disappointed...
Yes, parents are like that. They'll fuck you right away... Chuck Palahniuk. Snuff
I want a heart of stone so that I don’t feel any resentment, pain, or disappointment.
Reality is disappointment. Andrian Decourseul
Physically I felt very weak and broken, but much worse was my mental depression - a depression that made me cry silently all the time. Charlotte Bronte. Jane Eyre
Friendship is a healing balm for the wounds of disappointment in love. Jane Austen. Northanger Abbey
It's hard to come to terms with the idea that the face you loved turned out to be just a mask... Stephen King. The right things
If you expect the worst from a person, then he can no longer bring you any disappointments. Anthony Burgess. A Clockwork Orange
Only the collapsed dream was still struggling, stalling for time, clinging to something that could no longer be held. Francis Scott Fitzgerald. The Great Gatsby
If you wait with all your might, but don’t arrive on time, then everything gets done anyway. Haruki Murakami. Sheep hunting
Those people who were the closest are sometimes capable of falling so low in our eyes. Song: Reims - Lost
There are people who are constantly expecting disappointment. Alfred Adler
No matter how disappointed you are in people, they will still surprise you.
Irony is the final stage of disappointment. Anatole France
Sash, why are you telling me about someone again? Me, do you understand? I! I relied on myself and let myself down. What else do men talk about (disappointment in a man quotes)
A cactus is a cucumber deeply disappointed in life. Evgeny Petrosyan
Being disappointed in people you care about is more than painful.
Those who don't expect anything will never be disappointed. Here's a good rule of life. Then everything that comes next will seem like a pleasant surprise to you. Remarque
Disappointment in life is called disappointment in illusions. Alexander Kruglov
It is better to experience disappointment than not to experience joy. Jacques Brostein
Disappointment is a strange feeling. It doesn’t hurt, it doesn’t feel sorry, it’s just empty...
The love for the sea does not fade over the years. I will always think about it, and it will always make me happy, this is love without disappointments... Natalya Andreeva. A paradise for death
Disappointment is the first portion of knowledge. Ivan Fedorovich
People deceive our expectations, especially if these people are between thirteen and eighteen years old. Jodi Picoult. Fragile soul
Disappointment is sometimes a useful medicine, and in its solitude, like Titian in his beloved twilight, we understand the colors of objects better and more deeply than in the blinding sunlight. John Ruskin
People are designed this way, at one point you need to forgive the people who were dear to you and leave.
Disappointment is both the loss of illusions that were taken for values, and the loss of values that begin to look like illusions. Alexander Kruglov
His dreams were dispelled, the castle in the air collapsed, and he fell under its rubble. Arthur Conan Doyle. Three Garridebs
If you are disappointed in one, do not punish the other. All people are different. Don't lose your ability to believe and love.
I don't need someone who doesn't need me... Asi
Why, instead of the happiness that beckoned me, did I get only difficulties and discord? Frederick Beigbeder. Love lives for three years
The sea - it washes away melancholy and disappointment better than any medicine. Tatiana Stepanova. Invisibility mirror
Nobody likes to be alone. I just don’t force anyone to communicate with me. This is nothing but disappointment. Haruki Murakami. Norwegian forest
We may experience final disappointment, but we will never lose boundless hope. Martin Luther King
Never try to sort things out with people who have disappointed you. Just silently leave them and all their crap alone.
Hope is most often a delayed disappointment. Walter B. Baldry
No illusions - no disappointments. Japanese proverbs and sayings
No matter what the future holds for me, it will still disappoint me. Chuck Palahniuk. Lullaby
Don't expect too much - you won't be disappointed. Haruki Murakami. Wonderland without brakes and the end of the world
Don't refuse right away, let disappointment come drop by drop. Baltasar Gracian y Morales
Hatred subsides over time, resentment passes, anger fades away, and disappointment forever alienates people from each other. Teacher for the change
Our world is a world of disappointments, and often disappointments in those hopes that we most cherish, and in hopes that do great honor to our nature. Charles Dickens. The Adventures of Oliver Twist
Unreasonable expectations always end in disappointment. Yuliy Medvedev
We fight because we are bored and disappointed. And a quarrel is at least some kind of entertainment. Paul Vincent. Me and my hormones
Nothing relieves frustration better than work. Arthur Golden. Memoirs of a Geisha
Men do not live up to our expectations, and only desserts bring true immediate pleasure without subsequent disappointment. Bernard Werber. Mirror of Cassandra
Experience is the totality of our disappointments. Paul Auger
My plush world turned out to be woven from synthetics. Maria Sveshnikova. Beamine
Isn't it funny when dreams come true, but things don't turn out the way you wanted? Think like a criminal
Dreams are lost. Reality is mocking. Theodore Dreiser. Sister Kerry
Disappointment is a characteristic of the weak. Don't trust the disillusioned - they are almost always the powerless. Gustave Flaubert
People manage to do only one thing perfectly - disappoint each other. Hubert Selby
Disappointment will only be the beginning if you remain silent. Gossip
People disappoint. I know. I even expect it. But what if one day I realize that I myself am a disappointment to others... One Tree Hill
Disappointment acts as a common principle of love and hatred. Gilles Deleuze
People spend their entire lives losing the hopes and aspirations they had at twenty. Maurice Druon
The disappointment is never strong enough. Maurice Blanchot
Love is the hardest thing to achieve and can disappoint like nothing else. Freddie Mercury
Frustration is often a good reason to write something charming. Gennady Matyushov
Summer is just the unfulfilled promise of spring, a fake instead of those warm, blissful nights you dream of in April. Francis Scott Fitzgerald. This side of heaven
Disappointed people who have not found a place in life, in general, it seems to me, tend to indulge in daydreams. Iris Murdoch
When all the tears are cried, comes... pain. Katya Tsoilik. Games with God
The strongest feeling is disappointment. Not resentment, not jealousy or even hatred... after them at least something remains in the soul, after disappointment - emptiness. Erich Maria Remarque
Every person sooner or later is forced to overcome disappointment when everything seems devoid of meaning. If he cannot or does not want to step over, the person will not exist. Dmitry Yemets. Methodius Buslaev. First eidos
A heart that did not know the pain of disappointment did not know the joy of flight. Stephenie Meyer. Guest
Life is full of disappointments!... But not for me! despicable Me
Words of a disappointed person. “I looked for great people and always found only monkeys of my ideal.” Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche. Fall of Idols
If there are no illusions, then there are no disappointments. Henri Troyat
What seemed beautiful and amazing at night appears pale and dull in the light of day. Lydia Lunch. Paradoxia: Diary of a Predator
If you look into the future, you will be disappointed anyway. How little you have done compared to what you expected from life. Chuck Palahniuk. Survivor
Only the simplest things never disappoint. Erich Maria Remarque. Triumphal Arch
I recognize friendship by the absence of disappointments, true love by the inability to be offended. Antoine de Saint-Exupery. Citadel
It's hard to come to terms with the fact that your world has turned into barren ashes, and your hopes and dreams are mercilessly trampled. Erica Leonard James. Fifty Shades of Gray
Friend, you have become disappointed in everything you loved: disappointment has finally become your habit; and your last love, which you call “love of truth,” is, perhaps, only love of disappointment. Friedrich Nietzsche
Do you want me to shake your hand in hell? I won't disappoint you. Sherlock
Two things are absolutely inevitable in a woman’s life: dust on the furniture and disappointment in a man. Angel de Coitiers. Little Princess
Often a tender thought is conveyed without words. Language sometimes brings us bitter disappointment. Mayne Reid. Quarteronka
Sadness and disappointment harm us, the happy owners of torn hearts, even more than promiscuity. Vincent Van Gogh
To avoid disappointment in people, you need to get rid of illusions. Learn to accept people as they are. There are no perfect people. You can find good people, but even they can be selfish, irritable and gloomy at times. Abraham Maslow
Everyone always turns out not to be what you expect them to be. William Golding. Lord of the Flies
In order not to be disappointed, there is no need to be enchanted! Svetlana Nergina. According to the law of migratory birds
Opportunity is an opportunity to be disappointed. Ambrose Bierce
An egoist always experiences more disappointments than a noble soul. Wilhelm Fischer
There are only two real tragedies in life: one is when you don’t get what you want, and the second is when you do get it. The second one is worse, because when you get what you want, you most often experience disappointment. Oscar Wilde "Lady Windermere's Fan"
It's like you order champagne and they bring lemonade. It looks the same, but the bubbles are not the same... My fair nanny
Marriage always brings disappointment in life. Dorian Gray
I didn’t burn bridges, I just didn’t build them... Body parts
And I thought you were the injection I needed.
I was disappointed in just one person... and it felt like I had lost the whole world.
... Habit and disappointment are the usual nurses at the deathbed of love... Lawrence Durrell. Balthazar
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How to avoid being disappointed in people in the future
- First, you should stop idealizing others. It is impossible to find a perfect person, so you shouldn’t even try.
- Secondly, you need to become tolerant of other people's opinions and thoughts. To be disappointed in a person just because of his musical, political or other preferences is stupid.
- Thirdly, you need to try to forget about the person who disappointed you and not judge other people by him. If only because there are simply no absolutely identical people.
- Fourthly, you cannot see everyone around you as an enemy. After disappointment, it seems as if everyone around is bad, but this is not so.
- Fifth, you need to listen to other people. Then in the future there will be no disagreements and shouts from the “rival” in the style: “I already told you about something, what are your complaints?!” and so on.
- Sixthly, you cannot place high hopes on people. The less you expect something from a person, the less likely you are to be disappointed in the future. Treat others the way they deserve and don't expect anything from them.
Five stages on the path from charm to maturity.
Psychologists say that a person feels disappointed for as long as it takes to reorient the psyche and consciousness. Moreover, such experience is a mandatory step on the path to maturity.
How the completed process of disillusionment occurs:
First stage: charm.
When a person is CHARMED, it is as if he falls under the spell of: an idea, a hobby, another person, a profession, a new place of work. A very pleasant and necessary state, but also very short-lived.
Stage two: disappointment.
This is a process of disenchantment, when illusions collapse. The main symptoms of the second stage: loss of hope, indignation, attempts to drown out the pain with bad habits (alcoholism, drug addiction), denial. At this stage, people either “break down” or analyze the reasons for their condition. Sometimes they go to a psychotherapist for an answer.
Third stage: recovery.
Those who managed to pull themselves together and get out of a dangerous turn reach this stage. Recovery provides inspiration for creativity and frees up strength for new relationships.
Fourth stage: maturity.
During this period, a person is at the peak of his capabilities. He becomes the Master, not the Victim: he builds comfortable relationships with others, stops complaining, and feels gratitude for any opportunities.
Fifth stage: satisfaction.
This is the satisfaction of being able to pull yourself together and enter a new stage of life. This is the pleasure that an old problem has been solved and no longer bothers you. In general, people who reach this stage become kinder. Perhaps it comes from wisdom.
This is such an interesting transformation. But to pass it, you will have to work on yourself.
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