What girls like most about sex: forbidden secrets

Only when sex gives pleasure to both partners is it considered productive. It’s more difficult for men, since finding the key to female orgasm is not so easy. You need to know in detail what exactly girls like in bed. Sexologists give some valuable advice about compliments, foreplay, the correct pace of sexual intercourse, sound, attention to her erogenous points and oral caresses.

All these tricks will help warm up her body and activate all the erogenous points that lead to orgasm. Based on this knowledge, a man will be able to build an action plan regarding what to do during sex. Let's also talk about how long sexual intercourse should be, according to women, and what mistakes a man should be warned about in advance.

Kisses

The first thing women like during sex is kissing. They should be part of foreplay, but are also appropriate during intercourse. You don’t need to limit yourself to classic kisses on the lips; you can also kiss:

• neck and ears;
• breast;
• inner thighs;
• the girl's back from the shoulder blades to the tailbone.

And in combination with other types of caresses - stroking and passionate hugs - the foreplay will be even hotter!

Slow undressing4

Everyone knows that women love to tease. This also works when it comes to sex. Being with the “right” man makes a woman feel sexy and desirable. But she likes this growing excitement when the man has not yet managed to take off all her clothes. Believe me, this makes her desire grow exponentially. So, don’t rush to remove everything from her at once. Slow undressing is the key to the hottest sex.

Breast games

Breasts and especially nipples are an erogenous zone for many women. This part of the body is best stimulated through kissing, tongue caress, breathing and fingertips. But you should refrain from more intense stimulation - unless, of course, your partner is one of those who like mild pain during sex.

Women want to be naughty too

Don't think that you are special because you have so many naughty thoughts. Ladies can fantasize about different things too, so let them know your deepest desires. The more comfortable you are with your sexual aspirations and the more you communicate openly and honestly about them, the more likely it is that the lady you like will accompany you on your dirty journey into the depths of your lustful fantasies. Find out what position the woman you like likes to have sex in.

Prelude. Lots of foreplay

If you read the articles in the “Love and Sex” section on Pavel Rakov’s official website, you will find out that girls need 2-3 times more time than men to be completely ready for sex. Long foreplay promotes maximum relaxation of the partner and puts her in the right frame of mind. And the stronger a woman is in the mood for sex, the greater the pleasure she will give to a man!

If you have never spent enough time on foreplay, then use the tips from the article “How to excite any girl and bring the first date to sex.” These methods work flawlessly and have been tested by hundreds of men!

Action plan in bed

Experienced lovers who know how to bring their partner to a true orgasm know what high-quality sex is. If this doesn’t happen or happens only every once in a while, it’s worth going over the basic rules of sex with a woman. Sexologists recommend the following:

• Mood. The main rule of good sex is the absence of negativity, nerves, and stress. Therefore, it is worth working on the emotional background before taking action.
• Strip. Never rush to take off your and your partner’s “uniform” as quickly as possible, and certainly don’t let her undress herself. Undress each other during foreplay and play without rushing.
• Atmosphere. Complete all your affairs, create a cozy nest for both of you so that you feel comfortable in giving yourself passion.
• Rest. Before sexual intercourse, try to rest for at least 1-2 hours, as further actions will require physical effort from both of you. After sex, allow yourself some time together.
• Prelude. Pay due attention to foreplay. On average, they should last from 15 to 30 minutes, act on different erogenous points, as mentioned earlier.
• No talking. During rapprochement, caresses and sex, you should not conduct conversations on any topics. This is not only distracting, but also disrupts the rhythm. Unless you can tell each other erogenous places and sexual fantasies.
• Diversity. Don't get hung up on one action scenario. Surprise her with new positions and places for intimacy. Break away from routine and take the initiative.
• Lubrication. If her vagina doesn't produce enough natural secretions, don't hesitate to use special lubricants. Warming and stimulating agents can be found on sale.
• Sex toys. Various sex stimulants, genital simulators, and vibrators will help you bring new sensations to your sex life. There is nothing shameful in using them; on the contrary, they will greatly enhance the pleasure of intimacy.
• Timing. The best time for sex is morning and evening. In the first case, this is an excellent workout for the body, a time of high concentration of sex hormones. In the second, the partners have completed all their affairs and have more free time for each other.

When a man makes you feel like a sex goddess

It is natural for any person to feel proud that he has succeeded in something. The realization that she managed to bring a man to an enchanting orgasm will please the vanity of any girl. Next time she will come up even more excited and inspired.

Special physiology

Men very often think that the fair sex is much less inclined to have sex than they are, but the fact is that ladies are simply wired differently. For many women, desire does not necessarily precede arousal. They need to be touched, caressed and loved before they have the desire to have sex. So instead of whining about how horny you are, sneak up behind the woman you love and start rubbing her shoulders and down to her waist or try some other kind of fondling. The key to everything is physical contact, so touch your favorite girls! Despite the fact that the question of what kind of sex a woman likes is very subjective, absolutely everyone loves touch.

Hard and fast sex

Alternating long foreplay with quick sex in a fitting room, bathroom in your parents' house or car is sometimes necessary. By the way, it’s worth noting that girls like blows and spanks during hard sex - why not? The main thing here is not to overdo it and not to injure each other.

Orgasm17

Of course, how can you love all of the above things without the main thing - orgasm? This is truly a very important point in a relationship. Many girls really enjoy it when their partner releases his fluids in or on them. Of course, it's exciting as long as you follow her recommendations and take precautions.

Orgasm

Every girl’s own orgasm excites her, but her partner’s “finishing” also gives pleasure to everyone, without exception. Many women welcome ejaculation on their own back, buttocks, breasts, stomach, face or directly into the mouth. Please note that it is better to discuss this and some other similar points in advance.

Forgiving ladies

Women can forgive awkward, partial or non-existent erections and premature ejaculation from the men they are in love with. They may even demonstrate certain acting skills in the name of love by faking an orgasm. The only thing they cannot forgive is the lack of love, tenderness and attention.

Some ladies avoid sex. They simply feel that if they give sex, they will quickly turn into a toy for carnal pleasures.

Thus, some women go without the affection they desire, especially at the beginning of a relationship, to avoid pressure in their intimate life.

Time after sex

The first few minutes after sex are the times that girls love to spend basking in their partner's arms. Do not deny this pleasure to your beloved, this is a very important and intimate moment for her.

As you can see, in order to give a woman maximum pleasure in bed, you don’t need to be a sex guru who can guess other people’s desires at a glance. But let's be honest: knowing what exactly your partner wants will take your intimacy to the next level! If she is not relaxed enough for such revelations, please your beloved with the “Secrets of Women’s Happiness” course. And very soon she will announce her sexual preferences herself!

Men, what turns your significant other on? Share your hottest tips in the comments!

Helpful tips

Women and men have different views on intimate life, which is obvious to the former, but is not taken into account by the latter. There are small tricks that will bring a lady to orgasm:

1. It is advisable to make love in the morning. In the morning, men are more active due to the production of testosterone.
2. It is useful to practice role-playing games. Playful notes will add new emotions to the relationship and allow partners to try on unfamiliar roles. A man can be a superhero, and the rescued girl will not refuse to thank him.
3. You need to tune in to intimacy. It is worth turning off external stimuli that distract from foreplay and sexual intercourse.
4. Learn to feel when your partner reaches orgasm, so that at this moment you don’t slow down.

It is important to feel and understand each other’s hidden desires - this way the relationship will become more trusting, and the couple will not have any prohibitions in sex. You need to talk, otherwise there is no way to understand what your partner wants and whether everything suits him.

Sound accompaniment

Men and women also differ in the expression of sexual feelings. In sex, you need to give free rein to your emotions, accompany the process with moans and screams. Bed is a place where you can throw out emotions and get a release. You should not restrain yourself, no person will like silent sexual intercourse, so the partner will think that he did not give the girl pleasure, and this will damage self-esteem.

READ How to get the most powerful male orgasm

Study her body

Sex life is very important for a couple. A man must give pleasure to his woman, so he should know where her erogenous zones are located. Nature met the male sex halfway and made these places on the female body the most attractive.

Main erogenous zones:

• lips;
• breast;
• nipples;
• genitals;
• language;
• underbelly;
• clitoris;
• navel;
• Feet;
• legs;
• hair;
• neck;
• waist;
• wrists;
• buttocks.

These areas contain receptors responsible for feelings. If a man, caressing any area, does not see a response from a woman, it means that this area is not erogenous for her. Here, too, everything is individual, so the guy must study the female body, slowly moving from one part to another.

A man will always understand from his partner’s reaction that he has found the right spot; at that moment the girl feels bright erotic emotions.

About oral sex

Oral sex is a sensitive issue for some girls. Not all ladies enjoy it, but many are embarrassed to admit it to their partner. And not all men are able to give girls pleasure with the help of oral caresses; this is due to both a lack of experience and a lack of understanding of how to properly caress the clitoris.

A man who still wants to give pleasure to a woman through oral intercourse should start with foreplay. As soon as the woman relaxes, the partner should move from kissing to the neck, then go lower and lower. The most important part of the female genitalia is the clitoris, this organ is very sensitive, and therefore requires careful treatment.

If the partner does everything gently and carefully, then the chosen one’s reaction will not be long in coming. Moans will indicate an approaching orgasm, the girl will begin to arch and move her hips. Watch the reaction, if your beloved flinches, then you are doing something wrong.

Show your masculine qualities

The man must be dominant in sexual intercourse. Many women like their chosen ones to take the initiative and achieve them. Representatives of the fairer sex want to feel welcome.

To do this, guys need:

1. Get rid of the stereotype that women have less sex than men. Ladies get the same pleasure from intimacy.
2. Not only a woman must be beautiful and well-groomed, her partner must also not forget about himself and be attentive to detail.
3. Men who invite young ladies to their territory should first clean up the house. A mess is not the best atmosphere for sex.
4. We must not forget about contraception; we should not shift the responsibility to women.
5. A man should act like a man, not like a high school student. You also need to be able to seduce a woman.
6. Pay attention to your partner's reaction.
7. Before sex, a man should smell nice, for this you can use eau de toilette.
8. It is necessary to remove socks during intimacy.
9. Even after sex, you need to pay attention to the girl.

It is important to be a man in intimate relationships, and not just think about having an orgasm. Sexual intercourse is an intimate dance for two, so the partner's pleasure should come first.

On the importance of orgasm

Men should forget that women like big penises because it is a stereotype. Most often, girls have orgasms with those with medium-sized genitals.

During orgasm, the hormone oxytocin is released into the body, which is responsible for calmness, satisfaction, and also eliminates feelings of anxiety. The body also receives:

• serotonin - a hormone of good mood;
• dopamine – pleasure hormone;
• endorphins, which give a state of bliss and happiness.

Orgasm has a positive effect on the physical, psychological and emotional state of women, so a man should pay as much attention to his partner as possible. A satisfied, happy and calm girl is the best thing that can cheer up her loved one.

Men should perceive sex not only as a physiological need of the body, but also as a special emotional and psychological contact with a girl. Relationships in a couple consist of many aspects, but intimacy plays a big role. If your partner does not experience pleasure from sexual intercourse, it is enough to simply talk and sort out this issue. Know how to hear and listen to your other half, because in intimacy there must be trust.

Long foreplay4

When you see a woman’s body, you shouldn’t immediately go on the offensive. Give her a relaxing massage with oil, give her kisses all over her body. Set the most positive start for the upcoming sex. Girls like longer foreplay, as this allows them to get more excited, and, as a result, reach orgasm faster.

The main thing is the soul

Nice guys are nice to look at, but in any case, good looks will not arouse a girl's interest for more than a few minutes. Your face and body are just a “side dish” to the “main dish.” The main “dish” in a situation that foretells intimacy is how well you can attract a woman so that she feels that she is the center of your universe, at least for a short time. This requires self-awareness and self-confidence. Girls are drawn to the way a guy carries himself, walks and talks, not how much he looks like Brad Pitt.