Are you interested in how to please your wife?
Still from the film “Gone Girl”
Then you have come to the right place - we have a whole collection of ideas especially for you, some of which should definitely suit her taste (because they are really cool).
Moreover, it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been married - 10 days or 10 years, it will never be too early or too late to add variety to your intimate life.
The main condition is to want change and not be afraid of experiments, and decide for yourself what exactly from this list you will try.
Rule #4: When he gets home, he needs fifteen minutes to be alone.
Men love to be alone, even if they deny it. When your husband returns from work, don't rush to the door and dump questions, problems, and assignments on his head. This will only cause irritation, and it will seem to the spouse that he lives with an overly demanding person playing the role of his domineering mother. He may even start deliberately coming home later. Of course, you can greet him with a light kiss, but then leave him alone. The conversation will go better if your husband stays at home for a while, takes a breath and speaks to you himself. He won't be angry, and you'll be glad you waited.
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How to please your wife
Don't forget about the massage
Prelude - like a good aperitif, it will not spoil the main dish, but will only make it even tastier. It’s worth adding a massage to your erotic menu for at least three reasons: firstly, it will relieve tension after a working day, and secondly, pleasant touches automatically put you in an intimate mood. And finally, if done correctly, the partner’s arousal will increase several times.
Create an atmosphere
You know very well how women like candles, beautiful music and pleasant scents, but be honest with yourself, when was the last time you used them? If it’s been a long time, then it’s time to call on them for help to get rid of the routine. The main beauty is that you only need to spend a minute to light the aroma lamp and candles, and also turn on the right playlist. Agree, this is quite a bit?
Do it with your fingers too
Even for the most conservative couples who are wary of various sexual practices, fingering is something they definitely need to try. You can give your wife pleasure with your fingers in several ways: start lightly stroking her hair and body during foreplay, and then stimulate the clitoris with them and penetrate the vagina.
The magical power of cunnilingus
Just because your wife never asked to do it, doesn’t mean she’s categorically against it. It is possible that she is simply shy or has had a bad previous experience. But this does not mean that you should give up on this type of oral sex. Be careful: a little practice and she'll lose her head.
Kisses and caresses
Women's psychophysiological characteristics do not allow them to quickly switch from everyday worries to sex. No matter how much she wants, a woman cannot relax in the blink of an eye and have fun. Like a good musical instrument, it needs to be tuned. This requires foreplay. Tactile sensations will help with this.
You should start with an area of low sensitivity. Play with her curls, stroke her hair. Then cover your neck and fingers with kisses. It is no coincidence that in the 18th and 19th centuries it was customary in secular society to kiss a woman’s hand. Touching the “secret place” behind the ear will make a woman feel aroused.
Moving on to the area of medium sensitivity - chest, back, buttocks - do not stop kissing her lips. Use different techniques: light touching with the tip of your tongue, which can be firm or relaxed, deep penetration, biting.
The “cat’s place,” the area between the shoulder blades, is a conductor of sexual energy. There are many nerve endings here, so it is a sensual part of the female body. Don't bypass it!
A woman's body is much more sensitive than a man's. Stimulation of erogenous points causes a strong desire in a woman. Gentle touches with fingertips, caresses and kisses will prepare her for more active movements.
Stay on your chest. She is a symbol of female beauty, an object of desire for most men. Not all women's breasts react equally to caresses. Some are receptive to kisses, others are not. Many ladies are very responsive to touches in the waist, abdomen, and navel.
When the woman is ready, proceed to the area of high sensitivity - the inner thighs and genitals. Stroke, hug softly, leave a trail of kisses. Caressing these parts of the body will make a woman inflame with passion.
It’s rare, but it still sometimes happens that after getting married, a young woman turns out to be an inexperienced partner and feels shy. In such a situation, a man must be careful and careful.
Many men tend to underestimate the importance of foreplay. And this is their big misconception. For a woman, foreplay is the beginning of the road of joy leading to a sea of pleasure.
Get out of bed - where else can you have sex at home?
Although we talk about how to satisfy your wife in bed, this does not mean that our tips can only be applied in bed. Quite the opposite - changing lovemaking even within the confines of an apartment will help add variety to your sex life. So, let's take a look around - where should you try it?
Shower
You are naked and wet - what could be more conducive to intimacy? You've probably seen actors having sex in the shower more than once - don't you agree, it looks really good? And so that everything goes well for you and everyone is happy, we suggest you read the material about what girls think about it.
Bath
Foam, hot water, the smell of rose or vanilla and a glass of cooling champagne... Try offering your wife such a set after a hard day, and this joint bath will become unforgettable.
Floor
Sex in bed is much more comfortable, but the “sexual version” can also have its charms if you make love passionately and spontaneously. Even, or rather, especially in marriage, sex should be sudden from time to time. In addition, returning to bed after a hard floor will be doubly pleasant.
Kitchen
Why not? There's something about sex on a kitchen table that's taboo and therefore exciting. The main thing is that both before and after you put a naked woman on it, it is clean.
Window sill or balcony
It is quite possible to get adrenaline from sex without leaving home by moving the scene of the main action to a windowsill or balcony (heated, of course). The only request is to do this at night and with the lights off, especially if you plan to continue living in your area.
Chair or armchair
If cowgirl is on your list of favorite positions, then you can experiment with it in a chair. And then try out the modified “doggy style” there - it will be a little different from the usual one.
Standing sex - why not?
Especially if you do it in front of a large mirror.
Charge your partner with positive energy
A man needs to energetically charge his beloved woman and share his positive energy with her. Under no circumstances should you throw negativity at her. Because in return you can get the same thing.
If a man respects a woman, then this attitude will return to him in a greater volume. And if he begins to neglect her or start a “showdown”, then, of course, he will receive the same thing in return.
How to surprise your wife in sex?
Role-playing games
For one of the holidays, you can order your beloved an erotic set or costume, and then there will be a gift for both of you. And you can also try on some interesting role yourself. Plumbing? Robber? Batman? The list is endless because this is your bed and your rules.
Change your style and pace
During the time that you have been together, your wife has probably already gotten to know you well and gotten used to your style of sex. It doesn’t matter whether he is rough and fast or, conversely, slow and gentle. Try the opposite strategy and look at her reaction - it’s never too late to return to the usual, and both of you may well like the new rhythm.
Give her... pearls
Are you planning to please your loved one with a new piece of jewelry? We have an interesting idea: choose a string of pearls. Because it may well give your wife maximum pleasure - both as a classic accessory and as a very interesting sex toy (just don’t forget to disinfect the beads with chlorhexidine).
You need to wrap one end of this thread around your finger and press the other end just below the clitoris. Now begin to pull the thread down so that each bead passes lightly over her clitoris. You can slightly cool the beads in the refrigerator in advance or, conversely, heat them in hot water.
Different angle = different sensations
To quote Ruth Dickinson's Great Sexual Discoveries: “Just turn around! Lie on top of your partner so that your bodies form a cross and continue the friction. The sensation experienced by a woman will be simply magical: your penis overwhelms her, it seems to her ten times larger!”
Get an intimate haircut
Some women are turned on by this. Who knows - maybe your wife is one of them? And if not, then it’s okay - just shave your head there.
Rule #3: Be a team
For a successful marriage, both spouses should remember: you are now one team. Of course, you need to continue to develop your career, communicate with friends, maintain your own hobbies, but now you need to think in terms of a couple, not an individual. Don't act like you're still single: try to take your partner's feelings and thoughts into account. Before you agree to have dinner and go to the movies with your girlfriend - it’s a big deal for me too! - tell your husband. No, you don't need to ask him for permission. What if he wants to watch this movie with you, and then it’s better to choose another movie to meet his friend.
Consider his opinion when purchasing things and making decisions that affect both of you. For example, before you empty your credit card to buy a bedspread and matching curtains, ask if your husband likes such things. Don't think that men aren't interested in this. You'll be surprised to learn that they have opinions about everything from how much time they spend apart to how they decorate their home.
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What to take with you to bed?
And again about toys
We have already told you about what they are and how to choose them. Therefore, let us simply remind you: before purchasing any of them, be sure to find out the opinion of your spouse, because if she is against it, then the money will be thrown away.
Something tasty and something exciting
Eating in bed is good not only while watching your favorite TV series or as a romantic breakfast in bed, but also as an element of foreplay. Dishes with aphrodisiacs, sweetness that you will lick from each other... Who said sex can't be tasty?
Sex on silk sheets you have to try
This can be considered a cliche, but many women dream about it (even if they don’t admit it). By the way, according to a survey by the American retail chain Target Corporation, ladies most like silk sheets in black, red or blue.
A scarf can also be silk
There are several uses: you can blindfold your loved one’s eyes or hands with them, or, with her consent, tie her to the bed. Unlike handcuffs or ropes, a scarf made of this fabric will not leave marks on delicate skin. The main thing is not to tie it too tight.
Are you wearing a tie?
Alternatively, you can easily use your tie. And it will be much better if you don’t make her look for it in the depths of the closet for half an hour beforehand, but take it off yourself. And make it sexy.
Lubricant: something that will change the sensations
Even if you don't think you need a lubricant, it's still worth trying a different one. Edible, with different tastes, warming (with an exciting effect) or one with a prolonging effect. It contains anesthetics that will delay ejaculation, which means making your sex longer than usual.
Attention to your beloved wife
Now we will give advice to men on how to make a woman happy.
It should be said that the girl really needs attention. If she does not receive it, then she begins to think that the man does not love her. And when a guy treats his beloved with attention, he receives kindness, care and tenderness in return. A woman's wishes should not be ignored.
Her emotional background is so unstable that the slightest neglect can ignite a storm of negative experiences in her. When a woman is not given enough attention, she begins to think that this man does not need her. As a result, she is in a bad mood. So how to make a woman happy? The answer is quite simple. Give her more attention.
Three main rules for happy sex
Don't forget that all women are different
We have given you a lot of advice on how to please your wife, but, unfortunately, we cannot tell you which ones she will like the most. Because every woman and her preferences are unique. Exactly the same as men's.
Offer, but don't push
Keeping the first point in mind, do not accidentally turn an attempt to please your wife into a reason for a quarrel. If she doesn’t have the desire/mood/time to experiment, don’t insist too actively—offer her at another time or another option.
Rule #14: Don't complain about your kids.
Your three-year-old son is rolling around in the mud and refuses to wash himself. Your five-year-old daughter doesn't want to eat anything but sweets. Both prevent you from talking on the phone for more than five minutes. You want to tear your hair out in despair and can’t wait for your husband to finally return so you can tell him in every detail what his children did that day. But this is not the best idea.
Instead, call a friend who has children and tell her about your difficult day. She will understand all your hardships and sorrows much better - and maybe even help in some way. Of course, there is nothing wrong with telling your husband how your children behaved. But if you start talking about every prank, every trick, then at some point (believe me!) your husband will simply stop communicating with you and begin to consider you a bad mother.
Sex during pregnancy
If your wife is pregnant, then the first thing you need to do is find out from your gynecologist whether you can make love or should you wait out a certain period. Now the baby’s health is the main thing, so there is no need to take risks.
If there are no prohibitions on sex, then feel free to choose comfortable positions and dare to conquer the heights of pleasure. Remember that too deep penetration and sharp frictions are now unacceptable. Be more gentle than usual and handle your spouse carefully during this important time for both of you. Orgasm will increase blood supply, which will provide an influx of oxygen to the placenta, which is very important for the unborn baby. So the benefits of sexual satisfaction of the spouse are not only moral, but also physical.
Ladies in an interesting position, under the influence of raging hormones, become hypersensitive. They may like something completely new in sex, and their usual erogenous zones may not respond to your touch. In order not to get into trouble in your desire to satisfy your wife in bed, you need to start making love as carefully as possible.
You will show your responsibility and care if you discuss all intimate issues with your wife. Gently find out what she would like from intimacy at the moment and what pranks she would like to try. Now your wife needs positive emotions, so don’t give up trying to give her an orgasm.
