There is no person who is always in a great mood. Even the most inveterate optimists have dark days when nothing looks good. It's hard for any guy to watch if a once cheerful girl suddenly becomes less sociable and smiling. To cheer her up, you should first find out the reasons for the sadness or send her one of the funny, cool phrases in a message.
How to cheer up a girl on VKontakte
There are several ways to improve a lady’s mood if she is sad or bored:
- Wish good morning or day with a card or your favorite song.
- Send a funny video, a cool poem about how being sad is harmful to health and beauty.
- Write a poem of your own composition about love for her, thoughts about meeting, communicating.
- Send a virtual gift with a nice comment.
- Invite to a club, cafe, for a walk, a concert. Tell her that the tickets have already been purchased, all that remains is to wait for her consent.
- Submit a photo of yourself with a stupid expression on your face. You can send two images, where you are serious and funny, and ask them to find the differences.
- Offer to meet a famous person or a friend who has a good sense of humor.
On a note! Do not ask your beloved direct questions about what caused the sadness and melancholy. If she wants, she herself will hint at the need for a frank conversation.
What to write to a girl when meeting on VKontakte: examples of correspondence
Taking into account the female character
The desire to please a girl when she is sad is completely natural. However, when choosing a way to improve your mood, you need to take into account the characteristics of a woman’s character, her preferences and temperament.
If your beloved prefers romantic get-togethers and private time, try the following methods:
- a trip to nature, a picnic, cooking barbecue on an open fire;
- weekend in a country house;
- attending a concert of your favorite performer or orchestra;
- going to the cinema and watching a romantic comedy;
- water treatments in a water park or city pool.
If your beloved loves active recreation and prefers noisy gatherings to solitude, there are also countless ways to lift her spirits. For example, you might suggest:
- go out into nature with a large group, where fishing, catamaran riding, various competitions and other events await;
- organize a party to which she will invite her best friends, select music and menu, and come up with competitions;
- book a table at some night establishment where you can go with a large group;
- go to an entertainment center or park where swings and ice cream will take you back to childhood;
- engage in extreme recreation - skydiving, diving.
Therefore, it does not make much difference which of the above methods you use.
The main thing is to show that she is not alone, you will always come to her aid. In this case, the negative attitude will quickly be replaced by a positive outlook on the world around you.
What to write
Experienced pick-up artists know how to cheer up a girl via correspondence on VK. Take their advice:
- Tell a fresh joke with neutral content, without vulgarity or tricks.
- Ask a witty question that might make her laugh.
- Compliment her appearance while making fun of your flaws.
- Pleasant words. Tell her that you like her face, figure, hobbies.
- Like all the photos on her social media page. Don't forget to please the girl with pleasant comments and emoticons under them.
- It's fun to read a funny poem and make a video. Send it to your beloved.
Examples of jokes
You can cheer up a girl not only with pictures, but also with text. Examples of jokes to cheer up and make your friend laugh:
- “The situation on the market: - Girl, stop twisting this sausage in your hands! It won’t make it any tastier!”
- “A man wants him to always wear a Santa Claus suit when he has a child. Because on New Year’s Day he will take it off, and my father will seem like a miracle.”
- “A girl almost always regrets getting married. After all, everyone feels sorry for a husband with such a gift!”
- “If you let a guy out into the forest, he will bring three kg of berries, if a girl, then she will pick up five kg. But this does not mean at all that if you release both of them into the forest at once, they will collect eight kg of berries.”
Such short stories can not only lift your spirits, but also make your friend laugh a lot. The most important thing is not to choose jokes that the girl will not like. These include immoral jokes, dark humor, crude stories, and so on.
Templates
To avoid guessing how to cheer up a girl with messages, use ready-made templates:
I don’t eat in the morning because I think about us. I don’t eat during the day, I think about us. In the evening I don’t have dinner, I think about us. And I can’t sleep at night! Do you know why? I want to eat))).
Hello! I feel very bad... I can’t love you like that anymore, I’ll have to love you very, very much more.
Don’t call me anymore, don’t write, I won’t be able to talk to you, correspond with you - the doctor forbade me from even looking at sweets!
I prepared a test breakfast: 300 grams of passion, 400 grams of tenderness, 100 kisses and a lot of hugs! Enough for two, a treat? By the way, there are a thousand compliments prepared for dessert.
I took the phone to a repair shop and they said it couldn't be repaired. They don't have one component for this. Do you know which one? Your smile)))
Causes of bad mood
First you need to find out what led to the decline in mood. I will now list the main reasons; they are not always on the surface.
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- Problems at work/school
A person spends most of his time first in educational institutions and then in the workplace. It is not surprising that we take everything that happens there to heart. Problems with superiors, conflicts in the team, heavy workload can seriously spoil your mood.
- Health problems
Health is a very fragile thing, if you neglect it, expect trouble. Naturally, physical illness cannot but affect psychological well-being. If a girl gets sick, your support will help her only in combination with seeing a doctor and eliminating the original cause.
- Dissatisfaction with your appearance
For girls, appearance is a sore point. All you have to do is see yourself in the mirror in poor lighting and that’s it – your day is ruined. All these photoshopped bloggers are adding fuel to the fire. Compared to them, ordinary girls seem flawed.
- Quarrels with loved ones
Conflicts can unsettle anyone, and it is quite natural to feel sad in such a situation. If the person is really close, most likely, reconciliation will come very soon, and the good mood will be restored by itself.
- Fatigue
A common cause of low emotional levels. To enjoy life, you also need energy, and sometimes there is simply nowhere to get it.
We figured out the reasons for the girl’s bad mood, what to do to lift it? First, understand a few points so as not to get into trouble and not aggravate the situation.
- Do not pester the girl with detailed questions, moderate your curiosity. You need to speak and act delicately, without invading its boundaries.
- Don't discount your friend's experiences. There is no need to say that her problems are far-fetched and not worth a damn, that in Africa children are starving and in general we will all die - this is only so-so consolation.
- Don't try to “please” the girl with your problems. She will either get angry at your inattention to her, or begin to worry about them too.
- Don't look for reasons in female physiology. For some reason, many men like to blame all their troubles on PMS or lack of sex. Even if such a thought has crossed your bright mind, do not voice it. With your words you can hurt and worsen an already bad condition.
Images
Funny pictures are the best way to cheer up girls and boys. The following cool images are suitable for sending:
- animals in ridiculous situations;
- jokes with the stars;
- jokes with bright funny illustrations;
- unusual jokes on men;
- cute photos of little children;
- jokes about Russian reality, the life of young people.
- screenshots of correspondence between a guy and a girl.
On a note! Choose the topic for a cheerful message in correspondence carefully. If you don’t know the girl’s character and possible reaction to a harsh joke, you shouldn’t hint at excess weight or women’s shortcomings.
How to make a girl laugh on the phone
Frequent calls have a bad effect on the development of relationships at the very beginning. The guys have only one option - write SMS. If a girl doesn’t want to answer short letters and is sad, you need to make her laugh. Read on to find out how to cheer up a girl over the phone.
SMS
There are several rules that must be followed when communicating with a young lady via SMS:
- Write short messages.
- Be polite.
- Forget about vulgarity.
- Don't touch on sad topics.
- Be affectionate: call your friend Zaya, Darling, Baby. Tenderness will make the girl forget about boredom, she will definitely smile.
- Write an SMS with wishes of a good day, evening, and always before going to bed at night.
- Send compliments: praise your smile, figure, eyes, intelligence, sense of humor, achievements in work, life.
- Send funny sayings of sages and famous personalities. Take note of quotes from conversations with Faina Ranevskaya, Mikhail Zhvanetsky, Bertrand Russell and others. Aphorisms can be found on the Internet, Google.
- Any girl will appreciate a poem of her own composition. Don’t appropriate other people’s poems from the Internet, try to put the words into a beautiful confession or joke yourself.
Communication with emoticons
A friend should be invited to take part in an unusual challenge. This is a game that can take your mind off your problems and have fun. You need to write to the person that for the next 20 minutes of correspondence you will communicate only with emoticons. It will be difficult for friends at the very beginning. However, after five minutes people will already get used to it.
You can use emoticons to tell how your day went. They also reflect a person’s mood well. You should try to understand your friend. After this challenge, you need to ask about your impressions. 90% of sad people become cheerful after playing this game. Therefore, the method is suitable for a person who is interested in how to cheer up his best friend.
In some cases, emoji can be supplemented with simple words. This must be done if people find it difficult to perceive such images.
