The more attractive the girl, the more difficult it is to surprise her with anything. They didn't give her any kind of compliments. What kind of pick-up phrases did she hear? What should I tell her? How to attract her attention and stand out from the gray mass of her admirers?
You need to learn how to skillfully conduct dialogue. Give her interesting topics for conversation, ask questions that she would like to answer.
She should be interested in you. During the conversation, you should find common ground, and a note should appear in her head next to your name: “Not an idiot. We continue checking. So far the results are satisfactory.”
Start the conversation with one of the questions below. Don’t remain silent, actively participate in the dialogue, but let the girl take on the role of speaker.
Are you ready for the big game?
Then we begin!
What can you ask a girl to interest her?
Flirting is a complex science that should be based not only on sexual interest, but also on intellectual one. Prepare a list of questions in advance that could amuse the girl and present you to her as a sincere interlocutor.
Question options:
- How do you feel about me wanting to ask you out on a date?
- How long have you been on a date? Do you want to refresh your memories?
- I had a dream that I invited you for a walk. Do you think he is prophetic?
- Do you believe in destiny? I started believing after I met you.
- I read in the horoscope that romantic adventures await me today. Do you believe horoscopes?
- I would like to invite you for coffee, but I don't know how. Can you help?
- Tell me, how many digits are in your phone number? What are they?
- Do you have any hobbies or are you just looking for something interesting?
- Skinny become your hobby
- You know, I have always considered myself a worthy photographer, would you like to be my fashion model?
- Does your computer work well? I'm a master at reinstalling systems, didn't you know?
- What would you like to receive as a gift? What can I do to please you?
- How do you feel about active recreation? Let's relax together?
- Have you already thought about how to spend this evening? I can give you a couple of ideas.
- What are your plans for the next evening, week, life?
- Girl, don't you need a very interesting and gentle interlocutor?
- How long have I waited for you just to ask how you are doing? Forever!
- Have you got a dream? Do you want me to give it to you?
- Do you often do crazy things? Maybe we can have some fun?
- You are happy? Otherwise, I can give you happiness.
How to interest a girl in a conversation? What should I ask her?
About relationships and love
If you don’t know what to ask a girl about in correspondence, move on to the topic of love and relationships. Ladies love to carry on conversations on personal topics. A conversation about relationships helps to get to know your interlocutor and establish close contact.
- Do you often fall in love?
- Did you confess your love first?
- Do you know what unrequited love is?
- Is romance a necessary part of a relationship or can you do without it?
- Can you call first after a fight with a guy?
- If a man cheats, will you forgive him?
- Do you believe in horoscopes?
- Does friendship between a man and a girl exist?
- The ideal guy, what is he like?
- Do you believe in love at first sight?
How to ask a girl you like about her age?
The question of age for a woman can be very delicate and therefore such questions should be asked very carefully, without wanting to offend her.
Question options:
- Are you old enough to kiss me back?
- You look so confident and beautiful that it seems to me that you are older than me, isn’t that true?
- Will you tell me how old you are in my ear?
- If you were brave, would you admit how old you are?
- You look so good, so fresh and young, that I can’t even tell how old you are. Will you confess?
- I know it's tactless, but you definitely don't have to worry about it. How old are you?
- How old are you? Don’t be shy, I just want to know how many more years we can spend together with you.
- I’m embarrassed to ask how old you are, but I want to know: are you ideal for me or should I deviate from the ideal?
- If you don’t tell me how old you are, I’ll have to torture you with caresses for a very long time. Do you want this?
- How old are you? If you don't want to talk, at least give me a hint. I believe your every word.
How to communicate with a girl correctly to interest her?
During the day
She had worked for several hours and was a little tired. Tell her how beautiful and smart she is. This will charge her with positivity and lift her spirits. Now is the time to provide support and show attention and care, which will confirm the seriousness of your feelings.
- “I can’t concentrate on work. I think about the most wonderful girl in the world that I was lucky enough to meet.”
- “All day long I feel the pleasant smell of your perfume, hear your melodic voice, feel your gentle touches. I think I'm sick of you."
- “Every time I look forward to our meeting to spend time with an intelligent and charming beauty.”
- “It’s raining outside, probably because you’re sad. Give people joy - smile."
- Encourage her, for example, with an offer to go shopping with her on the weekend: “I hope you will be pleased with the purchase of a new dress. I promise to go around all the stores and patiently choose things for you. Let's spend a pretty penny. You deserve it, my hard worker."
- "You're the best. Always remember this."
- “Brilliant, gorgeous, kind, smart, charismatic, special, loved. Sending you a million kisses and good mood.”
- “Let everything work out in your hands, my hardworking bee. And if problems suddenly happen, I am ready to protect you from any trouble and misfortune.”
- “You are my guiding star, illuminating my thorny path in life. Your advice and your support are so important to me. I want to remain forever in your sweet captivity.”
How to ask a girl you like if she has a boyfriend?
When starting a relationship, it is important to make sure that the woman is free and open to new relationships. You should ask such questions very delicately, so as not to offend your interlocutor, and most importantly, not to “scare her away.”
Question options:
- I'm wondering if this woman is lonely or if I have a chance to win your attention?
- Most likely you have a boyfriend, but maybe I'm wrong?
- Let me ask you if the heart of such a beautiful girl is occupied?
- Tell me, is your heart busy? By chance, not by me?
- Oh, how I would like to live in your heart and thoughts. This is wrong?
- You have a boyfriend? Otherwise, I have a feeling that there already is and it’s definitely me.
- Can I ask you one important and exciting thing: are you free? I am ready to fight for every second of my freedom.
- You have a boyfriend? Stop! Do not answer! I don't want to know, I just want to fight.
- You have a boyfriend? It’s just important for me to know, will I have a chance to fight for you?
- Tell me, do I have a chance to win you away from the guy?
- Girl, don’t you need a guy you love? Very loyal and gentle, by the way.
- Girl, I like you so much that I’m ready to forget that you’re married.
- You really want to become your soulmate that you don’t even care whether your heart is busy or not. I hope it's free?
- Girl, can you leave your boyfriend for me?
- Can I give you everything in this world and everything that your “ex” boyfriend couldn’t give you?
How to start communicating with a girl? Flirting rules
Topics for conversation
There are a lot of topics, so choosing the right one for yourself will not be difficult:
- Live nature;
- journalism;
- astrology;
- fortune telling, predictions, magic;
- hobby;
- needlework;
- floriculture;
- humor;
- story;
- painting;
- music;
- movie;
- literature;
- photo;
- cosmetics;
- hair, face and body care;
- perfumery;
- diets;
- accessories;
- boutiques;
- shoes;
- cloth;
- fashion events;
- children;
- Pets;
- garden Garden;
- attractions;
- trips;
- present;
- rest;
- holidays;
- self improvement;
- psychology of communication;
- psychology of love;
- psychology of relationships;
- trainings/tests;
- esoterics;
- Mystic;
- souvenirs;
- sex (18+);
- Sport and health;
- weight loss and weight loss;
- room design;
- sewing.
How do I ask a girl I like if she likes me?
If you decide to win a girl’s heart, you need to make sure that the girl is not indifferent to you. Asking this directly can be quite difficult, so it is important not to frighten a woman with your “direct pressure” and at the same time attract her to you.
Question options:
- Do you like me? After all, I really like you.
- I feel like I'm falling in love with you, do you like it?
- I can’t stop thinking about you, I hope you like me too?
- I hope you feel the same way I do?
- How I like you! Goosebumps! Does this happen to you?
- I can’t stop thinking about you, what do you think this is?
- You are stuck not only in my heart, but also in my head. Don't YOU feel the same?
- What do you think I want to hear most now? The answer is simple, I want to know that you like me.
- I tried so hard to please you, I hope I succeeded?
- What else do I need to do to please you?
- I'm ready to do anything to earn your sympathy, haven't I succeeded yet?
- I want to please you and be the object of your affection. Is this possible?
- How much I am attracted to you, I guess I am not so attracted to you?
- Who do you think you like more: you or me?
- Do you know what I dream about? - I like you!
- I want all your thoughts and desires to come down to me and I will achieve this, do you doubt it?
- I didn't want anyone as much as you. Have you ever felt this way?
- Baby, I like you and it excites me. Do you think this will last long?
- I can’t help it, you’ve taken up residence in my head. Do you want me to send you away? But, I wouldn't want to.
- I like you, but can I count on such reciprocity?
How to attract a girl's attention? Flirting rules
Romantic questions5
- Which love story that actually happened do you think is the best?
- What do you think the best romantic trip looks like?
- What nickname would you affectionately call me?
- What do you think the perfect romantic gift should look like?
- What was it about me that first attracted you?
- What did you think of me when you saw me for the first time?
- Do you prefer a good hug or a good kiss?
- What does your ideal date look like?
- What makes you happiest in a relationship?
- Name your favorite romantic song.
- Would you like a big, luxurious wedding or a small and modest one?
- How did you feel when we first kissed?
- What is your idea of a perfect honeymoon?
- Tell me what you find attractive? Just let it be something you haven’t told anyone about yet.
- Which kisses do you like more: passionate or tender?
- Guess what I like most about you.
- How do you prefer a guy to show his feelings?
- Do you like hearing how beautiful you are?
- In a relationship, do you value conversations or sex more?
- What was the most romantic date you were taken on?
How to ask a girl you like her phone number?
Some guys are embarrassed to ask for a girl's phone number, and thereby miss the opportunity to make a romantic acquaintance. Unobtrusive and positive questions, based on all the rules of “successful flirting,” can help with this.
Question options:
- Girl, I lost your phone number and it's the worst thing that ever happened to me. Can you help me remember it?
- Girl, if I had your phone number, I would probably be the happiest! Won't you make me happy?
- You know, today is my birthday and you can give me the best gift in life - your phone number.
- I know it's not original, but I'm so impressed by you that I don't want to miss the opportunity to meet you. Would you mind leaving me your phone number?
- Girl, I’m ready to agree that you give me the full phone number, forgetting to give one number. And then I will prove that I can reach you on the phone. Will you make me happy?
- To be happy, I only need two things: your name and phone number. Will you help me become happy?
- What a pity that we don’t have mutual friends. I would definitely get your phone number, but now I just have to beg you to give it to me.
- If I had one wish that could come true, it would be your phone number. Don't know where to find the nearest magic genie?
How to ask a girl for a phone number beautifully?
How to ask a girl you like how many boyfriends she's had?
Such questions are very intimate and not every girl will want to talk about this with a man, and if you have the opportunity not to ask about the number of guys, it’s better not to do it. However, if you want to test the sincerity of feelings or learn more about the person you are in a relationship with, ask the question in a humorous or sensitive manner.
Question options:
- I understand that I’m not your first man, but, to be honest, I would like to know how many guys you had before me. Won't you share with me?
- Let's talk to you about intimate topics? I’ll confess to you how many girls I’ve had, and you’ll tell me how many guys you’ve had.
- I love you very much, but one obsessive question does not leave my head: how many boyfriends did you have before me? Believe me, I won't be angry or jealous. I just want to know more about you.
- It seems to me that you are still such a heartbreaker! Admit it, how many men’s hearts have you already broken before me?
- You are so charming that I have no doubt that men adore you. This is true? Have you enjoyed popularity and male attention? Have something to brag about?
How to ask a girl a question on an intimate topic?
Questions about family9
- How much time do you spend with your family?
- Who in your family do you most enjoy spending time with?
- Are you close to your family?
- Who in your family are you closest to?
- How would you describe your family now?
- What's your favorite family tradition?
- Have you ever wished you were raised differently?
- Have you ever hidden anything from your parents or lied to them?
- Would you like to have more brothers/sisters?
- If you started a family business, what would it be?
- Does your family have affectionate nicknames for each other?
- What is the most important holiday in your family?
- What would surprise your family the most if they found out about you?
- How do you deal with family disputes?
- What is more important to you: family or friends?
How to ask a girl in an original way “how are you”, “how are you living”?
It can be quite difficult to interest the girl you like. To do this, you should use the entire arsenal of jokes, beautiful words and compliments.
Options for unusual questions to start a conversation:
- How is my queen doing?
- Beauty, how are you doing sweetly?
- Hello! What does the queen of my heart do?
- I miss you so much, it’s important for me to know how you are doing. Tell me soon!
- What's new in your life, baby?
- As soon as I saw you, my head immediately began to boil with a bunch of questions: how are you? Where are you? What's new? Tell me everything!
- How are you Tell me immediately!
- How are you, what's new? I'm listening to you carefully!
What's a cool thing to ask a girl?
If you want to cheer up a girl you care about, try using your sense of humor and ask her a couple of “interesting” questions.
Question options:
- Did you miss me? Answer truthfully, I know I missed you!
- I was told that you missed me. This is true?
- You know, I didn’t understand this, but now I thought: damn, I miss you! And you?
- Hello! Tell me, how many times did you think about me until we saw each other?
- Be honest, do I come to you in your dreams every night?
- I was blessed with great happiness here. That's not you?
- Did you know that your eyes can talk? I can clearly hear the words: “I’m glad to see you.”
- Girl, aren't you missing me?
- Girl, I’m sure that a meeting with you was written in my horoscope today. Do you believe horoscopes?
- I’m going to buy flowers, but I don’t know for whom. Is this you, by any chance?
- Girl, what flowers do you like? I want to meet you, but I’m afraid I won’t get the bouquet right.
- Girl, do you like delicious chocolates? I want to buy a huge box in honor of our acquaintance and I’m worried that maybe you like marmalade.
- Do you have a love song in your headphones? The thing is, I want to listen too. Will you give me one earphone?
How to start dating a girl with an unusual question?
What to ask a girl to get to know her better?
Some questions that a guy can ask a girl will allow you to learn better and more about your loved one.
Question options:
- Can you tell us something interesting about yourself?
- Tell me what kind of girl you were as a child: obedient or mischievous?
- Try to surprise me with some fact from your personal life. Have something to brag about?
- Admit it, you are still that girl, do you have any interesting stories from your life?
- I’m sure you’ve had a lot of adventures in your life that you’re not ready to tell everyone about. But, to me, do you dare?
- You are so interesting! What do other people say about you?
- Do you think you have a funny personal story?
Questions to start a conversation
- Where did you grow up?
- What is more important to you: appearance or intelligence?
- What moment in your life will you never forget?
- What is your idea of a perfect weekend?
- Are you superstitious?
- What can lift your mood almost instantly?
- Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
- What's your favorite day of the year?
- If you only had a week to live, what would you do?
- How do you prefer to spend your weekends: at home or going somewhere?
- Name one thing without which you cannot imagine your life.
- What would you do if you were the last person on Earth?
- What word do you hate?
- Would you prefer a holiday in the mountains or at the sea?
- What will you choose: love or money?
- If you could invite five people to dinner, living or dead, who would you invite?
- What was the last thing you dreamed about?
- If you could start a music group, what kind of group would it be?
- Imagine it's your 75th birthday. How do you imagine him?
- What would you do if you found yourself in Russia in the 20s of the last century?
- What situation initially seemed terrible to you, but in the end turned out to be a win for you?
- What's your favorite word?
- If you could choose a decade to grow up in, what would you choose?
- What was the first concert you attended in your life?
- If you could live in any city on Earth, what city would it be?
- The stupidest thing you've ever spent money on.
- Could you go a whole day without your phone?
- If you were an alcoholic, what kind would you be?
- What one thing would you take with you to a desert island?
- If you didn't have to work, what would you do with your life?
