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- What gestures of sympathy are there?
- Searching for truth in a glance
- Visual body language of men
- Visual sign language of women
- Hidden gestures of sympathy
- Body language of a man who is interested in a girl
- Nonverbal gestures of girls
- Gestures of a man in love
- Gestures of a woman in love
- Gestures that show lack of interest
In addition to the ability to express our thoughts through speech, we have a non-verbal expression of emotions - this is the language of gestures, glances, and facial expressions. People are not able to control all non-verbal emotions, therefore, in order to find out the true feelings of a person, you can use reading these signs.
What gestures of sympathy are there?
The main part of gestures of sympathy is known to everyone. Representatives of the fairer sex use the same gestures when preening themselves. And men do the same: they straighten their clothes, touch their hair, look into their eyes longer than usual.
Girls, like the stronger sex, use this gesture: they hide their thumbs. But they do it more gracefully - they hide their finger in their pocket or purse.
Excitement is indicated by blush on the cheeks and enlarged pupils. But let's look at nonverbal signs in more detail.
Searching for truth in a glance
To figure out whether a person sympathizes with you or not, you need to carefully look for the truth in his gaze. A person's eyes will be clear if he truly likes you.
There are hidden and overt forms of showing interest. If a person openly demonstrates sympathy, then respect is noticeable in his gaze. The eyes are open wide, and the stronger the sympathy, the more the pupils dilate.
People use hidden expressions of sympathy if they are afraid of disappointment or deception. But, despite the fear, he is trying to somehow contact you, observe or watch. The hidden sympathetic gaze is different: a person looks at a person he is interested in furtively, so as not to be noticed. If eyes meet, he immediately looks away. But from the outside, such behavior is very noticeable.
The views of the different sexes are quite different. Women are more resourceful. They are the ones who know how to “shoot” with their eyes and play “staring contest”.
Psychology of male behavior
Men are not as decisive and courageous as girls.
For a long time they hesitate to admit their sympathy and take the first step. For days, weeks and months they circle around the object of attraction without making any confession. And at this time the girl is at a loss as to whether he needs her or not. Just as it is not easy for a man to understand the woman he loves, it is not easy for girls to unravel the true motives that guide guys. Unfortunately, those who talk a lot and for a long time about love, choosing unearthly phrases, most often lack sincerity. Most likely, they are pursuing some goal in relation to the lady. A person truly in love will not trumpet what worries his mind and heart.
If a man likes a woman, he behaves openly and involuntarily reveals secret feelings through manners and gestures. Some secrets of psychology and observing a guy will help you draw a conclusion for yourself: whether you are loved or not.
It is not difficult to understand that a woman really likes a man. The fair sex are emotional creatures, and the presence of sympathy for a guy is immediately revealed. Sometimes it seems to them that they are in love with insensitive blockheads who do not show reciprocity towards them. Men are actually not as complex individuals as they seem at first glance. Watching them, you come to the understanding that, without saying a word, with the help of non-verbal signs they reveal the essence of the feelings and experiences they are experiencing.
An attentive lady will understand how a man in love behaves if he really likes a woman. In rare cases, guys tend to confess their love or sympathy. They hide the feelings they experience for a long time and carefully until they are convinced of their reciprocity and resort to other active actions. But if your heart is set on some subject who is in no hurry to open up, and you are overcome by doubts about his feelings, take a close look at him.
A man’s behavior, voice and gaze will reveal the secret of his true experiences.
Visual body language of men
To understand the visual body language of men and notice interest, it is important to note the direction of their gaze. Anyone who is interested in you looks you up and down. First, the man notices the general attractiveness, then lowers his eyes, lingers on the chest and hips, and after a while looks at them again.
If a certain representative of the stronger sex shows sympathy, this can be seen by the frequency of glances and the enlargement of the pupils.
Liking test
How can you tell if a young man likes you? A test or, rather, an experiment will help you understand your feelings and the situation. Carry out the following simple tasks that will lift the “veil of secrecy”.
Of course, they cannot confirm or refute your assumption about the presence of sympathy with an absolute guarantee, but you will be able to think through a strategy of behavior.
Request for help
To understand the guy’s level of interest, try breaking, for example, a pencil and asking the young man to sharpen it (you might “accidentally” drop an earring, for example). If a guy agrees to help you without persuasion, we can talk about his sympathy.
Sight
This test is associated with such a psychological feature as mirroring the movements of a sympathetic interlocutor. Catch a man's gaze and immediately look at the clock, then look at the man again. If he also turned his gaze to your watch, and then began to look at you again, this is another sign of interest in your person.
"Provocation"
The next test is a bit like a provocation, but there is nothing you can do to find out whether a young man cares about you. Come up with a story that you and your friend were going to the cinema, but in the end you were left without a companion. If a guy likes you, he will offer his company without further ado.
There should not be too many such experiments, otherwise the young man will understand that you are testing him. Who knows how he will react to such “testing”.
Visual sign language of women
But women have a different visual body language. The weaker sex looks furtively. If a woman meets the eyes of a man she likes, she often looks like a thief who was caught in the act. She hides her gaze and blushes.
Among representatives of the fairer sex, it is considered correct to look at the object of sympathy in secret. But experienced ladies behave more confidently. They are also embarrassed, but after averting their eyes, they return their gaze again, accompanied by a smile.
Unlike representatives of the stronger sex, ladies examine a man they like from the bottom up. This direction has a double meaning. Initially, the girl gathers her courage before looking into the eyes. In addition, the meeting of views plays a serious role.
Learning to distinguish different views of men
How to accurately determine whether a man likes a woman? It is necessary to understand the shades of the male gaze. You can tell a lot about a man's feelings just by eye contact.
Intimate
The look of a man seeking sexual satisfaction is full of passion and desire:
- Smoothness is the main characteristic. The gaze seems to glide over the female body. While studying the figure, the man showers him with compliments, trying to win favor with him. His gaze is hazy, his pupils are dilated, and a barely noticeable smile wanders across his face.
- Focusing on specific parts of the body. A man's gaze stops at a woman's breasts, legs, lips, buttocks, and waist. The look into the lady's eyes is short, fleeting and necessary only in order to get a complete picture of what he saw. Everything here speaks about one thing - sexual attraction.
Flirting
If a man likes a girl outwardly, his gaze will be flirting.
It is characterized by:
- Concentration on the face: the guy only occasionally runs his eyes over the female figure, paying main attention to her face. It is important for him to feel the lady’s emotional response in response to his words, jokes, actions, after which he will draw certain conclusions for himself and make a decision.
- Sparkling look. There are lights in the eyes. A woman only needs to answer her partner correctly, and their relationship can develop into great love.
Loving
A man rewards with a loving gaze the woman for whom he has sincere feelings:
- An attentive, persistent look indicates the beginning of love. The man really liked the girl, he doesn’t take his eyes off her, catches every word, is attentive. Eye contact is direct, confident, not fluent.
- Dilated pupils are another proof that the strong half of humanity is in love. The pleasure of communicating and contemplating a beautiful girl will inevitably affect the size of the pupils: these are the consequences of a hormonal surge.
Languid eyes
A languid look in men manifests itself when the object of adoration is nearby. He looks at you devotedly, swallowing every phrase, and a dreamy smile wanders across his face, as if the guy is under the influence of drugs.
You can find yourself surrounded by languid male eyes after your first kiss or first lovemaking. As they get used to each other, the gaze will disappear, but may return in moments of lust.
Hidden gestures of sympathy
Each of us has a personal set of gestures that are used to attract the attention of the object. Hidden gestures of sympathy are interesting.
As it turned out earlier, the body language of the two sexes is too different. Of course, women's gestures are varied. At the same time, there are many universal signs that are inherent in representatives of the two sexes for hiding or showing emotions.
If a person doubts the reciprocity of feelings, then gestures acquire a certain caution. In this case, if you intentionally or inadvertently touch your secret admirer, he will withdraw his hand. It’s easy to explain this behavior: the person hides his feelings, avoids contact with you, because... afraid of not being able to cope with emotions and giving them away.
How to tell if he likes you in special situations
All people are different, as are the situations in which we find ourselves. Therefore, a sympathy indicator that works for a married man will not work for a best friend. To understand whether a mature man, a stranger, or a colleague at work likes you, you need to pay attention to special little things in his behavior.
Stranger
It is not difficult to determine the sympathy of a stranger. He will try to see each other more often or systematically come into the field of view of the object of desire. A guy in love will start going to the bus stop at the same time as you, in order to be together at least for a while, running in the park when you let the dog out for a walk.
The guy will make every effort to distinguish himself from the crowd. He will talk louder, trying to drag you into his emotional conversation. He will do everything to be noticed, and then from time to time he will cast tender glances in the direction of the young lady he likes. The brave will even smile.
For a stranger, the same signs of gallantry will be evidence of sympathy. He will offer his hand when exiting a minibus, give up his seat in the transport, or close the window so that you don’t get the wind. Such actions may also be a sign of good upbringing, so it is important to observe how he treats other representatives of the fair sex. If it’s exactly the same, then there’s no point in attributing romantic overtones to actions.
If he hides his feelings
When a guy hides his feelings, he behaves unnaturally: he may blush, become constrained, or, on the contrary, become more emotional and twitchy. If he is shy and wants to hide his sympathy, he will demonstratively flirt with others and avoid looking in your direction, even when you are telling something and are the center of attention.
Some shy men, in order to hide their emotions, go to extremes: they become deliberately rude and dismissive with the woman they like if you do not communicate. They may make caustic jokes, try to offend or humiliate. This should be regarded as a sign if the guy does not behave this way with others and rudeness is not typical for him.
To a young guy
In a young guy, signs of sympathy appear at the level of instincts, using body language. First of all, this is physical attraction to the girl: he tries to be closer, to touch. Interest is also evident in his pose: his legs are spread wide apart, while the guy sticks out his groin slightly. His fantasies about the girl are also indicated by the fact that he adjusts his belt and hooks his thumb on the belt loop on his jeans or trousers. Unconsciously, the guy turns his torso towards the girl, even if he is looking in the other direction.
To a grown man / older than you
An adult man shows sympathy in a completely different way than a young guy. He becomes attentive, caring, remembers everything the girl says. The bachelor pays compliments and looks after the girl without being embarrassed by others. His behavior resembles friendly communication, which can be confusing. It is worth paying attention to the fact that his friends do not flirt with you because they know that the man’s intentions are serious. A man will quickly say about his desire to be together, so you won’t have to guess for a long time about his feelings.
For a married man
When unraveling secret signs from a married man, you need to be careful: maybe this is his usual behavior or he just wants to be polite. A married man tries to be close to you as much as possible, and during conversations he often compares you to his wife, but he hides his feelings. He shows signs of jealousy and possessiveness, inviting him to the cinema, to an exhibition or to a cafe, although he could go there with his wife. During a conflict at home, he calls you and asks for support and advice.
To the boss/male boss/manager
Flirting on the part of the boss should not be taken seriously: only compliments and smiles do not indicate his disposition. He tries to build relationships with his subordinates and feels like a master, so he allows himself liberties in communication.
You can guess his feelings by frequent calls at odd hours on trivial matters. He will set you apart from others: give you concessions, and not deprive you of a bonus due to being late. At the same time, it will not be possible to leave work early: on the contrary, the man will come up with reasons for you to stay late, to be left alone with you when the rest of his colleagues leave.
The boss may begin to behave in a biased and rude manner: load you with work so that you have no time for your personal life and find fault. Such signs appear if you did not notice his disposition or with a random word made it clear that you are busy and do not want a relationship. He will treat you in a special way, but not in all cases the treatment will be good.
Work colleague
Office romances begin gradually: sometimes it is difficult to see the line between when you are good colleagues and when you are already together as a couple. The man tries to ensure that your work schedules coincide, but is in no hurry to admit his feelings. If you were left on duty on a day off, he will volunteer to keep you company.
During conflict and controversial situations, he is always on your side, even if you are wrong. A man often asks for help, discussing not only work, but also personal matters. He is looking for an excuse to meet outside of work, calling on the weekend, using the excuse.
Womanizer
A man will avoid trivial compliments like “fish” or “honey” if he treats you in a special way. His behavior becomes atypical for a womanizer: he stops using social networks and texting, and also becomes indifferent to other women. A man becomes more reserved and a little thoughtful when communicating. If he really likes a girl, then he feels awkward when he applies his seduction techniques to her.
Husband's friend
Your husband's friend is unlikely to openly express his feelings, so as not to compromise your spouse for a showdown. The situation on his part is extremely unpleasant.
The man will try to express sympathy with facial expressions and gestures. But from the outside she will seem friendly. Any upcoming feast can dot all the “e”s. Alcohol will loosen the tongue, and the person will no longer be able to control emotions. Here it is important to be extremely delicate so as not to destroy the friendship of men and preserve the family. Gusts of jealousy from your spouse will not bring anything good.
Ex-boyfriend
After a breakup, people stop all communication. They try to throw each other out of their lives and continue searching for new love. When your ex starts being active again—texting, commenting on photos on social media, or even calling—it’s worth thinking about. Most likely, he has not forgotten you and wants to return you.
A man may try to make you jealous. He will try to catch your eye in the company of pretty girls, post photos with them on social networks, or have mutual acquaintances tell you about his adventures. In fact, this is just a desire to piss you off so that you realize that you can lose him forever, and decide to return.
If a man likes a woman, his ex will never miss special dates in your life, appear at your birthday party or congratulate you on March 8th. He will do everything possible not to lose contact with you, constantly reminding you of his person.
Friend's husband
You may feel sympathy even from your friend's husband. Such attention can play a cruel joke. The man will be sweet and attentive, and will begin to praise you in front of his wife. An extremely unpleasant situation may arise when, during a feast, he compliments you and not his wife. And everyone will notice it. This behavior can destroy not only your friend's marriage, but also your friendship with her. There is only one way out of the situation - to communicate with a friend without her husband.
Body language of a man who is interested in a girl
At the subconscious level, the body language of a man who likes you is expressed like this. First, he tries to attract the attention of the girl he likes by simply preening himself. This is an instinct from nature: the guy will begin to straighten his hair, straighten his tie, collar, jacket. These are movements at the subconscious level, even when a person hides feelings.
Representatives of the stronger sex often hide their thumbs behind their belts. Even if a man is just standing, and his body is turned towards a pretty lady, then the toe of his foot is certainly directed in her direction. Often when talking to pretty women, they put their hands in their pockets, leaving their thumbs outside. This is obvious evidence that he is interested in your person, and he is trying to make a good impression.
Summarizing
So, while communicating with the man you liked, you made several valuable comments for yourself. Let's say you noted how naturally he conducted the conversation, from which we can conclude that this person feels easy and free next to you. But, alas, they did not notice that during the conversation he kept his arms crossed on his chest, and his gaze most often wandered around the room. Or you caught his long, dreamy gaze, considering this an unequivocal recognition, and at that moment he simply became thoughtful.
In order not to become a victim of your rich imagination and not to indulge yourself with vain illusions about the object of sympathy, you need to be patient and carefully analyze all the facts. Remember: each behavioral feature should be interpreted in conjunction with others that are no less important. Observe him in various situations, come up with several reasons for communication and topics for conversation if he does not approach you. And when you have firm confidence that he likes you, but for some reason he cannot say it directly, feel free to take the initiative into your own hands, casting aside all doubts.
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Nonverbal gestures of girls
If there is a handsome man nearby, then the girl’s nonverbal gestures consist of adjusting her makeup, clothes, and touching her curls for no apparent reason. One of the clearest indicators of sympathy is the display of wrists.
When walking, girls swing their hips sexually, showing off their charms. Although this point is worth paying attention to when there are other signs. Many representatives of the fairer sex do this unconsciously and just like that, even in the presence of men who are not interesting to them.
During an informal meeting with a handsome man, informal gestures become very frank. This also applies to the case when there are “competitors” nearby, that is, other ladies. The girl will try to sit down so that you notice her slender legs. Typically, a cross-legged position is used, but the knees are directed towards the interesting man.
During a conversation, women swing a shoe, holding it on their toes, and when it does fall off, this is a clear sign of flirting. If a girl shows a frank look along with a “suddenly” fallen strap, a half-removed shoe and sits with one leg on the other, you can be sure that she is ready to flirt. A clear sexual appeal is parted and moisturized lips.
If a man is close to a girl who is interested in him, he will notice how she slowly crosses her legs and then switches their places. She may “inadvertently” touch her thighs or breasts. The voice acquires a low timbre and becomes muffled.
Is it true that the look of a person in love changes?
A man in love becomes straight in his gaze and lingers on the woman longer than usual.
When we fall in love, a powerful hormonal surge occurs in the body. We try with all our might and means to interest the object of our adoration, to capture his attention, thoughts, body, we want to spend every minute next to him. Seeking reciprocity, people in love change their appearance, go on a diet, go to the gym, and take up new hobbies.
At the same time, they observe their passion, note her reaction to her actions. A guy in love directs his gaze towards the girl, watches how she communicates with colleagues/friends, moves, laughs, dances, how her appearance, clothes or manners have changed.
A man in love becomes straight in his gaze, lingers on the woman longer than usual, his eyes seem to shine, “sparkles” flicker in them.
Gestures of a man in love
It doesn’t matter whether it’s your first meeting or date, or whether you’ve started a relationship, but when an object of adoration appears on the horizon, all men act according to the same pattern. They try to attract the lady's attention. To summarize, the gestures of a man in love look like this:
- he preens himself unconsciously. Automatically, he retracts, straightens, straightens, his gait acquires lightness, becomes sporty, and his eyes light up. He straightens his hair, tie or shirt. In just a few seconds, he even becomes visually younger;
- puts his fingers behind the belt. In this action, a sexual manifestation of interest in a woman, even closer to an animal, is 100% noticeable;
- long look. His gaze “gets stuck” on specific areas longer than usual. If a guy is truly interested, then his pupils are always dilated when looking at you. Direction of gaze – from top to bottom;
- head tilt. Trying to show his best side, the man tilts his head back slightly, lifting his chin;
- becomes almost close and blocks. The guy approaches the girl, as if blocking her from others. This is a manifestation of the possessive instinct of a person in love;
- copying. The young man copies your gestures, position, and head movements. He can copy intonations.
How to tell a guy looking at you that you like him too
Perhaps you see a guy you like often. But you don’t know how you can reciprocate any of his signs of attention. Here are some things you can do without being too revealing.
- Wink at him. This may be a welcoming gesture for the guy, but conveys your interest. But also keep in mind that this can make him blush if the guy is too shy;
- Play with your hair. Making eye contact with a guy and stroking his hair will tell him that you like him and that he now needs to take the next step;
- Blinking eyelashes. You may start blinking faster than usual if you like a certain guy. You can send him a clear and intentional message with your eyelashes. This is a cute way to tell him that he has your attention;
- Bite your lip. By biting your lip, you can easily tell a man that you are glad to see him or be around him, and want to have a more serious relationship with him.
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Gestures of a woman in love
Now let’s figure out what features the gestures of a woman in love have:
- preening again. The most revealing gesture is vigorous movements of the head to throw the curls over the shoulders. And it doesn’t matter whether they are long or short, these are instinctive movements;
- showing the wrist. This zone is considered one of the most obvious erogenous zones;
- spread legs. The girl spreads her legs a little wider than usual when there is no handsome man nearby. It doesn’t matter whether she sits or stands;
- swaying hips. When walking, she swings her hips more than usual, which emphasizes her sexuality;
- secret glances. Women look at representatives of the stronger sex with slightly lowered eyelids, on the sly. At the same time, the gaze slides from bottom to top. This continues until the man notices. Then the girl will immediately hide her eyes and turn them to the side. Such behavior gives a feeling of mystery, of spying on the object of adoration. This feeling will “turn on” almost any member of the stronger sex;
- slightly parted, moistened lips. This makes a woman sexy, attractive, and lures men;
- stroking objects in the shape of a cylinder. These are common subconscious manifestations, although they are successfully used by ladies for seduction. Stroking a glass, a glass, or a straw in a cocktail suggests what a woman really wants;
- crossing legs. Ladies use several flirting positions. The first is a bent knee. One leg is tucked under the other and the knee is pointed at the man. This is a relaxed pose that allows you to show off your knees without being vulgar. The second pose is one leg on the other, constantly changing position. The third is again cross-legged, but here flirting with half-taken off shoes is added;
- sorting through decorations. Often, in the process of flirting, a woman flirtatiously touches her own jewelry: a chain, a bracelet, an earring. If these gestures are accompanied by a gaze directed at the man, then this is evidence of sympathy;
- sorting through curls. Many ladies have the habit of fiddling with their curls for no reason. It is easy to see sympathy in this gesture. A lady begins to sort out her hair right at the moment of communication with a man she likes, and not at any time.
Signs of sympathy according to zodiac signs
Astrology has its own opinion on this issue. To trust this opinion or not is a personal matter. Life experience shows that the stars will not advise anything bad.
Aries
Aries does not stand on ceremony when expressing his sympathies - he expresses them assertively and aggressively. This hunter does not wait for opportunity or the right opportunity. It takes the bull by the horns at the very start, saving you from having to guess at the tea leaves.
Taurus
But Taurus is a silent nature. Coffee grounds will come in handy here. Or turn on an option such as intuition and listen carefully to what it tells you. Try to show a little initiative. Taurus “get involved” in flirting when they see the green light. If, of course, they feel sympathy in this direction.
Gemini
Multifaceted and fickle - this is our Gemini. His behavior changes like the weather. It is difficult to draw conclusions. However, if in your manners you notice punctuality, panache and unpredictability that comes out of all the cracks, Gemini is probably interested in you.
Raku
You won’t understand this right away either. It either sticks like a bath leaf or disappears from sight. Cancers are a specific people, but they are not difficult to figure out. First of all, an interested Cancer begins to study you - ask too many questions. Secondly, it includes the hyper-care option. Nice and convenient, whatever you say.
Leo
The habits of a Leo who likes you are characterized by caring. Not expensive gifts that Leos, due to their extravagance, are ready to give to everyone they meet. Now, if he spends time on you and provides you with care, then yes, there is something to talk about.
Virgo
Being a critic of everything and everyone, this guy also communicates with the object of his sympathy in a sarcastic tone. Don't be surprised if you hear a remark about being overweight or having a bad dress. And his innermost feelings will be revealed by his burning eyes, a keen desire to help you and calls at any time of the day.
Libra
To understand Libra, knowledge of body language is mandatory. This hesitant and indecisive nature can only be discerned in this way. When he meets you, does he begin to gain weight and preen himself? Does he change his perfume like his socks every day? Started to look spick and span in ordinary situations? He likes you.
Scorpio
Scorpio will approach the object of his affections with manic persistence. True, with ostentatious indifference. Pluto's ward is a great actor. And he won’t give himself away with a gesture. And only a look - penetrating, bewitching and alluring - suggests that something is not pure here.
Sagittarius
This one will not hide his location. He may begin to show possessive feelings immediately, even though you just drank coffee. In general, he quickly moves from words to action. And, by the way, he often hits two people at the same time. Or three.
Capricorn
Reserved and silent, Capricorn suddenly becomes emotional and talkative. I'm ready to talk to you about everything. Pleases and prevents desires. In general, he turns from a snow king into a normal man.
Aquarius
Aquarians prefer to spend time in noisy companies, and if something goes against the traditional habits of your friend - for example, he began to chat with you in the evenings - do not doubt that he is terribly interested in you. He can change his image and hang up his phone at night.
Fish
Closed and taciturn, he suddenly begins to open his inner world and immerse himself in romantic experiences. Either he will read a poem, or he will sing a song. And he looks so carefully and thoughtfully. True, just a little goes under water. And, as usual, he beats around the bush for a very long time.
Still in doubt? Then forget everything I said and listen to your intuition. She rarely makes mistakes. By the way, if you don’t have anyone to train your sixth sense on, immediately register on one of the dating sites from our rating. Millions of men are ready to provide themselves for your experiments.
Gestures that show lack of interest
But there are nonverbal gestures that show lack of interest. One of them is crossing your arms over your chest. Such a gesture says that the man does not want to contact you, he is protecting himself, and feels awkward. In addition, crossed legs are also a sign of lack of sympathy.
Reluctance to communicate is expressed in hiding hands in pockets, hiding ears, and also bringing strangers into the conversation. Thus, the man turns on his defenses, builds a wall so as not to meet with you. In addition, signals that indicate a lack of interest are expressed in a boring look that a man looks away from you from time to time, a long face, and yawning.
With the help of other objects, he tries to entertain himself: he picks up objects at hand and spins them, sorts them out. This is evidence of apathy.
Tips and tricks
Psychologists warn against misinterpretation of male behavior when a woman acts out wishful thinking. Some gentlemen are charming and courteous, but at the same time they are indifferent to the lady. It is necessary to consider in detail the signs and situations:
- Invitations for a cup of tea during a lunch break are considered a sign of business etiquette, so they often do not carry any hidden meaning. The man is simply discussing work issues in order to complete the project by the end of the working day, and the girl is already mentally trying on a wedding outfit and coming up with names for the children.
- The guy is incredibly pleasant to talk to, he will always help with advice and listen to the problem. Women have higher emotional intelligence, but empathetic men are not uncommon. Developed communication skills can be misinterpreted, so other signs need to be analyzed.
- A man says hello, does not allow him to carry heavy packages, or opens the door to let a lady go first - you need to say “thank you” to his parents, who raised a worthy person. It’s time to include good manners in the Red Book as a rare and endangered type of communication, since in 80% of cases modern women take them for flirting and a desire to please.
- Experienced seducers use playful jokes, ambiguous hints and compliments as their main weapons. For womanizers, this behavior is considered the norm, so it is useful to observe the behavior of an imaginary lover with other women.
Men are not always ready to boldly talk about their feelings, fearing ridicule or rejection. It may take a long time before the gentleman decides to take a serious step. Sympathy and love manifest themselves in different ways, so women can only observe.