How to Seduce Your Ex-Girlfriend (And Get Her Back in Your Bed)

If you broke up with a girl, you are probably haunted by thoughts not only that you feel sorry for the relationship, that you miss her, but also, frankly, about her body, your desires, and sex. Of course, this is not surprising, because for, perhaps, even a very long period, she was your partner not only in life and love, but also in intimacy.

In fact, many men want not so much to return to their previous relationship, but to improve their sex life, which suited them well with their ex.

That is why today we will discuss the very delicate issue of how to re-ignite sexual attraction between you and your ex-girlfriend, namely sexual, and not spiritual or emotional. So, if you only want to sleep with your ex-girlfriend, there are a few things you need to remember first.

If she was the one who initiated the breakup, then you need to realize that the feeling of attraction has practically disappeared

A woman's decision to leave a relationship is almost always correlated with how emotionally attracted she is to you. If there is no chemistry, then there is no relationship. We must admit this.

So keep this in mind when you try to seduce your girlfriend. You can't just show up and get what you want without renewing a significant portion of the attraction first.

What to do?

In this case, it is very important to analyze your behavior. Think: what led to her no longer wanting you? What mistakes have you made? Have you stopped looking after yourself? Didn't pay enough attention to her or something else? In any case, it doesn’t hurt to take a critical look at yourself and realize what needs to be corrected. To do this, take note of this article, which is entirely devoted to what makes you attractive to women. Take a closer look: do you meet all the points?

Intimate conversations4

Conversations about sex. If you know what a girl dreams about and what her preferences are in bed, you can gradually start having conversations with her on sexual topics. This is the most effective and at the same time one of the cheapest methods of persuading a girl into intimacy. If you start affectionate and tender conversations about sex and unobtrusively persuade a girl to have sex, you can count on success and sex.

In order to persuade a girl to have sex, it is necessary to influence all her sensitive organs, starting from the auditory centers and ending with various erogenous zones of the female body. If the influence is correct, the girl will agree to have sex even in a building captured by terrorists.

Use the “break contact” strategy to regain emotional attraction

If your ex has left you, you need to turn to the "no contact period" tactic. There are no other options. If she has decided to "move on", then her feelings of attraction towards you are close to zero at this point. Therefore, in order to increase the degree of attraction, you need to completely disappear from her field of vision.

You need to completely stop contacting her and ignore her if she tries to contact you. Stop texting her, calling her, and don’t communicate with her on Facebook. Just stay out of her life and keep her out of yours at the same time.

You might say, “Will this actually work?”

Actually, it has a very strong effect. Immediately after a breakup, women are vulnerable to feelings of loneliness, so if you disappear for a while, you can take advantage of this. Moreover, not communicating with her on Facebook does not mean that you need to withdraw into yourself. On the contrary, you can block her news, but demonstrate that you live a rich and interesting life. And this will arouse enormous interest in you on her part. Read about how to do this correctly here.

Sexual seduction3

In order to speed up sex with the girl you like, you can use an effective method of sexual seduction. It involves not just getting under the skirt of the person you like, but completely, to the depths of your soul, charming her. To do this, first of all, it would not hurt to be at least minimally aware of her tastes.

For example, if some girls like slight stubble, others, on the contrary, are categorically against it. The same applies to the choice of clothing. If some ladies like men dressed in tight-fitting clothes, others may consider such a wardrobe as evidence of a guy’s non-traditional sexual orientation and will completely refuse to have sex with him.

In this case, it would be almost ideal to focus on which TV star the girl considers her idol and try to become like him in both clothing style and image. In addition to maintaining external conformity with the idol, one must also try to morally correspond to him.

If a girl likes the soft and romantic hero of “Titanic” performed by Leonardo DiCaprio, then the guy should adhere to a similar image. If a girl prefers brutal macho men, then the guy needs to match this image.

You must impersonate a friend

After a certain amount of time has passed, it’s time to “get in touch.” But don't start with flirting. Your girlfriend will obviously find this suspicious and, most likely, will not want to answer at all.

What should we do then?

All you need to do right now is organize a friendly meeting. Find an excuse for her to come to you (or you to go to her) to spend time “like two friends.” You must make the meeting appear harmless. For example, send her something like: “You know, a new episode of Game of Thrones is coming out today.” Do you wanna take a look?" Sounds pretty neutral, doesn't it? Harmlessness is what you need to strive for at the moment. But at the same time, be careful not to fall into the friendship trap. Because classic friendship is of no use to you if you want to sleep with your ex. Review the separate material to know how to avoid such difficulties and not get hooked, after which you will no longer have sex with your ex.

There are still a lot of things you can do or say to increase the chances that your ex will start seeing you again. For example, in SMS communication there are certain well-working formulas that can be used to get your ex back. You can find them by following the link.

The easiest way to propose sex to a girl

Let's say you meet a beautiful girl whose presence excites you. You just dream of having her in your bed. It seems that the easiest option to offer her intimacy is to tell her about it directly and unambiguously like a man: “Let’s have sex.”

But, besides the fact that this is the simplest, it is also the most ineffective way. Even if you are interested in a girl as a man, and under certain circumstances she would make love to you, then such an open proposal will ruin her mood, and for some reason, you definitely won’t have sex today. You may have to apologize profusely and explain that you didn't mean what you said. And you will have to move towards sexual intimacy with the girl you want in the same way as all other people, that is, gradually.

When you've already started seeing each other, it's time to flirt

Many men absolutely do not know how to flirt. For a single man, flirting is something that is difficult to overestimate. And you need to know about several types of such behavior.

1. So, the first type of flirting is eye contact. Maintain eye contact with her as much as you can.
2. Second, touch her. For example, when you are talking to her about something exciting or funny, lightly touch her elbow.
3. Third, speak slowly. Talking too quickly will make you seem nervous or unsure of yourself. Make sure you appear calm.
4. Fourth, make humorous sexual innuendos. The more she starts thinking about sex, the more she will want it.

These are just four ways you can get started. In many cases this is quite enough. But if you want to learn some more tricks in this regard, you can use the advice from the “Ex Factor” course. It is aimed at renewing relationships, attraction and feelings with ex-girlfriends, so you will certainly be able to find many subtleties that will help improve both relationships with women in general and with your ex sexually.

The most common way

No matter how trivial it may sound, inducing a girl to have sex with the help of alcohol was and is the most common way. A small dose of alcohol will relax your companion and make her outlook on life more frivolous. Wine, champagne or cognac can release all the girl’s secret desires and make it easier to persuade her to have intimate fun.

It is worth noting that we are talking exclusively about relaxing the girl a little with alcohol, and not about making her drunk. In the latter case, this may subsequently be regarded as a crime. Another important recommendation in this case is that a romantic dinner with alcohol (lunch, breakfast) should be arranged at home. It doesn’t matter whether it’s a guy or a girl, the main thing is not in a cafe or in a park.

Don’t forget about protection and a few final tips

Without proper preparation for a threesome, participants may be left on edge. To avoid remorse and naturally perceive the situation, you must follow certain rules.

1. Health. Before involving a third participant in the game, you need to make sure of his “reliability”. A random partner can reward the spouses with sexually transmitted diseases.
2. Contraception. There should be a lot of condoms to prevent the transfer of microflora from the anus to the vagina (or from one woman’s vagina to another). Contraceptives are changed with each new penetration.
3. Selection of territory. Meetings of partners should take place on neutral territory (but not in a hotel). It is recommended to rent a house outside the city, away from prying eyes. Preferably verified, with a guarantee of anonymity.
4. Accents. If you managed to persuade your wife to have group sex with another woman, you should not pay excessive attention to your new partner. The spouse should feel that this experiment is for her pleasure.
5. Partner person. The candidacy of the 3rd participant is discussed down to the smallest detail. If in the FFM format you want to have a wife’s friend, the initiative should come from the spouse, and not vice versa. Mutual consent is the main condition.

Read: rating of the best condoms, as well as instructions for their use (less than half of people know)

Psychologists do not recommend choosing partners for group sex from your own environment (friends, colleagues, neighbors, and especially relatives of either party). If something goes wrong during the process, it will negatively affect the future relationship.

Determination

So, seducing a girl without words means you need to find determination. But I’m not talking about the confidence that psychologists constantly talk about, but about something else. About your intention. The goal is to seduce this particular girl.

The point is that when a person knows how to do something right, he doesn't feel like crazy.

Guys who understand WHAT they want and why they do things have a HUGE advantage when it comes to attracting and seducing girls.

There is some subtle feature of female perception here - such men, just by their appearance, ALREADY made a pleasant and captivating impression and awakened sexual desires deep inside us. Long before they take a step towards us.

A man proposes an intimate relationship, should I agree or not?

You can only answer this question yourself. There is nothing shameful or terrible about this. This is a normal and common need for a woman. And if you are not going through the best period of your personal life, then why not take a risk?

The main thing is not to forget about self-respect. Remember about hygiene, as well as use all methods of contraception. There are enough examples and cases when a guy wanted to spend just one night with a girl. And couples have lived together for more than 20-50 years. Of course, there are no statistics on such cases. But stories are told. Just before agreeing to such a proposal, you should weigh all the pros and cons. Answer yourself the question, do you need it? And then give consent or refusal.

For you, we have found a practical method to find out: a guy ONLY wants to sleep or a guy is offering to create a relationship. It's worth sitting down and thinking about it. Have you spent more than one hour with your ladies' man without talking about sex? If the answer is no, then you have found yourself with a “ladies man”, and not a decent guy in love.

Be carefull . Choose your soulmate by looking closely at her. Communicate as much as possible to get to know the person much better. And create families only with real men who are ready to stand up for you.

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Phrases that will turn a girl on

Close eyes. Imagine how I gently touch your neck, kiss your chest. Then... and this is what you find out later when you get home;

Honey, I made you a sweet dessert and got all covered in whipped cream. I need help getting rid of them;

I dozed off here for a short time and saw you in a dream. We did this... I can’t wait to show it;

I have a proposal for you for the weekend. Let's lock ourselves in the bedroom and not come out until Monday;

All day long you stand before my eyes in that black set. I want you until it hurts;

And you are a bad girl today! I think we need to punish you in the evening;

Baby, today I'll make your neighbors learn my name;

I can’t concentrate on work, I remember how sweetly you moaned last night. I crave repetition;

Beauty, you are magnificent;

It's so cold outside. I want to come to you, to be with you, on you and in you;

You are my drug, I can’t go a day without you;

In my fantasies, I kiss you between your legs. It's so sweet and humid there;

Baby, your apron suits you very well. I hope to see you in the kitchen wearing it this evening. And only in it;

I love your eyes, your lips and hands. I want to cover your whole body with kisses and then enter you;

I love the way you tremble in my arms. I'll bring you to ecstasy, baby;

I walked past an intimate goods store. A surprise awaits you in the evening;

Don't plan anything for tomorrow. This night we will not have the opportunity to sleep;

I miss you so much! I miss your smell, your gentle touches, your moan;

Tonight you are mine. I will caress, kiss and tickle every inch of your body. Until you beg me to enter you;

You know, I thought there was something missing in my bedroom. And this is your naked body on the bed;

You are the sexiest girl in the world;

I accidentally came across an article on how to give your girlfriend an unforgettable orgasm. I can’t wait to check its veracity;

We've been together for so long, but I still tremble when I touch you;

SMA erotic for beloved girl

Today I will not retreat until you forget your own name;

You are the hottest girl I have ever met;

This night you will beg me for mercy;

My body is hungry for you;

How I dream of intimacy with you right now;

I want to take you right to my desk;

Your taste, your smell, your moan - all this gives me unforgettable pleasure;

Only next to you I am truly happy. And in the evening I will express all my love;

You are beautiful like Aphrodite. Today I will arrange the service of my goddess of love;

As soon as we are alone, I will rip all your clothes off;

Girl, you love bad boys, right? Oh, how bad I'll be today;

I’ll shout to the whole city how much I want you;

Join me in the shower. Just imagine how I direct jets of water onto your erogenous zones;

I dream of going to the village and doing this with you in the hayloft;

Would you agree to spend a night of love under the stars?

What's under your clothes now? I'll rip it off as soon as I see you;

That lace negligee is amazing, but I'm going to rip it today;

I know you've had a rough day. At home, you will lie down on your bed, close your eyes and relax. And I will do everything for your pleasure;

Are you ready to take the risk and surrender completely to my power?

You are the most amazing girl. During the day she is so gentle and sweet, but at night she is just a wild fury. I go crazy about you!

My little cat, I’m looking forward to the evening to play with you;

It will be a magical night. I will remove all inhibitions, and you will be able to completely surrender to your desires;

I want you to unleash your darkest fantasies;

Let your soft lips wrap around my penis today;

Because of you, only dirty thoughts swarm in my head;

Are you thinking about me? I hope it's something obscene;

I'm sure my fantasies will make you blush;

How about trying something new? Today I will undress you without hands;

Guess who speaks their language best? Today you will find out;

Shall we play a board game tonight? We only need a table;

My back hurts after yesterday. Today I will leave a dozen hickeys on you;

Be alpha7

They say girls love bad boys who know how to dominate and be tough. There is no point in talking about the objectivity of this, this is just a generally accepted opinion. But all women are different. Surprisingly, most people still like guys who can stand up for themselves and a girl, who create the impression of being truly bad guys. Here you should also feel a line that is very dangerous to cross. But in general, you can confidently hook a representative of the fair sex with the image of a bad guy.

Pickup Basics

Seduction has, among other things, another name - pickup . As in any business, it has its own theoretical and practical basis. There are many pitfalls that an inexperienced seducer can easily stumble over.

First of all, anyone who decides to learn the basics of seduction must understand that we are talking about interaction with living people, and not always everything depends on your actions.

Sometimes men are haunted by failures in attempts to seduce this or that girl, despite the fact that he can do everything right, adhering to all the rules.

Important! Any failure, even the most crushing and shameful one, is an experience. You can learn a lesson from any situation and prevent it from happening again.

There are several basics of seduction that any pickup artist should take note:

1. When trying to seduce a girl, you cannot regard the girl only as an object of sexual pleasure.
2. In order to seduce a girl, she needs to think about the man who is seducing her. Sometimes this is not easy to achieve. The surest way would be if a man can form a unique and inimitable communication with a girl.
3. For successful seduction, a guy must show his strongest traits. He should be charismatic and cheerful, clearly showing the girl that he is self-sufficient and wastes his time over trifles. He should be a man, not a boy.
4. Calmness is one of the most important points. Even if a date or seduction does not go according to plan, or something begins to happen that was not part of the man’s plans, maintaining composure, the girl will undoubtedly pay attention to it. Moreover, in the company of a man who controls his emotions, the girl will feel more protected, this will allow her to relax.
5. In addition to verbal communication, it is necessary to resort to eye contact and touch. Touching will tell a girl about a man's intentions, and it is better to take every opportunity to lightly touch the girl. From a light pat on the shoulder or straightening a strand of hair, to giving a hand when going down the stairs.

Often girls have dozens, and sometimes hundreds of fans, but they are all faceless and not individual. That is why they remain only fans.

By going beyond the boundaries and showing yourself from an unusual, positive side, you can achieve a lot in seduction.

Important! You should not overuse tactile communication, otherwise the girl may think that the man is a sexual maniac.

Watch the video that tells how a man should behave in order to seduce a girl:

How is this possible?

Communicate with us without words. More specifically, show that you have those character traits that unconsciously turn us on.

These are, for example, confidence, social and emotional (EQ) intelligence, dominance, charm and playfulness.

Most men (to your delight) have absolutely no idea what they can convey and demonstrate all this BEFORE they approach a woman.

Let me share with you three ways to create a strong sex drive in any girl before you even talk to her.

A man of high character4

In a situation where there is an opportunity to take advantage of a girl’s mortal body, this should not be done. Because later you can miss the fish from the net and create a bad opinion about yourself. For example, a drunk girl is ideal to take advantage of. The best option would be to just take her to bed, and in the morning in her head, in addition to the hangover, there will be thoughts about how good the man is who did not take advantage of her.