A well-groomed beauty that attracts the gaze of men will never show her age. It doesn't matter if she's thirty or fifty. Modern cosmetology allows you to keep your face and body in excellent condition even in adulthood, and women who take care of themselves remain in demand in love relationships. How to seduce a girl and win her favor is one of the questions that worries modern men.
Why not?i
Having met a beautiful female representative well over thirty, men appreciate her principled views, self-sufficiency and self-confidence. With such a woman you will not be bored in the evenings, you will be interested in bed and comfortable in company. Her speeches have a rationale, a dispute always has arguments, and her diversity of views captivates any conversation. Sex with a skilled partner is always varied. Due to her life experience, the lady knows how to give pleasure and bring novelty to intimate life.
Appearance matters
Is it possible to please a girl if she is older? Undoubtedly. The main thing is to behave confidently so that she does not doubt for a minute the seriousness of your intentions.
You have made your decision and nothing will stop you.
But before you take action, carefully evaluate your appearance. What girls your age like will turn off an older woman.
Pay attention to the following and be sexy:
- Personal hygiene . Shower at least twice a day and wash your hair with a good shampoo. You must smell good and your hair must feel pleasant to the touch. Throw away harsh, menthol deodorants, replace them with a noble, adult scent.
- Get your hands in order . Forget about the habit of biting your nails, they should always be cut short and clean.
- Decide for yourself right away whether you have a beard or not . If you decide to grow a beard, make sure that your stubble does not consist of three whitish hairs. The beard must be perfectly trimmed and well-groomed; entrust this procedure to a specialist in the salon; you cannot do it yourself. If you are too lazy to spend time and money on a beard, don’t even start. Shave every day. Grown-up girls, unlike your peers, don’t like prickly stubble.
- Get your teeth in order and keep your breath fresh . Always keep some mint gum in your pocket for emergencies.
- Say goodbye to your kids hairdresser and get a stylish haircut at the salon.
- A grown girl won't appreciate your super trendy teenage outfit. Take off your chains, bracelets, rappers and dress up like a city major. Stylish, expensive, comfortable clothes . Choose it not at a clothing market, but in a fashion store with a good consultant.
She's her own boss2
If a man is lucky enough to be charmed by a mature seductress, it will be quite difficult to win her over and force her to turn her gaze to the chosen one. After all, a lady knows her worth, she is of little interest in unsuccessful men. Her views do not tolerate obstacles, her life is organized and everything in it is planned out. Sports, work, beautician and even entertainment can be planned for years.
And if a woman herself is not concerned with finding a passion, it will be difficult to find time in her schedule for dates and romantic encounters. In this case, the most you can count on is not long meetings in hotels that exclude a romantic pastime.
You still have to be the head
In order to find any opportunities and ways to please a girl who is older than you, a man needs to show his potential lover that he is ready to be the main one in the relationship. To do this, it is important to erase age differences, that is, to be an adult, even if a different number is indicated in the passport.
A man’s maturity is determined by his ability to control emotions and feelings, a reasonable reaction to any circumstances, competent speech and understanding of his future. Psychologists show by example what it means for a man to be an adult, namely:
- the ability to control emotions, emotional impulses, feelings that no situation can make a guy angry;
- the ability to accept defeats and life’s troubles with dignity, without complaining about fate or failure;
- refusal to gossip and discuss acquaintances, former partners, in order to show your respect for yourself and other people;
- the ability to always be polite and gallant, since decent behavior is a sign of a morally mature person.
We must remember that age is not a barrier in a relationship, but rather a plus. A man can conquer a girl with his energy, carefreeness and ease, romance, positive attitude and inspiration. If he manages to infect his potential soul mate with enthusiasm and energy, this will make the girl emotionally dependent on this guy.
Woman at any age woman3
Love, affection and romantic passions are not subject to a certain age, and can appear at fifteen, thirty, and fifty. With age, of course, it is more difficult to prove your feelings, since a woman, taught by the experience of a long and eventful life, will not rush at the first person she meets. You will have to work hard on trust and winning favor. There is no secret to how to seduce an adult woman; at any age, she has the habits of a real female, a daring mistress and a submissive housewife. Unique secrets of seducing girls of all ages are collected in our article.
There are also no unusual methods of seduction. You should be attentive to a woman’s needs, hobbies and hobbies. The style of your favorite music can suggest character traits, and a shared hobby will help you get closer and find contact.
How to attract the attention of a girl who is older than you
Picking up an older woman is not an easy task. If you understand female psychology and match the qualities that attract men, then success is guaranteed. The listed tips will help you not to go unnoticed by the object of your desire.
Look like a grown man
The first thing a mature woman pays attention to is the gentleman’s appearance: hairstyle, stubble, clothing style. In order not to look like a “sloppy teenager” against the backdrop of a serious lady, you need to:
- Maintain hygiene: take a shower twice a day, brush your teeth, take care of your nails. Older girls, as a rule, first of all notice whether a guy’s shirt is fresh and whether he smells nice.
- Think over your image. For example, a beard should look decent. Sparse hairs or fluff will not add masculinity, but, on the contrary, will emphasize that the girl in front of her is a young man going through puberty. Mature women are often attracted to clean-shaven men. The hair on the head should be dandruff-free, clean and trimmed. Before a date, it is better to visit a hairdresser.
- Watch your clothes. Ladies always pay attention to the state of things. Grown men do not wear clothes with holes or wrinkles. Things shouldn't look like they just came out of the washing machine. The style is well thought out. The outfit is appropriate for the occasion.
- Use high-quality toilet water. The smell of a person says a lot about him. Sometimes you can pick up an older woman with the help of the right perfume. It is important not to overdo it with the quantity, otherwise the lady may feel dizzy from the strong aroma.
These rules will help you meet a girl who is 10 years older than you, for this you will need to look no worse than her peers.
Talk to the girl
A delicate conversation will help you approach a girl who is older than you. The style of communication as with peers will not work. You need to be confident and choose the right words:
- Act like an adult. Do not start communication with hugs, intrusive touches and sexual innuendos. It is worth giving a girl a compliment, appreciating her appearance, smile, eyes and laughter. Everything must be sincere. During a conversation, look into her eyes so that the young lady remembers that you are very attentive to her.
- Speak clearly, do not mutter under your breath. The girl should see that you are confident and behave like a mature man. Don't stutter or stumble when speaking. Listen carefully to what she says, do not interrupt. Try not to show your excitement.
- Show that the woman is interesting to you as a person. Discuss topics that matter in her life: university, career, family. Talk about your favorite books and hobbies, about the latest news. Don't resort to vulgar jokes. Adults behave respectfully towards the lady.
- Invite on a date. It can be difficult to approach a girl who is 5 years or more older than you. But if you don’t take the first step, nothing will work out. It's worth inviting in person. A great idea would be to go out to dinner together. Mature girls prefer to spend time quietly. Choose a suitable place and under no circumstances be late.
These few points will definitely help a young man meet an older woman.
Get to know her better
After the first contact has been made, it's time to get closer. A confidential conversation will help you approach a girl who is older than you. Gradually move towards physical contact, but do not immediately force intimacy. Start with gentle touches to your hand or hair. Give the girl a light kiss goodbye.
When it comes to sex, take your time and find out about the lady's preferences. Older girls may be more experienced than you. Take care of contraception. After intimacy, hug, kiss and talk to your woman. Don't forget - first of all, she is a person, and not an object of desire.
Self-sufficient mistress of life4
It should be understood that even a wonderful intimate experience and romantic encounters will not force a lady to give up everything for a young lover, unless the woman is in love. Her life has long been arranged, and there is no need for me to turn everything upside down just for the sake of carnal pleasures. If the heart of the “milf” is won, then the partner in love has nothing to worry about.
A mature woman experiencing love pangs is ready for desperate and decisive actions. You should be sure that love, as the last chance, will outshine everything around. The beloved’s horizons can become so focused on the chosen one that love becomes literally “suffocating.”
When the third one is not superfluous
If everything is clear with free hunters for a young body, then how to seduce a mature married woman?
First of all, it is worth remembering that a happy woman does not need an affair. The feeling of a bird in a cage with gold, wood or steel bars encourages it to spread its wings.
This decision has long been ripe, held back only by public opinion and children who need a father. Even if she has a thick ring on her finger, demonstrating the stability of her marriage, listen to her stories about her husband.
If he is unfaithful, let the lady feel that she is the only one.
Too soft - be the leader in the relationship.
Your husband is constantly busy at work - give him bright emotions and impressions.
The husband is a cruel tyrant - give him a feeling of protection and care.
Don't compare yourself to her husband, don't start talking about him. Just give her the happy moments she has always dreamed of.
Married women want from a young lover what they do not get in marriage.
In theory they hate men, but in practice they cannot do without them. If divorce is inevitable, then the presence or absence of a young lover does not matter.
Married women are ideal for young partners who do not want a serious relationship, but only fleeting flirting, a holiday romance, meeting a couple of times a month without claims or obligations.
The best place to meet someone is work, a corporate party, dating sites or social networks.
Don’t be afraid to approach a girl over thirty; if she’s in the company of friends, she’ll be flattered by your attention.
An important aspect in relationships with married people is slowness. You can't force things here.
Start from afar, with simple, naive courtship. The reason for meetings must be respectful. For a girl, a strong justification is important both in the eyes of others and in her own.
If you work together, then ask her for help in drawing up the report, even if you can easily handle it yourself.
Forget about phone calls and SMS, don’t come to her house, no one needs extra problems with a jealous husband. Think about her safety and comfort.
When you meet, always give her sincere compliments, just don’t exaggerate, even a small lie “for the good” can ruin everything.
In communication, be light, cheerful, soft and delicate. There is no need to show excessive interest in children and, especially, do not interfere in their upbringing. If you need help, help, but don’t intrude.
There are no rules in love and passion, but still, there are important moral aspects that cannot be violated:
- You cannot seduce the wife of a rich and influential man for financial gain or career advancement. Such adventures always end badly.
- You can't ruin the happiness of the newlyweds.
- You cannot take advantage of the weakness of an unhappy woman who is in despair. If you see that she is completely dependent on her husband and cannot take care of herself, then either take full financial responsibility or do not aggravate the situation.
- Never try to get to know your husband and explain the situation. Be sure: he will not understand and will not forgive.
- You cannot arrange romantic meetings on its territory. This is a direct threat to her reputation and safety.
- You cannot leave marks on the body and clothes of your beloved, even in a fit of crazy passion.
Remember that a married girl needs time to get used to the thoughts of cheating. It is important for them to know that they can end this relationship at any time, so “checks” may often arise.
At the last moment, they will refuse a meeting or sex and look at your reaction. If the reaction is calm and understanding, it will calm them down.
Just don’t confuse calmness with indifference, the line is very thin, and the consequences are different. After a refusal, don't walk around with a gloomy face and don't show despair.
Remain as attentive, cheerful, gallant, always ready to help and lend your courageous shoulder. Act according to the circumstances, don’t decide or plan anything for her.
The important rule is self-confidence5
If torture of love has entered your life in the form of a charming representative of the fair sex, you should know your worth and not rush headlong into the pool. There is no need to shower the lady of your heart with compliments, this will be regarded as sycophancy and begging.
The best choice would be the strategy of a self-sufficient, adult and responsible partner. A woman who has experienced the pangs of first love and relationships is unlikely to want volcanic passions. And a calm but established man will have a chance for a long-term relationship.
Reasons for breaking up unequal relationships
Experts say that romances between mature women and young men rarely end in marriage, but can last for years. What usually serves as a reason for breaking up these relationships?
Paradoxically, a union that lasts several years and looks quite strong and successful can collapse due to any problem or discomfort that arises. This is the peculiarity of relationships of different ages - they instantly fall apart when the younger partner becomes uncomfortable being together for some reason.
Psychologists say that an unequal relationship that lasts several years can easily be destroyed by the partner’s age, which is becoming more and more noticeable. Passion dulls, and the man begins to notice that his lady of the heart appears wrinkles, sagging skin and other age-related changes. In turn, the woman becomes more and more intrusive, feeling that she is losing the attention of her lover. She constantly controls him, is jealous of her friends and arranges surveillance. This ultimately leads to a breakup.
Also often the reason for separation is a woman’s desire to look younger with the help of clothes. She begins to choose outfits for herself that would most likely suit a young girl, and wears them with pleasure. The man becomes embarrassed for his beloved, he tries to minimize going out together somewhere. Over time, the couple begins to cool down, and the union breaks up.
Your friends are only your friends6
If you managed to attract the attention of a high-pallet bird, you should not drag it into your chicken coop. No matter how paradoxical it may sound, your social circle and that of an accomplished woman are completely different. To be known as “one of our own” among her friends and acquaintances is quite a difficult task. Ensuring comfort among your friends is an almost impossible task.
Considering the difference in age and the difference in interests, it will not be very easy for your other half to find a common language with your peers. In such a situation, the passion will feel awkward, and soon such outings to parties will quickly fade away. Don't demand the impossible and just give your friend time to get used to the new status of your relationship. Advance conversation with friends and moral
Appearance matters
Is it possible to please a girl if she is older? Undoubtedly. The main thing is to behave confidently so that she does not doubt for a minute the seriousness of your intentions.
You have made your decision and nothing will stop you.
But before you take action, carefully evaluate your appearance. What girls your age like will turn off an older woman.
Pay attention to the following and be sexy:
- Personal hygiene . Shower at least twice a day and wash your hair with a good shampoo. You must smell good and your hair must feel pleasant to the touch. Throw away harsh, menthol deodorants, replace them with a noble, adult scent.
- Get your hands in order . Forget about the habit of biting your nails, they should always be cut short and clean.
- Decide for yourself right away whether you have a beard or not . If you decide to grow a beard, make sure that your stubble does not consist of three whitish hairs. The beard must be perfectly trimmed and well-groomed; entrust this procedure to a specialist in the salon; you cannot do it yourself. If you are too lazy to spend time and money on a beard, don’t even start. Shave every day. Grown-up girls, unlike your peers, don’t like prickly stubble.
- Get your teeth in order and keep your breath fresh . Always keep some mint gum in your pocket for emergencies.
- Say goodbye to your kids hairdresser and get a stylish haircut at the salon.
- A grown girl won't appreciate your super trendy teenage outfit. Take off your chains, bracelets, rappers and dress up like a city major. Stylish, expensive, comfortable clothes . Choose it not at a clothing market, but in a fashion store with a good consultant.
So different7
Age, religious views, life position can differ dramatically from the opinion of the young partner. Harsh statements are more likely to cause a negative reaction, and the emphasis on your inattention will forever sink into the soul of the fair sex. You need to learn to seek compromises and find solutions beneficial to both parties. Don't try to wrap your crush in a loving embrace and lock him in a golden cage.
Such a position will be regarded as an encroachment on personal freedom and such actions will most likely lead to discord in relationships. Coordination of plans is often the determining factor at the beginning of a relationship. It will be extremely difficult for a partner to come to terms with the lack of passion during joint outings and evening promenades.
An affair with a young guy: how to start a relationship
Many women notice interest in themselves from men younger than them, but cannot decide to have an affair. At the same time, friendships often develop between two people, which one just wants to transform into something more serious. Friendship or love? How to make a romance work? Let's try to give a few recommendations:
- be open to possibilities and psychologically tune in to a loving relationship;
- be honest and frank, this is what attracts young men to more mature partners;
- get ready to discover a completely new world that is part of your man, and show him all the charms of yours;
- take care of your appearance, because it increases self-confidence, self-esteem and mood;
- Do not try to emphasize your experience, knowledge and age from the very beginning.
Become an extraordinary discovery for your lover, and then the romance will begin without any effort or awkwardness on either side.
