Three powerful rituals to attract love into your life

“Love is in the air, wherever you look,” says one famous English-language song. And this is true: in mid-February, on the eve of Valentine's Day, we are all enveloped in an atmosphere of romance, exuding vibes of love and heightening our feelings.

Valentine's Day is eagerly awaited by lovers to receive their share of confessions, compliments and gifts from their other half. But there are also those who, for various reasons, are forced to celebrate this holiday alone. As a rule, on this day they quietly complain about fate and regret that it did not give them a piece of warmth, happiness and harmony in their personal lives.

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Have you been looking for your loved one for a long time, and the upcoming holiday is not at all pleasing? So you've come to the right place!

In this article you will find simple, time-tested rituals for attracting love.

Are you wary of such things? Do you consider them shamanism and doubt their effectiveness? Then, first, a few words about love magic and why rituals do not work for everyone.

Feng Shui secrets for attracting love

The Taoist practice of Feng Shui helps not only to harmonize the interior space of the home, attract money and success into life, but also teaches how to meet love. A few tips from Alice Kim from the book “365 Golden Feng Shui Tips for Love, Luck and Wealth” will help bring the long-awaited moment closer:

1. The symbol of love according to Feng Shui is peonies. To launch positive changes in your life, draw and hang a picture of peonies in front of the bedroom entrance, buy perfume with that aroma, and plant fresh flower bushes in the garden.
2. Use clear crystals. Immerse them in salt water for 7 days and place them in the southwest corner of the room.
3. Another symbol of love is paired figurines (seals, swans, doves). Buy them and install them in your home, making sure they are not disconnected.
4. Monitor the state of the love zone - the far right corner of the bedroom. It should always be clean, light and free.
5. Give your home a makeover by painting your home in love-attracting shades of pink and peach. Throw away old, broken and unnecessary items.
6. Hang pictures of handsome, charismatic men on the walls of your house, and remove pictures of women.
7. Pay attention to the southwestern part of the house. Install a beautiful floor lamp and turn it on every evening for 3-4 hours.
8. Change the position of the bed in the bedroom. Place the headboard under the window, and turn the footboard towards the door. The bed should be a double bed, and in front of it, place something beautiful, such as a painting with peonies or a fresh flower.

Image of peonies attracts love: Pixabay

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Be flexible

What does it mean to be flexible? Flexibility is the ability to adapt to circumstances. When you invite a girl to meet and sit and drink coffee, and she refuses, there is an option that she simply does not like coffee and therefore it is reasonable to quickly show flexibility and offer to drink beer on the river embankment at dusk. Joke. Although such options also exist.

Being flexible is important not only with girls, it helps well in life, the ability to negotiate and find a compromise rather than just punching through a brick wall, although you can just get around it and do it a little differently.

Self confidence

There is the concept of self-confidence and self-confidence. The first is good, the second is bad. What is the difference? Confidence is steadfastness in your rightness. You are strong, period, you know your worth, you have good self-esteem.

Self-confidence is when a man wants to appear confident in himself, but he fails, and this is very clearly visible. Girls immediately see self-confidence and cut it off at the root, not giving the man the opportunity to take the blow.

Train your confidence and everything will be fine, both with girls and in everyday life.

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How to make a girl fall in love with you using magic

In fact, there is no magic, but there is the power of the subconscious, which can greatly help to make oneself so perfect that a girl will immediately fall in love. To do this, you need to have some knowledge in psychology, a little hypnosis and work with our subconscious.

If you desperately need to make yourself a person with whom people fall in love, then feel free to write to me, we will figure out how it works, we will model the ideal person with whom people fall in love and program our unconscious to reproduce this model.

Of the minuses, this model will last 1-2 weeks, then it will subside if it contradicts your behavior, but if you constantly train and develop, then you can at least turn yourself into James Bond, Agent 007, and easily.

Be honest and natural

There is nothing cooler if you behave honestly towards a girl or people. No, no one forces you to always say everything out loud, you don’t have to. But when asked by a girl, for example, what do you want from a relationship? You can directly say, “I want to have sex with you, and then if everything goes according to plan, then have small children.”

This will be a bomb for a girl, since they don’t fuss over her question and don’t avoid answering. Just a confident man, looking into the eyes, told the girl what he wanted. Moreover, there are few such men and believe me, if you do this adequately, the girl will quickly fall in love with you.

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Don't impose

To be honest, I don’t know where this fine line is between being too imposed and normal communication. But I will say this, no one likes obsessive people at all, and they also don’t like it when everything is decided for the girl. Like, you're my girl, period. Sometimes it works, to be honest, but most of all it causes disgust and they will quickly stop communicating with you. Or they will communicate out of politeness.

Closer further with the girl

This is a very subtle psychological game for building up women's emotions. The task is to communicate with a girl, everything is fine, you joke, flirt, but on a positive note you completely disappear from her sight for 1-2 weeks, more is possible. But here you need to look at the circumstances. And then you just appear as if nothing had happened.

There is another type of game closer and further with a girl. You are communicating with a girl, but it turns out that she herself decided to write to you, here you completely turn on the game closer and spend time with the girl. But girls have this game deeply rooted in them since childhood, so the mechanism will turn on for her further and you will turn on the mode further in the same way. In practice, it is advisable to practice and you will easily feel in your own skin what it is like to play with female emotions.

Think about it, do you really need it?

Just think and ask yourself why exactly this girl do you want to fall in love with you? ARE YOU in love with her or do you just want to have sex with her without commitment? What are your true goals? It’s just that if you want to make a girl fall in love with you because of your high pride, then again it’s better to turn to a psychologist, since hurt pride really hits you in the head.

I had a friend who was very charismatic and was very popular among girls. Very high pride, he just made fun of the girls, letting them show how great he was. But what did this lead to? Life hit him in the head, but life teaches everyone. It’s just that one girl treated him the same way, and his self-esteem suffered greatly, and he had to re-evaluate his experience and behavior pattern again.

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Stand out from the gray mass

Be individual. You like bright and beautiful girls, right? Girls like guys like this too. Appearance is certainly not in the first place, but bright and interesting outfits will do the trick. Be stylish please. Although I don’t bother about this anymore.

A good hairstyle will do its job, but to be honest, lately all the hairstyles are somehow similar to each other, in general, pick something that is not on everyone’s head. Girls like it.

Good sex

If you are already having sex with a girl, then there is a mega way to make a girl fall in love with you. Read my special article on squirting orgasm, aka squirting. After such an orgasm, the girl will fall in love with you and will come to you for a portion of new sensations and the emotional connection will be at its maximum. Believe me, it's worth learning.

Adapt to her values

Each person has his own values, some have animals, some have cars or something else. It is important that you find out what the girl is interested in and interested in. And start communicating with her on the same topics. It is very important for a person to have someone with similar hobbies to share with.

Just find out what the girl likes, therefore get the minimum information to maintain a conversation and slowly communicate on these topics. That's the whole secret.

Rituals for love

The peoples of different countries have everyday rituals that are considered part of the culture. Many of them are held on important religious holidays - Christmas, Easter, Trinity, etc.

There are special rituals for love:

1. For Christmas, throw away all your old slippers. Buy a new women's and men's pair. When buying, be in a great mood, as if you are already in love and happy. When you come home, put on a new women's pair, and place the men's pair by the bed with your heels toward the bed and toes toward the door. Say “My dear husband, I’m waiting for you home!” three times. Hide the male pair until a man appears in your life.
2. On Friday evening, buy or find a white flower. Place it on the windowsill under the light of the Moon and ask the Universe to meet your loved one. In the morning, slowly and carefully tear off all the petals, saying: “I am tearing a part of my dream from my heart for you, Universe. I ask, do not deny me pure and eternal love.” Imagine the man you desire, open the window and throw out the petals. Look forward to seeing you soon.

These and other rituals are described in the book “Help Yourself” by Vladimir Ulanov.

The white flower is used in love rituals: Pixabay

NLP for attracting love

Neurolinguistic programming (NLP) is a way to develop personality and influence others. Positive affirmations, compiled according to the basic principles of NLP, help to attract a man with whom there will be mutual love. It is not at all necessary to use template phrases; you can come up with your own, but taking into account the rules:

1. All phrases must be affirmative, without the particle “not”.
2. They must be compiled in real time.

Here are examples of affirmations for love:

• I'm meeting my future husband.
• I love and I am loved.
• I attract the love of a worthy man.
• I'm happy in my relationship.
• I'm getting married.
• I have a happy marriage and a strong family.

Use these and other affirmations from Natalia Pravdina’s book “48 Affirmations to Attract Love.”

Psychological techniques

Psychology effectively works with many internal complexes and inhibitory attitudes that prevent you from finding love. Often the approach requires the help of a professional, but with a high degree of organization, you can try to cope on your own by reading a sufficient amount of literature.

How to let a new feeling into your heart

You can use visualization techniques, Feng Shui or other acceptable practices for this. Their use will prepare you internally for the upcoming changes. Imagine what life will be like after getting into a relationship. You can allow a little imagination. This will show that nothing bad will happen after the upcoming change, which will remove internal fears and doubts.

Working on self-esteem

Most people have heard that you need to love yourself first. Then those around you will feel inner harmony and will be mutually imbued with this feeling. However, in practice, low self-esteem, internal confidence in external unattractiveness, and internal emptiness interfere. Therefore, in order to attract the attention of your beloved man, work through your internal barriers.

Love yourself in the body and with the appearance that you have at the moment. There are many techniques for this, choose the most comfortable one and start working.

Analysis of weaknesses and strengths

For an objective assessment of the data, line the sheet into two parts. On the right, write the positive qualities that you know about yourself, on the left, write the negative ones. Try to approach the task objectively, looking at the trait from a multifaceted perspective. For example, stubbornness in a certain context can become determination, the desire to soften the situation can become loyalty, tolerance.

After that, do the same for your prospective partner. Since the character is fictional, he often has exclusively positive characteristics. However, also try to see the other side in them. Consider the determination of a young man from the point of view of light tyranny, the ability to make decisions is dictatorship. Try to endow the image with the features of a real person in order to accept the fact that he is not ideal.

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Leaving your comfort zone

Having worked through your inner beliefs, you need to start taking real action. Start searching on your own. Visit places where there might be a man you like. At the same time, focus on the image and assume possible interests. Don't expect to meet a rich and athletic young man at a fast food restaurant. For dating, choose places that suit your needs.

How to program yourself for a happy relationship

There are internal guidelines that help you quickly attract your loved one, as well as build healthy relationships. To do this, you need to find a balance between your desires, beliefs and the same requirements of your partner. Therefore, when entering into a relationship, specify unacceptable points and listen to the responses. Agree on what you will do in case of a quarrel, remember the experience of previous relationships, if any. This will help you build healthy relationships that will bring happiness.

To attract love into life, you need to remove internal doubt about the possibility of such an outcome. Then the emerging confidence will allow you to act decisively and begin an active search for a partner.

Palmistry tips for attracting love

Studying the line of the heart and family helps to find love: Pixabay
Palmistry is an esoteric science. She studies the lines on the palm, paying a lot of attention to the line of the heart (love) and the line of the family (marriage). The heart line is located at the very top of the open palm, closer to the fingers. The family line is located between the heart line and the little finger.

Study these lines on the palm of your active hand to understand if there are obstacles to meeting your loved one:

1. A broken heart line indicates excessive closedness. Work on yourself, learn to communicate with people easily and naturally.
2. If there are marriage lines on your hand, then the meeting with your partner will take place. Wait for the moment, believe in its inevitability and that you will definitely be happy.

Why do we fall in love?

Falling in love is a storm of hormones that, under certain conditions, begin to work intensely, and then satisfaction spreads throughout the body. If one person meets another and he develops sympathy, then he will definitely want to continue communication with the object of desire. It’s all because of hormones, which will generate pleasure and joy only from communicating with the chosen one of the heart.

Do we even need to fall in love and be with someone? A mentally healthy person likes to laugh and rejoice, and when love comes to him, all feelings become heightened, as if you are receiving a dose of adrenaline, everything around becomes brighter, more beautiful, more attractive. I want to hug the whole world. Being in a state of love is very, very cool, you think only about good things, the person is fascinated, it’s as if he is becoming better even for himself.

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Interpretation of dreams and attracting love

Oneirology, or the science of dream interpretation, also has its own position regarding attracting the desired partner into life. It refers to esoteric sciences and offers to use the opportunity to “order dreams” about future love. Here's how to manage dreams of a love nature:

1. Before falling asleep, tune in to the theme of love and remembering the dream.
2. Imagine the image of your desired partner down to the smallest detail.
3. Immediately after waking up, describe the dream in detail: who you dreamed about, what they looked like, where they met, what they talked about. To do this, place a pen and notepad by your bed in advance.
4. Order a dream about your loved one again and again, attracting him into your life.

Numerology and love

Use numerology calculations to attract love: Pixabay
The ancient science of numbers has not avoided the topic of love. In addition, everyone can make a numerological calculation of compatibility in a couple, find out the chances of love and marriage.

In numerology, it is believed that the meeting of a partner is already registered in the date of birth:

1. Sequentially add up all the numbers of your date of birth.
2. Add to it the number of the day of the week (Monday - 1, Tuesday - 2, etc.) when you were born.
3. Compare the resulting number with the interpretations below.

Here are numerological explanations of meeting a loved one:

• “1” – meeting with your loved one within six months.
• “2” – acquaintance within a year.
• “3” - to meet love, you need to change yourself for the better with the help of spiritual practices, yoga, meditation and reading af - love is very close, open up to new acquaintances.
• “5” - to meet love, you have to want it. Make a wish card, listing in it a meeting with your loved one.
• “6” - find your soulmate at a major gala event. Try to attend such events. These could be concerts and festivals, business forums, weddings or friends’ birthdays.
• “7” - you will meet love in 1–2 years. Don't be discouraged, get ready for the event.
• “8” - the meeting depends on the desire to make new acquaintances. Expand your social circle.
• “9” - the relationship will begin within a few months.

How to use numerology to create a strong couple, writes Dikmar, author of the book “Love Numerology: Numbers and Numbers for Love, Family and Marriage.”

What are the results

The techniques described are absolutely safe. Ideally, life will change quickly enough. The time period is individual. Some meet their soulmate within a week. Others take a month. Unlike love spells, the methods do not have a negative connotation.

Help the magic work faster: give up despondency, unbelief, bad thoughts, dark forecasts. Enjoy it. Smile more. Act as if what you wanted had happened. You will not notice how your dream becomes reality. Good luck.

Astrologers' advice on how to attract love

Astrologers are convinced that every person is destined for a path encrypted in his natal chart. However, such a card is not a sentence, but a guide to action. Using it you can find out which planets contribute to meeting your loved one, and which ones hinder you. Here are the main tips from astrologers for those who want to meet their soulmate:

1. Get to know and love yourself based on those aspects of your personal astrological horoscope that are most manifested. Become lucky and happy because success attracts love.
2. It is important for women to harmonize the two main planets - the Moon and Venus. They are responsible for manifestations of female charisma. The Moon is softness and attractiveness, Venus is femininity, charm and sexuality.
3. Forgive ex-partners. Write them a farewell letter on the full moon and burn it.
4. With the help of an astrologer, create an ideal portrait of your partner, visualize the image and “release” this request to the Universe. You can count on specific people and understand whether there is a chance to build long-term relationships with them.
5. Show more love - take care of animals, plants, children and the elderly.

Katerina Solyanik, astrologer and author of the book “Astrology of Love and Relationships. Your date of birth will tell you how to meet your soul mate and create a strong family,” believes that the key to personal happiness is in the hands of a person.

Use the advice of esoteric sciences to stimulate positive changes in your life. Try to speed up the meeting of love with the help of calculations, rituals and psychological attitudes. All methods give results, and if you use several, then love will definitely come.

Original article: https://www.nur.kz/esoterics/interesting/256102-kak-privlech-lyubov-v-svoyu-zhizn/

Preparation: making room for feelings in your heart

There is a strict rule: “If you want something new to come into your life, make room for it.” Women tend to keep memories of previous romances in their souls for years, even when living together with an “ex” was like dancing on a volcano, and parting cost several gray hairs. And yet, again and again, your thoughts return to the past, now experiencing happy moments, now choking with resentment - what a scoundrel your beloved turned out to be! Both are equally harmful. Until you let this man out of your life, the romance is still going on, and you subconsciously remain closed to a new feeling.

1. An old but true way. Collect all the evidence of an ended relationship: dried flowers, postcards, movie tickets, a boyfriend’s forgotten T-shirt and other little things dear to your heart, take them to a vacant lot, away from houses and cars, and burn them without any regret. At the same time, do not play the victim under any circumstances! Smile, whistle, you can even jump around the fire shouting: “Burn, burn clearly, so that it doesn’t go out!” Show fate that you voluntarily and joyfully let go of the past, and it will open doors to the future for you.
2. They say that after breaking up with Tom Cruise, Nicole Kidman exclaimed, hinting at her ex-husband’s modest stature: “What a blessing, now I can wear heels again!” Remember, you probably had some desires that your boyfriend did not approve of. The time has come to do what you have been putting off for so long out of reluctance to enter into conflict. Whether it’s buying provocative red lipstick, taking a motorcycle driving course, or dancing with friends at the Ivan Kupala festival is not the point. The main thing is that you decided to fulfill your desire precisely because you were able to free yourself from oppressive relationships.
3. Talk to your ex-lover. But only mentally! Thank him for all the good things he has given you. Explain why you can't be together. This is a very important point: the more compelling arguments you select, the more effective the “parting” will be, because in fact you will be pronouncing your monologue not to the man, but to yourself. Having said everything you consider necessary, say goodbye to the imaginary listener and never return to this conversation again. Close the door and turn to the next one, ready to open.