What to do if a girl is offended and doesn’t want to communicate: 8 ways to make peace

Women's grievances and whims can infuriate even a very balanced guy. But without this slight eccentricity and pouting lips, the girl will lose her attractiveness. Women's bitchiness is exciting and exciting, and men can learn to control it. This article will help you find out what to do if a girl is offended and how to skillfully avoid women’s grievances.

So, let’s “dive” into the whirlpool of female psychology.

What to do if a girl is offended?

From practice, I remember a case when in a young family, a guy emotionally expressed to his other half all her shortcomings, and wrote down on a piece of paper what she needed to work on, hanging it in front of the mirror.
It’s probably already obvious to you what happened next - one quarrel escalated into another. And the girl was very offended. Here is a clear example of what not to do, but still many do just that. writer Alexander Vereshchagin

• 1. Resentment as a method of manipulation
• 2. What should a guy do if a girl is often offended?
• 3.What to do if a girl is offended over trifles, like a small child
• 4. Women's grievances on social networks
• 5.Temperament and female sensitivity
• 6. Manifestation of resentment in girls of different zodiac signs
• 7. A new way to interact with a touchy girl

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Resentment as a way of manipulation

Touchiness is characteristic of most girls.
Looked wrong, gave it wrong, didn’t call, was late, you look around - the list is huge. The poor guy doesn’t know how to approach such a young lady, he’s racking his brains about what to do if the girl is very offended. And here you should think that she is using an inadequate way to convey information to the guy, playing on his feelings, using the young man for her own purposes.

In psychology, this behavior is called manipulative. Manipulation in most cases is unconscious. The girl behaves in a familiar way, which has always brought benefits.

Character of touchy women

It is not always the partner who is to blame for the girl’s insults. Does true love falter over trivial problems? Of course not. This means that the reasons for the behavior lie in the girls themselves. Now let’s take a closer look at what character traits lead to misunderstandings:

1. Vulnerable character. That's why a girl gets offended by little things. It's just that the lady is very sensitive to the most trivial things. “Didn’t kiss you this morning? It means you don’t care and don’t care about me at all.”
2. Cunning character. We already discussed this type a little at the beginning of the article. He rocks manipulative girls who achieve their goals through insults. I would run from such people. Although, it happens that such a character manifests itself unconsciously.
3. Unstable character. This is a case when a woman does not know how to control her emotions. Often resentment can emerge for no apparent reason at all. In fact, she had been storing up anger inside for a long time. Eventually, the little things merge into a single nuclear bomb and explode.

In general, all people are offended.
It’s just that someone knows how to let go of anger in time, come to terms and continue living. And some people torture themselves and others every day.

What should a guy do if a girl often gets offended?

Very touchy girl

Break this habitual circle of grievances. Act outside the box: instead of asking for forgiveness, send a letter by regular mail, describing your feelings experienced at the moment when your loved one is offended.

This technique is called "I-statement". When people talk about feelings rather than blame in everyday interactions, conflicts and misunderstandings go away or are reduced. Instead of the usual retaliatory accusations and excuses: “I’m not guilty of anything. You are yourself...”, the person begins to talk about what is in his soul from such behavior of his partner.

For example: “When you are offended and silent, I cannot find a place for myself. My heart sank. I'm sad that you are suffering. What can I do to fix this?

Touchiness is a personal characteristic that only the girl herself can cope with if she wants to change. Therefore, you should not waste your energy and nerves on persuasion, moral teaching and attempts to remake your beloved. Don’t torment yourself with the constant question: “What to do if a girl is offended and remains silent?” Her character is her territory, where she makes decisions; you have no right to impose yours.

Flirting with a girl correctly

Is it worth doing the same?

What happens if you ignore a girl? Guys can also use ignore to exert influence . A partner’s reluctance to make contact will cause many emotions and questions.

She will begin to analyze recent events, worry about the reasons for this behavior, make assumptions, etc. As a result, unconsciously her interest in her partner’s personality will increase noticeably.

It makes sense to use such a technique in relationships when it is not possible to evoke an emotional response in other ways .

For example, if a girl is spoiled by the attention of the opposite sex and takes courtship for granted.

The appearance of a gentleman who does not fall under her charm will have a sobering effect and force her to reconsider her behavior .

If the relationship has been established for a long time, you should not ignore your soulmate.

Such disregard for your partner's feelings can lead to serious disagreements, retaliatory offenses, and even separation. It is advisable to strive to discuss problems openly and not hush up grievances.

Due to the characteristics of the female psyche, male ignorance usually leads to the following consequences :

1. She's angry. A lack of understanding of the motives for such behavior, a reluctance to “play the silent game,” or confidence in one’s own rightness can lead a friend into a very negative state. Your partner’s behavior will only cause irritation and annoyance.
2. She's getting cold. Every girl has a need for attention.
   The absence of this attention for some time can become a reason for cooling off towards your partner.
3. She ignores in response. A similar situation occurs in couples where both parties are stubborn and excessively proud. Reluctance to compromise leads to constant clashes and mutual manipulation.

What to do if a girl is offended over trifles, like a small child

All children are characterized by touchiness; the only difference is that some retain this trait into adulthood.
Many girls consider infantility and childish behavior cute and attractive. In this regard, such a characteristic is cultivated in oneself. Touchiness in the form of whims and pouting is an accompanying part of child behavior.

When offended, infantile young ladies often do not make contact and are not ready to discuss what happened.

Let’s say such a girl is offended and ignores her, what should a guy do:

• Don't try to talk to her like an adult
  , she is not ready for such a dialogue;
• Give a gift.
  Next to an infantile girl, you must understand that the child always expects to be given gifts, cherished and taken care of;
• Wait a pause.
  Such girls are afraid of loneliness. If this is not a flighty person and does not find a replacement for you, then after a while she herself will call and speak as if nothing had happened.

Infantility can last a lifetime. Aging nymphets in pink speaking in a sweet childish voice are an unpleasant sight. If you are choosing a companion for life, think about whether you want an aging princess next to you at 45 years old?

What can you talk about with a guy to get to know him better?

HOW TO AVOID

The best thing you can do is to avoid situations that are offensive to her.

At the very beginning of a relationship, when you are just taking a closer look at each other, try to avoid the following topics:

• Questions about sex, dirty jokes, especially if she is not too relaxed in this regard.
• “Why is such a beauty still not married?” With this question you will immediately cause rejection, because the girl will hear: “What’s wrong with you?”
• To humiliate her mental abilities. Even if a lady is incompetent in some matters, believe me, she has enough knowledge and experience in other areas. If you laugh at her stupidity, she will find a way to demonstrate her intelligence, but you are unlikely to like it.

Women's grievances on social networks

The girl is offended and the guy doesn’t know what to do...

Social networks have long become an important part of our lives. This is where many people meet and communicate.

What to do if a girl is offended while chatting on a social network

, for example “VK”:

• she needs to write to VK and try to find out whether this is really an insult or a simple reluctance (impossibility) to communicate;
• Social networks are still virtual communication. You should invite the girl to a meeting, bring her “in real life” and discuss the problem;
• If a girl is constantly offended over trifles, what should a real man do? That's right, apologize, because that's what she's waiting for.

If a woman is wrong, you need to ask her for forgiveness. That's exactly what it said in one Soviet film.

Advice from psychologists

Psychology is the science of human behavior and relationships. Psychologists advise trying to cool the intensity of passions by resorting to a frank conversation. If the lady of your heart does not want to communicate, then you can take a break to calm down both.

After a short break, make some pleasant surprise. This could be a gorgeous bouquet of flowers delivered by courier to work or ordering a romantic song on the radio. Perhaps she had some desire that she mentioned in passing, but the guy did not pay attention to it. At the time of a quarrel, the fulfillment of a cherished dream can be an excellent impetus for renewing the relationship.

The conflict that has arisen is not yet a reason to break off relations. Misunderstandings and quarrels happen to all couples, so you should not dramatize the disagreement that has arisen, both for girls and boys. If feelings still remain, then you need to give each other a chance to restore the former connection.

Temperament and female sensitivity

Features of temperament have a significant impact on how grievances occur in the fair half of humanity.
Knowing these secret traits, you can find the key to the heart of every woman. The table below provides information on how grievances are expressed and what to do if your girlfriend is offended:

Temperament is an innate characteristic
that is difficult to change, so your significant other will react this way to insults in most cases.

An individual approach to each girl, attention to her is the key to adult, psychologically competent relationships! It is in them that personal growth and development of a person is possible.

What to talk about with a girl: on a date, on the phone, on the Internet?

Ignores and remains silent, what should I do?

The plan of action for female resentment depends on many factors:

• on how serious the relationship is (two-month romance or long-term love),
• depending on the age of the partners,
• from the characters,
• temperament,
• education.

Most likely, a man has more than once encountered a girl’s reaction to a particular act, so he knows exactly how to and how not to behave. If the relationship is at an early stage, this remains to be seen. What are the options?

Show concern

Most girls love it when a man demonstrates his concern.

Reference! In truth, some people suck the insult out of their fingers so that the chosen one will show all his masculine essence, rush to the other end of the city in any weather, hug and ask for forgiveness.

Some people argue like this: “he writes to me, I’m silent, if he cares, he’ll take action.”

Come to her

There is a category of women to whom you don’t need to say anything, but need to show that you are not going to let the lady of your heart go. The beginning of the reconciliatory path is the same: get ready and come to her, but you don’t need to say anything.

A girl can break free, say that it’s all over, and the man’s task is to lend his shoulder, hold him tightly and let his emotions spill out. Eventually she will give in.

Find the right words

Another way to melt the heart of an offended girl is to choose the right words. Women love with their ears, and, no matter how much they deny it, tender and important words always quickly bear fruit.

Usually a girl who ignores a guy is waiting for those very words that will act as a key. Girls even subconsciously know what word or phrase it should be.

By the way, this method also has several individual points:

• Some are waiting for messages about how dear, needed and loved she is.
• Others need to be “hooked” so that she finally expresses everything that offended or upset her. The phrase “what have I done?” works well with such girls, although it is very dangerous: many ladies become furious with it.
• For others, it is enough to know that the beloved has realized his guilt and asks for forgiveness.

Wait a couple of days

“Girls love bad boys”, “the less we love a woman, the more she likes us”, “they knock each other out” and many more stable expressions can be applied in relation to this situation.

It is much easier and faster to make peace with some girls if you repay in the same coin.

Surprisingly, sometimes the desired and subconscious of a woman works wonders: it seems to her that she wants actions, loud words, flowers, confessions from a man, but in fact she only reacts to indifference. If your girl is one of these, just wait a couple of days and she will write herself.

Give a gift

Some girls expect not so much actions and words as gifts. The phrase “the main thing is not the gift, but the attention” does not apply to such people.

However, for some, a hand-made postcard will be enough, others count on a bouquet of flowers or a large teddy bear, and still others - on a fur coat or jewelry.

Attention! There is only one piece of advice here - to reconsider your attitude towards this mercantile person.

Finally, the wisest and most mature girls try not to “make a fuss” of their loved one and not make a scene out of nowhere. These people just need time to cool down, after which they continue to build healthy and serious relationships without remembering what happened.

How a guy should behave if a girl is offended is explained in the video:

Manifestation of resentment in girls of different zodiac signs

Depending on the element and the zodiac sign, the fair half of humanity is offended and moves away from the offense in its own way.
Let's see how this happens:

• The fire element (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius)
  reacts violently to insults, but also easily forgives them. For example, what to do if a Sagittarius girl is offended? Be active, talk to her, defend your point of view, vigorously make peace with the help of sex, finally.
• The earth element (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)
  reacts to insults more calmly, but remembers them for a long time. What to do if a girl of an earth sign is very offended? The way to the heart of such beauties is through the stomach. These women should be invited to a restaurant, given wine and flowers.
• The air element (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius)
  reacts most easily to insults. Such girls are easy-going, fast, and agile. However, their grievances may be unfounded. What to do if a girl is offended for no reason? This young lady should be distracted and entertained. A walk, a trip to the cinema, a trip - and she herself won’t remember why she was offended.
• The water element (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)
  does not voice grievances, but worries inside. Such girls become silent, thoughtful, and do not make contact. Let’s say a girl is offended and doesn’t talk, what should we do then? Be there, show care and attention, behave as if nothing had happened. Such a snow queen herself will melt after a while and tell you what was bothering her.

The zodiac sign will help in determining tendencies towards different manifestations of grievances. But it should be remembered that the man himself must behave with dignity and not offend his beloved with his behavior, otherwise no horoscope will help correct the problem.

How to communicate with a girl correctly

Why?

If a girl ignores you, what does it mean?

There are several reasons why a girl may demonstratively stop communicating:

1. Angry about something . Careless remarks made in passing regarding appearance or character, insults, important matters postponed, being late for a meeting, all this can cause severe resentment.
2. Hormonal surges . Most representatives of the fair sex experience serious changes in their bodies on certain days of the month. During such a period, a girl is characterized by increased emotionality, excitability and cannot always control her behavior.
3. Cooling .
   Perhaps the relationship has reached its final stage. People do not always find the strength to openly admit their desire to end the affair due to the fact that they no longer have any feelings for their partner. In this case, the desire to move away becomes a sign of the beginning of the end.
4. Manipulation . Often this behavior is a way of manipulation. The person who is exposed begins to get nervous and try to understand the reason for his partner’s cooling towards him. As a result, he becomes more accommodating and compliant.
5. Difficult life situation. The reason for a negative mood may lie in the presence of serious problems in life, a quarrel with parents, financial difficulties, troubles at work, illness and much more. In difficult situations, a person often withdraws into himself and does not want to come into contact with others.
6. I took a break.
   This usually happens in long-term relationships when one of the parties has some dissatisfaction. The partner needs time to think about the situation and evaluate the existing relationship. As a result, she may come to the understanding that the person next to her is “the wrong one,” or she may reconsider her own position and resume communication at the previous level.
7. Doesn't see any prospects . Most girls who are in stable and long-term relationships want to get married. The absence of a marriage proposal from a partner greatly upsets them, makes them nervous and thinks about ending the affair. Ignoring in this case is a manifestation of resentment.
8. Offended by insensitivity . A lack of emotional response from a guy can really hurt.

Two Reasons for Willfully Ignoring

In what two cases does a girl deliberately ignore a guy? Often a partner behaves in this way purposefully , guided by one of the following motives:

1. Seeks to attract attention. Unfortunately, girls are not inclined to openly talk to fans about their experiences and desires. They strive to unobtrusively lead the guy to an understanding of the situation, so that he himself realizes his mistakes and corrects them.
2. Irritated by a fan's intrusiveness. The opposite situation occurs when attention turns out to be excessive or unwanted.
   The obsessiveness of a fan who does not inspire favor encourages you to withdraw from communication with him.

A new way to interact with a touchy girl

A guy who has studied the characteristics of his girlfriend’s temperament, knows her zodiac sign, reads attempts to manipulate himself and nip them in the bud, becomes the master of the relationship.
The woman feels that he is a leader and is able to submit to him. Such a man intuitively knows what to do if a girl is very offended.

To do this, you just need to be attentive to the opposite sex, remain calm in a critical situation, and remain silent more than speak. In general, look courageous, maintain dignity, do not maintain touchiness.

Perhaps you have your own unique examples of what to do if a girl is constantly offended. Let's discuss them in the comments!

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OFFENSIVE PHRASES

Many pick-up artists teach guys how to easily seduce any girl in five minutes. To do this, they have a whole list of prepared “witty” phrases , which in theory should work, but in practice they sound stupid and offensive to girls.

Forbidden phrases:

1. "You're not like other girls." The guy thinks he said a compliment, but for the girl it sounds like an assessment of the product. She doesn’t like that you compare and evaluate her with someone. Instead, it's better to say, "You're not like anyone I've ever talked to before."
2. "I respect your independence." For a girl it sounds like: “Do what you want, I don’t care.”
3. “Baby, smile, it suits you.” A woman is not obliged to boost your ego, cheer you up and entertain you. If you want to see her smile, do something that will make her smile.
4. “You are the most beautiful among your friends.” Remember, this is not a beauty contest, and you are not on the jury. If you want to give a compliment, say: “You are the most beautiful person I have ever seen,” but do not compare her with her friends. To her, this means that you were evaluating other women as potential lovers.
5. “I didn’t know you were so smart.” That is, you initially doubted her mental abilities and dated her only for her appearance?
6. "All girls love shopping." No, not everything. This is an old, tired stereotype that claims that all women are stupid spenders who cannot have more interesting hobbies.
7. “It is very rare to meet such a handsome lawyer (financier). You must be very popular among clients.” With this compliment you are implying that she made her career not through hard work, but only through her appearance.
8. “I like it when a girl eats well.” You want to show your progressive views on the female form, but for her it sounds like a hint of excess weight.
9. “Why aren’t you married yet?” It’s better to say right away: “Who needs you? Say thank you for paying attention to you."

Such phrases will sound ambiguous and offensive, so don’t be surprised if there isn’t a second date.

Love or addiction?

Each person has their own sense of boundaries. What is an insult to one, is an ordinary part of life for another. Therefore, you need to make it clear to your loved one what is acceptable in the relationship between you and what is unacceptable. Clearly indicate what you are willing to tolerate from him and what you will not tolerate under any circumstances.

If someone invades my own space and pretends to occupy my time, attention, violates my spiritual comfort, it is my duty to politely let him know that he has gone too far. Of course, there is healthy sacrifice in a loving relationship. It differs from unhealthy awareness and selflessness.

Self-interest can be subtle: just the expectation of applause, praise for every good deed. You ironed your shirt and expected him to praise you! And you do it just so that she can be stroked. Doing good deeds for loved ones, while wanting to increase your self-esteem and self-esteem, is a manifestation of addiction (or codependency).

In love, we make a sacrifice absolutely selflessly and expect nothing in return. They will say “thank you” - good. But they won’t say, the soul still rejoices from the knowledge that it has done a good deed for its loved one.

If subtle bargaining begins: “I’m doing this for you, and you have to repay me,” then this is manipulation. And you have to be very honest with yourself in order to recognize it in your behavior.

Love comes with sacrificing whatever you deem acceptable. And codependency reveals itself with the words: “I gave you my best years, and you...”.

Who should protect my borders? Of course, myself. You can signal: “Sorry, but I will feel bad if I talk to you all evening and don’t do my usual things.”

The tool for setting healthy boundaries is simple. It lies in the ability to pronounce the word “no”. A prerequisite for this is an honest “no”, so that there is a complete coincidence of the feeling in the soul (“no, I don’t want this, it’s not in my interests”) and the words on the lips.

The nature of male resentment

Do men get offended? And what lies at the root of men’s resentment? Resentment refers to the feelings and experiences of a person caused by the negative actions of another. An offended person can show aggression, neglect, or ignore his offender in order for him to apologize or somehow correct the situation.

Resentment is not always objective. Sometimes adults, like children, manipulate their loved ones with the help of insults in order to achieve their attention or some of their goals.

Such manipulations can force you to take actions that you would hardly agree to in a calm environment. To avoid finding yourself in such a situation, ask yourself: “Do I really feel guilty?”, “Is this reaction caused by the person’s unjustified expectations?”

If you realize that you have begun to quarrel too often, argue with a loved one for no apparent reason, think about whether you spend enough time together, pay attention to each other, discuss your plans, share your experiences?

In addition to the lack of time spent with a partner, the cause of resentment may be a lack of interest in his life - you do not listen carefully, interrupt, or ignore what is important to him.

Behavior of an offended man

Men and women are offended differently. Girls, as a rule, express their resentment with tears, hysterics, scandals, and having given free rein to their feelings, they quickly calm down and forget the grievances. Men often do not show their experiences, keep everything to themselves, and a woman gets only contemptuous silence from her beloved.

How to understand that a man is offended:

• is silent, ignores you;
• avoids communication;
• becomes dissatisfied and gloomy;
• does not call or write to you, does not respond to your messages either;
• shows rudeness in communication;
• leaves home.

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If this behavior continues for several days, this is a serious reason to think about it. There is no need to be offended by a man in response, to create scandals and hysterics. It is important to understand what exactly your loved one was offended by, what actions of yours caused such a reaction? If you cannot understand the reason, try to attract your partner’s attention and talk to him calmly, carefully ask him what hurt his feelings so much.

If a woman understands that she actually behaved incorrectly and offended her beloved man with her words and actions, she urgently needs to correct these points.

If all else fails

There are cases when a lady does not want to communicate because she does not like the man or she has no desire to build a relationship with him. Here are some possible scenarios:

1. The girl is busy and cannot answer the call. This does not mean that she was offended or the relationship came to an end.
2. Perhaps she can’t hear or the phone is on silent mode.
3. There is a possibility that your loved one simply doesn’t want to talk. This is already a serious wake-up call.
4. There is another young man in her life whom she likes better.
5. Satisfying ambitions. There are women who meet for the sake of their own pride. When it is satisfied, the lady stops calling and answering messages. However, if the guy makes an effort, then perhaps he will be able to win her affection.
6. The young lady is not free, she has a boyfriend or even a husband, and she gave her phone number in a fit of emotion. Such an acquaintance has no chance of continuation.

The guy needs to understand that the girl did not vow eternal love and is not at all obligated to continue the relationship. Silence is a sign that the novel will not continue.

In these cases, communication on social networks can help; perhaps you should take a closer look at her profile, find out her interests, or leave a comment under the photo.

Another option is an SMS or comment that would hurt the girl’s pride. For example: “When we met, you seemed beautiful, but, as it turned out, you are not so good.” If she continues to ignore, then don't insist.

The main thing you need to know is that a woman’s resentment has an emotional basis, so men think that their beloved is behaving stupidly and illogically. At this time, misunderstanding intensifies, which subsequently leads to separation. To prevent this from happening, you need to speak to a woman in her language, or at least learn to listen and understand her feelings. Then there will be no reason for offense and manipulation.

Desire for revenge2

Women and men perceive relationships and actions committed in them differently. Many guys can make a number of mistakes without even realizing them. And often this happens unconsciously. If a man tries to prove to a girl that he is right, then the situation only gets worse. Therefore, the girl’s behavior looks like revenge for the fact that the guy does not want to understand her.

Sometimes such resentment helps guys correct their behavior patterns and then relationships improve. An example would be a situation where, when exiting public transport, a guy did not shake his hand to a girl. Such a gesture is regarded by the girl as disrespectful. Also, the reasons may be a harsh statement or an inappropriate joke.

How a man should behave to improve the situation

Don’t despair if your loved one pouts; there is always the opportunity to correct the situation. The main thing is to find the right approach.

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Choosing the optimal time

Not any time is suitable for sorting things out. To choose the right moment, you need to calm down and approach the matter with a cool head. The second important point is the woman’s condition; she needs to be given time to cool down. After the passions have subsided and the partners have come to their senses, the man can begin to take active steps to make amends. At the same time, you need to be very attentive and careful, your beloved should be in a calm mood, not rush anywhere and not be busy with something.

How to choose the right words

This question can be answered only when the man knows the habits of his beloved well. Not every woman likes affectionate nicknames or sophisticated compliments, but any woman will accept objective praise and positive assessment of her good qualities. When choosing words for an apology, you need to know when to stop, because if a woman feels false notes, the situation will only get worse.

What to write as an apology

The first thing you need to know is that there are no common phrases or cliched expressions. The second taboo is the help of friends or relatives.

You need to write only in your own words and from the heart. Poetry would not be entirely appropriate as an apology via SMS, since in this case it will sound formulaic.

It is better to start an apology message with the phrase “I am guilty of you...” or “I should not have done...”, and then repent of your actions. It would also be a good idea to mention your feelings for your loved one and that the bad behavior will not happen again.

Instead of a thousand words

Actions speak louder than words, but it is not at all necessary to make a grand gesture or an expensive gift. Sometimes a simple action is enough, but when it is in place and at the right time, it gives magical results.

One of the most effective ways is to change behavior. This requires not only willpower, but also courage or even self-sacrifice. You need to change not for a day, two or a month, but to purposefully work on yourself until the negative quality that harms relationships is completely eradicated.

The second option is to let the woman know that she is loved deeply and reverently, to show real care and attention.

What to do if the guy is not to blame

If a guy really offended a girl, that’s one story, but if he’s not to blame, and she still holds a grudge, then you need to act decisively and quickly.

The first thing to do is to ask about the reasons for her behavior and try to get your beloved to talk. If the response is silence, then it is better to leave it for a while. Perhaps she will cool down, think it over and tell you about the reasons for this behavior. After this, the young man will be able to understand how to behave further.

The main rule is that you should not apologize if there is really no reason for this, otherwise you risk becoming a victim of manipulation and developing a feeling of guilt in yourself.

Men also need to know that sometimes the cause of resentment and irritation in women is simply fatigue or poor health. In this case, you need to give your beloved maximum attention and try to please her with pleasant little things.

Why doesn’t she answer and is it necessary to try to rouse her at all?

Usually, if a girl is ignored in the early stages of dating, no text message will fix anything.
You either did something wrong on the date or she just didn't like you. It happens, it's normal: We don't have to please everyone. Therefore, it is ideal if you communicate with several girls at the same time, and if one merges, then it will not affect you at all. In this case, you will remain emotionally balanced and will not do anything stupid.

However, you can still cast a fishing rod. What if something bites? To do this, you need to wait a short pause, and then write something that will put her in a stupor. For example, “Your mom liked me.” It's a rare girl who won't get worried when she receives such an SMS. "What? How did they cross paths, what did she say?” Try to come up with something that she simply cannot ignore.

Sometimes this breaks through the wall of ignore, and the girl gets in touch again.