Ivan Vdovin
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There are people who are so charismatic, they know everything, they can support any topic of conversation. They are easy and comfortable. And you look at him and think how to become a sociable and interesting person? In fact, everything is not so difficult, but you will have to try if you want to become a truly interesting person and be liked by everyone. Read to the end, as usual, all the most interesting things are there.
Train your memory
After you've attended a lecture or read something new, summarize or write down the information.
It is best to use this method from early childhood, but it will also help adults. Do this regularly and your memory will gradually improve. If you constantly meet new people, but have trouble remembering names, use the method of American politician Henry Clay. He was known to be able to remember the name and circumstances of a meeting, even if he had only met the person once. The fact is that every evening before going to bed, he wrote down in a notebook the names of those he met during the day, and repeated them in the morning.
Taboo topics
Here we will talk about those topics that greatly worsen the atmosphere of communication. Remember them and try to avoid them, unless of course these topics of conversation are deliberately discussed.
Policy
If you want to maintain relationships with your loved ones, girlfriend, parents, friends, then find out what political views they have and if they are opposite, then close this topic forever if you don’t want to quarrel. Politics is just trash from taboo topics.
Religion
Everything is the same as in politics, here everyone must remain unconvinced. All. Understand that our world is diverse and fic knows how politics and religion actually work.
Listen carefully to your interlocutor
Don't talk incessantly, let the other person speak as well. Even if his speech is boring and tedious, try to express interest and answer. This attitude may be considered hypocritical, but it is based on a simple rule: treat people with the same respect that you want to receive in return. An open expression of displeasure or indifference will offend your interlocutor and show your bad manners.
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