How to behave with a girl in a relationship and at the first meeting - what you can do and what you can’t do

It is generally accepted that there are rules or patterns in how to behave correctly with a girl. The popularity of this myth is due to the great desire of young guys to receive ready-made instructions, leading to good relationships, mutual sympathy and even some moments of influence on the girl’s behavior. Of course, there is no unambiguous and only correct way of behavior, and such a conclusion comes to an individual only with a huge number of mistakes made or unsuccessful attempts. An increased level of anxiety and a slight decrease in self-esteem can provoke a desire to find guarantees of success.

There are no definite recommendations on how to behave with a girl, since each situation will suit not only its own special style of communication, but also words and topics, taking into account the two individuals meeting for interaction. However, there are some classic and general areas, taking into account which will help set relationships in the right direction, as well as improve the level of mutual understanding and sympathy in existing ones.

What does a girl look at when she meets you?

There are five main criteria that are primarily noted in a man by representatives of the fair sex of all ages.

  1. Appearance. It is important for a woman to see next to a man with a toned body, in clean and stylish clothes, with a neat haircut and a pleasant aroma of perfume.
  2. Education. This does not mean that the interlocutor must have several higher education diplomas. It will be enough to listen to how he speaks, what he is interested in, whether he reads books, what cultural events he likes to attend, what films he watches most often.
  3. Manners. Most girls like it when they open the door for her, give her a hand when exiting a vehicle, help her put on a coat, and other manifestations of gallantry.
  4. Character. Important male character traits for women often include kindness, sincerity, determination, determination, caring, and the ability to be in charge.
  5. Reliability. It is important for a girl to feel support and support next to her, and not to be in a relationship with a person who needs to be sponsored. If a guy doesn't work, he doesn't have goals and potential, he won't be able to win over a woman.

Also, representatives of the fair sex pay attention to the smell of a man’s body. If it is pleasant and fresh, then the lady will be attracted to you like a magnet.

Don't try to impress. Just communicate

Some people believe that women only love men with high status and income. This statement is partially justified, but this does not mean that during the first conversation you need to talk about your professional and financial successes.

Many guys are sure that the more attractive a girl is, the higher her level of demands in relation to the opposite sex. As a result of this erroneous opinion, light flirting turns into reading out a resume.

The more people talk about their achievements, the more they demonstrate their need for approval. A tendency towards arrogance reveals a poor soul in a person who is desperately trying to fill the void in his life.

It's important to understand that being impressed is not the same as being infatuated.

Even a girl's sincere approval of your achievements does not mean that she enjoys spending time with you. A prestigious foreign car and a substantial amount in the bank are, of course, good, but such material things have nothing to do with the chemistry of human relationships and will not arouse romantic feelings in a girl.

Can you give a girl the impression that you have known each other for a long time? Can you make her laugh? This is what will set you apart from the rest and help you be liked.

How to behave with a stranger

Guys often have difficulty meeting a woman. Not everyone can immediately make a good impression. Many guys wonder how to approach the girl they like in the subway, cafe or right on the street. For this, psychologists have developed a number of simple rules.

  1. Finding the right moment. Wait until the girl leaves the restaurant to get some fresh air, you can invite her to dance at the disco, get off with her at the subway stop and start a conversation there.
  2. Confident behavior. The guy should overcome his inner agitation, speak confidently and act calmly.
  3. Originality, but without going too far. Not every girl likes phrases like “Does your mother need a son-in-law?” It's much better if you compliment her, introduce yourself and start a simple conversation.
  4. Deed. You can offer your help, for example, carry a heavy bag, or show your attention and send a cocktail to her table.
  5. Invitation to a meeting. If a woman is in no hurry, then invite her to a cafe for a cup of coffee or ice cream. Indecisiveness can lead to you losing your only chance to meet this particular woman.

If a girl gave her phone number when meeting, then the guy should clarify when it is convenient to call and keep his word. If your attempts to get acquainted are unsuccessful, do not get angry or upset. Learn to maintain composure, then next time you will definitely be lucky.

Don’t despair and don’t be afraid to make an effort to get acquainted, so as not to regret your inaction later.

Rules of etiquette at work

What woman doesn’t like to be a coquette and catch men’s gazes?

However, work is not the right place for such actions. So how to behave at work?

  • Appearance. You must always be well-groomed and tidy. Don't allow yourself to go to work with a dirty head or a wrinkled sweater.
  • Makeup . You can wear makeup, but it should be as natural as possible and not attract attention to yourself. There shouldn't be any smokey eyes.
  • Cloth . The choice of clothing should, first of all, depend on the internal “dress code”. Don't try to wear black bottoms and white tops if the guidelines allow you to wear your own style. Show off your personality. But no mini skirts or deep necklines. You can't afford to create the image of a frivolous girl


Etiquette at work

  • Workplace . _ Keep your work area clean and tidy. You're a woman. You must be careful in everything. Don't allow dust or crumbs from lunch to accumulate on the table. Also, you shouldn’t place a frame with a photo of you in a swimsuit, for example, on the table. If you really want to always see your family in the photo, then choose the most discreet photo
  • Punctuality . Don't be late for work. For your bosses this will be a bad sign, and for your colleagues it will be a frivolous approach to work
  • Greetings . Always greet your boss first and smile a little, even if you are in a bad mood. Your boss should see you as a positive employee.


Work etiquette rules

  • Do not give up . If something doesn't work out, don't despair. Don't be afraid to ask your colleagues for help, especially at first. Try to find the information you need anywhere. Your task is to be a strong and promising employee for your superiors
  • Don't flirt with your colleagues openly. Of course, if you have mutual sympathy, then you can flirt. But this flirting should not be provocative. And it is unacceptable to flirt with the entire male half of the team at once

IMPORTANT: These are general rules. Depending on where you work and your position, you may be either more open or even more reserved.

How to behave on a first date

If a girl agrees to go on a date with you, it is important to consider five basic rules of behavior so as not to disappoint her.

  1. Find a comfortable place. The meeting should take place without obstacles, calmly and naturally. You can ask the girl’s preferences, but also take into account your own characteristics. For example, if you don't like going on extreme rides, then you won't be able to relax and perform your best at a meeting.
  2. Help your companion get rid of anxiety and embarrassment. You can compliment her on her appearance and add a sense of humor to the conversation. It is important to choose topics for conversation that are interesting to the girl, and in which she understands no worse than you.
  3. Act confidently without showing inner anxiety. You can prepare for the date in advance and think through topics that will be interesting to both of you.
  4. If suddenly the conversation reaches a dead end, it is important to quickly find your bearings and switch to another topic. You can ask about the girl’s occupation, what she is interested in, how she spends her leisure time. It is important not to bring up deeply personal topics on the first date, such as family matters or past relationships.
  5. Show the girl your interest, be courteous, tactful and gallant, do not use rude words or ridicule in the conversation. The interlocutor will like the kindness, politeness and smiling nature of the gentleman.

You can follow these rules of conduct if you want to transform your relationship with a girl from friendly to romantic. When you meet, surprise your chosen one with a small gift so that she appreciates the generosity of your soul and the seriousness of your intentions.

A bouquet of flowers, a box of chocolates or a small souvenir is enough. The main thing is that the gift is inexpensive and non-committal, otherwise the girl may feel awkward.

Don't focus on yourself

Unsuccessful ladies' men often talk too much about themselves. The problem is that this is not the best way to form relationships with other people. This attitude can turn a conversation into a competition. Who will say first? How can you translate the topic to yourself? All this looks like intellectual masturbation. It is unlikely that after such contact people will have a pleasant impression of communicating with each other.

We rarely meet people who are interested in our opinion. Such individuals are even less common among attractive young ladies. By focusing your attention on a girl, you will make her feel special.

Take every opportunity to get to know the girl better. The more aware you are of her interests and emotions, the more she will like you.

Don’t focus on general questions like “what do you do” and “where are you from?” It's boring. Try to find out something more personal, try changing the topic of conversation to discussing a movie you recently watched or a book you love. You can argue with the girl a little, but don't overdo it. A fascinating and natural conversation will win you over a girl who seemed unattainable just a couple of hours ago.

Examples of good questions

  • What places and countries would you like to visit?
  • What in your life are you most proud of?
  • Do you want to become famous? What exactly would you like to become famous for?
  • What would you do if you had absolute freedom and a good luck potion?
  • What superpower would you like to have?
  • What do you like most about your job? What's less?

Just remember that the conversation should not feel like filling out a questionnaire. Don't ask questions in a row, but weave them organically into the conversation. Think of a conversation as a game of catch. The girl makes a serve, you accept and pass it back to her through a new question that is appropriate in the context.

What to talk about on a date

Many men do not worry in advance about how to conduct a conversation with a girl, and often encounter difficulties in communication. I highly recommend coming up with a list of neutral topics to prevent awkward pauses in your meeting. The main topics that both understand include:

  • favorite music and films;
  • hobbies with which you can surprise your interlocutor and show yourself at your best;
  • the girl’s hobby, based on this information you can figure out how to conduct the next meetings;
  • the type of activity of each;
  • funny stories from childhood that will touch your interlocutor and make the dialogue relaxed.

If a guy notices interest on the part of a girl and sees that they managed to establish contact, you can superficially touch on love topics. For example, find out what character traits are important to her in a man, her views on family life, whether she likes romance, what male habits are unacceptable to her, and so on.

It is forbidden to ask questions of an intimate nature or touch on the topic of former relationships at the first meeting. This can make her angry or put her off.

Rules of etiquette at a party, at the table for girls

How to behave when you are invited to visit ?

Nine Not Away:

  • Don't be late. Being late looks very disrespectful towards the hosts
  • Do not arrive more than 5 minutes earlier than the appointed time. By arriving early, you can embarrass your hosts, who were just finishing the final preparations for your arrival.
  • Don't go empty-handed. No need to buy any gifts. Just take something for tea


Etiquette at a party

  • Don't rush to the table right away. While no one is sitting at the table, you should also refrain: sit in a chair for now and wait
  • Don't pick your own seat. There is no need to go through all the places at the table in search of a more suitable one. If the hosts have not clearly assigned you a seat, then sit in any one you like.
  • Don't draw attention to yourself. Don't speak louder than other guests or laugh too loudly


How to behave when visiting?

  • Don't criticize food. Be sure to tell the hostess which dish you are absolutely delighted with. She will be very pleased
  • Don't talk on the phone at the table
  • Don't linger when all the guests are already starting to leave. If you are the only guest, then look at the hostess/host. If she glances at her watch every now and then, starts yawning and talks about how much she has to do tomorrow, then you should have left a long time ago

IMPORTANT: Of course, it matters greatly who invited you: your best friend or fiance to meet your parents

How to treat a girl without losing her

Not all men in relationships know how to properly treat their chosen one during periods of crisis and the appearance of chills. To solve this problem, psychologists have developed the following recommendations:

  • take care of your loved one every day;
  • maintain passion in intimate life;
  • organize romantic meetings;
  • make unusual presents;
  • give compliments regularly;
  • show tenderness and attention;
  • be interested in the affairs of your beloved, her hobbies, dreams;
  • build relationships with her family and friends;
  • spend more time together;
  • do not lie even in small things;
  • be able to listen without interrupting;
  • Do not criticize excessively if there is a reason.

Anger, aggression, reproaches, insults and humiliation will lead to a breakdown in relationships. Even if a girl is wrong, you need to behave with dignity and not lose your composure.

Telephone etiquette

Telephone etiquette not at work, but in everyday life is quite simple:

  • See the rules of speech etiquette above and follow them even on the phone

IMPORTANT: Your emotions are transmitted over the phone, despite the lack of visual contact

  • If you are interested in communicating, then smile and be cheerful. Your interlocutor will definitely feel it


Telephone etiquette

  • Don't eat while talking. No matter how hard you try to eat quietly, your interlocutor will catch you doing it. And this is already bad form
  • Don't talk while lying down. The interlocutor will also notice the strange timbre of your voice and consider it as indifference

IMPORTANT: Of course, you can be more free in communication with your loved ones

How to communicate with a girl correctly

I'll give you some simple tips on how to talk to a woman.

  1. Don't be boring. Any story should be told emotionally, and not monotonously and tediously. Women value intelligence and erudition in men, but at the same time they need to be able to arouse interest and excitement for further communication.
  2. Speak quietly and slowly. You should not jabber incoherently, otherwise the interlocutor will not understand anything, and too much information will tire her and cause irritation.
  3. Talking is not enough. There is no need to tell the girl all the information about yourself at once, otherwise the dialogue will turn into a monologue.
  4. Be original. Do not burden your interlocutor with everyday problems, stories about work and pets. Know how to present information in an interesting way, with humor, in order to surprise a woman.
  5. Ask the right questions. Choose questions that can be answered in detail. Then the woman will be able to think about something new, express her point of view, and philosophize.
  6. Get to know each other. A man must inspire confidence in his interlocutor. Try to be honest and sincere in your communications. You can talk about your family, remember a couple of funny stories, but don’t embellish them.
  7. Turn on your imagination. To prevent communication from being banal, come up with interesting questions so that the woman can express herself. For example, you can ask what animal she associates herself with or how she would spend a million dollars.
  8. Don't put pressure on the girl. If the conversation suddenly turns to sex, watch her reaction. If the girl smiles sweetly and is not angry, then you can continue. Treat her with understanding and try to feel her reaction to your words.

You can learn more about how to properly communicate with a girl on our website and from the video.

Make eye contact

The most important rule is to look the girl in the eyes. It’s probably obvious that you shouldn’t stare at your chest, but a long glance past your interlocutor or a lingering glance at clothes can also spoil the impression.

Eye contact is an incredibly powerful tool for creating rapport between people. More than 20 years ago, psychologist Arthur Aron experimentally proved that people are able to fall in love in a few minutes, just by looking into each other’s eyes.

Avoiding eye contact reveals insecurity.

If you don’t believe in yourself, then why on earth should a stranger believe in you? It's even worse if the distracted gaze is interpreted as a sign of disinterest and boredom.

Looking eye to eye seems to say to the girl: “I’m giving you all my attention.” This is really important. Charismatic men use eye contact as a way to make a girl feel like the most interesting person in the world.

The way you look at a girl when talking is equally important. Squint your eyes when talking about something serious, and raise your eyebrows when talking about something surprising or scary.

How not to behave with a girl

When communicating with a girl, it is important not to show the following character traits:

  • diffidence;
  • greed;
  • cowardice;
  • indecision;
  • talkativeness

Women don't like men who talk too much. They have girlfriends for frequent and long conversations. A woman primarily appreciates a man’s reliability and the way he keeps his promises. She will be fascinated if you make some big decision yourself and bring it to life.

No normal girl will like it if you start praising another girl in front of her. At a minimum, she will perceive this with suspicion, and at maximum, she will think that you are prone to cheating. Then there is no chance for you to develop a relationship.

If a girl asked you for something and you didn’t do it, she will remember it and in the future she may turn not to you, but to someone else. In addition, a scandal cannot be ruled out. However, it is not necessary to be at the beck and call for all women’s whims. It is better to voice your opinion and decision immediately, regardless of whether you can fulfill the request or not. Behave like a man, don't shirk.

I don’t advise doing women a favor. If you did something, it was of your own free will, because you decided so. You should not show that you are expecting something in return.

You cannot promise a woman what you cannot or do not want to fulfill. It is better to refuse first, and then think about it and agree at will, and not vice versa.

If a woman is in a bad mood and is all emotional, the best way to find out about the problem is to ask in a calm and gentle tone what is bothering her. A heartfelt conversation will help her calm down and share her experiences with you.

Girls don't like it when men criticize her tastes, interests, hobbies and outlook on life. Such interlocutors are trying to elevate themselves in this way, which means that they have problems with self-esteem. If you think that your chosen one is mistaken, do not stop her from expressing her point of view. Otherwise, she may find a more delicate man with common views and preferences.

You can learn more about male mistakes at the stage of meeting a girl in the video:

Internal positioning:

  1. Change your beliefs.
  2. Stop being nice.
  3. Pump up your inner state.
  4. Say no.
  5. Achieve harmony.

Change your beliefs.

All your troubles and problems are solely in your head. And correct positioning starts from there, and then external signs are added.

You must become cool, the best, confident, self-sufficient for yourself. And then try to convince others of this.

Find your strengths, think about what you can respect yourself for. Set new goals, even small ones, but achieve them.

Stop being nice.

Being good to everyone is a complex from childhood. When you wanted to be praised.

Now you have grown up and are waiting for approval from other people. This means you do everything to be good for them.

Pleasing others should not be on your schedule at all!

You know girls love bad boys.

Pump up your inner state.

Not only the body, but also the brain requires constant stress and work on oneself. You have to pump it up endlessly.

Watch your thoughts, don’t let negativity overcome your sober mind.

This will take more than one day, but it will greatly help you avoid many problems in the future and achieve your goals.

Don’t overestimate the importance of a girl, know how to put her in her place and dominate.

Say no.

Never bend in front of a girl! This is how your self-esteem falls, and you yourself in her eyes.

How to behave in front of a girl? Don't agree to everything just because you're afraid of losing her. It only shows your insecurity.

If you understand that you don’t want to do what she asks, feel free to refuse. Your life and comfort should be most important to you. Be a man!

Achieve harmony.

You should feel very relaxed, at ease and comfortable. In other words, be completely comfortable with yourself. But don’t slip into narcissism; you still need to always work on yourself.

Ideally, you should achieve harmony in your internal and external positioning at the same time. Work on yourself.

What negative male character traits attract girls?

Men can use negative character traits and some bad habits for good and attract women with them.

Selfishness

Women usually like healthy male egoism. They like it when their partner is self-confident, proud, and knows what he wants to achieve in life. A woman thinks that such a man will be able to protect, take care of her and will always achieve any of his goals.

Brutality

Ruthlessness and heartlessness, determination and masculine strength often conquer women's hearts. A man's rudeness does not always tell girls about bad upbringing. Sometimes it seems to them that a rude partner can achieve a lot in life and will never stop halfway. And successful men are always popular with women.

Cunning

Some women like resourceful and cunning men who can emerge victorious from any situation. These ladies are not at all embarrassed that on the way to achieving their goals, their chosen ones will be cunning and manipulate people. Perhaps someone will consider this wrong and stop communicating with the cunning man, but there are women who will immediately trust the leader and will sincerely admire his successes.

Narcissism

A man who admires himself may attract a woman because he exudes confidence. She will be pleased to be in the company of someone who knows her strengths and is not afraid to tell others about them. However, you should not constantly talk only about yourself, otherwise the woman will soon become bored.

Good manners for girls

For girls of any age, good manners are important, which include the following:

  1. In public places you need to restrain your emotions. Avoid excessively loud speech and active gestures.
  2. According to etiquette, the man greets first. The lady can nod, smile or extend her hand.
  3. Be smart in restaurants. Order a little and eat slowly. Ask for a separate bill if you are not on a date.
  4. If you are planning a visit and you are on a diet or adhere to other restrictions, warn the hosts about this in advance.
  5. When walking with a man, do not let him carry your purse. This is considered bad manners.
  6. Punctuality is important, but if you are running late, give advance notice. If you arrive early, don't expect the same from others.
  7. If you are asked uncomfortable questions, it is better to answer with humor. Refrain from gossip so as not to spoil your reputation.
  8. Be polite. Say “thank you,” “please,” “sorry,” etc.
  9. Watch your appearance. You should carry a sponge or shoe wipes in your bag. Don't forget about manicure and hair styling. Do not overuse perfume - a couple of drops is enough.

I recommend reading Speech etiquette: basic rules

ATTENTION! If you wear a watch, you don't need to constantly look at it. Otherwise, your interlocutor may decide that you are tired of him.

Etiquette rules for girls in society

The rules of behavior in society for girls largely depend on the situation, but there are general points:

  1. Say hello first.
  2. Regardless of the situation, exercise restraint.
  3. Treat everyone with respect, regardless of social status or age.
  4. If you were greeted with a full phrase, for example, “Good afternoon,” respond in the same way.
  5. As you enter and exit, hold the door for the person following you.
  6. You cannot enter the premises wearing a hat and gloves. The exception is the hat, which can be left on.
  7. When entering the elevator, let the men pass first. The one closest to the door should leave first.

Rules of behavior in a restaurant for a girl

If you come to a restaurant, follow these rules:

  1. A man should select a table and communicate with the staff.
  2. Forget about telephone conversations for a while. The handbag should be hung on a chair. Put your phone away and spend time with your interlocutor.
  3. If you have a wet umbrella, fold it before entering the restaurant and leave it in a place specially designated for this.
  4. The man orders the food. Voice your wishes to him before the waiter arrives. He should also communicate with the staff.
  5. Consider the specifics of the establishment. If you come to an Asian restaurant, you don’t need to order European dishes.
  6. Be restrained in your gestures and do not forget about your posture.
  7. Don't talk too loudly.
  8. If your order arrived earlier than others, you don't need to start eating it right away. Wait until everyone present has their plates.

REFERENCE. When you arrive at a restaurant, take off your outerwear, as well as your hat or mittens if it is cold outside.

I recommend reading the Basic Rules of Dining Etiquette

How to start respecting yourself

In order not to experience awkwardness and uncertainty when communicating with the opposite sex, I recommend paying attention to six important aspects.

Your achievements

Every man should have achievements that he is proud of. If you doubt the success of something, remember your achievements; they will motivate you to move on. It is important to achieve your goals in order to enjoy a positive result.

Nutrition

To feel your best, eat right. It’s better to cook yourself a salad and steak rather than heat a semi-finished product in the microwave. Try not to eat cheap and low-quality products. This way of eating will negatively affect your mood and health, and take away your strength and energy.

Goals and their implementation

It is important to plan your affairs for the day, month, year and implement your plans. You can break one large-scale goal into several small points and gradually implement them. Set simple goals for yourself, but implement them every day.

Money

Men with small salaries do not feel confident; they cannot even give a bouquet of flowers when meeting a woman. They often consider themselves losers who cannot achieve anything in life. If you are not satisfied with your current income, be sure to change your job. Try something new, don't stick to your usual but low-paying job.

Sport

It is important for a man to pump up his body. To do this, you need to go to the gym, pool, and play your favorite sport. Never miss a workout, achieve results. When a man sees the fruits of his efforts in the mirror, he begins to respect himself.

Beautiful women

Surround yourself only with beautiful women, try not to waste your time. You should admire the person who is next to you. It should be interesting and cool to be with him.

Russian speech etiquette for girls

A girl should observe speech etiquette in order to complement her overall impression of herself. Compliance with speech etiquette speaks of your good manners and literacy.

  • When you meet , say “Good afternoon”, “Hello”, “Nice to see you” (to mark your joy at the meeting)
  • If you have to disturb someone ( example , on public transport) - say “I’m sorry”, “Could you please”, “Be kind”
  • Always thank if they did something good to you, helped you: “Thank you”, “Thank you”
  • When meeting someone , say “Nice to meet you”, “Let’s get to know each other”


Speech etiquette

  • When leaving , say “See you”, “I’ll be glad to see you again”, “Goodbye”

IMPORTANT: No matter how you use the right words, swear words will kill all the good impressions about you. Don't swear!

Silence and riddles2

This is another problem. She is offended. It’s just not clear why, but don’t expect peace. He is silent, does not speak, does not offer anything. The reason could be anything, by the way, from a missed “month” of acquaintance with friends, to a loaf of bread not purchased. The main thing is that he did not live up to expectations.

This will always be the case, especially hoping for an imaginary problem-free relationship in which there is no such nonsense is not worth it. How to behave? Try to remember where the roots of the problem might be hidden, and try to eliminate it.

Besides, you still have to talk to her. Yes, this is the key to everything - a normal life, good sex, and happiness too.

Use a girl's name often

The sound of our own name caresses the ear and is pleasant to any person. It's a shame we don't hear it more often.

So let's change that and use it to our advantage. Every three sentences, use the girl's name. It's better to put it at the beginning of a sentence because placing it at the end of the question makes it seem like you're trying to get her attention when she's not interested or not listening. Or it just smells like disdain. This is the female perception or linguistic characteristics. I'll show you better with examples.

When is the first time you say her name? - Right after she names it for you.

“Hi, I'm Sergey. What is your name?"

"Natasha."

“Nice to meet you, Natasha!”

Then a minute later: “By the way, Natasha, what do you think about...”

You kill two birds with one stone. Not only does this make the girl feel more comfortable, but it also makes it for you to remember her name.

Here's how NOT to wrap a name:

- What are you doing, Natasha? Where do you work? (~ disdain, try saying it out loud and you’ll see for yourself)

“Come on, I’ll show you the new pond, Natasha.” (~ ingratiation, begging for attention)

By the way, the name should not be distorted. If she called herself Natasha, then no Nata, Natalie, Natalya. And vice versa - if she introduced herself as Natalya, then shortening the girl to Natasha during the first conversation is not entirely decent.

I think you will also be interested in reading: How to communicate with a girl so that she falls in love (opens in a new tab).

Sense of tact in communication

Tactful communication is communication in which you do not offend your interlocutor and do not look like an ill-mannered person to him.

A sense of tact includes many rules of etiquette.

IMPORTANT: If a person behaves tactfully, he is considered wise

  • Don't be selfish . In any situation, put yourself in the shoes of your interlocutor. And think about how you would feel in a given situation
  • You need to know moderation in everything and always. If it's appropriate to joke, then joke once. If it’s appropriate to laugh, then laugh and continue talking.
  • Sometimes you need to adapt to someone yourself. You are the same person as the rest. So don't put yourself above others
  • Don't pretend to be someone else. Sooner or later, your mask will fall off your face and the people around you may not be ready for this. So be yourself
  • Don't be overly emotional . If someone makes you angry, you can show it with just one look. The right look says it all. There is no need to shout to everyone everywhere that someone is wrong. Be smarter


Sense of tact

  • Before you tell someone about a flaw, think about the appropriateness . If this is your best friend, then you can tell her that you liked her other hair color better. If this is your colleague, then it’s better to remain silent if you don’t like something about her

IMPORTANT: A tactful person has many friends and acquaintances. He is loved and approached

At first glance, there are a lot of etiquette tips, but once you analyze them thoroughly, you will understand that you can easily follow all of them and feel like a queen.

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