Kissing is an inseparable part of human relationships, whatever form they may be, and, of course, foreplay before intimacy. With a kiss you can express sympathy, love and desire, you can provide support, cheer up, and praise. Kisses ignite passion in partners, intensify feelings and smoothly lead to the most important thing. More than one fortress has fallen before the passionate touch of lips. Let's talk about how you can seduce any man with a kiss.
Some simple but important kissing techniques
Do you think that there is only a regular kiss and a French kiss? Oh oh. With such knowledge, you will not be able to have a loved one or hook a handsome guy at first.
So quickly see what else you can do with your lips to intrigue, excite or surprise your chosen one.
- Shy . Ideal for a first or second date. Naive, innocent darling. You need to stealthily lightly and softly, but quickly peck him on the lips, and then feel embarrassed. The man will be pleasantly surprised, touched and will certainly want you to do it again.
- Hint . Explore his face with your lips: eyes, nose, forehead, temples, cheekbones. Soft touches are guaranteed to relax him by increasing tactile activity due to the small hairs on his face.
- Shy . Start lightly touching his lips and gradually increase the speed. Everything should be slow and smooth so that in the end he himself wants to continue.
- Delicious . Drink coffee or juice so that some of the drink remains on your lips. And kiss him. He must feel the taste, want to eat you. Move on, use your tongue and enjoy the hurricane of feelings.
- Kusaka . Men love a hint of piquancy. Bite his lower lip during the kiss and pull him towards you a little - he definitely won’t resist. Just don't overdo it! No injuries, baby.
- Snowball . Hold an ice cube in your mouth and then kiss the guy. The cold will invigorate him and force him to immediately start warming you up.
- Eskimo . This is a very touching action - sweetly rub your nose against his nose, taking his cheeks in your palms. If desired, you can continue in the usual kissing mode.
Tenderly romantic kiss 5
For such a kiss you need to be in the appropriate mood. It is highly desirable to be inspired by your partner, to be inspired by his words and actions. Convey tenderness with your touch. All touches should be soft and smooth. Before a kiss, you can touch his hair, take your boyfriend’s hands in yours, and hug him. You can start with a kiss on the cheek or nose to express a desire for intimacy.
Probably, the guy himself will take the courage and be the first to reach for the lips of his beloved. The girl’s task in this case is to respond to the kiss and duplicate his movements. If a guy kisses only with his lips (no tongue), then there is no need to rush and try to show him the skills developed on tomatoes.
The girl may well take the initiative on her own. To do this, you need to reach out to your lips, hug your neck or waist. The first touch should be soft and airy. Then you can be assertive, but don't go overboard. At some point, the tongue should be connected to the lips. This becomes appropriate as soon as the usual kiss starts to get boring. You need to touch your partner’s tongue with your tongue, but without enthusiasm. The ideal option is smooth, sliding movements.
Important! Under no circumstances should you try to push your tongue as deep as possible into the oral cavity - this is unpleasant.
How can you excite a guy with a kiss?
The kiss itself is already a very pleasant action. But then you want to do something new, and all the techniques have been exhausted. Well, let's tell you a little secret: use your body and voice and a note of newness will burst into your relationship like a hurricane.
A guy is not so much excited by the kiss itself as by the mood and emotions of his partner in his performance.
Voice and playful behavior of the partner
In the process, get distracted for a while and whisper something vulgar or pleasant in his ear, sighing languidly or giggling. You will see - he will immediately react with his voice or body.
In general, discussing your sexual preferences has a very beneficial effect on a couple’s relationship - so don’t be shy and tell him how you love him and ask him what he loves. Such conversations will light a fire and bring useful information to the surface. You can playfully ask him, even while kissing, if he likes what you're doing.
And don’t forget about body language - gentle stroking, rubbing, playful actions. All this together will bear fruit. For example, if you are standing, then run your foot along the inside of his leg.
Lightly stroke behind the ear and along the carotid artery with your fingers. If you are lying down, place your hand on his chest or lightly run a fingernail over it. Channel your inner “Kitty” to make him want to play with her.
Intrigue as food for fantasy
Use the fishermen's principle: hook and wait. How to do it? During a break between tasks, run up to him and start kissing him passionately. And at the peak, run back just as quickly. And then send a hot SMS. Let him imagine to his heart’s content and dream about continuing it in the evening.
Don't say everything, let him have fun with his fantasies. Let him draw pictures of what he wants. This will only make the evening hours together even better. You will have a man in the right condition without much effort - voila. At this point, it would be nice to buy a new set of lingerie or a seductive dress.
Practical tips and secrets
Young ladies are often interested in how to get started with one kiss. There is something invariably attractive about a girl that can turn on any man. And that's self-confidence. Guys always feel a lady's mood, so when touching her, she should be positive and radiate confidence. Experiences and worries, like illness, are transmitted through saliva, so they should be avoided during intimacy.
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Girls should definitely learn courage from guys. It is important not to be afraid to take the initiative and take the first step towards a kiss. Men love it when a girl changes the course of the game, experiments and uses new techniques. Taking control of the process and showing all your abilities is what a woman should strive for.
If the guy is a shy guy, then you should help him loosen up. To do this, it is enough to show that he has free access to his beloved’s body: for example, put his hands on the girl’s hips. He definitely won’t be able to resist the seductive female forms, feeling them under his fingers.
Men appreciate when their desires come true. But do not forget that both parties should receive satisfaction from the process. The girl’s goal is to please not only the guy, but also herself. You should not concentrate your attention on satisfying a man, it is important to allow him to show a response.
A kiss is an intimate moment, partners demonstrate to each other their physiological and psychological location. Gentle touches with the lips stimulate the olfactory sensor; people are attracted to biologically determined taste and smell. Having an open conversation about preferences will allow a woman to truly understand what to give her partner. Don't be afraid to ask leading questions and use the information received during a kiss. In the end, this process brings pleasure primarily to him, doesn’t it?
How NOT to do it
Many girls, even with extensive relationship experience, continue to make annoying mistakes while kissing. Naturally, this ruins everything.
Look at the list and think, maybe you are doing something wrong, since the guy avoids kissing you?
- You leave your eyes open. Most people prefer to kiss with their eyes closed. If you like to stare at him during the process, then stop immediately. This can put anyone in an awkward position.
- Hands are not involved in the process. You don’t hug him, don’t stroke him, and generally stand at attention like a soldier. It is clear that no one will like kissing an idol.
- Don't bother with your tongue. Especially if you're just fine together. No, many guys like it loose, but it’s better to ask first if you’re going to bother exploring his mouth.
- You boring. No, not communicating, but kissing. Monotony, without movements, turns a kiss into a routine and deprives it of pleasant sensations.
- Problems with oral hygiene. Yes, it’s awkward and shameful, but this is not only a blow to your personal life, but also to your health. Find out why your breath smells bad, visit a doctor or stop smoking. As a last resort, use mouthwash or mints.
Preparation
Before the cherished spark runs between the couple and the lips of the lovers touch, the girl should first apply a good moisturizing balm to her lips. Only tender lips can excite a guy with a kiss. But lipstick should be avoided, because no one wants traces of cosmetics on their face or clothes. But if a guy gets excited from a kiss, then nothing can stop him.
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If a couple wants lip caress to develop into something more, then kissing in a public place is definitely not worth it. Otherwise, it will cause embarrassment, if not for the lovers, then for the people around them.
Erotic kissing spots to drive him crazy
Lips are far from the only sensitive place on his body. Sexologists say that all men have 70% common erogenous zones and 30% individual ones. Yes, everyone loves kisses on the neck, but few will go into ecstasy if they are kissed on the tailbone, for example. Experiencedly find out these secret places and use them to make him go crazy with your caresses and kisses.
Lips, ears and hair
It’s a rare man who refuses to have his beloved ruffle his hair with her hands. Some people even sleep while listening to this. This is a manifestation of maximum trust, built on children's associations. In addition, along the edge of the hair growth there is a very sensitive area, and if you lightly kiss and stroke it, he will purr like a cat in your hands.
Kissing on the face is usually associated with strong affection, care and tenderness. These should be the softest possible touches, without pressure and harshness: on the forehead, eyes, nose, lips.
A man feels caresses most acutely on his earlobes - this small area literally takes him into space when handled skillfully. Light biting, sucking, and pranks with the tongue signal not just affection, but a direct desire to move to bed as quickly as possible. The main thing is not to smack his ear and control the amount of saliva.
Chest, neck and abdomen
Kisses on the neck are pleasant for both sexes, to be honest, but men especially love them, since their neck is more sensitive than that of girls. Give room to your imagination, you can softly kiss his collarbones and go up to his ear. Or easily bite your loved one. The main thing is not to linger too much on it and move on to the chest.
The most common mistakes girls make
If you want to have a good time and give your loved one pleasure while kissing, then don’t do this:
- Don't squeeze him in your arms
- No need to think through every step, surrender to the flow of events
- Don't bite like a piranha
- Don't tense your lips. Ideally they should be soft and elastic
- Do not rush
- Don't make sudden movements
And also control the amount of saliva - one, just relax - two.
To be happy in a relationship, a person needs to kiss their partner about 5 times a day. But no one specified what these kisses should be like. So go for it!
