Partners who like to spend time together cannot imagine sex without oral sex. Men love it when a girl’s wet mouth kisses and “absorbs” their handsome man. But every woman, regardless of age, has her “first blowjob” at some point. And even if she has a couple of dozen healed and sucked male assets left behind her, each new partner is considered a discovery.
If a lady is quite reserved in matters of sex, she does not immediately decide to take such a (for some) serious step as oral sex. How to persuade a girl to give a blowjob without offending her or ruining anything? The task is not difficult enough if a man shows tact and intelligence.
A man's weak point
All guys love oral sex. Even those who consider it a dirty and unworthy thing for a woman. The latter company includes frail preservatives and clergymen, but even they, in erotic dreams, dream that depraved young ladies will perform this obscene activity with them.
Why do men love so much to have their “boy” caressed with their mouth? There are several good reasons.
- The penis has a maximum of erogenous zones. Any pleasant manipulation of the penis gives the stronger sex unearthly pleasure. A partner’s wet mouth and soft lips bring incredible, deeper and brighter pleasure to a guy than classic sex.
- The second reason lies in the masculine nature of the conqueror. The guy wants to feel superior to the woman and gets a doubly high when he watches the girl at his feet, greedily caressing his genitals. Especially, acute pleasure comes from the fact that a blowjob is given by a woman who zealously resisted him.
- Men most often play a dominant role in sex. He sweats, tries, wielding his mistress. And, a blowjob is a great reason to relax and have fun without making any effort.
- A woman's oral caresses are a confirmation of her acceptance of the guy, full of trust and love on her part.
- The sight of a disheveled girl sucking is extremely exciting for guys.
How to quickly excite a woman?
To get a girl, a couple of kisses are not enough. The main key to mutual pleasure is leisurely arousal.
Otherwise, the man will enjoy the process, but the lady will remain dissatisfied.
And then he will completely refuse to continue the relationship with the unlucky partner. Many people are interested in the question: how to properly excite a woman?
Dear men, you have three powerful tools in your arsenal (+ the one you thought about, but this is as a bonus):
- Voice . Women simply melt from the velvety male baritone. Work on your pronunciation, add seductive and piquant notes... What do you want? Women love with their ears.
- Touching . From one skillful caress a girl can already experience strong arousal. But first, light stroking and a relaxing massage.
- Nonverbal signs . Agree, if you know that a woman wants you, it turns you on like hell! The fair sex are not aliens. They like to see admiration and desire in a man's eyes.
When “she’s not like that”2
How to persuade a girl to give a blowjob, and why do ladies refuse such a pleasant pastime? Most of them simply don’t know how to do it, and don’t want to show off as inexperienced incompetents. Other reasons for refusal are also worthy of attention:
- Religious education. If a girl was brought up in a serious environment where just touching a man’s penis was considered a mortal sin, persuading her to give a blowjob will be a difficult task. To begin with, she must understand that nothing bad is happening, blowjob is not a malicious perversion, but part of full sex.
- Vomiting reflex. During penetration of the penis into the partner’s mouth, she experiences the urge to vomit, even if she has a positive attitude towards the process and has great respect for the “young fighter”. The size of the genital organ may be too large for the partner’s small mouth, and touching her palate, cause an unpleasant reaction. This reaction goes away over time and with experience, if there are no psychological factors associated with it.
- Excessive demands from the partner. About five minutes ago, a man was indignant at his former partners who clumsily “did” his boyfriend, and now he is trying to persuade a woman to show her abilities in this area. Not every mademoiselle will agree to such a risk. She will be afraid to lower herself in his eyes with her inexperience, so as not to end up on the “team of losers.”
But after a blowjob, girls can get no less pleasure, which we read in more detail in our article.
How to excite a woman? Proven methods
Compliments . For starters, you can say how beautiful and sexy your partner looks.
You love her smell, her look, and her mere presence blows your mind! When you start stroking, whisper in her ear how beautiful she is.
What soft skin and perfect forms she has... At this stage, it is important to establish a connection and gradually fan the flames of passion.
Kisses . If a girl has a complex, you can start with kisses on the neck, ear, gradually reach the cheekbones and temples and, finally, go down to the lips.
No aggression, the kiss should be gentle. Take the initiative into your own hands, ladies love to be led and receive passive pleasure.
Touching . Don’t start frantically tearing off your partner’s clothes and acting like an unbridled animal. Not everyone likes the image of a caveman.
You can experiment later when you know each other better. For the first time, soft stroking, caressing the scalp and hair is enough.
If your partner doesn’t mind, you can begin to gradually undress.
Massage . If you have already moved to the horizontal plane, give the girl a leisurely massage. Gently run your fingers over your back, buttocks, and stomach.
Many young ladies go crazy when their legs are caressed: from their toes to their thighs. Gradually you can move on to the breasts and other erogenous zones.
You don't have to act blindly; we are pleased to present you with a map of the most sensitive areas of the female body.
Talk about love...for blowjob3
When thinking about how to persuade a girl to give a blowjob, a guy must show wisdom and tact. There are several ways in which a man gets what he wants from a woman.
You can start with a frank conversation. The guy, in a favorable environment, starts a conversation with the girl about oral sex, asks about her experience, about her attitude towards blowjob. You can ask what kind of caresses a lady likes, and say that a blowjob is the most desirable and pleasant caresses for him. Perhaps such a conversation will awaken a partner’s desire to demonstrate her skills, or try something new.
But don’t forget about your safety and the rules on how to protect your mouth after a blowjob. Read further in our article at the link.
What do men like during oral sex?
Blowjob is a pleasant caress, but there are some things that are especially pleasant for a man:
- The entire penis is not an erogenous zone. Its trunk itself is not as sensitive as the head, neck of the head and frenulum. There are also many nerve endings on the lower part of the trunk. The most pleasant caresses of these parts will be.
- Sometimes light touches of the teeth are very stimulating. This should be gentle touching, not biting. For the greatest effect, it is advisable to keep the same rhythm.
- Stimulating the penis and testicles with your mouth and hands at the same time enhances the sensations.
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Many women agree to give a blowjob during mutual oral sex. The proposed 69 position will awaken the desire to try something new, exciting and interesting. Or the guy will express a desire to please his partner by caressing her labia and clitoris with his mouth and tongue, and in return the girl will do the same for him. Successful cunnilingus will make the grateful lover want to please the man.
And, on the contrary. If a man categorically refuses oral caresses of a woman’s genitals, loudly expressing his protest and contempt for “a matter unworthy of a man,” he will fail in the case of a blowjob. What kind of woman, after such statements, would kiss and lick the penis of such a boorish guy?
By the way, not all guys approve of the gesture when a girl kisses after a blowjob. Read more at the following link.
Be bolder
It is believed that to be rash is to do stupid things. But you must be able to take risks and do spontaneous things. This is not at all a call to become a “bad boy.” It's just the desire to be a man. If you are not rude to her, she will be fascinated by your bossy behavior. Don't be afraid to annoy the girl a little. Tease her, damn it, push her. Let her know that you want her.
Make sure that if she decides to go home alone, she only talks about you. And even if suddenly it doesn’t happen today... she will think about you until the next date. The only thing worse than bad advertising is its absence. Famous personalities would never become famous by sitting quietly on the sidelines. If you don’t want to always be on the sidelines in her film, then be the main character. Remember to use body language and be confident!
Kiss him5
You can introduce your partner to oral sex without a shower or conversation, during sexual foreplay. Caressing and kissing the naked madam, the man presses his body against her, caresses her chest, stomach, takes her hand and presses it to his excited penis. Moving and kissing her body from bottom to top, the guy gradually reaches her face.
At first he runs the flax over her neck, cheeks, lips and slowly enters her wet mouth. An excited lover, without further ado, will gladly support the current action.
By phone
Only very young teenagers or extremely insecure men can offer to meet their beloved over the phone or through social networks. Such methods are considered as undesirable as possible. The fact is that before agreeing to your proposal, the girl needs to see your eyes, hear your living voice, and perhaps hold your hand.
However, if you still choose this method, then pay attention to some rules.
- Speak confidently but gently. The girl will focus on intonation.
- Be sure to interrupt your conversation and wait for her to answer you.
- Don't interrupt her in any way. If the answer is positive, then you will hear joyful notes in her voice, if negative, then maintain your dignity.
In general, by phone or via the Internet, you can beautifully offer to meet in person. Send an intriguing message, and find out everything when you meet.
100 interesting topics for conversation with a girl.
Beautiful
How to ask a girl to date when feelings are overwhelming? Of course, you need to do it beautifully. Show your imagination, remember what she dreams of, what might surprise and delight you the most.
You can make a confession to romantic girls like this:
- Candlelight dinner in an unusual setting.
A formal-style restaurant is definitely not suitable for a declaration of love. Set up a meeting place on the roof of your house, in the garden of a suburban home. Decorate the furniture, chairs with flowers, balloons, and prepare the girl’s favorite dishes. Bring your chosen one on a date with your eyes closed. Words of gratitude and kisses are guaranteed.
- Journey.
It is not necessary to take out a loan for a long trip; rent a boat, a motorcycle and go on a picnic with your loved one. Solitude, good mood, sunset or stars are ideal conditions for confessions.
- An inscription on the asphalt under the windows of your beloved.
The method is not very original, but effective. Write: “Good morning! I can’t remain silent, I want to be with you all my life!”
Girls' refusals when dating
We made efforts to get the girl to turn her attention to us. This avoids automatic refusal. We started a dialogue and ask the girl to continue the conversation. But here comes a refusal. For example:
I don't meet people on the street
Standard objection. You can answer something like this: “Me too. Therefore, I suggest we meet in a cozy coffee and get to know each other.”
Have a boyfriend
“I understand that such a pretty girl has a boyfriend. And I just suggest we drink coffee together.”
“He forbids you to drink coffee?”
I'm in a hurry, I don't have time
“I’m also rushing in the other direction. Therefore, I propose to exchange contacts and dock when it is convenient. For example, towards the end of the week"
