- Romantic attraction is not a simple matter.
- However, scientists have made a lot of discoveries regarding what makes men attractive in women's eyes.
- For example, men who look older, have a light beard, or do volunteer work are often perceived as more attractive.
Romantic attraction is a complex topic that is still poorly understood by scientists.
However, after a lot of research and experimentation, they were able to come up with a number of ideas that make it possible to understand what attracts one person to another.
We've collected the most interesting scientific discoveries about the characteristics and behaviors that make men more attractive to women.
What's the best thing here? None of the items on this list imply that you will have to undergo plastic surgery or a complete overhaul of your personality. We'll only talk about small adjustments, like being nicer or changing your deodorant.
Read on to learn simple ways to increase your dating success.
Watch for universal flirting signals
Rutgers University anthropologist and bestselling author Helen Fisher says women around the world signal their interest in a surprisingly similar pattern of expressions.
As she told Psychology Today, it goes something like this:
“At first, the woman smiles at her chosen one and quickly raises her eyebrows, this is a convulsive movement that occurs when she opens her eyes wider to get a better look at him. She then lowers her eyelids, tilts her head down and to the side, and looks away. She often covers her face with her hands, giggling nervously and hiding behind her palms.”
“This sequence of flirting gestures is so distinctive that [German ethologist Irenaus] Eibl-Eibesfeldt was convinced that it was an innate human female flirting ploy that evolved many years ago to signal sexual interest.”
Inferiority complex
A common problem for young guys. Lack of self-confidence and what a girl might like. In fact, this is the main key to a girl's heart, and not external beauty. More precisely, beauty has its place, but in second place, self-confidence and perseverance come first. But don't confuse it with self-confidence.
Here, read articles about self-confidence, assertive behavior and squirting techniques.
Yes, by the way, sometimes arrogance can be useful, but everything in moderation and when it is appropriate, and not just taken on a whim. You should feel it.
Inferiority complexes need to be addressed or replaced with confident behavior. But I recommend the first tip, because it removes insecurity at the root, rather than masking it. Remember that your inferiority complexes are all driven by emotions that are easy to neutralize and which will no longer bother you.
Look for someone “out of your league”
Men - and women - are attracted to people who are as attractive as they are.
In one study, researchers from the University of California at Berkeley studied the behavior of 60 heterosexual men and 60 heterosexual women who were users of a dating site. And while most users were inclined to write to highly attractive people, they were more likely to receive a response if the person was approximately as attractive as they were (as judged by independent raters).
“If you're with someone who is, roughly speaking, as likable as you are, it helps avoid two things,” Mark Sergeant, a psychologist at Nottingham Trent University who was not involved in the study, told The Independent. “If a person is much more attractive than you, you will worry that they will leave you or cheat on you. If they're less attractive, you'll worry that you could find someone better."
For a guy, the main thing is not appearance, but internal qualities.
If you are not ready to work on yourself, close this site immediately!
Do you consider yourself ugly and envy handsome men who get sympathy from girls?
Do you want the same from girls, but are you shy and feel insecure?
It will only get worse! Loneliness and disappointment.
The most interesting thing is that it is quite easy to become confident; to do this, you need to identify all the negative beliefs about yourself and replace them with positive ones. If you can't do it yourself, leave it to the professionals.
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