The most common reason for women's lies is an attempt to hide their betrayal. How can you tell if your girlfriend is lying? Often this is not so easy to do: the girls are excellent actresses and skillfully dodge. Put aside your emotions and look at the situation without the influence of hormones: the article describes in detail the signs and ways to recognize a lie. All that remains is to apply this knowledge in practice. If you want to become a master of relationships with a girl, then check out my online courses on self-development and seduction!
Why do you come across lying girls?
I haven’t wondered why some guys are lucky with girls, while others always come across bitches. At the same time, initially it seems that the girl is good and decent, but then she goes to great lengths. The reason is usually the man's low self-esteem. It seems to him that the girl is the ultimate dream and he is unworthy of her. The woman feels this and begins to sit on her neck, but the man does not understand the moment when it is time to put her down. He allows himself to be treated with disdain and lies. Although there are girls who, in principle, do not recognize honest relationships, they will not get involved with tough and specific men who know their worth. Why? It's simple, because the girl won't be able to take advantage of such a guy, which means the relationship will be unprofitable for her.
Why does a woman resort to deception?
There are several main motives for deception, including even treason:
Permanent limitation. In families where a woman, at the insistence of a man, does not work and is only involved in housekeeping, this is most likely to occur with children. She is often very limited in communication. It consists of exchanging short phrases with neighbors, store clerks during shopping trips, and children (if you have any).
As a rule, the husband naturally forbids inviting friends, much less going out with them somewhere. Money is also issued against payment. Such constant psychological pressure and total control greatly affects the state of balance within her.
How then does such a woman act? First of all, he begins to come up with stories to explain where the money was spent. After all, no one canceled her right to want to be beautiful and buy cosmetics, new outfits, and attend salon treatments for this.
The same applies to the reasons for leaving home. She should at least sometimes communicate with like-minded people. For such seemingly harmless actions, the weaker sex resorts to lies. If a man finds out the truth, a scandal cannot be avoided. Another group of reasons for deception:
- feeling of inner loneliness and emptiness. Often because of this, even respected married women may set out to find someone who will become not only her lover, but also a person who is able to listen and understand, give advice, and help solve a number of problems;
- It is no less important for her to feel her importance, her willingness to sacrifice her interests to please her;
- Often women commit treason, and then deceive when they want to do it to spite their boyfriend, who has already committed treason. Of course, you won’t be able to achieve moral satisfaction here, but you can stroke your pride;
- The relationship or marriage has reached the point where spending time together is already a burden. In this case, the woman resorts to deception so as not to burden herself with unnecessary company. She finds a reason to leave the house or invite someone. It happens that he takes risks by committing treason, and then tries to hide it.
There are enough reasons for women to deceive. How can she give herself away? What mistakes does he make?
Ways to catch her lying
Even if she knows how to lie and does it convincingly, this does not mean that it is impossible to bring the girl to clean water. Here are 3 ways to find out the truth:
- Make an unexpected call. For example, she said in the evening that she would be at home and had a lot to do. An unexpected call or even a visit will help you catch a girl red-handed. Come up with a good excuse for an urgent meeting or conversation to find out the truth.
- Just listen to it and remember it. You don’t even need to do anything: it will reveal itself with inconsistencies.
- Arrange unexpected surprises and meetings. Invite someone unexpectedly on a date, stop by in the evening just to give them flowers. She says that she will be at home, but she is not there - this is a reason to think about the honesty of her words. Or maybe you will be even more “lucky” and you will find her with someone else.
If you don’t want to test a girl, but it’s important for you to find out the truth, then use psychology and nonverbal signals. They will help you understand whether a girl is lying to you, or they will reveal other secrets.
Sign No. 5. Attempts to manipulate feelings and emotions
In order to hide the deception, some women resort to manipulating the feelings and emotions of a man. This technique is very often chosen when they want to hide something important and avert any serious suspicions.
Manipulation of feelings and emotions is always carried out using one or several tactics at once (Disappointment, resentment, frustration, anger, threats, shame, etc.). The main task of manipulation is to make people believe in deliberately false information using various methods of pressure. Therefore, if you feel that your woman is using this method, then you do not need to succumb to provocations and believe her feelings or emotions.
How to find out that she is lying without words: her body will give it away
If a girl is a good liar, then it will be difficult to find out the truth, even after flipping through all the books on psychology. She has already studied them too and consciously avoids gestures that betray deception. It is also worth considering that different people have different manners when deceiving. Try to track her reaction to small lies, but just don’t tell her what she’s saying. This is easy to do during a game like “mafia” or “poker”. Now you will know that if she smiles stupidly, then she has something to hide. There are also more universal signs that you should pay attention to:
- Dilated pupils, but they also indicate excitement and great interest.
- She automatically repeats your question before beginning her answer.
- The girl leaves sentences unfinished.
- She is nervous, but tries to appear indifferent. At the same time, when you start talking quickly in a question-and-answer format, she becomes very tense and is afraid of making a mistake.
It is more difficult if the girl is far away and it is impossible to fully assess the changes in her behavior. If you suspect a lie, you should pay attention to the fact that she has become less likely to communicate with you via video call and prefers messages. But even from a distance you can find out if she is lying.
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Sign No. 4. Absence of any clarifying facts during the conversation
When a person tries to lie to you, strive to deceive you, or simply mislead you, he tries not to go into detailed details during the entire conversation. This is necessary in order not to be caught in small things.
For example, if a woman who seeks to deceive or mislead you goes into detail or into the smallest detail, then she automatically exposes herself to a certain risk of being discovered. After all, all clarifying details can be easily checked for compliance and accuracy.
Moreover, clarifying details or facts, as a rule, raise a huge number of questions, the answers to which the deceiver is not always ready for. Therefore, if during a conversation with a woman, you begin to doubt that she is telling you the truth or is not telling you something, then do not hesitate to ask her additional questions.
How to recognize a lie if you are far apart
It is more difficult to figure out a girl if you are far away from each other. It’s not so easy to come here on a surprise visit and not look into her eyes to see how sincere she is. But the girl will be betrayed by correspondence, telephone conversation and behavior. An attentive guy will immediately notice the changes. To find out the truth from a distance, follow this algorithm:
- Call her and talk about simple topics. Find out how your mood is, how your day went. Let him relax and not expect any checks.
- Ask your question sharply and unexpectedly, but calmly and without hostility. If you're worried that she has someone else and yesterday she didn't answer her calls because of a date, then ask.
- See how she reacts. Aggression and attack are a wake-up call. If after the question she is confused and cannot collect her thoughts for a long time, it means that she is also thinking through a lie.
- Notice how her mood and voice changed. It's good if you communicate via video call and you can see her reaction. If she changes the topic of conversation or abruptly decides to end communication, then this is also a bad sign.
- Listen to yourself and trust your instinct. Don't be afraid to admit to yourself that she's cheating and don't cover for her. By her reaction you will definitely understand the real answer to your question. The main thing is to be calm and not put pressure on you to see the reaction to the question, and not to your behavior.
To understand why a girl lies, it is not enough to consider male reasons. If you yourself are a skilled liar, this does not mean that it will be easy for you to recognize a girl’s deception. She lies differently. Understand that if a girl lies to you, then you have definitely made one of the “10 mistakes men make.”
Sign No. 1. Atypical gestures or unfamiliar gestures
Most people who lie, try to somehow deceive or mislead feel quite uncomfortable, especially if the main process does not start to go according to a pre-thought-out plan. As a result, excessive anxiety and discomfort provoke completely atypical gestures or gesticulations that were completely unfamiliar to you before.
Such gestures in most cases are aimed solely at convincing you that she is telling you only the honest truth. Thus, with the help of gestures, she distracts attention in order to prevent you from thinking or simply thinking about what she is saying.
If during the conversation you notice that a woman is constantly gesticulating, and each gesture is trying to emphasize some word or some phrase, then you need to be wary and be sure to clarify every detail you don’t understand during the conversation.
Remember, if you simply begin to clarify any information during a conversation with her, then her deception will be revealed to some extent, as she will simply begin to get confused in the facts and get lost in the details.
What is the difference between male and female lies?
Everyone lies. Some are petty, while others are constantly and skillfully entangled with flattery. But at the same time, men's and women's lies are different. Girls use longer sentences, and guys more often repeat words such as “certainly,” “definitely,” “of course.” Instead of these words, ladies often say verbs such as “I’ll try” and “I’ll try.” Men and women also have something in common: when they deceive, they use more pronouns in conversation and correspondence. At the same time, girls place more emphasis on “I”, and men more often repeat the word “My”, “Mine”.
You can love and forgive everything, but it is better to know your worth and not allow yourself to be deceived. If a friend behaves suspiciously, then there is no need to ignore it for fear of ruining the relationship. If you leave everything as it is, you will have to constantly adjust and listen to her lie. My students are masterful at identifying a girl’s lies, find out more what I can teach you.
Dragon and princess2
Oh, how boys love to exercise total control over their girls. Give them free rein, they are ready to lock their beloved in the highest tower on the edge of the earth. Well, truly, it’s too much! So the little girl suffers in captivity. She sees only one way out: to come up with a situation in which she will have the opportunity to communicate with her friends without the all-seeing eye. Advice: do not create a communication vacuum. A girl has the absolute right to have girlfriends and friends, as well as to meet with them without being accompanied by her dragon.
The End of All Hopes or Can Cheating in a Relationship Mean There Is No More Love?
It’s hard to morally understand that the guy you love (or the girl you love) is lying to you. In a fit of emotion, I want to break the union. Trust has been undermined, but we need to calm down, compare facts and events, and understand whether it is possible to correct the situation.
Women also make mistakes when they force their partner to cheat. Many people arrange interrogations, scandals for the slightest offense, jealousy matters. Men love comfort and silence in the house, so they lie to reassure their wife. It is not enough to simply determine that a man or woman is lying; it is much more important to understand why.
Lies in relationships: what to do if you find out about deception
Having realized that a guy or girl is lying to you, you need to figure everything out to the end. You can make claims, but only check everything first - whether he or she is lying or it’s just a coincidence. When the arguments are not just unfounded, but there is real evidence, a frank conversation can clarify the situation. The reasons why a loved one lies can range from the most banal - he didn’t want to bother, the problem has already been solved, to the serious - he is hiding bad habits, a serious illness. The loved one tried to hide the betrayal - the most common reason for lies in a union. The final decision is up to you.
Comfort zone and personal interests5
A girl can have her own interests, her own hobbies. Sometimes such things go against the desires of the young man. Naturally, the ban follows immediately. And who likes it when their desires, interests and freedom are limited or completely excluded? Of course, no one. All that remains is to come up with various excuses to get what you want. There is only one piece of advice: you need to respect the interests of other people. In any case, it is still unknown whether the couple will be together, and breaking the dream of another is unacceptable.
Why partners in romantic relationships cheat: the real reasons
People cheat even in happy marriages. This is your partner’s decision, don’t rush to blame yourself. It is necessary to find out the reasons for this behavior. A guy or girl can lie if they lack self-confidence. In this case, he or she can, for example, make his or her weak quality appear in a favorable light. And this is just not scary.
A guy may lie to his girlfriend when he wants to prove that he is a leader in the union. Women have reached a high position, they themselves become breadwinners in the family, earn more, manage the household, know better what to do with children, leaving no opportunity for their partner to prove himself.
People also start cheating when they want to break up. Ordinary conversations about being busy at work, postponing meetings for fictitious reasons. They try to hide real emotions with lies and figure out how to break up. When deception becomes noticeable, you need to call your partner for a frank dialogue if both want to continue their relationship. And correct mistakes.
