How to hint to a guy about intimacy without being branded as easily accessible

Subconsciously, from time immemorial, the idea has been firmly rooted in the female subconscious that only representatives of the male half of humanity should offer sex and even just talk about it. But the emancipation of modern human society has reached this issue. What did the lovely ladies want? Equality? This means equality in everything, including sexual life and everything that flows in and out.

So, how can you hint to a guy that you want him without losing your self-esteem? Modern girls have been interested in this question for many years. Fortunately, today both the pages of fashion magazines and the Internet are full of numerous tips. Psychologists do not lag behind in providing their recommendations.

As they say, whoever seeks will always find, and a modern woman can easily choose exclusively her own way, which is completely suitable for her at the mental level, of how to offer to have sex first.

A humorous message on social networks

The Internet era can work wonders. And in the most literal sense of the word. For example, now it is no longer possible to surprise anyone with the fact that when meeting a guy, a girl can spend much more time with him, chatting on one of the popular social networks, than in real communication. But what can we say about dating couples? This pattern fully works in cases with official spouses. What can we do, this is the rhythm of our life.

So, first of all, let’s pay attention to the fact that this method, according to the majority of girls who took part in sociological surveys, is deservedly considered one of the easiest ways to hint to a guy that you want him. Still would. A beautiful girl who constantly “likes” all his photos and reposts may well allow herself a playful (or maybe, on the contrary, not a playful) proposal to turn the direction of the current relationship towards bed.

No one will deny the fact that the option of writing a message is much simpler than making a similar proposal in real life, being, as they say, face to face. In addition, there is no need to particularly select the time for expressing this kind of invitation.

Time for morning coffee or, on the contrary, an hour of going to bed, moments of insomnia at night or on the way home. A girl who knows her boyfriend well will easily select the most suitable moment for this. It is worth noting that the guy will not even notice that in order to gain courage and make this kind of proposal, the woman had to “take on her chest” a bottle of good wine.

If you try hard and put together an almost perfect version of a message with an offer of intimacy, you can be almost one hundred percent sure that you will have sex soon. By the way, don’t forget about insurance. If something goes wrong, you can always take back your words and turn the conversation into a humorous form.

And even if tears flow from your eyes, they are guaranteed not to be seen by either the awkward guy or anyone else. The secret will be securely hidden from prying eyes and ears. Also, an SMS message is ideal because at any moment it can be rephrased and turned into an almost friendly, innocent joke.

A list of pleasant words and phrases that turn on and excite men

List of pleasant words and phrases that turn you on

I would like to say right away that there are no template phrases that will help you seduce a man. Since representatives of the stronger sex, just like women, have different temperaments, one may get an affectionate nickname that only you know, while another must read frivolous phrases with erotic overtones.

In view of this, before sending an SMS to your chosen one, you should definitely think about whether he will like it. If your significant other is very calm and shy, then it will be better if you start to turn him on with relaxing romantic phrases, for example, write to him that only he makes you laugh and rejoice. If your guy is one of those who loves directness, then feel free to start the correspondence with memories of the previous night together.

A list of pleasant words and phrases that will help you find your loved one:

You were so sexy this morning that I've been thinking about you all day.
I remember our morning sex, and my skin breaks out in goosebumps. Maybe we can do it again tonight?
I dream of caressing your body again and enjoying the beating of your heart.
If you want to see the most beautiful and mesmerizing striptease, then come tonight
Tonight I need a handsome and sexy man to help me relax... I hope you are not busy?
I want to give you a night that you will never forget... I’m waiting for you today at eight
Honey, can we take a shower together tonight? Just you and me, and, of course, without clothes
I want to handcuff you to the bed and do everything I’ve been dreaming about for a long time.

Virtual sex games2

Another fairly common way to hint to a guy that you want him without blushing. Everyone knows that on the vast expanses of the Internet, everything is possible (or almost everything). Thus, in the same way, as a joke, you can offer your boyfriend such a rather extreme entertainment as virtual sex.

This type of online intimacy offers huge maneuverable spaces. Women who have already managed to initiate it rightly admit that the sensations from virtual sexual games can be considered truly unforgettable.

Additionally, many are attracted by the fact that if one of the couple wishes, everything that happens can be instantly “collapsed” (we are talking about those cases when one of the partners begins to feel awkward). To many, this option may seem somewhat strange. However, in fact, this is quite an entertaining activity. In addition, virtual sex somehow in itself, completely unobtrusively, flows into real life and leads to actual tangible sex.

How to hint to a man about bed if he is married

It is quite difficult to seduce an adult married man. Married people need a special approach. Hints about bed should be done with caution.

It is worth noting that if there is no interest in you, a man will not succumb to any of your tricks. It's not even worth wasting your time. If you are attracted to him, but he is a decent family man, and his conscience does not allow him to get close to you, seducing him is quite possible, although quite difficult.

Most married men in adulthood are by nature potential cheaters. Awakening this nature is the task of a woman who has taken the path of seducing an unfree lover.
What can knock a man down? Of course, feminine beauty. To achieve what you want, you need impeccable grooming. Makeup should be perfect - expensive, not too bright, cosmetics, long-lasting pleasant perfume with pheromones. Neat hairstyle, beautifully designed eyebrows.
What other methods of seduction are there? Of course, skillfully emphasizing the advantages of your body. Don’t hide your curvaceous figure under closed clothes, emphasize your waist with a belt, expose your slender legs. However, putting on the right makeup and dressing up is only half the battle.
Adult married men like smart women, good conversationalists who can not only talk, but also listen. Therefore, the image of an insidious seductress is not enough. To be liked, you need to be able to remain silent when necessary and maintain a conversation. You need to be careful with statements, especially if you don’t know the person well. You can periodically “shoot your eyes” during a conversation and sigh languidly.
It is difficult for any man, even married ones, to resist and not be tempted by physical contact. A slow dance to languid music, touching hands, gentle hugs and glances will help you get closer. During a romantic dance, it is quite appropriate to shift the conversation to a “delicate” topic that worries you.

Hints with candid photographs3

Again, you can’t do without the Internet in this case. You can try sending your chosen one a photo with overt sexual overtones. For example, a photo in which an invitingly undone button is noticeable on jeans or a blouse, a naked tummy is clearly visible, or part of the chest peeks out from a deep neckline.

For those who decide to do this kind of thing, the main thing is to follow the main recommendation - do not overdo it. Otherwise, the photo will look at least vulgar, and in most cases even vulgar. Such a photo, instead of attracting a sexual partner, can completely discourage him not only from sexual lust, but in general, any desire to communicate.

It’s not so bad if the lady falls for a man who had already thought in his heart about how he could spend the night in her bed. If there has never been a thought about this in the head of a potential sexual partner, it is difficult to even imagine the absurdity of the situation.

Also, a photograph that is too explicit, especially when it is sent to an unfamiliar person, can lead to a whole series of troubles. Unfortunately, it is a well-known fact that for every million decent guys looking for their soulmate on the Internet, in any case there will be a dozen different sexual perverts or, even worse, sexual maniacs.

Of course, everyone will agree that sending a candid photo of such a person simply cannot lead to anything good. The only result will be to attract the attention of a pathologically ill person.

If the photo was sent to a guy with whom the relationship in the real world has been going on for a long time (he just can’t decide to take the first step) and is another option for hinting to a guy that you want him, but his reaction was not the one that was expected, there is still a way out.

At any time, you can, citing a computer system failure, insist that you did not intend to send the photo, but simply save it on your virtual disk. If the guy does not belong to the cohort of super-duper gamers, an excuse will eliminate the need to blush for his action.

Erotic correspondence: phrases

Many girls are embarrassed to utter a vulgar phrase during personal communication. But guys really want to hear something like that from their beloved. To overcome awkwardness, excite a man using SMS correspondence.

For a sexual theme, the following phrases are perfect:

I miss you so much! I need your touch and caresses right now.
I woke up in the morning and you weren’t there. How I want to snuggle up to your warm body, purr!
If I think about you, I go crazy. Come soon.
I want...to touch your body, your lips. And never let go.
Be sure to praise the man for a great night and send him the following erotic SMS in the morning:
I felt very good yesterday! Shall we repeat?
Hello my sexy macho!
I think that you are not a person, but God. You can do anything: be successful at work and the best in bed.

Beautiful erotic SMS

Absolutely all men love to receive imaginative, gentle, beautiful letters. Especially if in them the woman praises her lover and asks for a meeting. Such SMS can be supplemented with innermost wishes to a guy before going to bed or sent in the morning.

I can’t stop thinking about you, I feel your smell, the taste of your kiss.
I look forward to our meeting and hope that it will be even more passionate and exciting than yesterday. Although, where even more?) I love you.
It's a pity that you are not my teddy bear. I would take you to bed, hug you, kiss you.
You know that I love chocolate. I can eat it day and night, every day. From today, you are my main dessert.
I want to cuddle up to you with every centimeter of my body, feel the warmth, the waves of passion.

Intriguing erotic SMS
All guys love to unravel women's secrets. Write an intriguing SMS to your loved one with promises of a sexual surprise: he will look forward to this evening.

There are so many fantasies and plans for tonight in my head! I hope you won't be late tonight. I'm waiting, kissing you.
I’m waiting for you after work with a hot dinner so I can fall asleep together in a warm bed. Agree? Do you like bad girls? Today I will be exactly like this just for you.
I bought new underwear today, do you appreciate it? I can send you photos.
Do you know what ecstasy is? Yes, I found out yesterday thanks to your caresses. Now it's your turn to get maximum pleasure. I'm waiting for you in the evening, there will be a surprise.
Tomorrow is the weekend, we can spend it together without being separated for a minute. I want to have sex slowly, excite you for a long time.

Funny erotic SMS

You can add a little humor to intimate correspondence with a man as a warm-up before the most passionate SMS.

Let's leave, right now. To where we will be alone. A desert island will do. After all, you can walk around naked there.
Do you know what I found under my bed this morning? Your sock! Come, we’ll give him a couple, and maybe you’ll forget something else interesting here.
I’ve been dreaming about sex in an elevator for a long time, will I pick you up at work? I think your office is on the 16th floor?
Where is my gentle fireman, come quickly, otherwise all that will be left of me is ashes.
Do you know that a woman in love and satisfied can achieve success in everything? It's about me.
If you want to achieve bliss, contact me! I speak the language perfectly.

Dirty erotic SMS

Rough, depraved letters can be written to each other by very open, unshy people. If your boyfriend loves sex as much as you do, feel free to send him such messages.

How many times a night do you think I can satisfy you? Let's check your guesses today?
I'm tired of thinking about what I'll do to you when we meet. I want to make my dreams come true. Are you coming soon?
Close eyes. Imagine, I'm lying in a warm bath, I'm hot. Droplets of water flow down my chest, below. My heart is beating wildly...the only thing missing is you.
Are you very tired today? I advise you to relax, an unforgettable night awaits you today.
I want sex unbearably, I only think about you. One thought is pulsating in my head: I want you.
Today I want to try everything in bed that I have never done before. I don't think you mind.

Relevant environment4

It is not strange, but even in the modern relaxedness of our lives, the all-powerful representatives of the “macho” tribe have periods of “inhibition”. What are we talking about? Everything is very simple. He may simply not think about the possible sexual continuation of the date just because an invitingly spread bed did not appear before his eyes.

Yes, yes, that’s why for girls who don’t know how to hint to a guy that you want him after going to a cafe or cinema, bring him to a room with a bed. It is advisable that she be the only piece of furniture in the room (this way he will definitely not be able to help but notice her and, accordingly, not understand the hint of a beautiful companion, languishing from her own unrequited desire).

Moreover, in order to bring this version of seduction to life, it is not at all necessary to “show all your cards” and invite him to your home, or, which in many cases looks even more vulgar, to the first roadside motel you come across.

Fortunately, nowadays the choice is quite wide and you can, without risking your reputation at all, invite a guy for a horseback ride (kayaking or playing golf) at one of the many tourist centers. It is unlikely that after an active holiday he will want to return to the concrete jungle of a big city. The result is an overnight stay in a separate cottage with a large and comfortable bed (in order to be sure of this, it is best to discuss the details with the manager of the establishment in advance, or even better to “underground” book a cottage).

If such an obvious hint is not adequately received by the guy, most likely you are absolutely out of your way. He either does not consider his companion at all as an object of sexual desire, or is completely deprived of the ability to really assess what is happening (why is he needed at all then, unless he represents an amazingly handsome male straight out of the pages of a catalog with prominent muscles and the corresponding dimensions of what is called manhood - many ladies agree to turn a blind eye to the intellectual blunders of Mother Nature for this sake).

Affectionate words for SMS that excite men with your own words

Kind words for SMS

There is an opinion among women that men do not like affectionate words and that only vulgar phrases are acceptable to them. In fact, men also love when they are called affectionately, it just needs to be done not in public, but, for example, in personal correspondence. The right words will help you relax your partner and help make the next night unforgettable.

Therefore, do not be shy and give your loved one a couple of compliments that will definitely melt his heart. But remember, too sweet speeches or poems in this case are still unacceptable. Therefore, telling him that he is divinely beautiful, like a rosebud, is still not worth it. It will be better if you tell your loved one words that will definitely raise his self-esteem.

So:

Darling, you are so sweet everywhere!
Darling, I feel so good with you that sometimes it seems that you are unreal
I love you so much that I can't wait for you to ring my doorbell.
My only one, no one has ever given me as much pleasure as you
Every minute spent with you makes me very happy
I love it when you kiss and hug me... And your hands caressing my body make me lose my mind
When you leave the bed of our love, I feel very sad
I want you so much that I think I'll go crazy
Darling, how would you like to continue in the evening what we started in the morning?
How I want your lips to caress my body right now

Oh I'm drunk I'm drunk5

If a meeting with a partner takes place under the steady gurgle of an alcoholic drink, the situation can also be considered practically resolved. Firstly, alcohol really relaxes and loosens the tongue. That is, admitting your desire is much easier.

You just need to be careful to ensure that an overdose does not occur. It is unlikely that a normal guy will adequately evaluate confessions of this kind if they come from the lips of a completely drunk “member of the fair sex” who lacks the ability to think.

In the best case, a young lady who has grabbed a little extra will be waiting for a separate sofa with a basin carefully placed next to it and a bottle of mineral water. If, on the contrary, a guy takes advantage of the situation and has sex with a girl who doesn’t remember her name, the question becomes clear: is his behavior in general normal?

The ideal condition is a state of slight tipsiness, enthusiasm and moderate fun. Then, when fun makes you joke, dance and, of course, kiss. Modesty and bashfulness went into a “well-deserved rest,” taking with them all hints of maintaining the “pioneer distance.” That's all, from intimate dancing to bed there is only one tiny step left to take.

Psychologist's advice

To achieve virtuoso skills in bed from a man, psychologists advise preparing the ground for sex in advance. Keep your loved one excited for a while, stir up interest with SMS, calls, conversations on intimate topics throughout the day. Do not forget that the guy should feel super-macho, the most desirable for his beloved.

In addition to compliments and daring hints about sex, you can use a few more effective tips for arousing men via SMS.

To liberate a guy, prepare him for intimate correspondence. You can ask a couple of questions directly: do you like sex, what position do you like best?
Write such SMS that will make the guy go crazy and look forward to the next meeting with great anticipation.
Be sure to ask your loved one about his desires and how he wants to spend tonight. A man should feel like he is in charge.
You should not send huge letters that will take more than 1 minute to read. You can excite a guy in intimate correspondence with the help of 2-3 succinct, passionate words.
Treat communication on intimate topics calmly. Sexy, vulgar SMS from you do not oblige the guy to always be nearby, catch every message on the fly and respond instantly. If the boy does not respond via SMS, and the nights have become more passionate and sensual, then you are doing everything right.

Communication over a distance due to business trips or studying in another city creates difficulties in relationships between partners. But it will be easier to survive this period if you are open to new solutions. Feel free to write frank messages to your beloved boyfriend or husband about how you miss him, are thinking about sex with him, and dream of seeing him soon. Express your feelings and desires more often, brighter, then the long-awaited meeting will be filled with passion and love as much as possible.

Say it straight to your face, without wagging6

If a couple has a sincere, trusting relationship, there is nothing easier than hinting to the guy that you want him. It’s worth driving away the subconscious embarrassment and telling him everything straight to his face. In the end, the sky will not fall to the ground, and the Earth is unlikely to stop spinning around its axis. It is almost impossible to predict the situation in which it will be most convenient to tell your partner about your lust. Here you just need to intuitively feel the right moment and not get confused.

As for how exactly to submit information, there are many options:

In a humorous manner;
hint;
Say a simple, “I want sex with you.”

Most often, such a move will be winning. Most likely, the guy himself hasn’t been against sharing a bed and having sex for a long time, he’s just just as embarrassed to say about it (it’s not strange that in our time there are such shy specimens). If a woman at this moment simply expresses her sincere desires, they are guaranteed an enchanting first night.

With a glance

Women are naturally flirtatious and playful. Take on the role of a fatal seductress with a languid and intriguing look. As a rule, direct glances, and then a slight smile for men are a call to action. Especially if such glances are accompanied by casual touches and light stroking. Most likely, the man will understand what you are hinting at.

Why there is no desire for my husband and can this be overcome?

Poems that excite men

Poem for a loved one

If you want to tickle your soulmate's nerves more seriously, then send her erotic poems. If you have the skills, you can try to put them together yourself and try to use them to show how desirable your chosen one is to you. If you are not good with rhyme, then choose one of the poems that we have selected for you.

Yes, and if you send a poem via SMS, then be sure to add emotions to it with emoticons. Well, if you have the opportunity to say the cherished words over the phone, then remember when reading an erotic poem, laughter and embarrassment are inappropriate. Pronounce all words as correctly as possible, trying to convey your feelings with intonation.