Sooner or later the date ends with a kiss. Of course, I want this to happen sooner. But no one wants to be in an awkward position, not being sure that the girl will not reject his attempts to kiss her. There are 10 signs by which you can accurately determine that a girl is not at all against being kissed. And as a bonus, it's a sign that she will reject your kiss.
Brings the face closer
Imagine you're spending the evening with a girl you like and everything is going great. And suddenly she begins to slowly approach you. Before you decide to take any active action, think that in reality this could mean anything. For example, she felt uncomfortable in her place, or she couldn’t hear what you were saying, or it became cooler outside, and she instinctively reached for warmth.
How do you know when it's ready? If a girl wants you to kiss her, she will not only invade your personal space, she will try to bring her face closer to you. This is a sure sign.
How to understand that a girl is ready for a kiss
Often on first dates, situations arise that make girls and guys feel uncomfortable. The situation with the first kiss is just like that. Of course, there are also dates when a guy and a girl immediately make it clear to each other why they met. However, it happens that the girl does not give any signals, or the guy simply does not know how to read them.
In order for you not to find yourself in such situations, I will write a couple of points that you should pay attention to and that will help you better understand what a girl really wants.
1) Permission. Under no circumstances should you ask a girl if you can kiss her. You must decide for yourself whether you need to do this or not. I had a case when an acquaintance of mine came up to me, he was 20 at the time and I was 17, and asked if he could hit me on the butt. I was so surprised and puzzled that every time I saw him, I felt a certain disgust, and then I began to avoid him altogether.
2) Communication. If you are the only one conducting the entire conversation, and the girl behaves distantly and does not show any interest, then she does not want a kiss at all. In this case, in the end it is better to simply say goodbye without making any other attempts. In the case when a girl communicates with you cheerfully and complements the conversation with her thoughts, then be sure that a kiss is needed and everything will go well.
3) Touch. The moment you touch a girl (waist, shoulders, arms), watch her reaction. If a girl does not move away from you and does not try to remove her hand, then she does not feel disgust towards you and would be glad to end your date with a kiss. If a girl does the opposite - she tries to stay away from you, then she doesn’t like you very much, and a kiss at the end of this date will be unnecessary.
4) Distance. Notice how far away the girl is from you. If every time you notice that she is very close to you, and at some points even very close, then this means that she is ready and already wants a certain intimacy. If a girl keeps her distance, it means she doesn't really trust you and isn't ready to kiss you. Remember also that each person’s intimate area is of a different size; the difference between the size of women and men is especially noticeable. If a girl comes close to you, you can take it as a signal, but for her it may still only be a friend zone. Look for a middle ground in such cases; if a girl comes close, don’t start kissing her right away, wait: if she comes even closer, this is definitely a sign.
5) Look. Observe the girl’s gaze; if she constantly looks around, it means she’s either in a hurry, or she doesn’t like the date at all. There can be no talk of a kiss here at all. If she constantly looks at you or into your eyes, then she likes the situation that has developed now, and this situation should be completed with a kiss. When a girl really wants you to kiss her, she begins to directly hint at this to you: she looks long and intently into your eyes, looks at your lips so much that you notice it yourself. At such moments, the main thing is not to get confused and immediately take control of the situation, otherwise I have had cases when a guy was so lost from such signs that later it was even difficult for him to gather his thoughts.
6) Farewell . If during the entire date you still haven’t figured out whether the girl wants a kiss, or you just haven’t chosen the right moment, then farewell is the best time. For us girls, it's logical to end a good date with a kiss. Regarding signals: if a guy doesn’t take any steps, then we are looking for a reason to stay around a little longer and give him one last chance. That is, we say that we don’t want to go home yet, we’ll miss another minibus, etc. Think of it as if the girl directly said “Kiss me!” and start taking action.
There are times when these signs are missing or cannot be understood correctly. In this case, I advise you to rely on your inner feelings. After all, it’s difficult to give someone 100% working advice if you yourself are not involved in the situation.
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Looks at lips2
People often spend a long time looking at what they like or what they want. It doesn't matter whether it's an object or a person. It is very difficult to look away from what makes you happy. This statement is also true for girls looking at guys they want to kiss.
Therefore, before approaching you, a girl, if she wants to kiss you, will first look at your lips. So if she's constantly looking at your face, it's a clear sign of subconscious interest and a signal that she doesn't mind getting a little closer.
THE MEANING OF A KISS
The first kiss is a kind of magic , when with one light touch you recognize the character, temperament, taste and feelings of a person. There are many different ways to kiss and each has its own meaning.
How to understand a girl by kissing:
- Kiss on the forehead . If a girl gently kisses your forehead, then this is a sign of support and consolation. She shows maternal care towards you, wants to help and instill confidence in you. This is not what you need at all!
- Eskimo . When she rubbed her nose against yours. Such a playful gesture is a sign of devotion. She sees you as someone she can trust and be fun to be with.
- Butterfly's kiss . When a girl touches your face with her eyelashes. She is filled with romantic feelings and feels like she is in a fairy tale. She wants an easy, long-term relationship.
- Kiss on my cheek . It's like a consolation prize for a friend. At the moment, she has warm feelings for you, she likes you, but she does not perceive you as a sexual partner. But this is not a final “No”.
- Kiss on the hand . By this, a woman shows her humility, obedience and completely surrenders to your power. She relieves herself of responsibility for the further development of the relationship, so everything further is only in your hands.
- Kiss of an angel . When a girl gently kisses you on your closed eyelids. This is a gesture of sincere care. He says - you can trust me, I won’t let you down.
- Kiss on the earlobe . This could be gentle nipping. The girl knows a lot about love pleasures and is ready to share them with you. She likes experiments, sex in unusual places, erotic games. For her, this is the most important part of the relationship.
- A gentle kiss on the lower lip . It's like she tasted you. This is part of the foreplay that will lead to more.
- Kiss on the neck . The girl gently bites and sucks your neck. After this, a hickey may remain. She wants to excite you and has taken an active position “on top.” Now she will lead the process and decide when and how you will have sex. You can show her slight resistance, it only excites her.
- Seductive kiss on the lips without tongue . Passion and innocence in one bottle. This is very exciting and turns on erotic fantasy.
- French Kiss . The most erotic and exciting kiss using the tongue. It includes passion and romance. A girl can gently caress your lips and then suck your tongue, imitating oral sex. She is ready for long, leisurely sex with a long foreplay and a bright ending.
- Kiss "yin-yang" . When a girl comes up behind you, throws your head back and kisses you on the lips. At the same time, the sensations are very unusual and unearthly, as if you are both in zero gravity. Such a girl loves unusual sex, experiments with different types of caresses, and a long foreplay is more important to her than the sexual act itself.
- Lizard's Kiss . When partners touch each other only with the tips of their tongues. It looks funny and fun. The girl is determined to have fun with you, get a lot of bright emotions, have a blast without thinking about the consequences.
- Sweet bite . The girl, as if playfully, lightly bites your nose, cheeks, chin, stops at your neck and begins to caress it with her tongue. This kind of kiss turns you on with a half-turn. Be ready for quick, slightly rough sex, when the girl will be completely under your control.
- Vampire kiss . The girl feels like she is the mistress of the situation and assigns you the role of a servant. She kisses you as if she wants to eat you, licks you, bites you, shows wild, animal passion. She likes hard sex and physical violence. Perhaps next time you will switch roles.
Remember that for a man, a kiss is a means to obtain sex or for reconciliation. And for a woman, it is a means to evaluate a partner, a litmus test for suitability for a serious relationship.
She must make sure that you suit her taste, smell, feel and aftertaste. After the first kiss, she will already know whether your relationship will continue or not.
Try to be clean-shaven and smell good at these moments. Drink some water beforehand so your mouth doesn’t get dry from excitement. Breathe calmly through your nose. Well, pump up your sexuality.
Seduction and attraction3
A girl waiting for a kiss will not only peer into your face, but will also make enough efforts to make you pay attention to her. And she will also do this at the level of instincts.
In such cases, girls try to do something to make the guy pay attention to her lips. They may lightly bite them, touch them, lick them, or do anything else.
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In accordance with established stereotypes, a girl should not show that she wants to kiss you. So if a girl is subject to such stereotypes, then you won’t know anything for sure.
To answer subjectively, if I want to kiss, then
1. I shorten the distance. Unceremoniously invading personal space, yes. As an excuse, I can say that kissing is a rather erotic act for me, and such a desire usually arises with a person I know well. But yes, the face is closer to the face, take the hand for a stupid reason, touch.
2. I start biting my lips. Whether I’m nervous or anticipating, I can’t say.
3. It is difficult to look into the eyes; the gaze constantly glides over the lips.
4. In extreme cases and in the appropriate mood, I say that I really want to kiss.
5. It seems to me that my breathing is getting deeper. But I’m not sure, I don’t have much control over my own manifestations in such a situation.
It’s not clear, by the way, why girls don’t always do this themselves; there were no refusals, pah-pah-pah. Although there were disappointments))) but that's a completely different story.
But, I repeat, this is with a person who already knows him well, at least after a long conversation and a general flirtatious-romantic mood.
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Procrastination 5
This is one of the important signs that a girl wants you to kiss her, especially if she becomes noticeably shy or nervous. By the end of the date, she may become embarrassed, show her awkwardness, and look away, especially after you catch her looking at your face.
To be sure, after you say goodbye, pay attention to what she does: either she retreats very quickly, or she lingers and looks around as if she is waiting for something more. It is clear that in the first case there can be no talk of any kisses. But in the second, there is a high probability that she is waiting for you to make your move. If she's looking around to see if you're looking at her, she's probably just a regular shy girl who's hoping you'll kiss her at the last minute.
Point of no return
Psychologists call a kiss the point of no return . The point is that after it, a man and a woman become much closer to each other. Now at any moment of the conversation they can return to the kiss
. Their conversation automatically becomes more flirtatious and sexually tense.
Each person has their own ideas about relationships. Some believe that a kiss is the beginning of a relationship, while others do not attach much importance to this event
. During a date, thoughts about the upcoming kiss arise in both of them.
Before you start kissing, you need to understand whether your partner is ready for such a serious step. He may treat you like a friend and think your attempt is stupid.
. In any case, you shouldn’t think too long about what this might lead to. It is much better to try and act according to the circumstances.
Look6
If you've ever encountered this, you know what it is. If this happens for the first time, don’t worry, this look is impossible not to recognize.
Eye contact is the main indicator of any girl's interest. But they have a special look in their arsenal. It's not just eye contact that lasts for a while, but it's meant to make you understand. That it's time to take decisive action.
But now you are faced with the question of how to determine the “same” look and not make a mistake? There are two reliable ways to do this.
First, look at the distance. If she's within 45 centimeters, she's probably trying to get you going. 45 centimeters is the boundary of personal space, known as the intimate zone. Only very close people are allowed there. Secondly, if you are still not sure whether the girl will agree to a kiss, just ask her about it. Any normal girl will answer you honestly, or instead of answering, she will kiss you.
Do girls want sex and how often?
Believe me, they want it more than we do.
As I like to say, the phrase is absolutely justified and verified.
Girls are just as horny animals as we men.
Everything is equal. Social norms, of course, restrain women's behavior, but in their heads there is the same lust. One of my friends said:
If I woke up in the morning and didn’t masturbate, the day was ruined.
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2 weeks without sex and a lamppost turns me on.
Another quote from a woman’s mouth:
Yes, I want it every day, several times a day
Here I want to note, and this is important, these phrases do not apply to those guys who look mediocre, unkempt, fat, insecure, the reality is that you extremely rarely become the embodiment of women’s sexual fantasies. Therefore, sports will help you, a good hairstyle, style and tan. And yes, drive away any losers who will say that appearance is not important for a man. All the handsome guys, the freaks laugh at you.
She doesn’t necessarily become a world-class model, but she should have basic care and her own style.
Sorry if I overdid it, but I don’t care. I just want to touch some of the characters to motivate them. My intentions are pure and noble. There are no criteria that describe the correct facial features of a man, other than the usual proportions and symmetry, but the criteria that describe the number of abs are obvious.
In general, whoever does not strive for beauty loses most of the women in life. They have to be cunning, talk things down, cajole, but the handsome guys just take it and that’s it. Anything they want. Handsome people are believed more, listened to better, and many more bonuses. Being beautiful doesn't mean being stupid. Choose the path of development, your life, it’s up to you to decide.
Test the passage above through a woman's opinion, so you will know its truthfulness through their eyes.
Open borders8
When you spend time with your girlfriend, you most likely think about or even try to get as close to her as possible. A lot depends on how you do it. Of course, it's best to proceed slowly and carefully. At first, just gradually move closer and closer to her. Then, as if by chance, lightly touch with your hand or shoulder. After some time, try to hug her.
This tactic makes it possible to constantly monitor the situation and monitor the girl’s reaction. If it doesn't scare her and she doesn't try to pull away, then she's loosening her barriers because she feels comfortable. And most likely, she won’t mind if you decide to kiss her.
Advice from experienced
It is unlikely that the girl will want to be the initiator of the kiss, and therefore will wait for your initiative. The main thing is not to miss your chance!
Haste in this matter is an insidious enemy; you should not rush things, especially when one of the partners is not ready for this.
You can ask whether you can kiss her - watch her reaction, make sure your actions are correct.
Holidays are a great reason to do everything beautifully so that the first kiss will be remembered for many years.
It is equally important to maintain oral hygiene; chewing mint gum after dinner at a restaurant is enough to make a good impression on a girl.
She's not trying to escape10
During your date, she will have many chances to end it quickly and leave if things don't go well. And we are not talking here about a banal escape with slamming doors. Girls always find a way to ignore a bad date; the easiest way to avoid an awkward situation is to devote most of their time not to you, but to your phone.
On the other hand, if she ignores her phone when it rings or a text notification comes in, chances are she really enjoys spending time with you and considers you to be something more important, worthy of attention, at least during this time. moment.
Of course, if a girl has her phone with her, that doesn't mean you can't kiss her, but if she's not distracted by it, that's one of the surest signs that she won't mind at all if you kiss her.
TIME OF TENDERNESS
When a woman kisses for the first time, what is more important to her is not your technique, but the romance and surroundings. Make this evening of her day special and memorable.
Even if you didn't prepare for it in advance, surprise her with something after the kiss. The romantic atmosphere will brighten up any awkward moments, such as these:
- A sloppy kiss with saliva and lipstick smeared on the face.
- A suffocating kiss as you blocked her nose and cut off her oxygen supply.
- When you kiss her with your eyes open. Believe me, this spectacle is not for the faint of heart.
The first kiss is not a science, but rather a creativity; you should not take it too seriously and mechanically. Always improvise, give free rein to your feelings and imagination. Be attentive to women's tips, relax and enjoy the process.
Even if this is not the very first kiss in your life, it is the first kiss with a new girl. Let it be bright and memorable. This will ensure that your relationship will soon move to a new, more exciting level.
