Sometimes love forces you to go to the most desperate measures to get to the object of your adoration and be with him. Is a woman who falls in love with a married man to blame? The question is ambiguous. The situation becomes more tense when there are children in the family. Love clouds the mind and does not allow rational thinking. You can also take a guy away from a girl who is not married. This article will tell you exactly how to make a married man fall in love with you.
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Men have affairs for a reason; most often they are nagged and not satisfied by their wives. So, the main rule is that you can’t be like his wife! To win the attention and trust of a married person, you need to indulge his needs. He lacks high-quality and crazy sex - give him such pleasure. If your wife cooks poorly, or if the food is reduced to dumplings and instant noodles, learn to cook what he loves and the man will be almost subdued.
Trying to be an order of magnitude better than his wife in everything is the key point. The ability to listen to a man and not nag him about nonsense is a very important point. A real man, of course, will not constantly whine about how bad everything is in his life, but daily domestic squabbles will drive anyone to a state of devastation!
Is it possible to take a Taurus man away from the family?
Love is far from the last place in the life of a Taurus.
A Taurus in love is very stubborn and tenacious in achieving his goals. He won't listen to anyone's advice. Taurus usually courtes in a straightforward, unpretentious, tiresome and practical manner - from now to now - carrying out the entire set of required actions and rituals. It's like he's going to work. When dealing with Taurus, you cannot count on generous and original gifts. How can you not expect exquisite compliments from him? However, if Taurus does not compliment you, this does not mean that he does not notice the new hairstyle and elegant dress. He notices, but remains silent. He doesn't talk much at all. Taurus' intentions are usually the most serious. Even before the start of the relationship, he calculates the “option of the future mistress.” Taurus wants a long-term relationship, but does it somehow uninventively and sadly.
When Taurus “doesn’t want to”, it doesn’t reach him. In general, everything takes a very long time to reach him. And Taurus continues to walk and walk along the trodden path. However, only a few ladies are in a hurry to sharply and irrevocably refuse Taurus and excommunicate him from home. A Taurus boyfriend is a classic way to get yourself a workhorse. Because a lot of useful things can be assigned to the economical and practical Taurus.
But there are also other Taurus people. Let's call them romantic Taurus. As a rule, this is an insecure esthete, often jaded (if he is old or has experienced a lot in life). This Taurus is courteous and pleasant to talk to. He always feeds the family and takes them to theaters and hermitages. He is capable of long conversations about art and life in general. The person he seduces is often unaware of what is actually happening until it is too late to change anything: Taurus has already developed a habit for himself.
Usually Taurus are not prone to adultery, with the exception of the romantic type.
Taurus are very jealous, but try not to show it. Moreover, they can even become jealous of someone they have just begun to court.
Usually Taurus (not aesthetes) adore cinema. “Of all the arts, cinema is the most important for us,” V.I. Lenin once said Taurus. Probably he judged by himself. Taurus prefer simpler comedies, where they can laugh to their heart's content. Subtle humor and irony are unknown to them. Therefore, I do not advise you to joke or make jokes at their expense - they may be offended.
How to catch a Taurus
Taurus have a highly developed sense of smell and touch. Therefore, I advise you to pay primary attention to smells and texture. Spirits are very important when communicating with a Taurus. As a rule, every Taurus has strong preferences and equally strong dislikes. It would be good to find out them in advance. But, on the other hand, if you follow the tastes of Taurus and the perfume does not fit with your overall image - style, clothes, makeup - Taurus will certainly feel it. So it’s also not worth forcing and bending your tastes to please Taurus.
One of my “extremist” astrologer acquaintances proposed the following test to test the seriousness of Taurus’ feelings. Blindfold Taurus and lead him to an old railroad tie that smells of creosote. And then offer to tell the entire associative series. If Taurus agrees to do this, you are truly dear to him.
I have already talked about the importance of tactile sensations for Taurus. To seduce a Taurus, wear soft angora or natural silk, which are pleasant to the touch. Some prickly and “electric shock” synthetics will scare Taurus away.
Well, then it’s quite simple - prepare food, bigger and tastier. Particular attention to dessert and sweets. Put a comedy on VCR, funnier and simpler, and you can consider the job done.
Taurus should not be pushed or rushed. You should not tell him about your successes with men. Remember what was said above about Taurus jealousy.
In bed with a Taurus
Taurus's attitude towards sex is quite simple and pragmatic. They don’t make a cult out of it, but they never refuse another pleasure (after eating, of course).
Moreover, Taurus almost never accepts relationships without sex. They may also use sex as a way to release pent-up tension. “Sex is like relaxation,” psychologists say in this case. Sometimes sex is like exercise for them, an exercise that is good for health.
When it comes to sex, Taurus are masters. Here, as elsewhere, they are unhurried and thorough. They are very affectionate. The closer the threshold of impotence is, the more affectionately. Taurus are masters of foreplay, which lasts for hours (with a mandatory break for lunch). Their love games can serve as an excellent illustration for a practical manual on sex. Taurus are not exactly tireless, but the famous joke about two bulls who slowly descend from the mountain to take the whole herd is about them. They may limit themselves to one act, but it will be an Act, and not a fuss in bed for five minutes. It is not quantity that matters, but quality. But being a practical person, Taurus never loses his head and pays great attention to contraception.
However, despite the fact that Taurus is considered a conservative sign, he prefers active and even original partners.
Taurus people are prone to fetishism - in the best sense of the word. They are aroused by beautiful lingerie, and the more recently appeared “edible” lingerie seems to be specially made for them.
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External appearance is the first thing men pay attention to, so it’s worth taking care of your appearance. If necessary, sign up for a gym, take care of your face, hairstyle, nails and body hair. Always be in style with a great mood. Beautiful speech also accompanies success. The right word, spoken with the right intonation, can light a huge fire in a man. You need to speak with a hint of sexuality, to turn on a man. Flirting, of course, is required.
There is no need to behave like his wife or mother, he is fed up with all this, he needs something fresh, such youthful hot relationships that will make his heart pound.
Psychological techniques
In the psychology of love relationships, you can find effective techniques to help a woman build the right relationship with her beloved man and seduce him. Perhaps she herself knows these techniques well enough, and they will not be new. The main thing is to choose them for a specific person, that is, “do not cut all men with the same brush.” Knowing the basic methods will help you choose the most suitable ones for yourself and your chosen one:
- It is important not to tie a man to you with gifts and surprises, even if they are branded items. After all, even your wife can buy elegant ties, lighters, and shirts. On the contrary, too expensive things will cause confusion in the family and force the chosen one to get rid of them. It is much more pleasant if a man is met by an attractive lady who knows how to surprise with her intelligence and knowledge in different areas of life.
- A woman’s big mistake is if she is overly interested in her lover’s personal life. Often questions about family and children force a man to lie; this is not pleasant for everyone. He will tell you everything you need himself. A man still won’t find anything better than to say a banal phrase about how he and his wife haven’t had anything for a long time.
- The worst thing in a relationship is when the mistress tries to turn into wife number two. Trying to attract the attention of her chosen one with excessive care, she irons his shirts and surprises him with culinary delights. On the contrary, it often takes on a repulsive effect. A self-sufficient woman will always create interest and a certain intrigue with her activities and pastime.
- If a girl expects expensive gifts from her chosen one, she should behave like a real lady, refined and refined. Having become desirable to a man, you can develop in him the desire to surprise her with surprises.
- The main thing in seduction is “not to go too far”, constantly remaining weak and defenseless for him. Sometimes it is important for a man to have the support of his beloved, who can give good advice, provide assistance, and is not afraid of frank conversations. He needs to show that he can trust her completely.
- Psychologists say that there is no need to be afraid of non-standard ways to attract a man. to yourself. They should be such that the lover is confident that he is the one who dominates in all initiatives.
- The best quality for an ideal lover is to be an understanding, conflict-free person who knows how to smooth out all misunderstandings and disagreements.
About male psychology5
No matter how sad it may sound, most men are cowards, they are not capable of making serious decisions. They can only become bolder under pain of death, or under pressure. Expecting a man to immediately leave his wife is stupid. After a long period of time, a man may dare to leave his wife and move in with a new chosen one, but marriage will most likely be postponed for a long time in the future.
The desire of a homewrecker to drag a man into the registry office can be considered as a method of manipulation. And men don't like that. And who loves anyway?
Also, any blackmail can destroy your relationship; it destroys words about high love. Love should not be accompanied by blackmail, love is a beautiful and pure feeling.
Recommendations from a psychologist
Before deciding to have an affair with a married man, a mistress should consider the following aspects:
- A man's opinion. Many representatives of the stronger sex hide the fact of having a wife and promise to divorce for years, continuing the carefree life of a traitor. They often lie, significantly embellishing family problems, strive to evoke pity, and avoid serious conversations. Therefore, first you need to make sure that the man is really ready to leave his wife.
- Having children. Dating a man who has a child is a difficult moral test for all participants in the love triangle. Perhaps the wife’s condition will prevent her from raising children; after a divorce, the husband will have to spend most of his money and free time on his old family, depriving his new wife of resources.
- Confidence in relationships. At first, a man may be confident in his feelings, but soon he may want a new relationship. Lack of seriousness of intentions and refusal to talk about a future together should alert you at the very beginning of a relationship.
It is normal for a man's worldview to date two women at the same time. The mistress must decide whether the role of entertainment is suitable for her.
Family psychology 6
Before you take a married man away from your family, you should familiarize yourself with the family psychology of relationships. The matter is very delicate, so you should pay attention to absolutely everything - to answers, to gestures, to body language. There are situations when a mountain of books does not help. Because situations are different, men and their motives are different. But still, extra knowledge won’t hurt.
Abundance of Women 7
What to do in a situation with a man who is a womanizer? Surely, if he exchanged his wife for a mistress, he can easily exchange his mistress for another mistress. The wife may know about his infidelities if they live for quite a long time, but she may not know if they do not live together for a long time.
In the case of a man who is a womanizer, it becomes even easier to take him away. You can deceive them into a scandal or plant a couple of your own evidence (panties or a bra) and then their marriage will definitely come to an end. If a man is smart, then he can understand that this is a setup and will break off relations with his mistress and make peace with his wife. However, there is no guarantee that after leaving his wife, he will not leave his mistress.
I love a married man, how quickly can you take him away from another woman?
Here it is important to prove yourself as a psychologist and understand what is going on in his current marriage. Perhaps she just got him hooked and he's not really interested in her. You just need to dispel the aura of romance in his marriage. And give the same halo to your relationship with him. Somehow you need to do something to open a man’s eyes to the fact that he was simply taken advantage of. Keep in mind, this can lead to a collision with a very dangerous rival. Such people sometimes even decide to throw acid in their faces. So you will also have to draw up a psychological portrait of the girl who seduced your loved one. You may have to wait until she herself loses interest in the guy and start acting at that moment.
If there are no children in the marriage, then it’s easy to get a divorce and start a new life. When there are children, it is somewhat more difficult. And it’s not even about the feeling of being chosen for a long time, but about the fact that he really loves children. In this case, it’s good if you already have a child from an old marriage. If a man loves children in general, he will become attached to your child. The main thing, if he still decides to go to you, is to allow him to see his children. More democracy in such a situation - and everything can work out. You just don't have to force him to choose between you and his kids. And if he is a bad parent, then you need to think carefully about whether it’s worth starting a family relationship with him? The role of a lover suits him better.
There is no need to take a man away quickly. Here you need to be able to wait for the moment, like a good hunter. And if you don’t have patience, then this may not speak about the strength of feelings, but about your bad character, lack of self-control and desire to receive all the blessings of the world without giving anything for it. Does a man who already has his own family need such a wife? Sometimes you need to work on yourself to become better, and then everything will work out. As the long-known song says: “You just need to learn to wait...”
Children8
The moral aspect appears in the issue with children. Destroying a family with children is a very serious step. If it does come to a divorce from his wife, then the mistress will need to be ready to take on the role of a stepmother. And try to prevent your ex-wife from meeting her man.
If we are talking about small children, then the man constantly works and all the money goes to consumables for the little one, the man automatically turns into a source of funds. And you should think very carefully whether it is worth destroying such a family, because the mistress will have to become a mother for a small child if he remains with his father. In general, the issue of children is very sensitive and requires clear action.
Is it worth seducing a married Taurus?
Men of this sign value harmony and pleasure. They exude compliments and look after you beautifully. However, once they have given their heart, they will be faithful to their chosen one until the end of their days.
If for any reason this happens, the divorced Taurus will be unhappy for the rest of his life.
Therefore, you should not destroy your family, it will not bring you happiness. Better find a free one, devote your life to him, and it will not be in vain.
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Society's position 9
If you want to take your husband away from your family, you definitely won’t get approval from society. This act is in any case immoral and disgusting. You can justify a homewrecker in a case where everything is truly bad in a family and anarchy reigns. And if everything is relatively safe and peaceful, then the homewrecker will receive condemnation from society. When taking such actions, you should be aware of this.
There are many examples when husbands were taken away from the family, and then the relationship with the new passion fell apart after six months. All this ends with depression and a bottle in hand.
In general, this is a desperate matter; to go for it you need to clearly understand that this is the same man with whom you want to spend your whole life and give yourself to him to the fullest. In other cases, it may be temporary love, which can lead to a series of terrible events.
What should a mistress do if she does not want to become the next wife or even be discovered, read in our next article.
Where to start getting interested
A woman who decides to commit herself to a married man is always faced with the task of how to make her lover fall in love with her, so that further relationships are strong and deep, and withdrawal from the family is possible. To do this, psychologists reveal secrets of where to start and how to interest your chosen one:
- To seduce, figuratively speaking, you need to learn to play on the strings of his soul. To do this, it is useful to learn the nuances of male psychology: general and specific men.
- Discover or cultivate in yourself the main qualities of influencing a man: not to judge, but to support; communicate openly, and not play hard to get; be unpredictable, leaving the main intrigue for later.
- Remember that men love not only with their eyes, but also with their ears: a conversation between two is captivating, like sex, if only it is structured correctly. You need to learn exciting intonations, pauses, developing a special melody of your voice in order to attract and seduce him.
- Attune your chosen one to yourself: find out which female type he likes best, what interests him, what hobby he has. Find a balance in the conversation: talk about yourself only as much as necessary. Listen to him exactly as much as he wants.
Important! Falling in love begins with communication; if the course of seduction is structured correctly, a man’s interest in a woman is guaranteed.
It depends on a woman whether she will find happiness in a relationship with a married lover
