Every girl in love, from time to time, wonders how often her lover thinks about her. But how do you know if he remembers her at all, or only thinks about her immediately before the date? It turns out that there are several signs that can help us in this matter. Thanks to them, at the subconscious level, you can understand whether the person you need is thinking about you.
Almost each of us is endowed with the ability to perceive the world around us, both on a physical and emotional level. This ability is sometimes called "clairsentience." And it is inherent in a person from birth. But since we use our ability only 10%, many do not even suspect its existence and do not know how to use it.
You have probably asked yourself the question at least once in your life: “if I think about a person, does he remember me?” As a rule, such a thought arises when feeling the physical and emotional components of the mood, the energetic component of another person. That is, if there are mutual feelings between you, then an invisible thread is formed that connects you. And, even after the relationship ends, you can sometimes still feel the person’s mood, understand whether he is happy or sad.
To understand whether he remembers you, the signs that you will now learn about will help:
Unexpected manifestations of emotional state
Remember if there have been situations in your life when, during a stormy party, or in the middle of a working day, when you are having fun and comfortably, suddenly your cheerful mood begins to decline and plunges you into a state of sadness for a while.
Such emotional swings indicate that you often think about a certain person. And, if such a situation happened to you, then with a high probability this same person is also thinking about you.
Results
Constant thoughts in your head about another person are not always a sign of love, especially mutual love. The appearance of an image in the subconscious can be influenced by any feelings and energy signals. Anger, anger, jealousy, anxiety, sadness, envy, everything rushes through the vast Universe to the object of thoughts and crashes into the protection from the biofield. At the same time, the subconscious does not filter out the good or the bad, it simply reads the incoming information and transmits it appropriately. To read these signals, as well as set up an energy channel with the source, you do not need to become an esoteric adept. Listen to yourself, get to know yourself and everything secret will become a little more obvious.
Do you believe in occult science and the unknown metaphysical world? What do you think about folk signs?
You have a dream about this person.
Perhaps you have never had dreams involving this person before. But suddenly you dreamed about him. Remember what happened in the dream, what he looked like, what he said. The energetic connection that has been established between you projects real life onto events in a dream, but with some distortions. But by analyzing the dream, you can understand how this person is living now, and what may happen to him in the future.
Perhaps you dream about him because he remembers you and in his thoughts strives to be near you. This may indicate that he wants to contact you. Try calling him, asking about his plans, health, mood...
What are the consequences of continuously thinking about the same person?
It is undesirable to take a series of events lightly. Thoughts are material, although it is quite difficult to prove the fact. Esotericists understand the ongoing process. Almost always it has a negative effect on the aura.
What's Really Happening
Returning your thoughts to a certain person, you spend your vital energy on him. In fact, share the energy provided to solve your pressing problems.
Every day at night, everyone from the universe receives a portion of strength. This energy piece is provided so that the individual can complete his own tasks. For example, I experienced the joy of being, cut a karmic knot, earned money, digested food, and improved my health.
By wasting ourselves on thoughts about strangers, we impoverish ourselves. This is the principle of the energy vampire. A person “gets into his head” for a specific purpose. Manipulation forces you to talk about it. And she feasts on your portion of energy.
From a higher plane, what is happening is even more terrible. You give a piece of your soul to a friend. It is almost impossible to take it away and return it. And the dispersed soul continues its earthly path, plunging into a depressive state. Not right away. But the more often you transfer these immortal parts to another person, the deeper you plunge into power hunger. I don't have enough myself. A direct path to the role of an energy vampire.
The constructive side of the process
Sharing is good, even healthy. If the thoughts are bright and positive, then they enrich both sides. You bestow powers on an object. It automatically returns increased vibrations. There is a process of drinks in the fields, a spontaneous explosive growth of energies.
Love is the most important tool for positive self-realization. Mutual heartfelt affection is the point of development of the universe. If the intentions are pure and mutual, then there is nothing to worry about.
The benefit of the process is determined by the subtlest moods. Even love dreams can be destructive. When you know that a guy’s heart is occupied, you suffer and suffer. This is already an undeserved sacrifice.
If you are just worried about the future, dreaming of reciprocity, then everything is fine. This is a subconscious part of building future happiness.
The desire to be close
You can often hear that some people are brought together by fate itself. To some extent, this is true. After all, we fall in love with a person not consciously, but at the level of the subconscious, which unmistakably feels that it is this person who often thinks about us and it is he who can satisfy all our needs.
Therefore, it becomes clear why people struggle to be close to the one they are attracted to. Therefore, if you often notice a person nearby, then be sure that he often thinks about you and, at the subconscious level, is looking for ways to get closer to you.
From a metaphysical point of view
To experience the world around us, a person has 5 senses, and science has also provided devices that allow them to be enhanced. Anyone even remotely familiar with physics knows that perception captures only physical objects. Now let's go through physical logic: all organic and inorganic forms consist of chemical elements in different states (for example, water, steam, ice), in other words, matter. What is she? A crystallized form of energy. Which? This is what metaphysics is already thinking about, since scientists cannot physically take energy and put it in a test tube.
But the fact that there are a variety of types of energy in the Universe cannot be disputed even by an ardent skeptic. The presence of dark matter in space and its influence on the formation of the Universe has already been literally shown by the latest telescopes in the IR spectrum. So who is the source of all this bottomless energy - Nature, God, the Big Bang? In fact, every intelligent being projects a variety of currents into the world around them. One such information bundle is thought. The power of thought about another person is a clot of psychic energy containing certain information and even having a certain vibration frequency.
Unfortunately, it is not yet possible to prove exactly how projection occurs. In the 19th century, the German physiologist Büchner came up with the theory that the brain produces thought, just like the liver produces bile. But already at the end of that century and to this day, scientists in white coats claim that the mental cannot exist in the brain. No matter how the brain generates a thought, it does not linger there, but is projected into space and time. Very colorfully, this statement is depicted in the sensational film “The Secret” in 2001. Therefore, when a person produces a thought image or thought form, he sends it to the recipient in the form of an energy charge. And the sensations that arise when someone thinks about you are the invasion of a given charge into the energy field, giving rise to physical sensations.
Watching you
If a person thinks about you often and wants you to be a part of his life, then his subconscious makes you an object for observation. Moreover, he will not always observe openly, because in the modern world there are every opportunity for this. In addition, he will be interested in everything that interests you. And, if all his thoughts are directed at you, then we can conclude that he likes you.
Folk signs
As Ilya Muromets said: “... people have noticed signs for centuries,” so you shouldn’t neglect them. So, a well-known sign that means that they are thinking about you is the “flashing” of the ears. Moreover, if only the right, then the thoughts are bad, and the left is the opposite. This also includes a sharp reddening of the cheeks without the assistance of external signs. But determining the feelings of another person by sneezing is no longer just a sign, but a whole fortune telling. So, a double sneeze symbolizes negative thoughts, a triple sneeze symbolizes love and strong feelings. It’s especially good if, after a sneeze, there is someone who says “Be healthy!”
Tearfulness and sudden itching of the eyes are also popularly called a sign. Moreover, if the problem is only with the left, then it is good news, with the right - vice versa. But the most important thing is that itchy eyes are a sign that soon you will see with your own eyes the object due to which you are currently seeing poorly. Bad thoughts addressed to oneself can also be judged by the state when it is impossible to swallow food. This includes simply a reluctance to eat, and even small pieces getting stuck across the throat. People say that someone is mentally holding you by the throat, expressing strong anger and even hatred.
Explores your surroundings.
You can find out what a person thinks about you by observing his behavior in a company where your friends are present. As you know, our friends have a certain influence on our lives. Therefore, when you are interested in a person, then you are also interested in his friends, whom you try to please. The way he communicates with your friends can tell you how interested he is. In addition, if he ends the conversation with you, then he is clearly not indifferent to you and often thinks about you.
Why a person can’t get out of his head: what’s the reason for this?
There is such an unrecognized science - esoterics. Explains the principles of interaction between the individual and the universe. Rules:
- Every organism and inanimate object has its own field. Emits vibrations that are perceived by the surrounding space and the whole world at once.
- Energy connections are formed between objects of interaction. The fields intertwine and overlap, influencing one another.
- We do not know how to recognize all existing connections. But some penetrate to the level of consciousness. This is due to the need for personal development.
The simple scheme is confirmed by the practice of life. We feel loved ones, recognize friends not only by their face and voice, but also by their gait, gestures, and manners. This happens because there is a “trace” of the familiar in our aura. And we scan the unknown citizen to remember his energy. An underlying feeling immediately arises about his character: unpleasant, kind, sweet, boring.
If a loved, close, important object does not come out of your head, then it is strange to wonder about the reason. The feeling of attachment does not let go. You're bored, want to chat, get closer. You worry about his affairs, worry about the reaction to recent actions or words. Everything is completely normal.
Sometimes alternative situations arise that carry prophetic meaning.
What do constant thoughts about a loved one mean: folk signs
Persistent images of parents and children push us to action. Options:
- You had a fight. Thoughts are filled with bitterness and resentment. It is urgent to clarify the misunderstanding and not delay the process.
- Long time no see. Here the palette of prophecies is wider: Your loved one is also bored, and you intuitively read his feelings.
- The person is now sad, upset, saddened. And you felt his sadness through the distance.
- He is in serious trouble, an insoluble problem. Needs advice, but doesn't want to ask.
- He is one step away from danger or deliberately taking risks. Something bad is coming. We need to get in touch to pull you away from the fatal line.
There are many sources of intrusive images. And there is only one conclusion: ask how the person stuck in the skull is doing. Talk, reassure or praise. Act according to the situation.
If a distant acquaintance is spinning in your mind: reasons
An individual who has crept into the brain is a reason to thoroughly analyze the current circumstances. There are several reasons for this “behavior”. And not everyone is pleasant.
Variations of what happens on the energy plane:
- Hit an object. Now the citizen passionately desires revenge for the insult.
- We crossed the road without realizing it. We wanted the best, but it didn’t quite work out according to plan. The individual harbors evil, plans bad things.
- They caused fierce envy. The person suffers from the inability to surpass. And you unconsciously sense evil.
There are good omens:
- Fell in love. It happens. Somewhere we accidentally collided and made an indelible impression.
- He decides to make an offer. You don't have to ask for a date. Sometimes we sense financial or business initiative on the part of another person. Especially if the vacancy is now urgently needed.
- He thinks about you. A common reason for the constant presence of another citizen in the cerebral convolutions. Thinks, reasons, ponders something that concerns you.
The situation when someone does not leave their head is always significant. Dumas cannot be formed just like that, without a reason.
Third reason: you started living
A happy woman has a magnet - a man is drawn to her. Starting a relationship in a fulfilled state, a woman focuses on the man and forgets about life in all its diversity. And it becomes empty.
Then for a long time, suffering for a man after a breakup, the woman does not really live, remaining empty. Naturally, he doesn’t remember her. But when she begins to live, do things she loves, communicate, enjoy, go on dates, create career success, the man feels this energy. The energy of life, positivity, success, pleasure, and immediately appears. A full, charged woman becomes interesting to him again.
If an ex appears in your life, and you are not going to renew your relationship with him, then remember these three tips.
Life with a tyrant husband: leave or stay
First of all, you need to understand: a confident, strong man will never assert himself at the expense of a weak partner, he has no need for this. A domestic tyrant is a representative of the stronger sex who has not succeeded in life, has not made a career, or has not realized himself in any field. The only place where he can feel like a king is his family.
Sometimes a man with a whole bunch of complexes coming from childhood becomes a despot. An internally repressed person, afraid of appearing weak more than anything else, demonstrates his “strength” on his wife and children. This is the only way he can feel confident.
Tyranny can manifest itself in the following actions:
- Constant criticism of the spouse's actions. A woman will never deserve words of praise, since she always does everything wrong and bad. Gradually, the lady, even if she is very pretty and dresses beautifully, develops an inferiority complex, but the husband feels very comfortable in this situation.
- Full financial control. Even if the wife works, she will not be able to manage money; she will have to account for every purchase and ask for money even for the most necessary things, not only for herself, but also for the children.
- Moral pressure. It is impossible to find a common language and prove that you are right - the husband will be right in any situation, and he has the last word.
- Jealousy. A woman must belong to the tyrant undividedly, therefore everyone who can encroach on his property must be erased from her life - parents, friends, colleagues, acquaintances.
- Physical violence. This is an extreme form of despotism. Surprisingly, many women are sure that if he hits you, it means he loves you. In fact, assault becomes more and more dangerous and cruel over time, and one day something irreparable can happen.
So is it worth saving the family if the husband is a typical tyrant? If a man cares about his woman, perhaps he will come to his senses, but most often it is impossible to correct a despot.
How long will it take
If a loved one decides to leave, this does not always mean forever. It will take some time for the head of the family to return. Return times depend on certain circumstances:
- motive for the departure of a life partner;
- how the relationship will develop after a quarrel;
- What will the wife do to get her partner back?
If the faithful went to his rival, then, according to statistics, he will leave her. At the end of the candy-bouquet period. Approximately it takes less than six months. If you analyze why your husband left for someone else, how to get him back is quite clear. So:
- the homewrecker is outwardly more attractive, more beautiful;
- the mistress has a lot of free time;
- she does not burden the man with household chores and does not show dissatisfaction;
- the rival has a wealth of sexual experience.
How not to think about your loved one?
How to stop thinking about the person you love?
- First of all, you need to stop missing the person, you need to stop dating. Avoid places where you can see it. Not writing to a person will be difficult at first, but this must be overcome, just like telephone conversations. Get rid of all things that may remind you of him.
- Start communicating more actively with your friends, work colleagues or relatives. Find a hobby or recreation. The main task is to receive new positive emotions.
- We need to stop thinking about him. You need to get rid of all negative thoughts once and for all. We sign up for training, stretching, dancing, the gym, anything to occupy our head with thoughts. It happens that even renovations in your apartment can completely rid you of negative thoughts about a person.
- It often happens that we seem to just remember a person, but we begin to think and think up thought after thought. You need to take your mind off your thoughts about your loved one. You can use a clever idea. Take a rubber band and put it on your wrist. As soon as a bad thought comes to you, pull back the rubber band and hit yourself on the arm with it. The method is peculiar, but effective.
- Cleanse your aura. Throw out all the trash from the apartment or donate old things to orphanages and so on. In this way, you will get rid of the stagnant energy in your home and make room for a new flow of energy.
What does it mean to constantly think about a stranger?
You can’t just think about a stranger regularly. It means that something in his figure caught your attention. It’s just that you can’t yet formulate exactly what it is.
The most banal option is that you just want to get to know each other, but for now you’re afraid to admit it to yourself.
In addition, the stranger may resemble someone from the past: a friend, an ex, a parent.
The third possible reason is that some character trait of the stranger is important to you on an energetic level: it attracts or repels.
ON A NOTE. To figure out why you constantly think about a stranger, you need to focus and honestly answer yourself a series of questions about exactly how this figure attracts attention.
What to do if you think in a negative way
We are all living people who experience a wide range of emotions. Including negative ones. There's nothing wrong with that.
Therefore, first of all, it is worth recognizing the presence of negativity towards a specific person. Secondly, try to answer the question: “Why do I think bad about him (her) on an energetic level?”
Here you will have to face your bad emotions: envy, anger, hatred.
It is quite possible that a person deserves such an attitude from you, but you need to understand something else. Negative thoughts are destructive because you destroy your energy field, become vulnerable, and attract negativity to yourself.
Of course, on an energetic level you do harm to others, but you cause disproportionately greater harm to yourself.
What to do in this case? You need to change the vector of movement of your thoughts. This does not mean that you need to forgive the offender and welcome him again with open arms. But resentment and anger must be let go. If you can’t do this on your own, you should seek help from a psychologist.
In any case, the problem needs to be worked out so that it does not poison you. After all, by focusing on the negative, you will miss a lot of opportunities to improve your own life.
In what case can thoughts about a person have an esoteric context?
In the esoteric sense, everything is also not so simple.
Some experts are sure that regular thoughts about a person are a sign that there is something important for us in this person: attractive or repulsive. After all, our personality consists not only of what is suitable for us, but also of what is unacceptable to us.
Think about it, do you constantly think about a person because you would like to be like him in some ways? Or maybe, on the contrary, his figure causes you anxiety, and thus you constantly keep him in the field of your attention in order to prevent aggression in your direction?
Some esotericists believe that constant thinking about a person is a karmic connection at a very powerful energy level. Moreover, this connection is mutual, that is, the other person also constantly thinks about you. But the nature of this connection cannot be precisely determined.
Tip 2: Be friends if such relationships create value for you
I do not recommend making friends with an ex-man for a year or two after breaking up. This is the period of living through loss. At this moment, friendship cannot be sincere; most likely, it is accompanied by suffering and hopes of one of the parties. But after the separation process has been completed, we can maintain friendly relations with former partners if it is beneficial and pleasant for both.
Being friends with an ex means receiving/creating help and support, collaborating, cheering up, and much more that people who like each other in many ways can do.
My husband left home, how to get him back?
In practice, there are cases when the beloved leaves the family nest, but then comes back, the family is reunited, the spouses continue to live in love and harmony. The female sex is by nature more tolerant than the male sex, and can forgive a lot.
But you need a good reason to leave. A guy who is accustomed to the comfort of home, clean linen, hot borscht is unlikely to leave his companion for the sake of momentary pleasure. The chosen one would rather quietly meet with a new passion than sacrifice personal comfort. If your husband left you, you can get him back. You just need to understand the reasons for leaving:
- Love. Awakened feelings for a former passion, a new romance.
- Infidelity of a companion. It is difficult for men to forgive the betrayal of their beloved.
- Psychological factors. At home there are constantly quarrels, scandals, misunderstandings.
- Household and financial problems. Endless reproaches from the spouse about the lack of money.
- Dissatisfaction with intimate life. The stronger sex lacks attention, tenderness, and affection.
- Appearance of a lover. Ungroomed women in greasy robes are repulsive.
