I see right through you: how to understand that a girl likes you

Many men know how difficult it can be to understand what is going on in a woman’s head.

Each girl is unique, so it is sometimes almost impossible to find out about her feelings.

But by doing a little research and learning more about female psychology, this task becomes much easier.

Many women subconsciously give signals in the hope that a man will pay attention to them. Others are much more modest and do not show their interest so clearly. But if you are patient enough, you will be able to pick up on the signs that a girl cares about you.

So, what signs can indicate that a girl definitely likes you?

Body language: how to understand that a girl likes you by looks and gestures

“She came up and said she liked me. She offered to come to me. At home, she threw me on the bed, and we had violent sex,” - what does this remind you of? Right. In reality, the girl who likes you will be stingy in expressing her feelings. And we are not just talking about a shy girl of puritanical schooling. In this sense, everyone is the same.

If you want to live to see your gray hairs, “without eating meat, without knowing a woman,” wait until he comes up and offers to come to you. There is another option - learn to read women. You understand what she wants - you know what to do.

• There is a high probability that a girl will like you if her gaze lingers on you for longer than 2-3 seconds and returns to you constantly. Even better - the young lady lowers her gaze to your chest or crotch. It’s not hard to guess what this means.
• By the way, a woman who is erotically interested will show the inside of her wrists . Don't ask why. Just remember. If a girl tries to show you this part of her body, she is probably replaying the hottest scenes with you in her head.
• Manipulations with your hair signal that a woman likes you . For example, she shakes her “mane,” throwing it back and showing off her neck. Or he fiddles with a curl of hair in his hands - strokes it, straightens it, twirls it around his finger. Or he coquettishly puts his hair behind his ear, presenting you with a flawless oval face.
• Pay attention to the pose . The girl shows her affection by turning her body towards you. When she sees you, she maintains her posture - a straight back allows you to stick out your chest advantageously. Even shoes whose toes are pointed at you can tell about sympathy. What, not a single shoe in your direction? Then bookmark our site and read priceless (and, most importantly, free) information on dating.
• A girl who likes you will look for (and find) an excuse to touch you . Shakes off non-existent specks of dust. Removes a fallen eyelash from your cheek. He will run his hands over your shirt and say “what an interesting material.” The most desperate even stumble to find themselves in the hands of the object of interest.

Read more about this in Allan Pease’s book “Body Language. How to read the thoughts of others by gestures." Be sure to read it. You will look at the world with completely different eyes.

Between the lines: how to understand that a girl likes you by correspondence

Virtuality is a world of a different order. A territory where analysis capabilities are limited and correspondence is the only material for evaluation. There is a high probability that a girl likes you if she...

Initiates communication

Girls tend to be girls, even online. They won’t move their hands again. If she writes first, throws in topics, shares photos and videos, this is a strong signal that everything is not simple. Or she needs something. Or she likes you.

Replies quickly

If the interested young lady is not a seasoned pick-up artist who knows that it is necessary to respond to messages late, she will unsubscribe instantly. Even if you’re busy: “Sorry, busy! I will answer later!". The Boeing X-43 hypersonic aircraft will envy its response speed.

Writes in detail

She will never answer “Norm” to your “How are you?” The girl you like will write down in detail how she is doing and will always be interested in yours. Any question you ask awakens her gift of eloquence and writing talent. You give her her word - she gives you ten.

Gives compliments

Girls rarely give compliments. Compliments are the prerogative of men. And if you suddenly start catching something like “Great body, are you working out?”, “What a piercing look, mesmerizing” - she really likes you.

Interested in you

She is burning with curiosity to know everything about you, and can hardly restrain herself so as not to go too far. Nevertheless, questions pour out of her like a cornucopia - what do you like, what do you eat for breakfast, how do you fold socks, do you want kids, and the like.

Advertises itself

And, of course, a woman who really likes you will put on a show - try to impress. That is, to the question “What are you doing?” you will probably hear: “I’m reading Marquez,” “I’m preparing lasagna,” “I’m going to the gym.”

There are still many ways to understand that a woman has fallen in love with you. By the way, on social networks (VK, Facebook, etc.) girls are immediately shown by their willingness to like your posts, comment on your photos and post information that emphasizes common tastes (you are about ecology, she is about endangered turtles). And we move on to the third dimension of modern man’s life – work.

Ways to determine sympathy

You may not notice any of the above signs in a girl who likes you. The best way is to spend as much time with her as possible and monitor the development of your relationship.

If a girl is too shy and can't seem to start a conversation with you in person, but you communicate well online, then check her out. Smile at her when you meet her, ask how she is doing. You will definitely win her with your attention.

By the way, some psychologists advise testing sympathy with a smile. Try to smile at a girl when she looks at you, just like that. If she smiles back, that's a good sign. You will seem like a happy person to her, and she will associate all positive emotions with you.

Other psychologists suggest testing a girl’s sympathy with jealousy. They advise you to flirt with her friends in her presence. But don't rush to do this. The girl may decide that you like someone else and stop trying to attract your attention.

Of course, indirect signs do not provide a 100% guarantee that a girl likes you. The best thing to do is to ask her out and clear your doubts.

Flirting at work: how to know if a female colleague likes you

Hot sex in a meeting room is as normal as a bottle of cognac in a work cupboard. And where else to love and be loved, if not at work, when it is there that we spend maximum time, and after a hard day at work we dream of only one thing - to cuddle with our favorite pillow. In general, “languishing of the flesh at work” is absolutely natural. And this is how a woman who is clearly “languishing” for you behaves:

• she regularly appears in your field of vision, even if you work in different departments, on different floors or even in different buildings;
• when communicating with you, a colleague strokes his neck, tugs at his hair, touches earrings, rings or a chain, sublimating the desire to touch;
• speaks to you differently than to other male colleagues, involuntarily changing the tempo, timbre, intonation and rhythm of his voice;
• “yes yes” at meetings, expressing support and agreeing with your proposals, ideas, thoughts and plans;
• she is attentive to small details - for example, she brews coffee personally for you and, of course, with the right amount of sugar;
• like any woman, she begins to obsessively monitor her appearance and changes her formal suit to a more feminine look.

Women remain women even at work, because there is no such law “to love is prohibited.” And everything that does not violate the criminal code easily fits into the working charter.

Nonverbal signs

Nonverbal signs of affection are involuntary, uncontrollable physiological changes that occur only in the presence of the object of interest.

Blushes when meeting you

A rush of blood to the face means excitement, the influence of the sympathetic nervous system, as in the case of dilated pupils. A person cannot control this. A light blush that appears literally before your eyes means the activation of biochemical processes, the dilation of blood vessels caused by pleasant emotions.

Nervous around you

This sign is typical for women who are not entirely confident in themselves. Even a very beautiful lady can worry about her appearance, ability to carry on a conversation, and manners. The reason is the fear of not being liked, of somehow repelling the object of one’s passion.

A clear sign of anxiety is sweaty palms. The woman blots them with a handkerchief, napkin, and applies them to her clothes. Some people experience increased sweating in the armpits, which antiperspirants cannot cope with. The exception is women with hyperhidrosis, for whom this condition is the norm.

Some ladies bite their lips, twirl with their fingers the details of their clothes, the napkin on the table - all this can also indicate anxiety. However, in a number of cases they also express boredom, annoyance, and a lack of common topics for conversation.

There are changes in appearance

A person in love always looks better. The color and tone of the skin, the sparkle in the eyes, the timbre of the voice - everything undergoes positive changes under the influence of love hormones. If an unexpectedly prettier employee began to communicate with you frequently at work, perhaps you are the reason for such a metamorphosis.

Individual approach: how zodiac signs behave

When it comes to astrology, don't take everything the stars say to heart, but keep a few things in mind.

How to understand that an Aries girl likes you

The Aries girl, with her characteristic straightforwardness of feelings, does not hide. And he doesn’t pretend to be a poor lamb. If you like him, he will say. Silent? Ask. I will be happy to explain the situation. And he will do it with the brilliance of a talented speaker.

How to understand that a Taurus girl likes you

Taurus, on the contrary, keeps his feelings to himself and is in no hurry to declassify them. This is probably due to excessive rationalism - Taurus is always focused on strong relationships and never rushes headlong into the maelstrom of feelings. In any case, having noticed signs of mutual sympathy, begin intensive courtship. Women of this sign favor generous and gallant men.

How to understand that a Gemini girl likes you

The flirting and coquetry of this person should not be taken at face value. Often, signs of attention are nothing more than a way to diversify the routine. What really shows Gemini’s interest is the desire to invest in communication. Having never stood at the stove, she will eagerly rush to cook. If you are indifferent to football, she will buy a scarf of your favorite team and a ticket to the next match.

How to understand that a Cancer girl likes you

Its closed nature makes it very difficult to read. A good sign is when a Cancer girl begins to open up and reveal her soul. She will not allow herself such intimacy with the first person she meets. It means you matter to her. You probably like it.

How to understand that a Leo girl likes you

Lionesses are more accustomed to accepting love condescendingly. Falling in love, they feel out of place - torn by the contradiction between the need to wear the crown and the desire to throw everything, including themselves, at the feet of the chosen one. In this situation, the Lioness may become aggressive, demanding, or disappear. Not for long. Having cooled down and thought over a plan of action, she returns.

How to understand that a Virgo girl likes you

Virgos are similar to Cancers in expressing feelings - they experience everything inside and show nothing on the outside. Perhaps only excessive pickiness or criticism is a signal that you care. If Virgo tries to touch you in one way or another, it’s a sure sign that she likes you.

How to understand that a Libra girl likes you

The Libra girl will not deny herself the pleasure of making contact with a man who interests her. Acting like an unapproachable girl is not her style. True, when flirting, he always leaves ways to retreat back. In case she suddenly stops liking you, and with Libra this happens all the time.

How to understand that a Scorpio girl likes you

All girls in love take care of themselves fanatically, but the way Scorpios do it is aerobatics. She tries to impress with her appearance. Transforms into a passionate, sexy, real femme fatale. The erotic dominant can be seen in everything, from appearance to behavior.

How to understand that a Sagittarius girl likes you

It is difficult to recognize her real feelings, because Sagittarians always flirt. The look that gives Strelchikha away is sparkling, piercing, appraising. And “by pure chance” she turns out to be nearby. And at one fine moment she will also “accidentally” invite you to go to a cafe or even drink wine with her.

How to understand that a Capricorn girl likes you

Restrained in expressing feelings, Capricorns know how to control themselves. But in some places they give up. A girl of this sign, having become interested, becomes softer in communication. Coquetry and vulnerability appear in her - properties that, in general, are not inherent to her.

How to understand that an Aquarius girl likes you

She smiles so much that it seems that there is interest. There is certainly interest. Aquarius is basically interested in everything. As for sympathies, it is almost impossible to reliably determine them by some external signs. Perhaps only an unfolding friendship can say something. Common interests and views are everything for Aquarius.

How to understand that a Pisces girl likes you

Charming and flirtatious, in the presence of a man they like, they lose all their charm. They fall silent, shrink, blush, and cannot put two words together. This is where “what lovely fools” are. A sudden and rapid drop in IQ is a sure sign that the fish is on the hook.

Stages of falling in love in girls

The feeling of sympathy arises unexpectedly; it is impossible to plan it, just as it is impossible to plan sincere joy and sadness. Chemistry, magic, instinct - all this speaks of the feeling of falling in love.

The stages of this feeling in women and girls can be divided into 3 stages:

1. Flash. The sudden feeling is still incomprehensible and causes many emotions that contradict each other;
2. Awareness. The girl begins to understand her feelings and shows sympathy;
3. Euphoria in the event of a response, developing into addiction. I want to devote all my free time to my chosen one. If the feelings are not reciprocated, depression and loss of energy may develop.

Falling in love does not pass without a trace; it is one of the components of a relationship.

There are 7 stages of their development:

1. Love. At this stage, the fair sex is fascinated by attention and time spent together. The stage is dangerous because the ability to think rationally is lost. A woman has a desire to see only the good in her chosen one; she does not want to understand his shortcomings. Psychologists say that lovers do not really know each other, they see the one they want;
2. Becoming. Romance turns into everyday life, prudence returns, and the girl begins to evaluate her partner. At this stage, many couples become oversaturated with each other's attention and break up. Those whose relationships survive form a couple;
3. Negation. A testing stage that not all couples go through. The advantages are no longer so noticeable, the girl begins to learn about the shortcomings of her chosen one. She tries to change his behavior and habits, but in response she receives resistance. You can’t do without quarrels and scandals;
4. Humility and calmness. The realization comes that the person next to you is a separate person with his own character;
5. Interaction and service. If at the previous stages the goal was to please oneself, now the couple is ready to interact and change for each other;
6. The girl's friendly attitude towards her chosen one. She behaves not like a woman in love, but like a loyal friend;
7. A love that will not fade. Emotions no longer boil over, relationships are perceived calmly and measuredly.

I have a question: how do you know if you like a girl?

And a few words about a problem that, at first glance, is not a problem. “I don’t understand whether I like a girl or not,” guys sometimes write. In general, sooner or later, you will definitely understand. On the other hand, why pull the cat by the balls if you can dot the dots right now.

You definitely like a girl more than a friend if you:

• you often or even constantly think about her, sometimes to the detriment of work;
• looking for a reason to write, call, touch or meet;
• for the sake of a meeting I am ready to change my plans, and in general, I am ready for a lot;
• you get excited when you see her or hear about her (palpitations);
• you are jealous when you see her in contact, even verbal, with others.

By the way, if you have no one to apply everything we talked about, immediately register on a dating site and practice. Good luck!